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Squad4:
Guy true you no well!

musafat:
men dont worth it
wen u r silent, u r a fool
wen u hurt dem, u r cruel
wen dey hurt u, its a mistake.

Dey force yhu to luv dem,wen u do they walk away.....
Do men realy deserves our luv?

musafat:
men dont worth it
wen u r silent, u r a fool
wen u hurt dem, u r cruel
wen dey hurt u, its a mistake.

Dey force yhu to luv dem,wen u do they walk away.....
Do men realy deserves our luv?

Hazardd:
I would advice you to considerate on yours studies for now... Forget about relationship because time will come when you will have it in abundant

MissNoble:
From what he said to me,I wnt to believe Nairaland(Romance section) is a great arena for the expression of romance and encouragement in relationships.
But unfortunately, I felt it was all a Lie after registering and observing certain posts and comments. Its quite unfortunate to find young men and women hating on themselves just to get the badge,"I brushed him Off".Some even post about Waec,Games and all sort of irrelevant topics here on romance section.

I am using this medium to besiege the indulgence of the mods and admins of Nairaland,romance section to pls try Hard to scrap these menace and make romance land a safe haven for Lovers of Romance .. #Cheers

misspicy:
True...
I used to want a bad guy buh now i want a nice guy

donholy28:
So na girls go dey chase guys?

Riwo11:
There is a time when you meet a guy that makes your heart beat faster and your palms sweat. You KNOW you can’t stop thinking about him, but how to make him think about you?


#Be yourself... If you want this guy to notice you for something, let that something be the real you, not someone made up. Guys aren't stupid; he will find out that you are faking it as soon as you get tired of pretending to be his dream girl. What will happen then? He might not like what he sees.


#Believe in yourself... Tell yourself: I can do it, I am good enough! Believe what you are saying, everyone is equal, you deserve the best. Are you too shy and don’t know how to “promote” yourself? Here is a tip: We all have some good qualities, so, think about yours. Maybe you have a great smile? Use it to your advantage. Do you have a great sense of humour? Then use it! Guys appreciate humour as much as girls do! Try to make him laugh as much as you can, think the joke over before you say it though!


#Express yourself... Express yourself through your appearance. Always look your best when around him! Dressing well, smelling sweet and looking fresh does the trick. Have your own unique look, wear a little makeup, dress in your own style, express yourself through your appearance. Unique people seem to go by noticed, so therefore, if you express your individuality he is bound to think about you..


#Smile... Smiles should be sincere and not forced, guys can’t resist a sweet, warm smile, so use yours! Do not force it, let it come naturally. Whether you like your smile or not, it is a good way to catch someone’s eye. Give him your winning smile; he won’t be able to keep it off his mind.


#Analyse... Listen to him. If you remember details and names he mentions you will come off as a caring person. Notice things about him others don’t, he will start to wonder why you pay so much attention. Of course, be sure not to overdo this, you may come off as a ‘stalker’


#Play hard to get... Playing hard to get can be risky, never go overboard with this little trick. You don’t want to present yourself as too available; he will begin to miss your company. He may start to wonder why he misses your company, or why you can’t always hang out with him. If this trick is done correctly, you will surely be on his mind.


#Lips... Lick and bite your lips! While you are talking to the guy that you like, wet your lips with the tip of your tongue without sticking it out. Biting it from side to side may tempt him to kiss you! As per usual, be sure not to overdo this, he may think there is something wrong with you…


#Be mysterious... Don’t reveal too much information about yourself straight away… keep him guessing! Try to be mysterious; he will be dying to know more about you. A little trick you may find handy: Act like you are about to tell him something, but then ‘change your mind’ and don’t tell him. You will leave him wondering about what you where going to say.


#Don’t try too hard... Trying too hard may lead him to thinking you are easy. Take time to hang out with your friends and enjoy some alone-time. Don’t be clingy! If you’re not always with him, this will actually give him time to think about you.
Think about it, you don’t constantly think about your friend if they are right there next to you, do you? -If none of this works, don’t assume there’s something wrong with you!


Plenty of girls have been there loads of times and it’s almost never your fault! If a certain guy doesn't like you for you then he’s obviously not the right guy for you. He may just think of you as a close friend. Don’t stress over it.

