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Liars and idiots...

Governor Obaseki is a founding partner or founder of one of the joint issuing houses (Afrinvest) before he took over the reins of Governing Edo State. Impressive.

They are everywhere down to our respective villages.

The cobblers, okada riders, etc...

They have us all encircled like a dot in a circle.

viexcey:
Let's see how it goes...

We dey observe oh my sister.

Flood dey disturb them.

Make the flood dry small you go see performances.

fxexperts:
Imagine this fitty low life, with a brain filled with poo.. i have indulge your attention for so long. you are one rotten maggot. Ewu gambia, olodo.. foolish animal.

If only the dog and goat that came together in copulation to bring a hybrid of a dog and a goat like you to this world had found a cellophane to avoid the tragedy of birthing you since they couldn't afford a #50 condom, we wouldn't be here today.

Nkita...

dhesthiny1:
There is this contest that my daughter is partaking in. Tomorrow is the last day and she need some votes to secure her win. This will mean alot to her. Thank you very much in advance

Where is the link to vote na I want to vote for her...

fxexperts:
Foolish toddler. go cry to your mama. bastard inbecille... You should know who to insult. because I will finish you here. zombie with a fish brain. We are not mate in anything in life. go cry to your mama.

Lol

Ekpa

I've given you your well-deserved attention, you nincompoop.

God forbid me from being your mate...who wants to be a mate to a low-lifer.

Piece of cow dung.

Chop chop

akanbiaa:
He has already built his mansion has convoy of cars , married a lady from family of the elites , have a large farm and other streams of income.

Beautiful.

Smart dude.

eyinjuege:
Please stop trying to sugar coat theft and dishonesty.
A man that will lie beside you, exchange bodily fluids with you and then collide with an outsider to defraud you can do and undo, so I understand where OP is coming from.
He's just opened his wife up for his friends, relatives and associates to try and defraud her.
While I would advise her to forgive her husband, if she isn't ready to do so, don't try to make her the toxic one here.
That man has destroyed the trust in their marriage and its just a shell there at the moment.
It will take time to build the trust back
And please don't go into marriage with the mindset of defrauding your wife. It never ends well, and vice versa

Awesome submission.

Another angle I gleaned from your submission is the paraphrase "colluding with an outsider to defraud her"....

This thread na wisdom-filled elders council...

redseason:
Most sensible comment!
Your husband’s sin is stealing from his wife. It’s shameful cos it’s like stealing from your own self! That aside;
You never saw yourself as part of his team. You wanted to conceal your selfishness, but the self in you still could not be totally masked. You could glorify the occasional 100k, 50k, 20k you put in the house project. Mama, you are not the first! And fyi, in terms of ratio, your contribution will most definitely amount to less than 5% of entire project cost. A modest 3 bedroom house will gulf at least 15m.
So many missing dots; is the family house solely in his name or your both names, because I now wonder the rationale you wanted something solely on your name alone? Has this husband been a provider or a deadbeat? Who bought your car? Have you ever misappropriated funds he gave to you? Got married at 22, did you move into his house with money or he set you up?

This was why most of us got on Nairaland since 2006 to learn and unlearn from one another in mature, real-life, and true stories like these.

But what do we have these days? Kids running amok, attacking, and insulting themselves to no end and I begin to ask myself "where is Seun"?

God bless you, sir, for this extra angle you brought into this matter.

Fahvvy:
How do you forgive him?
By forgiving him na ...

Marriage is not relationship o that you can brezz in and out as you wish ...
Marriage will test and stretch you farther than anything else will ..

On a more serious note...
It's clear and glaring that you don't consider yourself as a team? ...

Let's look at your write up ...

I have always helped him in his house projects,might not be much 100k,50k,20k when need be,I never siphoned my money to myself,as a young lady I envisioned my pretty little family on my head,(3 children, handsome husband and pretty wife with a fine car living happily)

Now to the main problem,I think it all started when he told me he has seen a genuine plot of land that "we" should buy it together,I told him no,I want the land all by myself I have money to pay for it,( just want to have something tangible for myself alone) he said no problem.He sent me an account number of the seller I sent 600k to the seller."we" did the necessary documents and everyone was happy.

So even when "two have become one" you still act as if you guys are not a team ...

The only time the word "we" appeared there, it was because it was suggested by your hubby ...

So while he sees you guys as a team, you see yourself as competitors ...

Until you change your mindset, it's best you don't go back ...

I'm not trying to excuse your hubby's actions, however, if you intend to go back with this mindset of unforgiveness, disunity and distrust, just be prepared for everyday quarrel ...

And that too will affect your kids ...

Wonderful comment. God bless you brother..

Romanoff:
She is not toxic. Her concerns are valid and no two human is the same.

