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TUTU147:
Me and my wife use our native language igbo,but my children want to start speaking urhobo for us.Anyway,I love the fact that my children can understand my language and also communicate in any language outside my language.We are nigerians and we should promote the language of our host, urhobo waboooo.

Lovely.

I am assuming you are raising them in Urhobo land.

It is important a child can speak in the dominant language of the place they are being raised, while also being able to communicate in the tongue of their heritage.

marlow1962:
General local language (pigin English) and ibo.
We only speak English when we have visitors who can't understand our language.

I love to learn Yoruba and Hausa language .

Onyiiobi7735:
In my family,we speak exclusively in Igbo language to each other and we are proud of it.
However as an individual,I snub Igbos who speak English to their fellow Igbos, because to me,they act like inferiority complex humans.

Tajbol4splend:
Nigbati mi o ya were, maa se maa so ede mii yato si Ijesa

FashionCookie:
Ibibio with popc.
Yoruba, Pidgin and Ibibio with with mumc and my sisters.

Zhunnurayn:
We speak Dazzaga, our tribal language of Chad roots. We are guran(shi arab)

Ko bin anuw, nara wasara, kallaã ìnchêno

Emyzoloye5:
We speak igbo, igbo and igbo.....English has no place in my family, my mum will gift you a heavy slap if you speak english while at home...

Emyzoloye5:
We speak igbo, igbo and igbo.....English has no place in my family, my mum will gift you a heavy slap if you speak english while at home...

Your heads are correct!

Resetinc:
English language is prohibited in my household … even my newborn daughter na our native ethnic dialect we use talk to am…

Your head is very correct.

May God bless you!

Fountainofyouth:
Hausa First
Yoruba Second
Then English

Born and bred in Kano.

Nice.

I am assuming you are of Yoruba heritage then?

seuncyrus:
Can you imagine how funny this is, Africans discussing what language is spoken in their homes. Will an European or Middle Eastern be discussing what language they speak in their homes?

The Africans have been conquered, they name their children after the whiteman, talk like the whiteman, dress like the whiteman, worship his gods and aspire to be like him

Don't mind them.

Many useless parents have children who only speak English and they feel cool about it, despite both parents are from same tribe and/or they live in a city where one tribal language is lingua franca that the kids cannot speak.

The worst I can think about are families where both parents are Yoruba (or both speak Yoruba well even if one is not Yoruba) and they live in Lagos. Yet their children can only speak English. FOOOOOLS! Baboon brains!

The only people I can excuse a little bit are parents who are of different tribes and separate tongues, who are raising kids in a place like Warri or Port Harcourt where the lingua franca is pidgin English. That one might be hard to get the child to speak any local language.

deewhydoski:
You are looking for a stinking wealthy man, how are you going to add value to this man life?.....when you are looking for a wealthy man, also prepare yourself to looking promising and valuable if not the man will just see you as a piece of furniture he owns at home.

Oh, I just gave her the rules and guidance.

Jewessgratitud3:
I don't know when some women will have sense. You asked a man who's seeking your hands in marriage how much he's earning, he didn't tell you and you didn't do your findings then before going ahead to marry him. It's now you're trying to find out how much a corporal is earning. After you don enter fire

I don kukuma talk my own, if as a man you're not stinkingly wealthy ( especially in this present economy) don't come near me.

marriage is not a prison with years of hard labor, why are you men now trapping innocent girls in poverty in the name of marriage? If you're not financially capable yet, you no go sit down your own? Abi which one come be enter finish com dey cry no money no money?? Hm!

Madam, you go ask tire. Question wey you supposed ask before you enter.

The bolded is fine.

You too have to bring to the marriage what a man wants and keep offering it while the money is there.

Just don't try and trap an achieving man in a marriage where you don't look hot and you are exciting in bed.

