₦airaland Forum

Emperormartin:
It is when all of us will die in this country that this country will be divided

Country that is not united a bit is what you all have been trying to unite all along.

Take it or leave it even if this boy is incarcerated and finally served his prison sentence it doesn't change him of being anti Igbo.

You can't force unity on those who's not interested.

Name 5 great countries that the people are united.

Hang the reeetard quick!

shortgun:
This is just the beginning, bad economic policies will affect everyone adversely.

Wow!

You are a proper Anal-ist!

jmoore:
Some people don't get the picture. It means naira is losing value.

That 500,000 naira in your account on May 29th this year is now worth around 300,000 naira and would reduce further.

If you think your own value has not reduced too, then you have been deceived.

Nonsense!

How is the ordinary man's Naira losing value?

It is clear it is you that do not get the picture.

Samunique:
I received this news with all pleasure, maybe and maybe this might be the end of these men, most especially Dangote who has the destinies of millions of Nigerians through monopoly.

The day Dangote is dismantled will be the beginning of the libration of this great country.

I can guarantee you that your life will have ended even before they lose their hair. Talk less of becoming non-billionaires.

TemplarLandry:
Now it's clear they've been benefiting from the discrepancies of our economic system.

And so?

Jossyfine:
Let me mention at least 5 prominent women with killer shape and cheating husbands:
May Edochie
Annie Idiabia
Regina Nwoke( Ned other wives are damsels, yet he still craves for other wives)
Caroline Danjuma
Adaeze Nwapa( former DG nigeria content monitoring board’s wife.)


There are a lot around the society that are not social figures.

Men are just insiatiable.

I knew you would struggle to name 10.

If you can only name 5 in known people's world, despite knowing lots of known people (maybe well over 100), then the rate will be worse in wider society.

Now let me go through the women you claim have "Killer" figures (hope you did not mean "Killer Whale" figures )

May Edochie
Darling, this is not a killer figure. It is just an okay figure despite probably all her body contouring tools.

There are no bikini shots or skin-tight/latex-wearing picture of her. And one thing about women is that, if they are proud of it, they will flaunt it.

Just based on her shape while fully dressed (and with contouring tools), I would score her "fake" figure 8/10 for a woman of her age (38).

For all attractive women in general, I would drop her figure down to 6/10 (with contouring).


Annie Idiabia
Okay, I would give her a 9/10.

But she choose and fought for a dog herself, so she has no one to blame but herself.


Regina Nwoke
There are no picture of Ned Nwoke's wives online apart from Laila Charani, so I don't know how you concluded that his other wives are "damsels".

Or are you just being a typical woman where you create "reality" as what you wish it was?

Only Laila Charani that I saw her picture, and yes she was in shape, that said she is not the first wife and she is a Muslim, so she knew the arrangment she entered.


Caroline Danjuma
Are you having a laugh?

Another one that likes to flaunt her body online, but never in bikini or skin-tight/latex-clothes.

I would score her body 6/10, and I would not rule out she has done liposuction.

And she is someone that lies about her age. Only God knows what else she lies about to look attractive.


Adaeze Nwapa

Don't know and can't see who you are talking about.


So it is not like if these women are rocking Liz Hurley, Sophia Vergara, Jennifer Lopez, Beyonce, Kate Beckinsale, Heidi Klum, Manuela Arcuri, Aishwarya Rai' looks after childbirth.

Put any of those women I listed on Google search with the word "bikini" and you will see pictures of them still wearing bikini after childbirth and at older ages.

And note that majority of these women are older than the ones you listed.

Jossyfine:
Ur points are valid but have you noticed many rich men with beautiful damsels as wives still cheats.And most of these wives have killer shapes.
So the problem is not because their wives are fat or shapeless but they lack the spirit of contentment.

Most African couple especially the men don’t create room for romance even when their wives initiate it, they feel it a waste of time and resources.

But in all we move regardless 👍

That is why I said men's infidelity is a key contributor.

This is said, "beautiful damsels as wives and most of these wives have killer shapes" are really great exceptions. They are very rare and don't represent a large population.

I am sure if I asked you to name 10 such women, you will totally struggle.

Reeetarded Nigerians (including journalists on major newspapers) have decided to say she is a "Nigerian mother" because of her name.

There is no record this woman is Nigerian or has Nigerian heritage, dumbos!

