₦airaland Forum

^^^ ARGHHHH!

OAM4J:
No. change is the only constant thing in life, in this cases a change for the better, so that he will be able to attract the girl of her interest. Guess you have made some adjustments in the past too.

Adjustment? I only have 1 bf and he is still my present ooo. . . I have not change my character ooo. Im still me.

na2day?:
ever heard of artificial intelligence?

U are seriously a rare breed ooo. . . Stop beating around the bush

wale.star:
@Gabry, How would I trust a lady that whenever I come to her, I always called her.it happened on Saturday morning and I called her at 2: 30 pm, I told her I was not sure of coming but I may come to your house today knowing in me that I was coming but my heart told not to assure her of coming that day, and I asked her if she will be at home, she even told me on phone that she has no where she was going to, I asked her are you sure? she said Yes, she has no where she was going. When it was around 4 pm, I went to her place but never called before I left my house, but when I get there, she wasn't at home. at first I thought she was around the environment and I flashed her, she flashed me back and I asked her where she was, she told me she is in the same sitting room I was, she even asked me if I was still coming not knowing I was in their sitting room already.I cut the phone and I called her again immediately, are you sure you are in the sitting room, when I let her know I was in the room, she kept quiet and said she was sorry that she went to buy shoe,but on her arrival, she brought no shoe and not even cash to prove she went to the market, I was so confused, though she knee down begging to my surprise because no girlfriend has ever knee down for me before, but the trust was lost which hurt me , I can't trust her whenever she claim to be around the house again

Yes, I hear ya. If I were in your shoes, I wont trust her either but first of all, I would demand for an explanation from her. If she cannot explain herself, that means she is hiding something from you.

^^^ U and your keyboard. . . Whatever your brain tells you to type, your hand will work to what your brain tells you to do. Hmm!

OMO T!!!!!!! Where on earth have you been? Mama Ngozi has missed u oooo

NA2Day, U are not serious ooo. . . U claim u hatre females and now u are here posting this thread. Im confuse with you,

Who be that girl now?

Maybe she want play shakara with you

U* dont trust her, please let her go instead of wasting your time and her time.


By the way, she is at fault here.

Depending on the situation.

Some people do not know that drugs are bad. They were born in an environement where everyone takes drugs like a social thing so they just follow in without knowing the dangers of it.

Some in the US have body cramps and they are sick but medication and medicine is very expensive in the states so they substitute it with drugs which is cheaper as a pain reliever. The next thing they know, they keep taking it becausde thats the only way to relief their pain and its cheap and than they got soooo addicted to it. (This came out on the Oprah Winfrey show)

Some was cheated into drugs. The drug dealer will put drugs into their food and when they take it, they like it and got addicted to it.

These are some of the situations which I can accept and wont be disgusted over it.

My goodness. Now you made him sound like a marketing product

I doubt it. Many guys has tried to do it and never will they find the answer.

You're too choosy

Naija men and their multiple loves. . . Dont blame the ladies if they continue to play shakara on you.

Yes I have but I was referring to his question. . . Am trying to say that his question is too general and even if 1 million girls have answered his question, he still wont be able to get the definite right answer after all of that

Brein, am very dissapointed with you,

U are still a small young boy. . . U are not mature enough to be a man. I cannot believe you just said that. The word ugly and you slept with her and she is pregnant and you dont want her not because of the baby but because of the uglinest of her looks.

^^^ Na waaa! Since when you became this mean

@Poster,

So u dont want her no more cause she had slept with other men in the past? How about you? Did you slept with other ladies in the past? Does that means you are seeking towards marrying a virgin instead?

I want you to remember one thing. . . On this earth, its not easy finding the right partner with the kind of qualities and preferences which you are looking for. U leave her and you should expect not to meet another girl with the same qualities as hers.

Mr blazer:
@Gabry. ''Relationship is not about you and you alone, it about us'' I wish you could tell her that.

U are her bf. You should be able to be honest with her. You tell her that ooo.

ROMANCE SECTION

Most Lovable Male NL - IFELEKE

Most Lovable Female NL - PlatinumnK

Most Funny and Hilarious Male NL - na2day, MrCrackles and OgidiBoy

Most Funny and Hilarious Female NL - sista jay, FL Gators, mama gee AKA muffins AKA ermm. . . I cannot remember her latest ID name

Most Perverted NL - xynerio and walestar

Top Flirterer (and a naughty one too!) - 190, whitelexi

Cupid of this Land - We havent got one It could be me but Im too busy to take that responsibility

Amebo's - bu. . . . . . . . , . . . . . . (u figure it out) and . . . . .la. . . . , . . (u figure it out)

@Topic

To make a comparison is always the bad thing. If she thinks that her ex is better than you, tell her to go back to him instead of whining here. If she can make comparisons like this, Im sure she would make comparisons on many other things which is bad and will jeppardize the relationship.

Poster, tell her how does she feel if you make a comparison between her and your ex? If she dont like it, tell her to stop. The past is tha past. Now see towards the present and not the past.

@ Topic,

You both are not serious., . . Relationship is about tolerating and a stupid piece of movie is not suppose to be more important than your relationship unless you are treating this relationship of your casual. . .

You both are at fault and you both need to compromise. I hate wrestling with passion cause its so fake but my bf loves it and he hates reality shows cause he thinks its not genuine but I love it to bits but still, we compromise and give time for each other's show.

Always remember that in a relationship, it is never about you and you alone anymore but its about us.

lol! Welcome! If ure the Angel of Love, Im the angel of destiny

^^^ Mind u brother, u use to be one of that love thing

OAM4J:
^^^Gabry, tell us what do u want in a guy or what endears you to your guy.

If he is funny, that will attract me to him. But most importantly, I like a man whom takes responsibilities seriously and have common sense. I dont really care about his status or where he come from.

@Topic,

Yes I will. . . Dont really bother me. Not everyone has the money to go for further/higher education. . . Can u blame them? I dont think so!

@Topic,

Nope. Its never a problem but remember, not every partner has exactly all the criterias which you are seeking for.

Example, my bf. . . I love it when he is clean and he is funny and he always tells me the hard cold bitter truth and he knows to cook and acts like an old man at times but there are some things which I dont like about him and when he does it, it irritates me to bits and truth be told, I cannot tolerate with it but the thing is that I must always remember that its not about me but its about us. I would just have to tell him what I dont like and hopefully he would try and change for me or I would just have to tolerate with it.

I dont date people whom I meet online

^^^ Ure so full of peanuts ooo!

Your question is very subjective. U are surely to get millions of answers. . . . . Cause on this earth, everyone is made different and every female cannot be exactly the same. So poster, the best thing is to think what kinda female you like having and go find for only that kinda lady.