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frozen70:
For a father to think of doing a secret DNA test with out the consent or wife knowledge

Shows that, the relationship of that union has not been stable both with love and respect

If you want to do a DNA test inform the mother and she has to be aware

She will have no right to insist on saying no to it

But if it comes out with a positive news that the child is yours that means the child is yours

Forever and ever both of you will keep having trust problems for ever suspecting her

Why does a man need to inform her or she needs to be aware?

Nextt:
Many years ago, a man killed his wife and himself when he discovered that none of his kids belonged to him.

I just read that a man beheaded his wife after he discovered that none of all his children belongs to him. The reason he cited for killing her is that she often came to his place of work to embarrass him for child support knowing full well none of the children was fathered by him.

There are so many horror storries that attend paternity fraud.

My conclusion: save yourself heartache and high blood pressure by performing DNA test on your kids only IF you suspect foul play.

Do you now see why it is extremely necessary to seek the face of God before you marry that God may direct your steps to a peaceful and lasting marital relationship filled with mutual trust?

While I don't advocate violence in these kind of cases of paternity fraud, I would make exception for this story.

That was a good kill! He was justified.

Beverlyjean:
Ronaldo won more titles than Henry in England...he broke goal scoring records, he won the champions league in England ...won top scorer in champions league, won balon dor... Henry cudnt achieve all that ....

Stop talking nonsense.

Manchester United won champions league, not Ronaldo, olodo.

And Messi was more successful at PSG than Ronaldo was at Man United.

Kobojunkie:
Well, once a DNA test is necessary to vefying trust it means the relationship itself lacked trust. How many people are willing to remain in a relationship where trust has been proven by the need for DNA verification to lack?

So the moment you start thinking you need to DNA test the kids, it means your have near no trust in the relationship yourself and need the DNA verification to convince you to have some in the relationship. Such a man has pretty much checked and is only looking for a reason to completely exit the situation. Even if the tests prove no unfaithfulness, the man who once has no trust left would need to do work in order to revamp his interest in said relationship.

Yes, the moment you start feeling your husband cannot have female friends and hang out with them, you should not be willing to stay in the relationship. You have pretty much checked out and only looking for a reason to completely exit the situation.

Just end it!

The moment you refuse to hire a woman as a househelp or nanny because she is quite hot, her body is banging and you worry your husband might end up fancying her and temptation might lead to them having sex so you decide to hire the ugly girl or older past-it woman, you should not be willing to stay in the relationship. You have pretty much checked out and only looking for a reason to completely exit the situation.

Just end it!

gabbytabby:
Husband has a right to know but at times when you want peace and they are giving you peace you can choose to let sleeping dogs rest.

I would love to be your neighbour and know your wife.

Kobojunkie:
Did any of those women put guns to the heads of any of those men they are in relationships with? If you check, na the men ask them out so?

2. Focus! The op asked about a man doing secret DNA tests.. dont derail the thread with your particular delusinsn abeg!

Nonsense points!

Your argument was that a relationship should probably be ended when acts that you regarded does not show automatic "trust" is demonstrated. And I gave you the implication of your weak argument.

What the hell as 'who asked who out' got to do with that? Or if guns or magun were used for the chat up? Or what has 'who cooked the best asaro' got to do with your weak point?

Selfish beings! You just want to have advantages and privileges but no accountability for women, right?

Just admit that it was silly to say a relationship should be ended because one party has concerns about fidelity. Not only women are allowed to have that and men should be trusting mugus because "women deserve it".

MzansiCoolio:
The one buying and using is now kicking u out of SA and you're crying Xenophobia! Do u have any decent SA friends - not! You're an outcast and reject.

That still does not stop the fact that it is the foool that is buying and using. Right?

Sleekfingers:
I did DNA for my 2 sons, without telling my wife. But she later found out. She was angry, saying all kinda stuffs. I didn't even say a word. Planning to do for my daughter too.
Because Nigeria is the headquarter of paternity fraud. So my advice to any sensible Nigerian is to do DNA oooo.

She can shove her anger up her ass!

Kobojunkie:
That is it! Once you begin to tamper with trust, you might as well end the relationship there and then.

Then 98% of women should not be in a relationship then.

Once they use side eye to try to find out who is on the screen of a man's phone calling him, ................end the relationship.

cutesharon:
As a lady, it is not bad since she is sure there is no foul play na. As long as it is also okay for the woman to secretly leave the marriage after the test due to trust issues. A courageous man will confront the wife before such test.

Yep, it is okay.

She can leave and go and be single mother on the streets.

No sane man should want hypocrites who blatantly exhibit their trust issues against men anyway.

Some selfish beings don't want to trust men but demand men must trust them.

A woman that is not a slut and has never been slutty would not be worried about testing if the kids she claims belongs to a man actually belongs to him.

MzansiCoolio:
The one crying about xenophobia is the one selling - and his corntree

That does not stop the fact that it is the foool that is buying and using.

Yep!!!

