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crazykid,
and thats why I'm confuse.

Hi Negro Ntns,

Thank you for your detailed response. Ok, I understand now so that means in Nigeria, when a guy calls his girlfriend mom, its actually a meaningful and deep one but for Malaysians, its an insult but I think as long as he meant well, than it should be okay.

Thanks, I really appreciate it.

Uhm,  Sorry but how do you pronounce Nne? Is it like NEH? And what does that mean?

Olboy? Ok, now that sounds weird though as in Oi Boy? or Old Boy? Hope it has a better meaning than that.

Sleeping pills might work.

Nope. I dont mind whichever sexes of Gyni wants to check my private cause after all, I'm paying the dude and the dude better get the job done. . . . .

Although, have never got a check up so time will tell

hahah! Amber, my entire family calls me a Mud Blood cause I'm the only one in the family whom does not really know how to cook Malaysian Food. I was studying culinary arts before but mostly in intenrational cuisine like french dishes, Japanese, Korean, Italian etc etc. Malaysian? Heheh! Forget about it. The men in my family are great local cooks though.

I'm still not convince. Some say yes and some say no but the majority is what?

To me no cause my bedtime is at 10.00pm, Usually and if someone calls me in the middle of the night, being a Taurus, I will get all Steamy and frustrated (well, at least from the inside )

Poster,
you should be prooud to have superwoman as your girlfriend because of the following:-
1) You will be famous if the media findws out you're dating with her
2) When you're in trouble, she will save you
3) Nobody will dare touch you at all
4) When you both go humping, she will hump you hard 

See? Its not that bad isn't it?

Hey Amber, I'm Asian and I can cook. In fact I can cook very well!

1. What's your favorite article of clothing? dresses, skirts, blouse, jeans, mini shirts, suite, costumes, quarter pants /jeans, shorts, T Shirts
   2. What's your favorite childhood memory? None. I hate my childhood time
   3. Scariest moment of your life?Having a ghost sleeping on top of me
   4. One word that would best describe you? Sarcastically funny
   5. If your friends and aquantances were willing to bluntly tell you what they really think of you, would you want them to? Why or why not. Yes cause I would like to know the real truth about me
   6. What is your favorite month in the summer? Over here, its summer all year round and I hate summer so none
   7. Water balloon or super soaker?anyone will do
   8. What's your favorite number? 5
   9. What is the nicest thing anyone ever said to you? too many. I can't remember
  10. What is your favorite Disney movie?So many,
11. What's your current relationship status? in a commited relationship
12. What exactly are you wearing right now? my nightys
13. What is your current problem?havent had any for years
14. What do you love most? my boyfriend, my family, my karaoke machine, my stuff animals, my music instruments
15. Are you musically inclined? I AM THE GODDESS OF MUSIC
16. What would you do if you woke up one morning and found out you were on cocaine? COOL!
17. f you could go back in time, and change something, what would it be? I would go to the doctor to check on my change of appetitie cause I was super slim before but in one month, I gained 30 kg in just one click
18. If you MUST be an animal for ONE day, what would you be? A mermaid
19. Ever have a near death experience? Yes, twice from drowning
20. Name an obvious quality you have? PERFECTIONIST
21. What's the name of the song that's stuck in your head right now? Call my Name by Styl Plus
22. Name someone with the same birthday as you. None that I know of
23. Do you have a secret crush on someone? Yes, my boyfriend
24. Have you ever been in a fight? Only in my dream
25. What's the first thing you notice about the OPPOSITE sex: His fake machoness
26. Whats your biggest mistake? Accidently collapsing the biggest Christmas Tree in Malaysia
27. Say something totally random about you? Crazy
28. Has anyone ever said you looked like a celebrity? Nope
29. Are you comfortable with your height? Yes
30. What is the most romantic thing someone has ever done for you?My boyfriend and I were distant and one day I called him and told him I really miss him and that I could not sleep and so he travelled all the way to my place without telling me on that day itself, landed here, slept beside me, tell me stories till I fell asleep and made me breakfast the next morning 
31. What is your favorite smell? Men's after shower and shave
32. Do you give random hugs and kisses? Nope. I'm not that affectionate
33. What's the latest you have ever stayed up?7.00am!!!
34. Have you ever been rushed to the emergency room? Nope. Thank God for that
ok im tired, one last question,
35. why are you answering all these questions? Uhm. . . . . I don't know actually.Maybe just cause I have nothing else better to do?

The guy is being selfish. . . . . Not every wife would like to be a housewife and to depend on their husband's salary. For us malaysians, husband or no husband, trust or no trust, we have to work our Butts off afraid of what the coming future would hold for us. Imagine if we suddenly out of nowhere our husband died or dump us, where would we go and what would we do if we dont have our own savings? We must always be prepared no matter what

I know that if he is in that serious mood, he will call me Mom
If he is in a normal mood, he will also calls me mom
if he wants to tease me, he'll call me mom AGAIN
if he is in that cheeky bugger look, he will call me Baby
If he is angry, he will call me GABRY SHANNON WONG YEN LI

Mellow,
How about calling you girlfriend mom or mama? Does that meant something special as well?

Jenny,
Ok, I gotta hear from my bf if he calls me mama then. Hehe!

mama? Jenny you serious? I think that sounds even funnier.

tngtech ,
Well, before he cooks for the week, we would go through what to eat for that entire week and then we would buy groceries together. Before he cooks, I prepare everything so that he just chuck it in the pot to cook (I cut and clean all meat/seafood, vegetables) so when he comes to the kitche, everything is ready for him to cook. When he is cooking, I set the table ready for meals. And then after that, all the pots and pans which he use, I will wash it while when he finish cook, he will serve it on the table. After we eat, he will wash all the dishes while I sweep and mop floor then when we both are done, I would pat his couch to give it volume and he makes tea for us to drink and watch TV.

The rest of the chores, its as long as this but thats how we've been working.

Yes tngtech,
I agree with you thats why todays generation, most of us are spoilt and cant really do the housork except me   My mom is a Tiger and my dad will leave us to rot untill the day we can stand our own feet but the normal average parents here would usually hire a maid to do house chores or usually the mother woul do for the sons and the father would do for the daughters. Thats very normal.

tngtech,
Well I did and had been telling him to stop but he says that its normal in Nigeria and that he likes calling me that. Come to think of it, I think he should be my mother. . .   He cooks, he cleans, he do laundry, he do house chores. . .  He'll be like the perfect mom.

Jenny,
HAHAHA!

I was just wondering when guys calls their girlfriend mom, do they actually meant well? And when they say it, did their girlfriend reminded them of their mom? If so, that would be odd dont you think?

No Beauteous,
Cause in Malaysia, every mothers would do chores and laundry for their sons. Its a natural thing. My boyfriend does not ask me to do anything, its just that when he calls me mom, it reminded me of doing chores.

Funny huh Jenny? Well, its what happened. Heheh!

Sometimes I feel that when he calls me mom, its like I have to do his laundry and house chores although he does the laundry and house chores but I just feel like it when he calls me that.

Beauteous,

Uhm. . . . Do you feel awkward? Cause its like he is caling his mother and does that mean good or teasing sarcastically?

Greetings girls and guys,


I would just like to know, is it normal for a Nigerien men to call their girlfriend 'Mom'?