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Ok Oga bro. I undertsand what yu're trying to say.


One love

huh? why

Why 2 days? And where is your wedding located at?

uyimen:
I shouldn't bother my head wit that should i?
I don't care about him all i care about is you.
What do you do during working hours?

Ok, thank you.

Working hours? Hmmm. . . DAMN. . .  Im like an Octopus during working hours. I do the costing, assist my boss in all matters including taking out the trash, than if someone calls me to make an event (weddings, birthdays, annual dinners and etc), I would quickly get their details and start looking for caterers and entertainers and DJ's and venues, than Im on and off on Nairaland and and now even on and off on Naija Groove,  . . . untill 5 or 6pm. Than after that I will hit it to my aunt's restaurant to do decorations for events and also gift bags. Even there, I have time for Nairaland, and Naijagroove. By night time say around 10.00pm, I have band practise.

Yeap.


How your side? 

arramyjay:
Lol.

See you ooo sista. U are funny

You get butterflies when you see him, your heart pounds if he calls, and kissing him literally causes goose bumps. With chemistry this amazing, you'd figure you're destined to be together.
As it turns out, not necessarily. "We often mistake a strong physical connection as a sign that two people are meant for each other," says Paul Dobransky, MD, founder of womenshappiness.com. Yes, chemistry is key to a lasting bond, but it isn't the final word. Other factors should be considered too, and they take some sussing out. New findings describe the characteristics in a guy that actually predict relationship success, some of which you may be overlooking.

Dating Trait #1: He Knows What He Wants
Any guy you're serious about should be able to articulate his long-term goals and passions (sorry, fantasy football and Xbox don't count). He can't ally himself with you until he has a sense of how he envisions his life in the future,  and how you fit in. "If a man has no idea what he wants to be when he 'grows up,' then it will be impossible for him to commit to you," says Dobransky.
Don't assume he'll work things out, because when he does, you may realize his ambitions don't mesh with yours. "This mistake has contributed to the starter-marriage phenomenon, in which couples in their 20s and 30s suddenly realize they're going in different directions and divorce at an early age," says Dobransky. "It's preventable as long as you're both clear about your plans."


Dating Trait #2: He Has a Sunny Outlook
A recent study led by the University of Oregon found that women who had upbeat partners felt more satisfied in their relationships and -- this is huge -- that the man's level of optimism determined the relationship's staying power. Not only is it nice to have someone help you see the silver lining of a situation that totally sucks, but cheerful guys are good at keeping things in perspective, so they don't let little conflicts get to them and can go with the flow.
Along with having an optimistic POV, it's also crucial that the guy you're seeing can make you laugh. "It's an important stress valve for any couple," says Les Parrott, PhD, coauthor of "Trading Places."
"Having a sense of humor helps you weather the rough patches that you'll inevitably encounter together." It shows that he is able to let loose and doesn't take things too seriously. Plus, you'll have a better time together if you can see the funny side of things.

Dating Trait #3: He's Open to Changing for You
It's true you may not be able to change a man, but a guy should want to change for you. If a facet of his behavior irks you (for example, maybe he's not attentive enough in certain circumstances), he should be game to hear you out, listen to how you'd like him to do things differently, and then act on those suggestions. "When a guy is truly in love, he is more self-reflective and will work on the aspects of himself that bother you," says Diana Kirschner, PhD, author of "Love in 90 Days." "Studies have found that successful married couples change each other quite a bit over time."
More important, a man needs to have the capacity to transform and grow with you -- e.g., he takes an interest in going to art galleries with you, even if he's more of a couch-and-ESPN kind of guy. "If he's not willing to expand his interests to mesh with yours, you're going to outpace him," explains Kirschner. "It's likely you'll grow restless, and the relationship will become stale."

Dating Trait #4: He's Still a Little Mysterious
The beginning of a relationship is always exciting because you're just getting to know each other. But even after the newness wears off, it's essential that a man keeps you guessing. "If you can never quite pin down what makes him tick, that's actually a healthy thing," says Kirschner. Although at first you might feel more bonded to a guy who shares tons of personal information with you, over time, you risk losing the intrigue that pulled you to him initially. You might start to see him as more of a friend than a romantic partner.
Of course, you want him to open up about topics like his family, but he should keep some boundaries too. Relating every detail of his life (think updates on his nasty toe fungus) is relationship-killing TMI. A good gauge in the early stages of coupledom: He doesn't spill all about his pals. "It's an indicator that he understands how to keep things private," says Kirschner.