Jossyfine:
All the comments above have not actually hit the nail in the right place. The major issue is that African marriages are not laced with romance and affection.
How do I mean?
* Most couple stop showing affection to each other once they start bearing kids and over see finish has crawled into their marriage.
* African couples rarely make out for themselves alone in terms of going on dates ( at least once in a while)
* Marriage is what you put in it ,that’s what you get, you should learn to do things together ie weekends both man and wife can create time to put the huz in order( not by force) but with love cuz it creates bond between couples.
*You can create low budget vacation for just you both without the kids.
*Once in a while try having sex outside the huz, look for an affordable hotel around ur area and maybe do just one night.
* Marriage shouldn’t be about the kids, cuz have noticed what most couple talk about the kids, bills and family issues.Spice it up a little and gist about ur selves, probably the sex you had the previous night😜
* Let there be stewardship ( you guys should always review ur attitude towards each other by asking if each is meeting up expectations etc)*

*Most African couple rarely send romantic messages unlike when they were dating when most times you wake up to see sweet soul piercing messages from ur lover. But in marriage all the messages are for purchases of huz hold items.

Marriage is sweet but not in Africa. Africa marriages are very boring😭

Am just wondering how I survived 10 freaking years 😳😳😳and it’s still counting 😔

Abeg, stop talking crap!

Marriage is sweet in the West where they do "romance" and "affection", but yet they are having 50% divorce rates?

Romance and affection ko, Lasgidance and defection ni.

If there are anythings that destroy marriages in Africa, they are:

- Men's infidelity and broke-ness
- Women's propensity to be fat, out of shape and unattractive immediately after the first kid

Attractive women make men involuntarily be nice and romantic to them by default. A broke man worrying about money cannot easily be romantic.

Good

They will see the danger, instead of avoiding it, they will say "God will get us there safely".

Go meet your God now.

EriMma1:
I've been observing this for some time now. Once a couple has lived together for ten years,
the closeness between them reduces. As in.. the man no longer sits with the wife to gist or even play. Meanwhile, you'll still see the woman trying to bond and wanting her man to always be around her.

I noticed this in one couple. In fact they are pastor and Mrs. The woman always follows the man every where and wants to sit where he's sitting but the man would clearly avoid her and go out of sight completely when the tailing becomes too much and only come back when the woman is no longer in sight. Why?

No man born of a woman will try such with me, I'll blank you like you're not there.

Women, you too should wise up and stop making yourselves too available. Make yourself a bit scarce and they'll value you.

1. He has seen her finish (that is, over familiarity); even if she herself is bothered to impress, she is no more that impressive to him.

2. She would most likely have declined in looks, as women age like milk.

3. There are better looking women out there now, that also look like a new thing to him, and that he wants and he is now regretting the one he has hooked permanently with.

4. He has spent years listening to her nagging, her illogical arguments, her selfish arguments, her high expectations, her emotional baggage and he is sick and tired of these.

Old woman with wall-paint on her face in desperation to remain attractive.

@Nwachi22, you dey see how things change?

You only know and reveal he asked for bribe from you when your criminality is being exposed?

Why did you not reveal it before?

Hadi Sirika, YOU ARE A CROOK!

seetomorrow:
I don't respond to senseless bigot, I know them from their comment

Some people are so poorly educated that they don't even know the meaning of "bigot".

You just thought it was a big word you wanted to use and you did not know it was not fit for the situation?

If you replaced "bigot" with "armed robber", the sense in your statement will not decrease. It will still be equally remarkedly senseless choice of word.

seetomorrow:
There is this question nobody is asking. Why was an Aircraft was hired and since it doesn't belong to Nigeria, why did the Government officials agreed to snap pictures with hired Aircraft?

Foooolish questions.

How is hiring an aircraft or posting to take pictures with it a crime?

Lawalemi:
Una dey kolo o. Hilda has opened the door for you copy cats

May they all fail so we can mock them.

Useless Nigerians without original thinking.

Shebbs:
Yes The Man Is Immature And The Lady In Question Is Mature Enough For Eating 12k On A Date Without Considering If The Man Can Afford That Amount At The Time, Knowing Fully Well Her Phone Is Off. You’re Just Another Useless Goat, No Sense.

No mind the hungry delusionals.

Nwachi22:
Nna, there is no need pointing out anything to you because it’s obvious we don’t have same level of exposure and understanding.
I don’t want to end up trading words with you because that’s where you’re headed.