Source: http://www.riseup247.com/2015/05/10-ways-to-make-guy-think-about-you.html

richie04:
Hmmm...quite interesting

mikkypel:
Those are the qualities you possess Na abi

Those are the qualities you possess Na abi

drauj:
My name is Nkechi . I live at Obollo Afor in Udenu LGA of Enugu State with my father. For security reason, I may want to hide some other details as I do not want my father to be arrested. All I need are good words on how to get myself out of what my father dragged me into.
My mother died 10 years ago and since then, father has not remarried. Many have ignorantly commended him for having endured for this long. But the truth is that he has practically turned me to his wife. I had tried very hard to make him see reason why he should stop the sacrilegious act of sleeping with me, but he was adamant.
It all started few months before I gained admission into UNN to study Mass Communication. While I was preparing to leave the house, my father who is a popular businessman walked up to me in my room and handed me an envelope containing my school fees and other things that I had requested. I excitedly embraced dad who held unto me for a very long time. I managed to pull myself off his arms. It is difficult to say exactly what daddy told me, but it was obvious that he wanted to have me on bed.

That same night, the thought of daddy’s advances kept ringing on my head, and just as I was thinking, daddy came into my bedroom, forced me on bed. My elder brother was around but had no idea as it was too much an embarrassment to shout over what daddy was doing to me. Of course, he succeeded, and I left home the next money to Nsukka.
The summary is that since then, daddy has made it a culture to visit me in school. Even though I refused to show him where was staying initially, he said he was only looking for the place to apologize. Unfortunately, that marked the beginning of constant and continued sexual relationship between daddy and I.
I’m done with my studies, yet we can’t stop having se.x. I think I now enjoy having se.x with my father.
The hatred for him has suddenly declined, and I’m the one who is now jealous. I don’t even want to see any woman around him since I got back from school. Sometimes, it pricks me that what we are into is highly sacrilegious, but such thought would only last for few minutes. Daddy is even more reserved and careful than I’m. I think I now have a big problem. How do I get out of this? Can this confession even help me when I keep battling with myself over this matter? What do I do please? I need help!

Source: http://www.genechy.com/2015/10/true-confession-help-i-now-enjoy-having.html?utm_source=&utm_medium=facebook&m=1

emusmith:
Sub-Topic: Things An "Average Looking" Girl Can Do That Will Make Her PREFERABLE In The Dating World


They are not so pretty so they employ all methods possible to keep themselves irresistible and wanted in the "dating world".

Note: These is not applicable to all of them but a few well-mannered ones who really wanna settle down.

Character, they say is what is left when beauty fades away; She holds on tenaciously to that seeing the BIG picture.

The painful truth is, by DEFAULT 60% of Beautiful girls are on the contrary of all she believes in. As I said, most of it are old-fashioned but it's working for her.

I'm not generalizing

What are some things that an average-looking girl can do to make her WANTED in the Dating World?
Calhanoglu in Bayer Leverkusen may not be a very good midfielder but he is splendid at free kicks, so Man.Utd are after him

THE TRUTH IS, MOST OF THESE POINTS ARE INHERENT IN SOME.

1. Being nice with guys, in general. She is a helper.

Have you ever seen a lady who guys truly like? She is not that pretty but to guys, THAT LADY HAS CHARACTER and that sets her apart. She is nice even when she doesn't wanna date you, her wisdom in putting you off is astonishingly amazing. You feel good after she implies a No. That's being Nice. She even sends you a message after that but withdraws on time. I've met a few of them. After saying NO to you, you friend zone yourself in tacit, lol! She's just a gem.



2. "Irrelevant" and "Old fashioned" things like cutting his toe nails, bursting his pimples, knotting his tye, massaging his tired laps etc, are frequently done by her.

Yea, she does it and does it with humility and love. Not only when he gives you cash or buy you a gift. No. She does it because she loves to keep her man that way. It has become a part of her. She is "handy".


3. "Letting her guard down" most times, by becoming a friend to his difficult sisters and brothers.

When a girl like her starts getting closer to him, she may find out how some of his family members are a bit hysterical and difficult towards her. She doesn't turn away so quickly. If she likes him, she stays back and keep a good attitude. Soon, they'll see the stuff she's made of and will mark her "Good". Is it necessary? The question should be, Is he worth it? If he is, she will keep an optimal attitude.


