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Mykel4God:
I will simply go straight to the point, as I would not want to give very explicit details about myself. This is for some obvious reasons.

My wife is very sharp, I mean, she is such an intelligent woman and can easily trace this true confession to me. For the fact that I love her so much, I cannot let a thing fall in-between us.
That is why I have kept this as top-secret till today; but I will have to let this out of the bag.
I’m not oblivious of the fact that most issues of this nature are blamed on the men whom most of us see as womanizers; but mine is a different thing entirely. I’m not a womanizer. I have tried everything possible to make sure that this girl-my house girl leaves my house, but my wife will always insist she stays.
I’m a pastor, but I also work as a civil servant. I would have loved to write further about where I live, but for the same reason why I can’t mention my name, I can’t tell you where I’m writing from.
This young lady was brought to my house by my wife sometimes in 2010, and had just completed her secondary education last year. She is supposed to pick up a form for her higher education because she is related to my wife; distant relation, sort of.
Frankly, she has been very good, and has been taking care of my only daughter since my wife put to bed late last year. Her presence is a big relief to me and wife because we are both very busy people. My wife works with a bank, and sometimes come home around 8-9pm.
Lately, this young girl has summoned courage to seduce me; to be sincere, she is tempting me.
I often return to the house ahead of my wife. Sometimes, because of hold-up and other issues, I will get in around 5-6pm. She started by running to embrace me with her transparent-short gown to welcome me each time I knock, on arrival. I was shocked the very day she did that. I felt so embarrassed. “Even if I had traveled to space…hun! This one is just too much… hun!” I soliloquized in my bedroom after she had dropped my office bag and ran out to get my food. This continued for 3 weeks.

Sometimes, her b*obs will just slip out of her ‘top’ and she will simply apologize. My wife has never met her on that gown as she wears another cloth when it’s almost time for my wife to return. I have developed double minds about her. I have had different evil thoughts since this whole thing started. The one that happened last was the way she sat facing me, with her legs wide opened. I left the food that I was eating and walked to the bathroom to do nothing in particular. I had thought she would adjust as soon as I returned, but she didn’t budge. I think I fell into her trap finally that day. I almost had it with her when I grabbed her, and she jumped at me. We started that regrettable romance before God intervened with the sharp cry of my baby. That was what saved the day.
The next day, I had told my wife that we should send her away, but she vehemently refused to accept my suggestion. She had asked me to give some reasons why we should send her away, and I had told her that she was getting so stubborn and lazy; hence, she is as good as no House-help.
My wife who claimed she had never experienced that had accused me of formulating things against the lady. She told me that I wanted her out of the house because I had seen that she will soon secure admission into the higher institution, and I will soon begin to pay for her school fees. I couldn’t tell her the truth, because something tells me it will be disastrous. I just felt I could handle the matter in the most professional way. But right now, things have gone out of hands since the past 2 weeks. I have done virtually everything that can be considered dirty with her except that I have not done it with her yet. What’s keeping me from doing it is my conscience and for the fact that I can’t do that in my matrimonial home.
That sin will be so grievous, I know. She had asked me repeatedly last week if she can meet me in any of the hotels around town this weekend since my wife will be around then.
She has just Saturday and Sunday to take care of her hair and visit friends, and she wants to use that opportunity to have me all to herself. Now, I’m contemplating on this issue. All I need is your advice; Saturday is just 5 days from today, and I can’t make up my mind on what to do. I love my wife, but I think I’m becoming so foolish in the name of being faithful.
Please, tell me; should I do it or not? It has gotten to the level where I cannot tell my wife the truth because she won’t even believe, since I had told her a different story before. She will see it as blackmail. Your reaction will either encourage me or discourage me, even though my mind beats faster, and something tells me to do it.
Should I ?

Cc: Lalasticlala

starlingslimnet:
Baba you are here

dantewest:
Is friendship really dead in Nigeria? That is a question many Nigerians often ponder afeter we go through disappointments and heartbreaks. This takes me back to when we were little kids, mum was our best friend because of our selfish natural need for her delicious breast milk. As we grew older and developed teeth, we found out we could connect with other people based on mutual and also selfish interest.

With the state of the Nigerian economy, having any sorts of friendship is at your own peril. What many of have is mostly ‘Friends with benefits’. I’m guilty of this. Anyone who deserves to be my friend has to bring something to the table apart from useless Kim Kardashian , Telemundo , Nairabet , Relationship problems, Football gist or Tonto Dike gossips

For starters, you must speak very good English, I can never ever introduce anyone who cannot speak very good English to my parents as my friend. Secondly, you must be a graduate of any course. As the Nigerian proverb says, Iron sharpens Iron, as a graduate myself, I can’t call a non graduate my friend unless he is into a thriving business.

These days, parents often warn their kids to mingle with people in a higher economic class so as to have a good chance of getting the good stuffs of life. This is perfectly normal. When I have kids, I will also give them the same lecture.

