₦airaland Forum

Ladyhippolyta88:
When you say men are polygamous in nature it includes women too because not all women can stay with one man.In polyamorous relationships as well as open marriages women have multiple partners too.So cut that crap of men alone being polygamous in nature, women are also polygamous in nature do you think every woman is happy to eat one soup for the rest of her life.

You call cheating small thing you are a child obviously make woman cheat on you and you call am small thing then we go know say you mean the nonsense when you dey talk so

Then, by all means, they can find a different partner too.

And they actually do.

Ishilove:
You still did not answer my question. Let's say I'm tired of tasting your preek and I want to taste another man's own for a change, can I go ahead? I love you o, but I need a change of preek to relieve tension. Can I go ahead?

Go ahead if that is what you want.

lukency:
Men sef! Wetin man want for woman body wey the wife no get.

Fresh, different, new pvssy?

Romanoff:
So a man can't wait six months for his wife to be ready after birthing their child?

The recommended time is 6 weeks with vaginal birth and 3 months with caesarean.

It is not really about that darling.

Your question would be better if you asked: Can't a man spend 30 to 70 years fvcking only one pussy?

And the answer will be a resounding "No".

LilMissFavvy:
Oga the wife did the right thing. This is modern era. It is better for a woman to be a happy single mom than be living in painful polygamy or stick around a public dicckk in the name of marriage. Personally I would do the same thing. You don't seem to understand the emotional trauma a woman has seeing her husband cheat, it's the same way a man would feel if his wife is cheating around. I can only hope she had drained him financially and gathered more than enough CASH, hopefully she should be able to drain him through child support...I wish so.

Drain him through child support?

In Nigeria?

Is your middle name "Igbolabi"?

As much as I agree and advocate that a woman should end and leave an unhappy marriage, but if a man having sex with another woman is what will make any woman unhappy and make such a decision, then such a woman should never get married and waste funds on traditional and religious wedding. Otherwise, find a ugly, unsuccessful, low confidence loser of a man to marry.

And by the way, finding a "Happy Single Mother" is like trying to find a Mongolian living in Nigeria.

olabrinks:
This does not make sense

Having a higher pool of suitors does not equate to better results, it actually minimises it. You have more inadequate men to deal with. When you know what you want, know the kind of men that will want you, (which greatly reduces the amount of men in your dating pool), it makes dating more intentional and realistic. You don’t have to waste time going through the bad eggs.

So you men need to understand this. When a woman gets to a certain age with experience, it’s no longer about the amount of men, it’s about the quality and standard of men that will fit into the woman’s circumstances. Please understand this and have wisdom.

So when you know the kind of man you want and you see him but he does not want you because of one single factor, that is more intentional and reality?

As for the bolded, so your argument is women will compromise and manage at a older age based on their circumstances? They can no more dictate?

falcon01:
And you wanna eat this! What the f*ck is wrong with you guys yo? That doesnt look like anything edible! Ya'll are Train wreck.

How does it not look edible?

olabrinks:
you stating that most men will not be interested in her anymore is insignificant as she doesn’t need to be desired by most men to get what she wants (remarriage) if that’s the goal for her. She’s at a stage where she’s been there and done that, so the selection of men that she may even consider will be low, and very much in line with her circumstances.

Okay, at least you have dropped your silly "approval" nonsense.

Now the next lesson is that "Yes, most men will not be interested" is significant.

Someone who has a higher pool of potential suitors is privileged to:

1) Find someone he or she is attracted to.

2) Be with someone more compatible.

3) Have higher confidence and self-esteem because rejection by a lot of men can be demoralising for most women's self-esteem.

So, never again say being in a position of improved choices is insignificant. This refusal to accept facts because of emotional rejection of it is the bane of most females.

olabrinks:
so why the reference of “most” men will not take her seriously when she only needs the approval of one man if she wants to re marry. The aim for women is never to get the approval from most men, as most men are not even worth chicken on bones. The aim is to get the approval of a man who is worthy.

Sorry, please explain how saying "most won't now want her for marriage" means "she needs the approval of most men or one man to move on"?

Do you know the meaning of "want" and "marriage"?

And do you know the meaning of "approval" and "move on"?

olabrinks:
But does she need the approval of most men or one man to move on? Please answer this question for me

Who said she did?

Boss13:
I don't think it's a wise move from the wife. She already has two kids and the husband is a good provider (footballer).

There are several ways of resolving this issue rather than separating or divorcing your husband. She is going to learn that the relationship streets is an unforgiven one. She should also prepare herself to be a side chick material or marry a lesser man than her ex-husband.

Unfortunately for her, she appears to either be:

a) one of those delusional girls that think (or know) they are still fine and feels it will be easy to replace him because she was used to having a queue of men chasing her before. Im eye neva open say she don born two now and even if men what her, most won't now want her for marriage.

b) attempting to be smart by making him know there are consequences for him sleeping with other women, but she plans to go back to him asap.

If it is (a), I am sorry for her.

Romanoff:
It doesn't matter that she's not the one that cheated?

A cheat will always be a cheat sha.

Life does not work like that.

The minute a woman learns and accepts that men will always be polygamous, that minute she has halved her problems and emotional heartbreak.

Worse is when a woman marries a high status/highly eligible man and then expect he will be faithful (here, I laugh at Chioma), then her delusion is intense.

Any woman that wants a high chance (no certainty/assurance/guarantees here sef) of being with a "faithful" man should find a ugly, unsuccessful, low confidence loser of a man to marry.

Men are not built for monogamy.

Ishilove:
But wait o, what does she have that the one in your house doesn't have? Don't tell me vegetable and okro please, because us too would also like to taste carrots and cucumbers, but we decide to stick with the carrots because we are loyal.

These girls aint loyal.

