This is a hard nut to crack. Its better imagined than experienced. I put myself in his shoes and wonder what I would do. Its not unlikely the marriage will end. I can't see myself loving my wife again. Its a difficult situation for any man. For me, I will end it. There is enough ground for that.

@mutter, you just explained my point of an ideal home. Times have changed. I have had occasions when things went low for me in biz and my wife had to pay the bills from her firm I help to set up and she never for once complained. Men love more when the woman submits. I pity women who think they can rule their homes cos they bring in the money. The man isn't an slowpoke. He is incapacitated by issues beyond his control. As long as she is his wife, its no issue. Is it better to have ur home happy and intact without u begging for bread outside or be have your home ridiculed cos ur husband has challenges?

I don't think its an issue to be debated upon. The man and his wife are one. I am of the opinion that every husband should empower his wife. Why do wives work? Is it not to support her family? If the husband loses his job or there is a downturn in biz won't she take care of family needs? Some wives earn better than their husbands and that doesn't make them the head of the home. My take is, if the man earns 50k per month, he should live what he earns. If the wifw earns 500k and is unwilling to help, then he should take a mini flat, send his kids to schools he can afford, and then let the wife enjoy the show. For me, that's my opinion.

@poster, go get a job pls.

am confused here. what is story? did i misread or its a mispost? what am i doing here sef? mmcheeeewwwwwww

even as clergymen they can do politics. we need men who fear God in our polity.
i wish icould list myself. can i get there?

1. Nuhu Ribadu
2. GJ
3. El-rufai
4. David Oyedepo
5. Tunde Bakare
6. Babatunde Fashola
7. Makarfi

Guys help me out.

Am so glad he is back.
Cant wait for him to get to action immediately.
GJ thank u jare.

unforgiven

Wao, the guy looks serious o. Wetin una think? make we vote for am?

So sad. So sad. This is what Turai wanted. Just barely less than 2 weeks the Sun Newspaper told us that Yaradua recovers,that he is attending to family matters, that his resumption is imminent, that he was only working on his voice. You would also remember that some clerics said he was fine and that his condition was not as bad as the public was made to believe.
So much containers of lies. Now he has passed on. Am so sad. Sad that our president was so badly treated while he helplessly could do nothing. What a nation we have. Nigeria mourns.

Bibiking is as insane as Ibb. Cheap brat. How dare u insult men of God, may Ibb's curse come upon u if u don't repent. Amen.

Turai! What's the meaning of that name? She is a disgrace to her village.

Interesting. But I think the man Iwu is a product of the failed leadership of Nigeria. He was guided by the powers that be. Unfortunately, he too got drunk with same power that put him there. Power is transient. That is what the Prof is coming to terms with. For me, Iwu came into the system called Nigeria and like many greedy leaders, he wrote his history with the corrupt. He stole people's mandates, falsify documents, imprison the innocent, enslave Nigerians, confused the polity,created thuggery,and stole public fund. The man is a typical Nigerian leader. But there seem to be hope with GJ. I hope am right. I hope our votes would count next year. If that happens, a new life has come upon us as a nation. I pray so. God bless Nigeria. Amen.

I don't think Nigerians are wating for him. The train has since left him behind. Power has left him. He is no longer an issue. I wish him well and hope he gets better to stay with his family but certainly not to return as president.

Its funny the way Nigeria is. Too much corruption. The sun newspaper only captured the degree of the decay. The sun newspaper is grossly corrupt. Simple.

@poster, get a life.

Oh Lord!!! Am saddened by this piece of news. Speechless.

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i meant to say he is no longer relevant pls.

I think Yaradua's associates are worried that the president has been sidelined and that he is no longer
irrelevant to Nigeria and Nigerians.

That piece of news was meant to make an empty noise.

Pls ignore the joke. The man can't return. His reign has ended.

Even Obj knows that the man can't make it back.

Katsina is not Nigeria. Turai knows too.

NIGERIANS, THIS IS A PLOY BY THE CABAL TO CONFUSE THE POLITY.
NOBODY HAS SEEN YAR'ADUA. NOT EVEN HIS MOTHER.
IT IS A PLOY BY THE CABAL TO DRAG THE NATION BACKWARDS.
THE STORY WAS MADE UP BY CERTAIN INDIVIDUALS.

ITS A LIE.

YARADUA IS ACTUALLY UNCONSCIOUS.

you are on your own.

please spread it. there are plans by the hausa./fulani to poison christians thru what they hawk as food. like suya and the rest. please treat as urgent and spread the news. wisdom is profitable to direct. THE DEVIL IS ON RAMPAGE. let us beware. people who can kill in cold blood women and children can do it. they are wicked.

@strangleyo,
Your case is worst. God exist. He was, he is and will ever be.
Its only a fool that would think your thots. God exist. He gave you your breath.
So cut out that old fable please.
We are discussing serious issues here not issues of low estate as illuminated by your mind.
How can you say there is no God?

This clearly re-echo my thoughts about certain elements of nothern extraction to islamise the nation.
Christians must take this very seriously too. Dont be fooled!! The Jos crises is a living witness.
You need to see the air of pomposity in the coas when he was defending the deployment of troops to the airport.
What a shame!!

It has become clearer by the day that the Jos crises is the handiwork of certain individuals to islamise the the state and make the christian majority a minority by all means. That is why these killings are done early on sunday mornings and making women and children their victims. Hell has been enlarged. Christians must wake up. The jihadist are at it again. I bet you if a muslim were to be the governor of the state, this kind of killings would not have happened. There is a process of lawlessness in the plateau and what makes sense now is for the entire people of plateau to become lawless since its illegal to be law abiding in the state.
The army and other state security services are the accomplices of the powers that be.
i appeal to you if you live in the plateau never to trust the men in uniforms. They are sent to kill you if you are a christian. They themselves are headed by a hausa- fulani and their mission is to use the machinery of state to kill innocent citizens in the name of keeping peace.
Nigeria has spilled blood! They will not go free. God will bring judgment to all of them. It shall not be small. What a country we have? what a shame! people killed in cold blood!! haba, what sort of religion is this?
Let God arise and let His enemies be scattered!!!
Evil shall slay the wicked. Very soon too.

@poster,
You just echoed my thoughts. I feel strongly that Mr president is not in this country.
Just like Vigasimple said, the show of shame was done to disrupt what would have been the final hammer that will make Yaradua's administration history. But they just postponed the evil day. It will surely come sooner than they think.

WHere indeed is Mr president? Has any of the top echelon of his administration seen him?
Is he back as reported? Was the airport drama intended to fool the world?
What is the motive behind all these?
Why Nigeria? Why did Obasanjo did this to us? Why?

Who is dis guy?

I dont think Goodluck was part of the criminal gang. He was just btw the devil and the deep blue sea.
There was nothing he could do as a toothless bulldog. Now that he is Acting president, he has the executive powers to stimulate the process of knowing the state of health of the president. The next few weeks will unravel all the back door hide and seek of Turai.