You need to be fine in the first place (i.e. 8 out of 10 and above) and maintain this for about 20 years, at least. You must have breast, ass, face, good shape, dress to outshine other women and can work a room of men with your sexual mannerism for 20 years. If you don't have all these in abundance and/or proportion for at least 20 years, no open your mouth to demand a "wealthy man".

When you are having sex, make sure you are not like most Nigerian women that just lie there with a hole between their legs, and just making suffocated moans all the way through. You better know how to contour your body, spread legs wide, beg for the D to hit you badly, talk dirty while he is pounding and utilise cumm when it arrives.

Don't you dare, I mean effing dare, have one kid and then, like most Nigerian women, lose shape forever and be fat. You need to snap back into figure 8 and dress size 4-6 (US) within 7 months of each birth.

If you cannot meet all these to the T for 20 years, you can be slightly forgiven if you are willing to get help from a younger woman as side chic to provide what you cannot provide, while you take care of the kids and home.

Useless maniac.

Kogi people want to die if they vote for this kleptomaniac.

Nextt:
hmmm. I think I caused your anger by revealing this information. You might still have learnt it from another source but I still blame myself for revealing something that sparks murderous anger in people.

Let me tell you what I would do if I was in the man's shoes. I would keep the children but get separation from the lady. They have grown to know me as their father from their infancy. It would be morally...keyword - morally...unjust to discard them like some worn out piece of furniture. Believe me, when I stare at them I would only be reminded of painful betrayal but time heals every pain if you let it.

That is you.

Most men would want their blood & flesh and not to be deceived to raise another man's, secretly smacking your wife's, blood and flesh.

And you must be very naive and deluded that you can make the decision to keep other people's children and discard both parents It makes me question your age and what you know about the real world.

She will take her kids, cut her losses on the stretch she had planned to milk you to raise them and dump your ass without contrition. She would even find some victimhood story to claim against you and blame you for everything to distract from, and cover, her shame. And many women (selfish beings) will jump on her story to support her and ask you to share in the blame.

And if you are unlucky to be living in the West, she would take half of all you own, kick you out of the house of which you will continue paying the mortgage and get court order for child support on you as the children only know you as their father and you did not dispute it within a stipulated number of years.

ogbe88:
Sorry, I was reply the other person, my bad.

Lol.

Cool.

ogbe88:
It's not a crime to do DNA test on your kids, abi is your head paining u.

Wetin you don dey smoke this early in the evening wey dey confuse you?

Colorado?

Nextt:
The woman did overstep the boundaries of inhumanity but NOTHING justifies lawless killing. Nothing. Otherwise, this world would teem with beasts that call themselves intelligent species with murderous intentions at the slightest provocation.

ISIS, Al- Qa'Ida, Boko Haram, Cultists, Taliban, Unknown Gunmen, Iswap, etc...all have this warped idea of taking human lives at will if it suits their sense of justification...and on many occasions - needlessly.

Lawless killing is never justified. The man would have simply initiated legal action against her. Aren't you sick of all the bloodshed in the world? I am.

Nonsense!

There are some evil that justifies killing.

Not only was she aware one kid was not his. She was aware all the kids were not his. Yet, she was making him pay for all them.

One paternity fraud is deeply ruthless and painful enough to 4uck the man up forever. To now make it all the kids he thought were his kids in life?

To top it off, she was ruthless to the point she even tried to destroy him by going to his place of work to embarrass him for money he should not be paying for 4ucking other men. She went there to make him pay for kids she knew were not his.

She is a sadistic, wicked and ruthless psychopath like Saddam, that deserves to die like Saddam.

She had no mercy, he should have no mercy! She deserved to die and the courts would not even have punished her.

Beverlyjean:
A fool called Gamesmart did compare both and said Messi performed better

Messi goal rate at PSG; a team building and Messi in his mid 30s: 0.43

Ronaldo goal rate at Man United; a team that was already best in the world and Penaldo in his youth: 0.42

Beverlyjean:
U are even dumber than u think u are ..... u have come with stupid ratio ... what did his goals achieve... u have watery beans brain sha .... he achieved more than Ronaldos career in United, that's y he was boored and booed out of psg ...