There are loads of stories going on around us here in Nigeria , for example, a friend stealing a valuable item like a car, a friend who gossips at your back, a friend who wants to steal your job or your girlfriend/boyfriend…yes, all these happens in Nigeria.

I’ll never blame bad friendships on the state of the economy. I will always blame bad friends on the individual, some people are simply programmed to be wicked right from birth.

Beware of the people you let into your close circle of life. They can make or break you.

Before you embark on any friendship quest, start by loving yourself first. In that way, you can listen to your intuition (Innerself) more and avoid futuristic heartbreak and disappointments.

Practice selflove.

https://dantewest./2015/10/04/friendship-is-dead-in-nigeria/

Adikam:
why do igbo-men hate marrying an hausa girls? if you have seen kindly share it here...please avoid tribal e-war thanks

Uchwilliam:
I have this young girl that i like.she likes me too(she has evn sent me luv text msg )nd never disturb me for moni but knows i‘m not financialy ok bt talks about her nid of moni(she works bt doesnt earn much).also she told me she is a virgin nd intend to do it after marriage nd i let her be(with doubt of cos).
The issue here is dat there is a guy she told me that always disturb her to be his gf nd she refused but d guy continued pestering her.she evn abused him one time.i know dis guy nd he knows me.the guy is rich but promiscous nd stay closeby.
Recently sb told me that she visited this guy in his room.

Excuzeme:
Easy now! I thought we all agreed to do away with our Grand Fathers method of using "Magun" on such errant wives?
Please o, dont introduce Magun again o, the thing dey cause too much embarrassment for those kind of illicit affairs.

Jollyjoy:
just checked your dp now,wonder what a lady even see in you that is making you feel fly... Bros no vex bt u be like woman,the pose alone is a turn off.

starlingslimnet:
I have never believed, if once in my life that such contrasting things can actually happen until I met Linda my then schoolmate.

I decided to take this route as i journey to my place of work with my foot wagon unhurried.Normally,am supposed to take the route that leads to the main road as that is a faster less energy wasting route but today I don't just feel like it.Plus there is this place on that street the Ladies gather to check out handsome guys and am not ready to be a prey to anyone, at least not for now.So I decide to take this route to be on the safer side because the last time I walked that route I blamed myself.

I haven't taken more than fifty steps when I see someone coming a few metre away from me.I zoomed in and realize it's Linda my schoolmate from my now former secondary school. Immediately I recognized her I tried to take the path that leads to the market place to avoid unnecessary delay,even though am not in a hurry I have calculated the time it will take me to get to my working place and with Linda it means I will have to waste little out of my precious time and that I cannot afford because to me time is precious. I surreptitiously made a turn but Linda already saw me and though she was making a call she ends it to echo my name.

"Hey, Starling"

I turned to look at her pretending I was looking at something interesting. From what I make of her she was smiling like an old fool.

"Hi," I said with a fake smile pretending to be enthusiastic as I move closer, a step forward in the direction of my working place.

"I can't believe it," Is this really you? Whether that is a statement or question I can't ascertain.

"Oh it's not me, it's my reflection" I felt like saying to her but rather I chose to tease her.

"You looking gorgeous and immaculate in this magnificent dressing of yours.

She smiled foolishly like she has always done and replied, "Thank you" like it were a compliment.I felt sorry and angry at the same time.

"So uhm, where are you going?" she quickly add to get the conversation going of which am becoming impatient of.

"O place of work" "Place of work" I replied.

"O that's great, so where is this working place of yours?". "Are you a fool can't you see this is Monday morning, do you deemed me a jobless fellow like you"I felt the urge to say but rather I said a sharp one

"It's hard to describe" hoping she would Let it rest but my hope was dashed when she continue with her loquaciousness.

"So, where...." she was saying when a Lady friend of mine called me from a far.That interrupted her and I capitalized and offer to leave. Honestly her time has expired and to think of it she has used additional forty seconds of my time on a pointless discussion, well that is what it seems to me since I can find a point in it.

"I think I will have to leave now," "Bye" I said as I go away from her on to my waiting Lady friend.

I haven't taken five steps when I heard the echo of my name from the front of the back of my head.

"Starling, can I have your number"
Why did I take this route today O God of Israel! She has wasted much of my time already, can't allow her more so I walked briskly and impetously gave her my number. She quickly dialed it to make sure am not playing a fast one on her.

"That's my number" She said. I nod my head to signify I knew so well a word from me will only make things worse.I looked to where my Lady friend was standing earlier I couldn't see her again. Well that's good for me since that gives me a chance to walk faster.As I walked on I looked up into the sky anticipating what a great day today will be for me.Only I pray one prayer to God as I walked on,Lord throughout today remove every Linda from my path.

To be continued.

KashyBaby:
Until now I don't get it why men love big butts? Plz remind me,watz in there anyway?

CUM4WHAT:
do u have sense atall? I strongly doubt coz f00lishness is in you... Did she tel u she holy? She doesnt wear trouser nd dahs her stand. Lil wonda yur pussyy stinks wen u hide it inna tight jean

mubarak001:
Nl Paddies and Gallies,

Just yesterday, my friend wey be lady lamented on how her bf refused to pick her calls after sending many txt to apologise for her mistake.