4. Calling his mum, mummy- in such a way...


Yea, this may be common but hers is quite different. Most women know who their daughter-in-law will eventually be, most times, they know by the way she even addresses her subconsciously. It's a bit a mystery. She just can tell when she calls her, "mummy" in such that way...


5. Being simple in dressing thus passing a message to him: "I'm not extravagant; I'll take good care of our money."

I'm listing here what most average-looking ladies do to spell their worth in Bolded Fonts. One way is her dressing. To me, you mustn't reveal cleavage or bum to show you're pretty even when you know you're not. When pretty ones do stuff like that, guys see them like peddlers how much more you? Well, when she dresses modern and decent, she stands out. Did I say, those long and awkward-looking "ear machetes" Or earrings are not necessary to look decent?


6. When cooking, not over buying and over spending, sometimes she uses her own cash- Still passing a very vital message over to him.

Old fashioned? Yes! I know many ladies who do this not because they are trying to win him but because they are just that way. When you, an average... do it, you're passing a timely message. Even in Uni then, there were ladies who were like Mamas. Guys and friends can trust them for food then. They are homely. Guys love that in ladies tho. An economical lady. The sweetness of a correct egusi soup IS NOT directly proportional to the amount of money used i making it but the skillfulness in the lady involved.


7. She spends time building herself intellectually. How most men love this!

Aya! Who doesn't love a girl who knows that she knows but still knows when to come in? She mustn't be a lawyer or a doctor to be a reader or learned. After all, many of those talk flippantly and still don't make sense. She acquires skills for the purpose of her Husby and children. That's preparation. Don't forget that many husbands have lost the route to their wives' pots and channeled it to one Mama Put or One Ekaete somewhere.


Have a nice day.

Squad4:
So i am in my late twenties and am beginning to feel kind of lonely and things; have always been able to manage it one way or the other...But the deal is i really want to meet someone and have a serious relationship.

But my problem is i hardly meet girls...like i keep wondering where are all the pretty looking girls i see on social media and the likes? When i see my boys getting married the bride's always looking stunning...but in REAL life for me where dem dey ? Are they hiding or what? Or am i not in the right places? how else can i meet nice girls...not the easy street girls we see everyday?

Real suggestions are welcome..and i know am not alone in this!


cc all nairalanders

StephanieEzeh:
What's your take? Some jobless guys can be so annoying! Instead of concerning themselves with their life and financial condition, they end up chasing women anyhow as if it's a paid job! . Sending rubbish romantic texts and initiating boring conversations on phone. Go get a job first and come for the girl later. She would appreciate you better.

kstadaura:
With high number of girls on the street most of them walking half naked and if you see a beautiful lady now,just wait for like 5-10mins you will see another one thats much more beautiful than the previous one.Guys find it hard to stay single in this kind of situation,especially if you have money,car or you dress well, in fact if you know your way you can get a girl with you being nice and sweet words,but still there are guys that are single.

On the ladies side,you hardly spend 3 days at maximum, without someone approaching you,yet there are girls that are still single.

So pls who find it easier,staying single?

Nature8:
Whenever I watch America films, I always like how the Black Americans act.. Especially when they act as a detective like Denzel Washington, Author Luke, Wesley Snipes, Richard Murray, Morris Chestnault etc.. When they act comic films too, they are etremely good at it like Martin Lawrence, Jamie Foxx, Frank Spencer etc.. The whites can't beat them and when it comes to music, no White musicians can beat R kelly, Jenifer Judson, Keri Hilson, Ryan J, etc.. Talk of RnB and Rap songs, the Blacks from Africa owns them all.. The White musicians can't stand them, Craig david tried 2001 but dropped, Britney Spear too tried but dropped out, even Eminem tried but couldn't stand Rappers like Nas, Jayz, Tupac, etc and when it comes to book writing, I respect the Blacks like Wole Soyinka, Chinua Achebe, Lukas Wilson, they are all good book writers and in terms of general outstanding, the Blacks are extremely outstanding and above all Black women are beautiful, brave, intelligent and hardworking especially blacks from Nigeria and respect to all the black Men from Nigeria and all over the world they are handsome, sexy, goodlooking, brave, hardworking and intelligent.. I love being black and I'm proud to be a black Man from Nigeria and I'm proud of my color.. *MadeOfBlack*.. NATURE

