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onstelly:
So sad but who is Becky

Thanks BUT She just aint on nairaland.

Moyola:
Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww!! hehehe!


. . .5ive yrz! n yu still waitin. . . shez prolly mistaken it 4 a frndship sooo true!

Beztchu tell her asap!!

U're right Moyola. Only IF i had known how to move from friendship to lover! I am too play-ish (sic)

talknafree:
Thanks for feeling my pain man. It's only a "passing madness". Time is a great healer. As for the cancer thingy, newayz, it's kinda benign, not malignant and had been taken care-of.
So touching!!!

Please don't just post this on nairaland. TELL BECKY.

You can even refer her to this link.

Is the cancer part real? accept my sympathy!!!

Dear Becky,

We've been friends for so long. There have been lots of tears and so much laughter between us. I feel closer to you than anyone else. I've listened and hurt every time you fell in love, longing to be the one in your arms. I've been there for you when every one of your relationships fell apart. You listened and cried with me when we found out about the cancer and you stood by my side through all of it. Now is the time to tell you that the waiting is over.

The love you so desperately seek is here in my arms. You've often asked why I'm not interested in any of the women who hit on me when we're all out. I've always told you they weren't the one for me. Now I'm telling you that you are the one for me. You’re the one I dream about. No one can make me laugh like you, even when I'm knee deep in tears. The reason I've been alone for five long years is this: I've been waiting for you to see the love in my eyes that's only for you. I'll wait forever if that’s how long it takes. I need you. I miss you when you’re gone, and I hurt when you’re sad. I love you, Becky, for everything you are.

Love Always,

Gbenga

A female frnd of mine called to stay at my place for some days which i obliged - unconditionally - and due to the fact that her room was submerged in water. I came back from church the second day to see her eventually flirting with me which culminated into romance only. She was relieved though. I expected the whole thing to grow with time BUT to my surprise, She never allowed me again, saying it just happened. This is her 5th day NOW. I begged to let mine "just" happen but she could only plead i pretend to forget the whole scene. Honestly i had nuffin in mind init BUT she woke me up. Is she playing mind games or what? Your candid advice will do, to overcome OR fall into this temptation.

[quote author=s.ohiemi link=topic=535912.msg6984969#msg6984969 date=1287661301]@op sowwi 4 your heartbreak,it must really have bin sumfin 4 u 2 come here and vent your anger.i'll juhz advise u to take heart.also don't be by urself all d tym,u'll notice not all men r d same.i hope u find a guy 2 fix and mend your heart.[/quote]My Brother who told u somebody's done anything to her. She has only succeeded in gaining 'our' attentions. I marvel at her notice-me-ity. lol

Good game, Mygoldie, and what a paradox!!!!!!!!!! U simply love men but our culture wouldnt permit you to say it directly. U have curtsy babe. I think I 'hate' women too IF u dont mind.

jennifer:
pls am in need someone to squat wit until l get my own place.am 25yrs.mail me thru dadsgal4real@yahoo.com

I sent u a mail and u can follow it up accordingly. But it's kinda a think thrice thingy. Best of luck lady!

papa190:
^^
and how many sugar boys do u have!

Have u got no idea on the subject matter? Pls stop derailing a potentially educating thread for those that hitherto had always neglected this subtle but powerful way to make your feelings known to somebody u luv? What an idler! no offence cos u may sting like a bee.

papa190:
iice what happened 2 your Shakespearian english today

This thread is quite different.
@190. She speaks urban english. check urbandictionary.com
@Iice. I'm feeling you - everytime!

But can people stil let us know how the feelings's like and how they have used it to make or break their r/ship. Is s/he always faint-hearted? does it command ambiguity? pls tell us.

Blueice4re:
What i do is to look deep into his eyes and he understands me.

Thanks Blueice. I feel you, ur eyes speaks 4 u and he's never faint-hearted as Iice hinted.
But why am i attracting different forms of Ices on this thread? I luv y'all - respect!

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Sometimes i do but mostly i just tell him whatever is on my mind. He definitely is not faint-hearted [/color]

I think u are absolutely right. u dont insinuate everything, especially your eneryday rituals. U only do when you cant say sumtin or feel timid or even when you want to communicate your feelings without feeling nasty.
Hence this cliche: 'Men want to be taught as if you teach them not; things proposed as things forgotten' - and you both feel good (win/win) afterwards.

@ Iice. Nobody can pretend not to understand what u wrote - so plain! Thanks.