All I ask you was to point out the place where you held her accountable for her bad behaviour.

It is not rocket science except you did not.

Nwachi22:
Lol. It’s obvious that aside lack of exposure, you’re also mentally sick and need help.

You talk like someone who was conceived, born and bread under Ikeja bridge. So uncultured behaviour.

Won’t reply your messages again.

I am not the one who thinks I should pick the place where someone will take me on a date and the person will be paying.

The person with such an entitlement mentality is the person with uncultured behaviours; who is hungry because she was conceived, born and bread under Abule Egba bridge.

pansophist:
But 12k small na. I mean, some restaurants inflate prices so high that just a bottle of wine and food might be bothering 20k. But again, this is a situation of medicine after death.

As a man, if 12k is too much to pay, then don't go to a restaurant that charges a lot. Also, who brought up this idea that dates have to be about eating and spending huge?

How about a date in the park, or at the beach? so you buy snacks from the supermarket, sit somewhere, talk, and enjoy nature/views? Without the noise, distraction, and encapsulating spaces that are typical of eateries?

We should really be easy on people. 12k is not much. He could have just paid but signed off from her matter. The 12k he spent becomes the sacrifice he has to bear to not be with someone he aint compatible with.

I mean the babe was begging, is his heart made of stone? come on. I repeat, 12k is not much. And as a man, you should know that you lead the tempo. If she suggests what seems like an off-limit to your pocket, you say no.

If you are asking a girl out, you retain the privilege to pick a place you can afford. If she refuses to go because she has a higher taste, then you just end it there, no need to dress up and get this disgraceful result which could have been filtered from the start.

Oga, cut the crap!

If you tried those other dating approaches, majority of the time, the girl's pussy will dry up and you will be seen and labelled as cheap. Most will even be making fun of the guy with their friends afterwards.

Cut the crap and lay the blame 100% where it should be and stop putting the woman as a "victim". This girl wanted to milk him.

Women should learn etiquette on a date:

1) Let the man state where he wants to take you on a date.

2) Come alone!!! Not with your friend(s) or child(ren). It is not a free meal for all time.

3) Be sensitive and try not to over-order. A good measure is try not to order things costing more than he is ordering (so it is smart, important and tactical to ensure he orders first) OR, at worst, don't order things that are more than 20% more expensive. (Stay clear of the most expensive 4 mains on the menu except he is also ordering them)

4) Only order more than in (2) if he keeps insisting you should have more or is ordering more for you.

5) Always carry enough money with you or have enough in your bank to cover what you ordered in (2); not necessarily (3)

6) Ensure you are not boring, or on your phone, during the date; create and engage in good conversation.

7) Be a lady, bring out your wallet and offer to split the bill, even though he would most likely turn you down and pay in full. Cut the foolish selfish nonsense of "whoever asked the other person out should pay" [Selfish women's logic].

8.) Whether you split the bill or he pays it in full, politely thank him for the date and day out.

Simple!

She should not think she is entitled to his money, to be spent on and be treated like a queen because she has a puuuussy and he wants her, so she can milk and drain him.

Going on a date should not be a torment, exploitation, degradation or humiliation of men; where a woman feels powerful and entitled.

@Nwachi22, please come and learn to rebuild your brain to learn how to be a lady. The things you were not taught when you were growing up, can be learnt online in the 21st century.

Nwachi22:
I understand your type and I pray they never come my way. I can’t descend down to your level to trade words with you.
You simply lack exposure and have limited knowledge. That I understand .

I understand you are the type that feel you are the ish and prize.

They are many of you in the modern day. Delusionals!

Stop the delusion. You are definitely not a prize! You are of low value as a partner and need brain re-engineering to understand how to be a proper lady, who is valuable enough for the real prize: a top man that has status, and who can provide and protect.

Delusionals usually end up on the shelf. Many as washed-up, past-it single mothers, still keeping up their moral and ego by publicly saying they are single because they are looking for a high quality and high value real men, and that there are none available in the world anymore, when the reality is that those kind of men are plentiful but just would not want them and are busy with attractive young girls. Worse for the Delusionals is that average men don't want their past-it assses too; beyond using them for sex.

Nwachi22:
You did not read the part I mentioned that most men don’t appreciate when I opt to share the bill or take care of the bill. Some say that it makes a lady appear rude to them. The reason why I try to discern and work with what the man has at the moment and support him (if he permit me).