Nature8:
Whenever I watch America films, I always like how the Black Americans act.. Especially when they act as a detective like Denzel Washington, Author Luke, Wesley Snipes, Richard Murray, Morris Chestnault etc.. When they act comic films too, they are etremely good at it like Martin Lawrence, Jamie Foxx, Frank Spencer etc.. The whites can't beat them and when it comes to music, no White musicians can beat R kelly, Jenifer Judson, Keri Hilson, Ryan J, etc.. Talk of RnB and Rap songs, the Blacks from Africa owns them all.. The White musicians can't stand them, Craig david tried 2001 but dropped, Britney Spear too tried but dropped out, even Eminem tried but couldn't stand Rappers like Nas, Jayz, Tupac, etc and when it comes to book writing, I respect the Blacks like Wole Soyinka, Chinua Achebe, Lukas Wilson, they are all good book writers and in terms of general outstanding, the Blacks are extremely outstanding and above all Black women are beautiful, brave, intelligent and hardworking especially blacks from Nigeria and respect to all the black Men from Nigeria and all over the world they are handsome, sexy, goodlooking, brave, hardworking and intelligent.. I love being black and I'm proud to be a black Man from Nigeria and I'm proud of my color.. *MadeOfBlack*.. NATURE

misspicy:
See me here


On a serious note i just discovered how to know a virgin boy yesterday,my co worker is 25 and a virgin,he told me buh i did see d signals before....

1)they are mostly shy and dnt talk abt sex

2) they are always loving that is they show more love to their gfs

3) they feel heartbroken if their relationship doesnt work,its always hard for them to move on.

4)they are mostly polite to females and guys



Modified

They would nvr talk about it unless you are very close to them

KingRaoul:
Why would any normal person go meet a girl and ask her to come and ruin his life? Girls are the most pesty, creepy people ever. They never mind their bizness, they like looking for trouble where there is none, they hiss for no reason so u will notice them, they are so sentimental and emotional that every logical thing bores them, they want ur attention 24/7, they are so insecure, always jealous of anything they find attractive on another person and will say anything to try to bring the person down. They hate sex and pretend not to, they are lazy and very dependent on other peoples hardwork, they have a sense of entitlement that is unrealistic and worst of all they are so vain and shallow and if u dont match their facial standard then ur dead to them, and if u do they will either try to bring u down or act so creepy around u till u hate urself. I dont like that gender, i am not a bad person i just wish the females in my family would leave me alone, they are so annoying u can almost hit them with ur phone. Any guy that puts up with a girl is a real gentleman and he will inherit the earth cuz hes number 2 jesus christ!!!!

Uzukoor1:
Good day

My friend is looking for a loving nigerian man in South Africa for a serious relationship the guy must be serious ooo

Uzukoor1:
Good day

My friend is looking for a loving nigerian man in South Africa for a serious relationship the guy must be serious ooo

manchibabe:
been goin out with this dude but he is kinda drifting away slowly, i need tips on how to win his love back becos it seems there are many pple who wants to take him away from me,

pls useful advise pls,

Randyhot:
A particular lagos lady had recently taken to sending an email bemoaning the inabiltity of her lover who is married to dump his wife and two kids and declare for her.
Read full gist at http://talkofnaija.com/life-style/please-help-my-lover-is-refusing-to-leave-his-wife-2-kids-to-marry-me-what-should-i-do

Harbioollah:
We've been cohabiting for almost a year now.

Almost everyone knows including her parents.

I always like to use protection but she prefers it raw as she doesnt enjoy it with it.

I agreed because i could go on and on without exploding when using protection and i didnt want to injure her with it.

I was also skilled in the withdrawal and the frequent urination method.

Though i suspect she has been cheating as i smartly made her confess on two occasions back in July and she promised it won't happen again.

She went to celebrate sallah with her parents, only for her to come back and infect me with gonorrhea.


I've learnt my lessons.

But how do i get outta this one?
I hear the bacteria is now getting resistant to ciproflaxin. Can i get Ceftriaxone in oral doses? or is it only an injection?

ifex370:
yes they are

fantazia:
There is this neibour of mine that lost her husband last two weeks in a ghastly motor accident, its just two weeks now, though the husband is still in mortuary but this widow in question had sex with a friend of mine, they engage in sex yesterday. "well im troubled, is there any repercusion on what they did? cc:lalasticlala, rocktation, obinoscopy