When you have community sluts like Uzoamaka Ohiri on the streets of Nigeria, it is a sensible action.

TemplarLandry:
He really embarrassed himself.
We will replace him with someone younger and agile.

Calabar1stSon:
Only greed can be responsible for this. Old cargos that have decided not to step aside for younger generations.

Yes, it is the profoundly foolish "yoots" that can save Nigeria.

MzansiCoolio:
Sell less 🇳🇬

The fool is the person buying and using, not the person selling.

MzansiCoolio:
Yes, i got it from Nigerians.

Smoke less of it, boy.

MzansiCoolio:
Go take a dump in a gutter where you live and eat🇳🇬

You have been taking too much whoonga again today, boetie?

penta:
Saudi Arabia

It is obvious you like not seeing women and waanking most nights instead.

AllenSpencer:
Brazil 🤣🤣🤣

Are you joking?

Brazil is just another Nigeria!

Except with hotter women.

Starz825:
if I have my way ...I don't wanna be born into this world ever again...

All Glory to God tho...but for me there is absolutely nothing special about this place....Money, properties, Tourism , women, pussy, wine etc....

I just wan dey heaven for my peace abeg

There are ways to get there fast, stop wasting time in this world.

MzansiCoolio:
🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🎉🥳 but not in the Nigerian slum of Hillbrow

Wait another 20 years until after ANC finishes your country, you will be begging Botswana to let you enter as an economic migrant.

Sirhush:
American jor cost I no ready for all the stress here

And America is stressless or has little stress?

Abeg, excuse me, make I spend some time laughing at your ignorance.

MrsTwrite:
Say No to drugs!

Say Yes to killing those who are violent after taking drugs.

Kill them all.

Ijingaojimi:
Abbas Muhammad:
6 Major Findings about Tinubu from the CSU Documents

By Farooq Kperogi

Both pro- and anti-Tinubu news outlets and blogs are selectively reporting the documents that Chicago State University handed over to former Vice President Atiku Abubakar yesterday. Here are 6 non-partisan tidbits I discovered from poring over them:

1. Chicago State University’s Office of the Registrar affirmed that Bola A. Tinubu indeed attended the university “from August 1977 through June 1979” and was “awarded a Bachelor of Science in Business Administration with Honors on June 22, 1979.”

The registrar also swore to this under oath. The penalty for lying under oath in America can be steep. It is punishable by up to 10 years in prison.

This information is consistent with my September 2, 2023, column titled, “Tinubu Definitely Graduated from Chicago State University.”

2. The certificate (we call it “diploma” in the US) that Tinubu submitted to INEC is inconsistent with the certificates CSU issued in 1979 and subsequently, indicating that Tinubu forged his. (In the US, diplomas are mere ceremonial documents that most employers don’t ask for. Transcripts directly from universities are the usual ways to verify attendance and graduation.)

Although he did legitimately graduate from Chicago State University in 1979, he obviously lost his certificate and, instead of applying for a replacement, decided to forge it.

That strikes me as mysterious self-harm. It costs only $26 to get a replacement diploma from CSU. But it takes between eight and 10 weeks to receive it after filling out the Diploma Replacement Order Form.

My guess is that, in the typical last-minute, fire-brigade approach to things among Nigerian elites, Tinubu didn’t plan ahead and didn't have enough time to apply for his replacement diploma from CSU to meet INEC's deadline and decided to visit Lagos’ infamous “Oluwole” for a counterfeit replacement.

3. The Southwest College transcript that Tinubu used to get admitted to Chicago State University belongs to a female. I had questioned the authenticity of the transcript because of the many errors in it, such as the date and social security number. We await what CSU has to say about this.

This reality, though, seems to validate uncorroborated but long-standing whispers from the grapevine that Tinubu, who was allegedly born Lamidi Amoda [Yoruba Muslim domestication of Abdulhamid Ahmed] Sangodele in Osun State’s Iragbiji, stole the identity of a female Bola Adekunle Tinubu to go to America.

4. Nonetheless, this whisper may be difficult to sustain in light of the fact that Tinubu’s Chicago State University admission letter dated August 23, 1977, was addressed to “Mr. Tinubu,” not Ms. or Miss Tinubu.

Was the “F” in the transcript from Southwest College a clerical error, especially because the social security number and the dates were also clerical errors? Or was there a cover-up somewhere?

Well, we saw from the documents released to Atiku that after accepting his transfer credits from Southwest College (which later became Daley College), CSU required Tinubu to take qualifying exams in English, math, and reading, which he passed. Why did CSU allow a man who presented a transcript that belonged to a woman to take qualifying exams as a man?

Tinubu obviously identified as a man throughout the two years he studied at the school. A Nigerian CSU graduate and classmate of Tinubu’s swore under oath that Tinubu ran for and won election as president of CSU's accounting students’ association. His yearbook photo from 1979 also clearly showed a younger version of Tinubu.