So halaand at city so far has out performed Messi at barca ... u see how stupid and dump u are at the same time.... even my dog Bruno will laugh at how stupid u sound

You are a moooron!!!

So, it is now "what did his goals achieve"?

Foooool!

At his worst, he performed better than Ronaldo!

The Fooool is trying to now deviate to Haaland, when Ronaldo no get case and figures to match.

Messi has no need to worry about Haaland. It is Penaldo that needs to worry as Haaland can overtake him in life rankings at the rate he is scoring.

Messi no be their mate. He is better at scoring, playmaking, assist, dribbling and winning WCs (PLAYER!!!). Something dem no born Haaland well to compete in.

Goalscorers are different from Baba awon Total Player!!!

I just dey finish you everytime!

Beverlyjean:
Are u sure u are normal... are u relying to say Messi was more successful at psg than Ronaldos entire career at United?? Is that what u are saying ... I that's what u are saying...then u must be mentally ill , and I should not have been trading arguments with u that is mentally ill

Foool, let me shock your dumbass with statistics ...................as usual.

At the individual and personal performance level:

Ronaldo’s goal rate at Man U was 0.42 (146 goals from 346 games).

Messi’s goal rate at PSG was 0.43 (32 goals from 75 games).

Just goals o, we should not even talk of assist rates, dribble rates or remove penalties from the total goal rates.

And we should not even talk about the age Messi ended up at PSG and still outperformed Ronaldo including in his youth at United.

So, the period you keep shouting like a baboon as Messi's worst, he was actually better than Ronaldo at his prime.

How do you feel knowing this, ode?

This guy, you suppose dey fear me!

Badmashii:
Gamesmart baba I hail o. I commend how you on how you just dey give this bitches gbas gbos e dey sweet me die.

You are truly a redpilled nigga. A nigga most real niggas should befriend.

Thanks, bruv.

I shall keep holding them accountable, giving them reality & facts and crushing their constructed delusions. Not here to pamper their ego or consider their fragile feelings.

Beverlyjean:
Ronaldo played only one season in United...he scored more goals than Messi... Messi did nothing for psg ... psg were an organised team while united were disorganised... individually.... Ronaldo outshined Messi...scored more champions league goals than Messi and scored more league goals ... shey u all said Messi will break his CL record ... Messi still cudnt do it after he left for Saudi.... naso una go wait tire for Messi to break Ronaldos goal scoring record...he is heading to 900 goals ... Messi will never pass 850 career goals .... ndi ratio

You be mumu.

I said his United career!

I did not say his second stint with United.

Compare all his career at United including when Man U was hot with Messi's career at PSG.

Busy grasping at straws and deviating in desperation and panic when what I asked for is very simple.

You and Allmiron are both sick in the head.

Explain how Ronaldo was more successful at United than Messi at PSG.

advanceDNA:
U can draw any conclusion that makes u sleep well at night from my comment...... That's ur cup of tea....... I am not going into a argue with someone who blames the victim of paternity fraud....it's one thing to fvck around, it's a different thing to pin Mr A's child on Mr B.

When it happens to ur sons or brothers.... Blame them very well for their wife's infidelity and the pinning of another man's child on them.....
.then face their wife, hug her very well and tell her it's not her fault at all.. .because her decision to fvck around is not her own but because the men that fvck her were too weak to say no .....

Abi o!

If you want to be a slut, no problem, be.

The real wahala comes when you are daft enough to get pregnant, decide to keep it and then try to allocate to the wrong father.

Don't mind the severely selfish being.

Beverlyjean:
U are saying trash... we are comparing both players

Compare the players and use a brain to explain how Ronaldo was more successful at United than Messi at PSG.

