₦airaland Forum

pc guru:
Oh ur husband's nigeria. Some from my environments and experience i've never come across a nigeria father with a clean spot.not even my dad,stepdad,grandad, geez i know am not going to inherit any of that.i'd rather be a dad that doesn't have time for the kids than cheat. Wtf am i saying i rather be none.

bridget007:
I don't know what yet to do with him, he called this morning expecting to just come back and take me out for lunch and all will be fine, sure!!

One thing I have done is contacted his mum in Nigeria, who I know well and is the most lovely person, she knows her son well! and our problems and knows what he has done in the past and always assures me that no matter what me and my son are Family and nothing he does will ever take that away. I contacted her last evening and told her what he had done, I knwo she will be very upset, which I hate to cause, but I also know she will really give him a peace of her mind and I want to make sure she knows what he has done before he starts to concoct his stories.

She has tried to call him and he knows now I have said something but he doesn't know what and I can tell he's worried. His mother is his financial support, always has been and he's basically a spoils 1st son so used to getting his own way.

Anyhows its my birthday today and all plans have now changed, not sure what to do now! but I do not wish to spend the day with him, no matter how hard he begs!

Any ideas Gabrwyl wjhat I should do with him??


@PCGURU yea he is nigerian, his dad was a famous cheat, 2 wives, left his mother and married other woman, fathered kids all around the globe. He swore though as he saw what it did to his mum he would never do that. Guess its in the genes though! I am UK white.

Czarskit:
Love is best imagined. . .

pc guru:
Maybe.but doesn't change the way i feel.

eyonigger:
Gab, so wheres the best place to post it?