And Tinubu’s handwriting and signature in the June 27, 2022, Consent to Release Student Education Records form, which authorized CSU to release his academic records to one Oluwole Afolabi of 3 Roosevelt Avenue, West Orange, New Jersey, seems to me similar to his handwriting and signatures in his CSU records.

Finally, if he used a woman’s associate degree from Southwest College to gain admission to CSU without having any background in accounting or business administration, his performance at CSU was perplexing. Of the more than 30 courses he took there, he got C’s in only three courses. The rest were A’s and B’s, which earned him honors.

5. The Bola A. Tinubu who applied to Southwest College for an associate degree in 1975 claimed to have attended Government College, Lagos, and presented a 1970 GCE A-level result with grades E in Chemistry and Biology and an F in Physics. The problem is that Government College, Lagos, was established in 1974. So, there’s a chronological conundrum there, which signposts forgery.

The GCE A-level result also shows that “Bola A. Tinubu” took the exam as an HSC student, which used to be a two-year study after 5 years of secondary school education. In other words, the owner of the certificate must have graduated from secondary school at least in 1968.

It’s not clear at the moment if the GCE A-level result is fake or authentic—or if it belongs to the man we know today as President Bola A. Tinubu. My hunch is that it doesn’t belong to him. But this will become clear in the coming days.

6. Tinubu tells the world that he was born on March 29, 1952, but the birthday recorded in his CSU transcript says he was born on March 29, 1954. The space for birthday in the Southwest College transcript he submitted to CSU is blank. So is the record of his secondary school education. These facts added to my previous suspicion that the transcript was probably fake.

If he was born in 1954, it means he was 14 years old when he graduated from high school.

Bonus: Tinubu’s last name was misspelled in a few of the CSU documents. I thought the “THUBV” misspelling in his final graduation record was bad enough until I saw “Tinububu” in one of the documents.🤣 Bubu, remember, is Buhari’s nickname among a vast swath of Nigerians. Make of that what you will.

We should all thank VP Atiku Abubakar for his doggedness, which has helped us to get this much clarity about Tinubu’s past.

5. The Bola A. Tinubu who applied to Southwest College for an associate degree in 1975 claimed to have attended Government College, Lagos, and presented a 1970 GCE A-level result with grades E in Chemistry and Biology and an F in Physics. The problem is that Government College, Lagos, was established in 1974. So, there’s a chronological conundrum there, which signposts forgery.

This is the only place where there is a potential for wrongdoing.

But, it will be between him and the US government.

I think, despite this, the fact he took tuition in Southwest College and CSU and passed their exams, then his certificates from these will still be valid.

“The government that wants the refineries to work knows what they are doing. Having our own refineries guarantees energy security and would also create more jobs." - Mike Osatuyi

This Mike Osatuyi is a reeeetard and son of a pure whoooore!

If they know what they are doing, you daft cuuunt, how come the refineries are not working?

Bloody son of a community whooore!

This is a MAN!!!

He is not like the Wimp called Dave Umahi.

UnfairLife7:
Olodo the world doesn't revolve around you. Don't expect all men to reason like you.

You ARE married to a single mother, aint you?

UnfairLife7:
stop sprewing trash comfortably biko. Those single ladies you prefer might have done series of abortion with multiple body count. I know a single mother of one who was deflowered by her husband but sadly the man was irresponsible and she had to leave

I will chose such single mother one million times over your over used single ladies🤣

I would chose (beyond casual sex) any woman who is poor at selecting the men she gives her body to.

FRANCISTOWN:
Isn't it better to be celibate instead of f^cking with a single mom?

How is that better?

aeak1yahoocom:
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No o!

It should be $200bn.

Joker!

Blendy77:
You are a man, if life happens to ur daughters n sisters and they find themselves as single mothers either as divorcees or widows at a young age, advise them to remain single all their lives cos u forbid remarriage for single mums.

It is obvious from your statements that you only care and focus on the interests of women. Men's interests and what is best for them is secondary or irrelevant; they just need to exist to ensure women's interests are satisfied.

Selfish being from an extremely selfish gender.

Jeezuzpick:
You're dumb.

Brain dead.

Mr IQ13, na you dey call someone "brain dead"?

Blendy77:
Use same energy pray for ur daughters n sisters that if they make mistakes in life with first marriage or they become widow at an early age may they never find love again in life due to ur mentality of single mothers must not remarry in Jesus name amen

No.

I pray my sons only find and select good, well-behaved and lovely young girls without ant baggage to marry. Your sons will have what you wish on and advise other people's sons to take as good for them.

My daughters will never be dumb enough to select wrongly, pick wrong men, get pregnant for these guys and keep the baby. I will leave women like that for your sons to come and raise those kids of at least 3.

My daughters will be drilled early, be responsible women and would be aware they will be held accountable for their choices and no man owes them to come and save them for their choices if they mess up.

They will pick responsible & good men and marry those ones once and raise their kids together. They will not be candidates as wives for your sons and we will not need your sons income to raise my grandkids.