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kisibo:

who be dis self wey dey ask about post jamb when we are morning the people that died in the plane crash....abeg go education section jare....silly.

newcreatio: I feel for you my brother. Let me intimate you with my side of a similar story. If you google my posts, they are not much on NL.
You will notice something. I have issues, marriage issues. I have a wife who hasn't slept under my roof in the past 6 months.
We are not yet divorced, and we are not officially separated. She just ran away. She lives in this city with me but I dont see her.
Her excuse? That I am unfaithful. Any other excuse? That she does not feel safe. My take on it? Utter rubbish and nonsense.
Is a child involved? Yes. Where is the child? With my mum. When was the last time she saw or heard the child's voice? 6 months ago.
What did I do after she ran away? I escalated to her family and mine. Did they try to settle issues? Yes. Result? fail.
What's her dad's take on this? He disowned her.I am talking hard facts, not making it up, or trying to look good.
What is her godfather's (her godfather is a multamillionaire, he can afford to buy a N45 million Bentley and pack it in the village without driving it). What's his take on this? He even prostrated for me in her presence, and said I should take her back. What did she do? That's when she now finally ran away 2 days after.
What's her maternal family's take on this? Expressly told me "You are like a brother to us, pls just divorce the stupid girl and move on with your life with your son".
What's my mother's take? That girl was never yours. Stay 2 years and then remarry.
What's the effect of her leaving me? Confusion, anger, debts in millions from her perpetual sickness, demands, and all. I have been using my huge salary to pay debts in the past 1 year.
What did I do? I reported it to the police and update the police record every month that my wife is yet to be back before they say I did something to her.
Has anyone been spotting her? Yes. Where? Clubs. Dressed super irresponsibly? Does she have a facebook page? yes. What do i see there? A girl evidently enjoying her freedom.

You see why I am afraid for you marrying a girl who isn't fully divorced, has a son whom her mother-in-law is taking care of? And a husband who "has found another woman"
What do you expect a man whose wife runs away to do? Become a eunuch? Absolutely no.
Am I living singly? I dey craze? I have another girl with me keeping fully satisfied and I even have potbelly now sef.
But let me tell you what has changed. FUNNY THAT WHEN SHE IS BROKE SHE CALLS ME FOR HELP FOR MONEY. Imagine Which i dont give. You left me mercilessly indebted for crying out loud.
BOTTOMLINE?
My brother Gbengulu,...INVESTIGATE THIS GIRL, investigate her badly.
MArriage is for better, for worse, till death, that was an OATH, u know what an OATH is? A swearing. Majemu. Covenant. Promise.
I can only beg you, you don't need the cO.m.Pli.c.A.tions that marrying a divorcee woman with child brings.
You deserve to be happy and married to a woman who is YOURS alone under heaven and earth. And there are so many beautiful, humble, Holy Spirit filled girls out there who are hOtTer than fire in bed and will give you the craziest sex, Mouth Gig, love, affection, and every damned thing a man could ever wish for WITHOUT the annoyance of an ex's call, or son growing up and becoming a nuisance in your life.
...may God guide your steps and perfect your heart and give you wisdom and the key to fulfilment.
But sometimes sha, the wisdom of men is foolishness before God...for all we know, God fit say nah this babe be your own o, make e com be say, nah dat man wey she marry first be the wrong husband.
abi, ki lo feel?

Negwo: @OP, please be convinced you are ready for all the challenges of getting involved with divorcee,e.g comparison with the other guy, condemnation from the church if you are Christians,bringing up her child, should there be a delay in giving birth to a child for you and many others. Pls be very sure before you jump.

cgift: But what about the option of convincing her to let go of the child and only visit once in a long while thereby absorbing herself completely of her motherly responsibilities? ME thinks that would work. So, the child remains with the in-laws if they want it, and she can focus and move on.

Negwo: @OP, please be convinced you are ready for all the challenges of getting involved with divorcee,e.g comparison with the other guy, condemnation from the church if you are Christians,bringing up her child, should there be a delay in giving birth to a child for you and many others. Pls be very sure before you jump.

KENEDANI: To start with, she confided in you about her status but you've betrayed her. YOU ARE NOT GOOD FOR HER. You will certainly use it against her when the chips of marriage are down. LEAVE HER ALONE.

cgift: But what about the option of convincing her to let go of the child and only visit once in a long while thereby absorbing herself completely of her motherly responsibilities? ME thinks that would work. So, the child remains with the in-laws if they want it, and she can focus and move on.

davidylan: The OP is deluded. After reading the entire 4 pages i just wonder why NOT ONCE did the OP talk about the status of the child in question? Does he think this child will just disappear? Are you READY to bear the responsibility for another man's mistake? Will you treat that child like your own? Do you understand the unique problems that such entails?
lol i was once like you, ready to abandon my family... until i asked myself a key question - is losing my family worth giving another man's child a life his/her parents failed to provide? NO.

there is a lot you dont seem to have considered at all...