Beverlyjean:
Top scorer for team , despite the team having serious problems .... Messi was anonymous in psg , reason fans booed him out of France... we all can see that Manchester has a fundamental problem ...

What a purely foolish argument!

So when Yakubu Aiyegbeni was top scorer for his team, he was doing better than Ronaldo?

Taiwo Awoniyi was more outstanding than De Bruyne last season because he was "Top scorer for team , despite the team having serious problems"?

Try again, and use your brain this time.

Explain how Ronaldo was more successful at United than Messi at PSG.

Kobojunkie:
That is it! Once you begin to tamper with trust, you might as well end the relationship there and then.

This is the same person who is saying it is okay for women to check their partner's phone because "if he owns it, then it is hers".

She did not harp about "tampering with trust" then or it should be the "end of the relationship".

She believed the woman should be free to check his phone. But it is a problem for a man to check if his own child is really his.

Selfish beings women are. They only argue to favour their interests.

https://www.nairaland.com/1039872/too-jealous#12082011

Kobojunkie:
You lost me when you claimed that simply having access for knowing sake equates to snooping and insecurity. I don't think like that when it comes to what I believe belongs to me, and what belongs also to my spouse, so I cannot help you. That is like a woman who believes she is stealing when she goes to get money from her husband's wallet to go do grocery shopping or anything. Either you have confidence that it is yours and you have a right to take it and build a relationship where it is OK to get money from your spouses wallet, or you continue to give yourself a complex by thinking negative thoughts like that when you really don't need to, in your own home.

That there are those who snoop does not then mean then that everyone, who accesses data on their spouse, does it with the intention of snooping. If you believe something is yours, you don't snoop when you access it. IT IS YOURS! There are millions of people out there in marriages with no boundaries and these are happy people with no care of what to hide or not hide next.

If you thinking throwing them under the bus for not seeing this as you do means you are better than they are speaks volumes of the delusion you live with, not them. Not everyone has energy to hide things from those they are married to . . some don't even hide things from their kids. That you cannot handle that, is not their problem.

Unbelievable!!!

You can argue your partner's phone is yours and you can check it anytime you like but the child bearing your name is not yours? And you should not be able to check it anytime?

Beverlyjean:
U are saying trash ... ok, Argentina won the world cup and not Messi... do u people have a brain at all? Individually, Ronaldo was more successful than Messi in psg United spells ...

Bit everyone compares Messi at psg to Ronaldo at Juventus... Ronaldo was a million times more successful, by team or Individually...

Messi needed refs help as it's been discovered now, to be able to compete with Ronaldo in la liga

You are talking moronic nonsense.

Explain how Ronaldo was more successful at United than Messi at PSG.

Jewessgratitud3:
And when they say men are dumb/simp, you'll wail. Now you're trying to make us understand that men don't have the will power to refuse evil or something detrimental to their lives? That a woman can offer them poison and they'll gladly accept even with their hard earned money? Smh... No be mumu be that?

You just ended up telling us how loose and indiciplined men are and why they can never stop having DNA issues.

Oloshoism is not detrimental to women's lives in your own view?

Now I know what you are like.

So women don't "have the will power to refuse evil or something detrimental to their lives" like oloshoism?

And you refuse to hold them accountable for this because you are a selfish being, right?

Always the men's fault for what women do and the choices they make.

Jewessgratitud3:
Try harder bro. You lost on this one. Argue intelligently next time cos all you said here about the women is not a universal truth, happens to one out of a 100 but my submissions are very very factual and universal cos it is you mens reality home and abroad. Everyday DNA this DNA that and men killing themselves or their spouses after discovering they're not the real father's, all over social media. So? Try again.

When your IQ meets minimum threshold, you will realise when someone says "like almost all women", he does not propose a "universal truth".

Simple logic!

Too much emotions and selfishness ends up leading to you lacking logical reasoning.

