Blendy77: My Sons will marry for love and commitment and nothing more. If the love directs them to single mothers so be it. U guys will leave important things in marriage and be chasing shadows and end up marrying the wrong person All the high rate of divorce recorded in recent times shey na single mothers cause am? or the stories of wives killing their husbands n vice versa shey na single mothers cause am? I have been tagged n mentioned over 20 times cos of my opinion and many insulting me as if I send una message Make una go marry vir.gin wey go send una to una early grave as if single mothers no be human beings.
Let me pray for your sons.
May all your sons only find and select good, well-behaved and lovely single-mothers of at least 3 kids by other men to marry.
May all your sons only select such women to marry and the women become good wives to them.
May none of your sons ever marry any girl that has not produced for, and is raising a child of, another man.
buJu234: No family wants their son to bring a woman with another man's kids into their family.. (especially African society)
That's why if u re lady, and u want to sleep around do that with protection, also if your daughter comes home with pregnancy.. remove it ASAP , because u re saving her future by sacrificing today..
Lastly, to all single ladies, the society loves you but none wants you in their son's life..
So jst move on with your life.. if you find love good.. if not move on..
Only a man that feels worthless without any option will settle for a woman that will still get humped easily by her baby daddy, and possibly leave with her kids in the future after the mumu man have used his resources to train her kids.
Only a man that feels literally worthless!!
She was giving the most useless advice to men to favour women.
It is amazing the way the average woman will comfortably vomit nonsense as advice to men to encourage the men to work in ways to favour women.
Astonishing!!!
Blendy77: With the kind of comments i read here, most single mothers will just continue to deceive men that their kids are their siblings cos majority have the mindset that single mums are no go area. Am not a single mum but I can assure you that most single mums are great to be with. If not for anything, men should go for them for the fact that they are fertile and can give birth.
So what proportion of young girls, without kids, are barren that one has to be so worried about this, he should settle for a single mother and go raise another person's child while being third-class concern of his wife?
Blendy77: Secondly having a child already calling you Dad and u learning parenting skills before yours arrive is not something u pay from the market.
A man needs to learn skills of a child calling him "Dad"?
What the hell are you smoking?
A man needs to pay for raising another man's child for circa 10 to 15 years just because he "needs" to learn how to be called a "Dad"?
Blendy77: And children provoke Gods blessing most times so when u dedicate your time to father a child that is not yours biologically, you are invoking Gods blessing. The few men I've interviewed concerning this issue gave excuses like "I don't want to compete or share my love with another man's child. Haba? na small pikin dey give some men complex? Give single mothers a chance cos many of them already learnt their lessons and will become great spouse if given the opportunity to love again. Otherwise dem go just dey deceive una say na my Mama last born and u will still train the child either directly or indirectly
More totally tosh, worthless and selfish advice.
Provoke God's blessing ko, provoke Spirit's defence ni.
What provokes God blessing is when you shagg many women and produce many children. Abi, no be God say make we go out there and procreate? Abi he said go out there are raise other's children.
Total selfish nonsense you wrote like a typical women. Only your interests and benefit matters and men should focus on only that and forget theirs. SELFISH BEINGS!
Every man should aim to find a young woman with a fresh body, un-utilised womb, no children baggage, no baby-daddy baggage, who would focus her attention mostly on her husband until she gives birth to their children and who will have children that will never be able to deny as their father the man that used his resources to raise them.
Majority of single mothers should know they have messed up somewhere in life and there are consequences for that mess up. I say "majority" because people like widows are excepted.
The consequences they face is that they should realise that after having their child(ren), their value has significantly dropped in the dating market. Sagged boobs, droopy belly, added weight, less shapely and a child or children to be taken care of and paid attention to, makes them less attractive and valuable to a man. Acknowledging and accepting that will go a long way in giving them a chance to lower their expectations & demands and finding a man. They will need to compensate with stress-free personality, agree-ability, good sex and domestication to improve their dating value.
sukkot: they love the wins and trophies but hate that it iis a black man behind it. its a confusing situation for them
Continue blaming "them" and "victimhood" for your, and your race's, perpetual failure.
Sorry to tell you, you are from a race with low IQ and the dumbest one in the world; where only very few can achieve much.