The part I want to read is the part where you are calling the woman out and holding her accountable.

Can you direct me to that part?

All I see is your attempt at blaming a man and holding a man accountable for a woman's bad behaviour.

Nwachi22:
Ofcourse, the guys that date me give me the luxury to choose where I would like us to hang out. Trust me, I look at a man’s pocket first before taking that decision. I understand that all five fingers are not equal.
Atimes, when we go out, I pay the bill. It’s no big deal.

Now it is "they give you the luxury to choose", not that you tell them where to take you?

So, by some miracle of coincidence, the rare scenarios where men ask a woman to choose where they will like to go for a date, is the norm in your own life?

Yeah right!

SIGN language being employed here!

S-I-G-Need to win tactics. A woman will lie to ensure she wins a point at all cost when she is in a jam.

"the guys that date me give me the luxury to choose where I would like us to hang out" ........................bollocks lie after seeing her folly.

Cut the crap. You are entitled and selfish, hence you are not worthy of a man of substance to date or take seriously.

Many of you woman lack the personality, mentality, skills and dating ethics to be of value to a man.

"I pick the restaurant where I want to be taken" ..............What dafucking chic!

Icrave4u:
You earn my respect! I love ur maturity and your sense of reasoning on this!

Desperate simp!

Nwachi22:
There are classy restaurants that they sell a plate of food 20K and above.

Personally, when a guy approache me, I first weigh his pocket, before picking up a place for us to hangout. If the guy appears to be struggling financially, I opt for cheap restaurants where I can take only meat pie and soft drink or water but if the guy is buoyant, I opt for a fancy restaurant and I always ensure that my ATM card is funded incase we may need to split the bill.
Atimes when you ask to share a bill with a guy, some get offended, while some does not have issues with it.

I feel sorry for the men that date you.

You pick the restaurant or place to hangout?

And she is saying it as if she is so reasonable and considerate.

These are the quality of women and the etiquette they bring that we are supposed to value and pick from?

Nwachi22:
Your comment is so mature and on point.
First the guy know the type of lady you’re taking out on a date. If the lady suggests they go to an expensive restaurant, the guy should quickly decline and open up on what he is willing to spend. Not the type that brags, and at the end of the day, they cannot even pay for meat pie and bottle water.

And she patted the lap dog simp on the head.

holybabayo:
How come she is the one under pressure here. The waitress should hold the guy. The girl no sharp.
Some of these girls may not mean to out spend what the guy can't afford. Some guys are just fake. Just tell the girl say please sorry I'm not bucked up enough for that . No girl will buy something under that circumstances. Chances are she will like you or not like you. But when you keep quite and she makes orders that makes you get on the edge, the entire date will suck. You will be uneasy and not really talking and smiling. Even if you pay, you will not be happy.
So give yourself sense by taking some lead. Pick the venue, keep the order under limit. If you are in a strange place, keep your eyes on the price list. Say things are very expensive here babe. I can only afford items xyz here o. Be safe. Be smart. Don't come spoil everything by keeping quite and come make girl to cry or waitress insult you.
If you get sense, chances are you may still get the girl. But if you mumu, you will lose the girl

You really thought you made sense when you wrote this nonsense?

The waitress will hold the guy for what?

Einstein, please explain.

Nwachi22:
Your comment is so mature and on point.
First the guy know the type of lady you’re taking out on a date. If the lady suggests they go to an expensive restaurant, the guy should quickly decline and open up on what he is willing to spend. Not the type that brags, and at the end of the day, they cannot even pay for meat pie and bottle water.

As usual, see the way she only placed accountability on the man.

So the man is accountable for letting her know his pocket?

But she is not accountable for not suggesting an expensive restaurant but should instead ask him what restaurant he wants to take her?

I feel sorry for men that take women seriously as a life partner.

Persephone1:
Things are freaking expensive now, the 12k food may be just a plate and drink. The man is immature , the lady should have paid the money or suggest to go Dutch on this.

May we not meet an immature man o

The man is immature?

But the woman is not immature?

See the way you did not condemn the woman. You could not call her greedy?

You are a typical woman. Just always want rights and privileges, but no accountabilities and blame?

And some fooolish men will put such selfish things in their homes and talk about "marriage is sweet" while living a miserable and quarrelsome life with a shamelessly selfish and illogical being.