Dating Trait #5: He's Responsible with Money
Besides giving you a heads-up about money-related conflicts you might encounter in the future (one of the topics long-term couples argue about most), how a guy handles cash reveals a lot about his character. Positive signs: He keeps the receipt after paying for a meal, or you notice several credit-card offers in his stack of mail (it may indicate he has good credit).
"A man who doesn't track his money shows a lack of patience and self-control," says Dobransky. "In fact, guys who are financially reckless share many traits with men who cheat." But you also don't want to be with a tightwad. If a dude doesn't splurge now and then, it may mean he'll be stingy in other ways, such as compromising during a fight.

Reprinted with permission of Hearst Communications, Inc.

"I got this from Yahoo News"

Well, yes I am. . . I dont think you guys have seen the fashion no no in Europe and America do you?

I doubt so at this point.

Its ok, dont mind me then. Carry on jor with your fashion.

Hey you, stop dissing around in bad WORD,

Or Ill blow you up like a fat Bean-CURD

Babe? Uhmmm. . . I hope you are aware that I have a bf?

bluespice:
gabby hate to be the one to do this

but what the flippin hell r u saying?
babe is aiite in the two pictures!
and pardon me but wats wrong in wearing red boots?
arent they boots?
arent they made to be worn n walked in?

Ehmm EHmmm Ehmm. . . Well, like I said, suit the poster on what she she wanted to wear and like what I said, Fashion police says no no.

I forggoten, maybe for you guys its ok to wear as such but dont dey wear at my country ooo. . . People will ehmm ehmmm. . .

Ok Dani, I have registerd in there as gabby and I have posted a few threads.

dani1luv:
@ gabry
i gave up the 1st one for this new one am on

HUH? WHY

sylve11:
Gaby and dani, how r u?

I dey fine naa. How your side?

Nah ahhh. . . Let me Juju you back in hia

WHy you dey show that face? Did I steal your poundd yam or wetin?

HAHAHAHAHHA!

So your zipper is from your backside area? WHat a weird design for a jeans. . . If you shait its easy but how you fit pee?

U are already polluted the day you step foot into this thread. Once in, no way out

Yes oo, . . I wonder. Why is that sef?

Are you serious or are u kidding?

uyimen, arramyjay, No2Atheism and krama

Robbery, Killing, Raping, Abusing. . . I mean common, isnt that worse off?

No wonda I can smell lots of farts gouing on here

Prince, I dey fine jare. How your side?

Am talking to you jor

crazykid:
Gabby what's up hope you're enjoying your weekend

Yes C. Am doing good here and whats better, Monday is a Public Holiday!!!

Because you guys have been stealing each otha's fried fish!

Dani, how many forums you want to have sef?

Boss Ttdiamonds, Na lie. . . How come you dont know how to post?

Poster,

Your friend should buy an inflatable sex doll for her father to hump away

Why are you not ok? Wetin happen

About myself? Uhmmm. . . ok

Name: Gabry Shannon Wong

Sex: Female

Age: 25

Buffday: 12th May 1983

Hobbies: Collecting teddies, playing music instruments, hockey, baseball, internet surfing and singing the karaoke and pulling pranks.

How about you?

D1KeleVra:
lol.

Hmmm. . . U are really something ooo. . . First you laugh at my rapping style against Mykolo Groundnuts and now this. Are you ok bro?

OMO IBO:
you've got to be kiddin me.
please tell me you are joking.

_{WHERE DA HELL IS DAPHOENIX? MY GIF AINT WORKING. THIS POST CALLS FOR ONE.}

Hmmm. . . Ok oo. Suit you but if you go to the Fashin Industry, dont say I did not warn you.

IronButt:
@gabrywyl

no no girl, you got my post wrong.

1 of all, these jeans aren't old, it is the style. and i am not wearing boots with this jeans.

he doesnt like my boots, because of the colour ,they are RED. and he thinks that red colour is very vulgar ( boots, i'm talking about are witghout heels).

Yes, not many people like the colour red cause it could be too striking for them.

Ok, but does your bf dont like jeans in general?