You need the white man; the white man has no need of you except for manual labour and physical activities.
They are not jealous of you, don't see you as equals, don't see you as competition and don't see you as a threat. They have no need to waste time devising how to destroy you or hold you down. They know you are 100% below them, will perpetually remain below them because of your significantly lower IQ and your little achievements are not comparable. They CANNOT be your hater!
The tyranny of using Nigerian Police and the band of daft quacks called DSS to terrorise Nigerians in the name of libel/slander continues.
Libel/slander should be a civil issue that has nothing to do with security, hence nothing to do with any security outfit. But the crooked black monkeys voted into NASS put up this law of arrest to protect themselves of being accused of corruption.
iExplore: I don't understand how nose piercing and waist beads are turn offs for some men. I find them sexy and very attractive. Why do some men hate them?
Future wifey (if there will be one) will surely have nose piercing
Because they have sense!
I don't know how piercing your face and putting metal in it can make someone look feminine and attractive.
Hate piercings and large tattoos on a woman with a deep passion.
For me, such girls are for recreational use only. Can NEVER put them in the house as "wife". Thrash is supposed to be put outside as soon as possible after use.
EdiskyHarry: If you are up to 18 years and you still believe that someone can use juju to steal another person's manhood, then you are the most stupid person on the planet Earth.
Only daft, low-IQ black monkeys will believe it is possible for someone to use juju to steal someone's manhood.
If you or your father, mother siblings, relatives or friends ever believed such stories in the first place, know such believers are just "daft, low-IQ black monkeys"! Know una too stuuuuupid to be called humans and deserve to be used as slaves!
XtraFortunes: The tribalism in Nigeria is worse than the racism in America.
Like somebody said sometime ago it is better to live in an advanced country with racist than to live in an under developed country like Nigeria with tribalism
Even me I have become tribalistic as I can not be friends with a Fulani man as I see all of them as killer herdsmen now. Will you blame me? After seeing Fulani herdsmen kill, kidnap and rape people with non of them brought to justice by government.
What a foolish level of reasoning and justification of reasoning.
CandidAdmin: Food for thought - Germans see you as Halmitic race from europe settlers. What the hell is Halmatic? Italians see you as illegal immigrants. TRUE! You are! North Americans see you as non-human apes. TRUE! You are! Japan see Africa as continent in need of help. So as China. TRUE! You are! China see you as black faces with bad luck. CHINESE ARE IDIOTS THEN! US see you as primitive and full of disease. They also see Africa as a jungle full of wild animals. TRUE! You are! Australians see you as primitive. TRUE! You are! Koreans see you as people without water and basic amenities as depicted in the movie shooting stars. TRUE! You are! Some people see Africans as fraudsters especially Nigerians. Also see Africa one poor country. MOSTLY NONSENSE
Stereotyper of Africa gotten from wikipedia.
I just talk say make I remind you ni ooo. No pun intended.
PCAN Executive Director, Alhaji Abdulkareem Ubaydah and Secretary, Muhammad Rabiu Awwal are pure reeetards!
You can see when human's with baboon brains that are numerous in Nigeria make statements and complaints.
What is "juicy" to these cretins?
Have these reetarded illiterates even produced any full statistics to show "imbalanced"?
This is what you get when you have people who were probably failed by their parents; who probably prioritised 'memorisation of the Quran' over 'good quality early education' in their primary years. Future limitations, and probably even failure, has been laid early in their lives.
olawonder: The video was first posted on YouTube by an overhyper mumu who just doesn’t understand the value of dollars in millions! I can’t believe ppl just continue to repost making same claim… do you guys really know what $700 milly is? Not even in the US was any home listed for $700m
sentee: Folorunsho Alakija's Mansion: the most expensive house in Nigeria is Folorunsho Alakija's Mansion. The mansion is prized at a whooping $700 million. Folorunsho Alakija's Mansion is also rated as the most expensive residential house in Africa and the 4th most expensive residential house in the world. The house is owned by Africa’s richest woman and former richest black woman in the world Mrs. Folorunsho Alakija. The house is located in Ikoyi, Lagos state, Nigeria. The house is a 22-floor mansion and it is entirely bullet proof. The mansion was designed and built by Julius Berger a German construction company.