I use this on my gf/s. whenever i need 2 have a tryst, i feel so shy to mention unlike some others. i simply go indirectly yet unknown to her while she feels she's the one initiating the act. It always feels great to me knowing i can never be disappointed at least to her.

How often do you use insinuation in your relationship? perhaps what you cant say normally or drunkenly (sic)? Pls share your experiences on this. Does it always work for you? Is there any demerit(s) attached to it? Let us drink from your cup of experience, guys/gurls.

text only!

JUST DROP YOUR CELL PHONE NUMBER WITH FIRST NAME HERE.

Any lonely gurl in ketu?

Thanks Bro. I only got a little frustrated.

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"Girls have sex to be loved, while boys love to have sex".

I used to hear luv does not envy, luv does not see fault, and ish. Havent we all broken it one way or the other?

cyntlating:
in need of a stable relatshp

cyntlating, i actuali feel and understand yor quest for a better r/ship after the break-up. I dnt mind to be JUST frnd to u, which may include confidante. How u doin'

Girl846:
Well if you desire a more serious connection you have to let the girl go because it appears that she too is only in it for the intimacy.
Start dating afresh and when you do meet another girl, get to know the girl on a personal and emotional level before you progress into physical. I advice saving intimacy for marriage (but I am aware people do not like to do this anymore). Establish a strong foundation and non-sexual bond outside the bedroom FIRST. This way, when the attraction develops, it will be true love not clouded by lustful desires. Hope I helped.

Thanks girl846. I honestly appreciate ur contribution. It's noted. I think i will also try and change location. Thanks

I donno what i can do to end our (me & my gf's) contract cos it seemed we'd only contracted intimacy, though protected. I also do fear for her would-be family cos she might come asking IF the man isnt doing his 'job'. I think I need to transit into a serious relationship. I am a young grad with more-than-bleeping-with-ma-gal ambitions. your candid candid will be appreciated. pls no jokester and ranconteur here - SERIOUS.
Thanks.

luap
Re: How Do U Manage Your G/f's Ex?
« #2 on: Yesterday at 06:54:42 PM »

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Depends, is she contacting the ex or the ex contacting her. It is a three step process to manage the EX.
1. Tell her to explain to the ex she has moved on and desire him to no longer contact her.

2. If he continues to try, your the Man and you tell him to stop.

3. If it continues, take it to the authorities.

Remember it is very important for your GF to make the first step (commitment from her is necessary).



I will take her to another planet instead. lol

Kgdavid (m)

Re: Deep Soul, I'm Very Sorry!
« #8 on: Today at 01:49:24 AM »

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@ violent without being confrontational i dont think it is your place to state whether or not the poster is genuine or not. it is his business and as for an internet affair it is highly unlikely and impracticable. anyone after such is wasting his time. let the guy be

Kgdavid. I cant but say thanks 4 ur support. How are u doing?

violent


Re: Deep Soul, I'm Very Sorry!
« #7 on: Yesterday at 11:35:45 PM »

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Quote from: Missy B on Yesterday at 10:44:43 PM
It takes only a wise person with a fine nature to apologise when wrong. Well done!!

I hope Deep Soul sees this.


lol, isn't it obvious? that poster is just looking for some cheap internet affair

you really think after the dude typed all those insulting words, he went back home and became sober?

He's just playing the ol'game!. . .something i did back in high school. . . ."insult a chic, afterwards, apologize, then become friends, and end up under the sheets"

lol. . .i might be wrong tho, he coulda been drunk when he was banging his keyboards, hurling those insulting words!


Thanks 4 ur reply though I aint drunk, her reply was unexpected as she sent me to guanatamo prison. I realised she must have come across it on this forum and decided to use it on me- maybe not her fault either. thus a rethink & an unreserved apology followed.

mama-gee (f)

Re: Deep Soul, I'm Very Sorry!
« #5 on: Yesterday at 11:22:00 PM »

You've got to be kidding, Why didn't you apologize to him on the same thread you offended him


I only followed my instincts. maybe next time. Thanks 4 d "advice". lol

Missy B Re: Deep Soul, I'm Very Sorry!
« #3 on: Yesterday at 10:44:43 PM »

It takes only a wise person with a fine nature to apologise when wrong. Well done!!

I hope Deep Soul sees this.


I only discovered two wrongs dont make no right. Not only do i think this is necessary & natural - it also did attract some of the most important nairaland CELEBS.
Thanks, at least 4 ur understanding on same - 4 real!