By the way, less than 1% of children are being raised as paternity fraud. You have more chance of getting breast cancer than a man suffering paternity fraud.

advanceDNA:
Baba rest joor....them no dey argue too much with person wey dey yarn opata....Woman stand for junction dey advertise prostitutión .still come dey blame man wey she entice to pay for her goods.... no be juju be that..??

How Coca cola go dey blame buyers for buying the goods they sent into the market?? Baba... Women no like take responsibility for their actions..na the same reason dem no dey like pay bills...

Abi o.

Jewessgratitud3:
Abeg drop this weak line of defence. You men can never stop and that is why you'll end up paying for your actions in the future. Who dey suffer am Las las? No be men full everywhere dey agitate for parternity test up and down? LoL...

You people think you're doing me? You're doing yourselves. Na una go still cry us a river when the time comes.

Weak defence line that you, like almost all women, hate to take accountability for your choices and free-will actions but instead like to blame men for these?

Who dey suffer las las?

WOMEN!

Na una dey dey miserable and never get that thing you have dreamed about since you were a little girl: Your dream man, who would cherish you and live with you forever.

We just want sex with women we find attractive. Many of us get that.

Na una dey dey dumped when you are older and lost your looks, na una dey cry me a river and on anti-depressants.

frozen70:
Why does a man need a DNA in the first place

I asked you a question based on your argument, you are asking me a different question?

My friend, tell us why you think a man need to inform her or she needs to be aware.

Jewessgratitud3:
They are not being raped but you men keep going after them. If they don't get patronage, theyll go out of biz and look for something else to do but no you will always look for them even in their hiding and that is why they no longer stand at the roadside but do it from the comfort of their holes ( homes) and still sell.

Hypocrites everywhere.

What about if the women always said "No", will there be any olosho?

Accountability is kryptonite to women. Selfish beings!

VinnyBaba:
If you are Married to a MODEST Girl, no NEED.🙂

But you get married to a TEAR-EYE, SEMI-OLOSHO, 20+ BODYCOUNT Lady,
It's Necessary! 🤨😒

Things are so bad now that men think a woman who has slept with about 19 different men is modest.

Imagine she is 28 at time of marriage and started having sex at 18, so it is almost 2 different men a year she was 4uucking?

During our mothers' times, being with 2 different men before you married already would have qualified for your morals to be seen as suspicious. Then we had this feminism "progress" of women being loose.

Hoeflation is real o!

Imagine this slut, Uzoamaka Ohiri, too refuses to take accountability and instead tries to blame the man.

https://www.premiumtimesng.com/entertainment/naija-fashion/483675-i-never-knew-my-sons-paternity-until-dna-was-conducted-nedus-ex-wife.html

How can the slut claim she never knew the child was not the man's?

You did not know you were sleeping with more than one man during the time you got pregnant? You did not know if you are opening your legs to more than one man at a time, any of them can be the father when you get pregnant, slut?

Pure lack of accountability.

There is no woman who has engaged in paternity fraud that does not know she was potentially being fraudulent. End of!

She then calls him an "insecure man" for doing the paternity test on the bastard she brought into his house for him to raise.

Then she tries and turn the tables around on him by claiming emotional abuse and that she is the "victim".

A totally selfish gender that hates taking accountability.

Jewessgratitud3:
The same you men that go about patronizing olosho will come here condemning them. Without you guys there won't be any olosho so you made them therefore deal with it when you marry one. Any man who patronized an olosho during his single days must marry olosho. No two ways about it because like begat like.

It's only someone who married an olosho that will be worried about his childs parternity. Even as a woman, if you know yourself no need to worry if the man says he's going to do a parternity test either secretly or openly. Let him do it. Na him money go waste. Ndi Uch.u

The Oloshos were raaaped?

They could not say no to the request/patronising of the men?

It is never you women's fault even when you do wrong or do things out of your own free will, abi?

You are NEVER accountable for your actions? It is always men's fault?

Selfish beings!