Just cause it will be easy for you to forgive such dishonesty doesn't mean it will be easy for her.
With a husband that can scam you like that, who needs an enemy? A wife that has always supported you and is equally hardworking. What is in common 200k that he still had to scam her for?

They sha both need counselling to get past this, it won't be easy but it's doable.

That trust has been broken already so after this, going forward, please, have your own savings as you contribute to the home and family projects and keep receipts.

Next land or property you'll buy, inform him about it, carry him along but source for your own agent yourself to avoid situations like this.

The trust can't be the same again sha, but na to dey manage the situation and to avoid such in the future.

Such genuine, practical, and mature advice.

Mending and regaining a broken trust is tough as every little misdemeanour would cast your mind to that time when the trust got shattered.

TYCO77:
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Proverbs 13:22 A good man leaves inheritance for his children's children...

Lol

Can you please, define proverbs for us, boss?

Just for some comic relief...

Hungry bastards.

You need to go to your bank to lodge a complaint.

Place holder...

3rd Prime Minister in one year. Before the year runs out, they'd have found one of their own to take over and blame the entire crisis on this poor fellow.

richeeyo:
You simply a fool

Like the two idiots wey no suppose come near each other to avoid giving the world a curse like you.

Na Dangote truck wey carry better load go fall on top you and your entire lineage.

thundafire:
wetin u sabi key board warrior. Why u know talk wen fifa ban Russia and UEFA ban all Russia teams

Who is this waste of sperm?..

Will you get the eff off of my mentions and go play in the mud with your folks?


Nitwit..

Onepointfiveodds:
I understand this may not look real as i was also surprised... I probably wouldn't believe if i were to read this somewhere too

Now, I am lost for words..but not entirely surprised.

She see say Bet9ja don take over your life that's why she wan try carry you handicap and NG + Un 1.5 according to your moniker.

Make una softly dey create phantom threads here joor

ahnie:
Dude,na me get the plate,no be govt gettam

Lol


Dem get luck...

Aside from mimicking Buhari how else can this guy call himself a comedian?

What other comedy should we be expecting from him that'd best that which Buhari has already given us uncensored all by himself?

Most of the insensitive humans Nigerians call comedians should go find something they are better at to do instead of jumping on this bandwagon all because of the economic situation of the country.

Lol

[quote author=Bigheart042 post=117841435][/quote]And you had to quote me?

You could have read and moved on, please. In case of next time..

Thanks.

If na me, knowing say na our money...na that plate I go chuck-in. Na there you go understand the difference between "stealing and moving".

Everyday, one of those plates for dey miss until I get enough to open my own cutlery store...

Idiots...

Expensive plate to serve a piece of shiiit.

Marafukas

Lol

Very unintelligent pretenders to the title "intelligence officers".


This is the story of Nigeria in every facet of her life....

Chai..

fxexperts:
You just sounded exactly who you are a deranged slowpoke, a bastard from a LovePeddler, ashawo mother. Dead brain zombie..

Foolish pikin.

Next time, when you see my comments you won't even bother reading not to talk of using those leprous fingers of yours to type nonsense while quitting me.

You should know people you can do that nonsense with.

Bastard brainless imp.

Charlie and some of him fellow white racists go dey para anyhow now and plotting to make sure this one stumbles and leaves that seat within 6 months as a bugger failure.

Dem go put all the blame for him head...

How dare he to come be the one to solve and take the glory for wetin dem no fit solve...

Original placeholder until when dem don find one of their own to take over...

Charlie and some of him fellow white racists go dey para anyhow now and plotting to make sure this one stumbles and leaves that seat within 6 months as a bugger failure.

Dem go put all the blame for him head...

How dare he to come be the one to solve and take the glory for wetin dem no fit solve...

Munamoqel:
The New UK PM is 42 years old while his educated age mates in Nigeria are selling everything to japa to the UK on student visa /depandants to do care jobs , security and other dead ends low life jobs . Kenya ,Ghana are all having economic problems but are not resigning and selling everything to japa on a temporary student visa .

And how many times in every 4 years does the same UK change Prime Ministers like diapers?

People wey karma don remember to deliver their letters for all their atrocities in every part of the globe.

fxexperts:
I really do not see any rational giving birth to a dimwit like you. you are so full of shit. your brain already smells like poo. How did you even mange to exist in this world, you are just a perfect definition of dumb and zombie. Grow up man. just one condom would have saved the world from you.

Hahaha

Oh, you are learning new words from me. I'm happy to see you taking lessons on how to write (dimwit). Now, walk up to your mirror, give yourself a knock on that empty head of yours and repeat after me " experts is a dingbat"...

Aschlock son of a LovePeddler birthed for an armed robber...

Idiot...

Pikin wey refuse to learn manners from house na we collect the contract to teach them manners for outside.