In her word; "Mubarak, I hate it when my calls are not picked by someone I shared my hrt and body with". "Is ridiculous and I feel the guy doesn't love mi".

She asked what was my opinion. I gave her my advice anyways but to you guys, how did you feel when dt dear person refused to pick your calls?

Cc: lalasticlala

OXYGEN01:
Stu.pid terrorist.Seems the only country you fools know is GHANA. You fools are darker than midnight. You fools are easily recognized in Ghana with 3 things.
-Dark ugly faces
- Bad accent
-Bad body odour
Dark smelly ape.

onila:


he left because he said the house rent is expensive
considering the standard of the house
he said its not worth it

sucks someone who really cared abt me has gone
he was so nice

see you some day dearie

Jazzlite:
My husband’s friend is wonderful in bed, but…


Dear Bunmi,

I’ve been having an affair with one of my husband’s good friends for the past six months and I think I’m in love with him. He’s also married and we’re good family friends.
I’m really confused about the relationship as he carries on as if nothing is between us when we’re with other people, yet he shows a lot of passion in the bedroom.

In fairness to him, it all started out as a bit of fun and I’m sure that’s the way he still sees it. I daren’t tell him the way I feel in case he ends the affair. I also don’t want to seem pushy as he’s made no promises. I know he’s sexually attracted to me. But is that all?
http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/10/my-husbands-friend-is-wonderful-in-bed-but/

fastguy10:
PLs swt hrt 4get dat guy he is nt serious
Can u date me? I promise 2 settledown wt u when d time reach
U can also start coming now 2 see me I promise 2 take u 2 my mother

If u agree let me no

solidade:
Hi guys,

I was in a long distance relationship with a man from Nigeria. I am from Kenya but I live in the USA. We were well, dandy and very happy together. This year in July, he told me about an issue that came up. Before me, he had been engaged to a girl. They had misunderstanding and he decided to let go of the relationship with the girl. Now in July she comes back begging him to please take her back that they can talk the issue over. Soon she involved both his and her family in the issue. Soon our communication becomes strained and complicated. He has to make a choice whether he's going to take her back. Ín September he told me he decided to go back to her because he cannot do anything about it that the girls family has taken control of everything. My question is why couldn't he tell his ex fiance that he was with me and end everything before the issue extended to family members? Also are there certain cultures and customs that could have influency his choice. Please help me understand. Thank you in advance.

abiolaoladipupo:
Lol!…. This picture just made me laugh
like a baby. I wonder what the lady was
thinking when she wore this extra large
butt pads.

henry255:
I don't know how it all happened but I found myself falling head over heels in love for both cuties bearing same name (JULIET)

Funny enough, I saved their names with the same name (sweetheart1 and sweetheart2).
To measure the feeling is equal and I don't pretend about it.

Unfortunately for me today, something really crazy hit me.

I booked a date with one of the ladies.
While I was waiting for her arrival for more than an hour, I decided to call to know why she's been delaying, not knowing I called the other cutie who happens to stay in lagos.

She was amazed at what I was saying cos I was kinda scolding her and yet still called her sweetheart, telling her my spot I've been standing since an hour. So she sensed a mixup and that I was cheating on her.
She cried all through the phone conversation.

I know I'm not making sense to you right?
It's just a feeling of guilt but I can't possibly end either of the relationship for no just course. These ladies might curse the hell out of me.
Quite funny that I have equal feeling for both cuties.

I'm really kinda confused my reader. I don't want to hurt either of the both cos I know what it feels to have a broken relationship or betrayal of love.

Please tell me what to do

Holyfield1:
Pls help,I don't know how to start,I'm just staring and nairalanding,Could this be my last opportunity to do the hmmm....She keeps smiling whenever we have an eye contact..How should I start?

slimchi115:
i rilly hate dating pple i meet online,,,it makes u luk unsocial nd fake

PrettyHausaGirl:
I’ve been dating this guy about a month and a
half. Everything is great except for one huge
issue…I’m starting to get perplexed as to if he is gay or a bisexual who is more inclined to men.
A couple weeks ago, for the first time ever, I
attempted to go down on him. Within
seconds, he went from hard to completely
flaccid. Nothing seemed to be able to get him
hard again. I thought that was odd.
The strange part is he gets aroused even from
me just looking at him certain ways..Yet
sexual activity happens and he immediately
loses it? He wants to initiate oral on me, and
seems really into it..But if I go to do it to him,
it’s just over? He was raised very very very
deeply religious, and is still active in
church. With the doctrine “All sex outside
of marriage is bad”..Could it really be a
mental block thing? He was a complete
virgin before I met him, so I seem to be the closest he has been to sexuality.

He attended an all boys boarding school in his secondary school days so maybe he is more inclined to men

safarigirl:
please read thread title. This thread isn't for good-looking guys. It's for the facially challenged

mikkypel:
Even if the human is a man abi... Runs out