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Romanoff:
There is no smoke without fire.

Some men won't touch their wives when they are pregnant, na then them dey get side chicks.

I hope he is happy now that he has ruined his marriage.

The reality is that he will find his happiness in a very near future.

Unfortunately for Instagram-must-know girls like her, with 2 kids for a man already, she will struggle to find another man (especially with his status) to be with in future.

Her options now is to shoot her shots lower or be side-chick to a guy like him.

Don't be surprised if you see her going back quickly to reconcile.

Another bloody crook the useless Nigerian press collect money from and make him appear to be the person with knowledge and solution to Nigeria's problem.

Bode George, e no go better for you, your children and your entire descendants!!!

Aycol1:
Earlier this month, this company announced to its investor that it will be re-strategizing its operations and won't be paying ROI for now. Unfortunately the company keep beating around the bush and not transparent to its investor.. Can we say they are also MBA junior because investors tends not to know the faith of their funds.

Dumb mugus labelling themselves "investors"?

E no go better for all of una dumb baboons!

nairalandankrah:
Kwara is 80% Fulani..so how is this news

You are fooolish! Where do you shit your "facts" from?

fimzzy1991:
Please be careful what you say.
He didn't create the mess. We did. Because you do not understand Him doesn't make him less than your Creator. I believe you are smart. You can't have an invention without an Inventor. However, we all have choices and one day we'll be accountable to Him.

If we created the mess, does that not mak him senseless as an inventor?

No be fooool be that?

Will you buy the product of an inventor who's invention creates a mess or you will say this is Chinese/Aba-made, I no want?

SweetCunt97:
lmfao. U one weird guy but i like d refreshing outlook but no dey underrate God before him clear ur doubt

E no fit do nothing jor.

All na shakara ................for eternity!

SweetCunt97:
Lolzz, d atheist. Well i apply common sense and rationality when it comes to belief. So tell me are u an atheist? If yes, why?

According to the logic of your God/Bible, this man who "accepted Christ" before his death will be going to heaven.

https://murderpedia.org/male.C/c/chavez-juan-carlos.htm

But another human being, who was a better human being all his life on Earth, but decides to be a Muslim will burn in hell fire for eternity.

sammirano:
You are literally useless. Because minding your businss is bliss, but you choose to display your stupidity. Eranko

Na you wey dey dumb they call someone useless and saying they are displaying stupidity?

You see say your God no dey good to you for making you and forgetting to put a good brain in your skull.

Go curse your yeye God NOW!

SweetCunt97:
Lolzz, d atheist. Well i apply common sense and rationality when it comes to belief. So tell me are u an atheist? If yes, why?

Because the books said to be written by God himself (through humans) does not demonstrate enough intelligence to be written by a God that is the alpha and omega.

Both the Bible and the Quran are not intelligently-written enough.

sammirano:
Useless and worthless people just cant read and pass. They will alwaays exhibit thier madness.you are a typical example. Werey

You reason like a dunce and you are calling someone else useless?

Dem dey do you badly for your village.

simplesearch:
Matthew 5:32
But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth aadultery.

What a pity. Marriage is an encompassing union having spiritual, physical, emotional and phycologically angle to it, but the spiritual aspect overides them all. This is the reason why marriage is binding for life, even where a life is threatened one can seek for space for as long as possible to resolve all naughty issues and restore normalcy, and if that can't be achieved none is permitted to engineer another relationship or involve in sexual activity with another other than their first partner which is the only person recognised by God. In otherword any union that leads to a break up whosoever is responsible for such cannot make heaven except for the clause stated above by Christ.
Let all the magistrate and customary court in the world dissolve a marriage it stands resolute before God. So look well before you leap. No polygamy,no divorce, no remarriage.
So if love blinds you to join your chariot with that of a godless man, a cheat or an irresponsible you must pull along with him to the end.

Tremendously foooolish contribution.

ezekieloe:
God says He hates divorce. Read Malachi 2:16
This message is for both Husband and wife.

Marriage in now a child's play. Na wa o!

Please rethink.

Tell him to shove what he hates up his asss.

SweetCunt97:
Humans are complex beings. Aint easy coming together to be one

Exactly.

So keep you God, Bible and Religion out of the discussion and talk more sense like this.

SweetCunt97:
Times have changed noni.

If times have changed, and the Bible your God inspired people to write could not keep up or have anticipated the change, then maybe you should not be living your life depending on that Bible (and maybe even that God).

pappilo:
I was never a grass is greener on the other side type of guy. I took the devil you know option and it burnt me.

Na until I meet man inside my yard na im my eye clear. I dont know if it was love or stupidity but even though I knew she was seeing another guy, mumu like me still knee dan beg this naive woman. But there will always come a time when your eye go clear.

These people got me out of the house. Man had to move to a single room garage uninsulated garage conversion while this nigga
moved into my crib and was knocking boots on my brand new matrimonial bed. The dude moved in like 3 weeks after I found him in my house and they got the police to kick me out. A nicca caught a few charges too and this so called now ex wife was a state witness

F**k beaches mayn!

Bruv, was this in the West?

sammirano:
Divorce is an excuse for failure. If you divorce your partner, you have failed in life and no consolation you give yourself or anyone gives changes the fact. If you are incapable of managing a marriage till the end. You are more or less ... don't let me say what is on my mind. The other day, one fool was celebrating divorce certificate. another failed divorce woman on instagram was giving married and single ladies advice. like are you mad. what advice do you have to give for your failure.

Foolish people also like to contribute their advise with confidence.

femi4:
he doesn't know you

Off course! Na drunkard.

No wonder the World is always in a mess under his supposed watch.

komodapson:
dey deceive yourself there. how about verbal abuse and domestic violence.

No mind am and dem senseless bible.