1. I agree with one poster who says that what you really love about this woman is the mental picture of her you had in primary school. Do you know her well enough NOW?
2. The answer to question 1 is no, most of the responses you have given about her has been very vague. Clear indication you dont know this woman.
3. One poster asked you if you were ready to be a step-father... have you considered the repercussions of not treating this child AS YOUR OWN and that this woman's first priority will always be her son and not you? If its not then that is even more cause for alarm!
4. Are you aware that as long as that child is alive, her ex-husband will be tied to your wife for life?
5. Part of the joys of marriage is the little things that a man and his wife get to share together. You will NEVER get to share the joys of being a first time parent together (she's "been there done that".
6. What of your family? Are you prepared for being with a woman rejected by your own flesh and blood?
7. Most importantly, as a christian, marrying a divorcee with the ex-spouse still alive is a sin.

My dear, find your own woman. One you wont be sharing with any other ex.

wizzy11: IMO, and from what the OP said about keeping it a secret from his family, @OP don't you think if you keep it a secret from your family, and after marriage they get to find out, main while you know about it. How do you expect them to look @ her? Don't you think that would spoil the relationship between your family and her self, because she would be seen as the one who roped you into marriage, not telling you. Main while you have a very good knowledge of the situation. Please consider it, because if your family find out they would not be happy with her, not knowing you knew about it.

mike.okiro:
( 1 ) how can u even be thinking of marrying a woman that is not yet officially divorced, that a
woman had misunderstanding with her husband and separated temporarily does not
mean they could not be reconciled.


Listen to the good advise from fellow NLanders

( 2 ) Theben(m):
This issue ain't what should be taken lightly. Op you need to really try and find out the reason why she got divorced in the first place. I presume you've already accepted whatever she must have told you is the cause of her breakup with her ex-husband. Please try and research the cause yourself. Who knows, her character might be the reason. I don't have anything against marrying a divorcee or a single mother but you need to take your time, study her.
As for your parents, i don't think they'll be much of a problem. Once they know that she won't be a problem to you, trust me, they would give you their blessings.
So poster, the problem here is not her being a divorcee, the real wahala is when she's not what you think she is.
Thanks

( 3 ) newcreatio(m):
dude...i think you gotta be careful mehn...My take, people aren't just divorced, did you hear da full story? perhaps the other dude's side? was cheating involved? how about her family? Did they support da divorce, if all this poo ain't properly investigated, you might be the victim of her 2nd chance...

( 4 ) klas if she was married for only 24months out of which pregnancy would be for 9 months that mean she left the child at just barely a year of age. It will surely be a very serious matter for a woman to separate from her child of such age. Please probe further.
( 5 ) Emiye Her asking you to make her plan B, is most likely she wants to make re-union or keep the door open for the possibility of it with her husband Plan A, and you plan B. though she would never let u know that but beleve me that is the meaning

davidylan:

Look bro, i have been there before... and like you i was quite naive. Regardless of anything she tells you, when the chips are down she will ALWAYS choose that child's feelings and needs above yours. Things might look rosy now because she does not have custody of him but you just wait until she has full custody, EVERY single thing you plan with her will have to be dependent on the boy's needs. Why tie yourself down unnecessarily? you're just 27, you deserve to be with a woman who is free to devote all her attention to you alone.

Let me give you a snapshot of what to expect:
1. When the child is sick, forget it dude... you are as good as forgotten.
2. Have you heard of guilt parenting? Yep that's when a single parent indulges every whim of their child because they feel responsible for the lack of the other parent in the child's life. How do you plan to enforce discipline in your home with that child who is most likely going to be reporting you to his biological father?
3. What if the father decides to fight for custody later? Who pays for your wife's legal defense? You!
4. When are you going to start saving for your own children when you're spending all your paycheck being responsible for another man's child?
5. Is it fair that the boy's father gets to have a life while you sit around struggling to accommodate his child?
6. Ever considered what the interaction between that child and your own biological children will be like? Who will be top dog in your home? this boy or your own first son?
7. Do you understand this man will ALWAYS have a link to your wife for life? Ready to sit in your own living room listening to your wife go back and forth on the phone with a man who f[i]u[/i]cked her long enough to give her a baby (and probably did a better job than you to be frank)?

My brother, there are plenty of nice single women out there. It took me less than a month to find someone else after i came to my senses, i am 100% grateful today that i took my mother's advice after so many months of obstinate delusion. Like my friend would always tell me then - with you she's getting the very best (i'm sure so many single ladies are just dying for you to look their way as it was in my case), why do you have to settle for someone else's used goods?

Had_one:
DONT EVER POST HER PICTURE HERE, IT HAS ITS OWN IMPLICATIONS.
@ TOPIC
KEEP IT UP & PRAY HARD, THE LADY IN QUESTION WOULD BE THE KEY TO YOUR HAPPINESS. WHEN EVER CASES OF THIS NATURE ARISES, FAMILY (ESPECIALLY FROM THE MALE SIDE) TENDS TO CREATE SO MANY PROBLEMS INSISTING THAT AS A FRESHER ONE MUST LOOK FOR A FRESH GIRL TOO NOT CONSIDERING WHAT WILL RESULTS TO YOUR HAPPINESS. MY ADVICE FOR YOU IS TO BE SURE THAT THE LADY IN QUESTION POSSESSES GOOD CHARACTERS. DONT BE DECIEVED BY THE TEMPTATION OF LOVE, RATE HER ON AN APPROPRIATE SCALE. IF SHE QUALIFY TO BE KEPT HOME AS A WIFE, THEN CONFRONT AND FIGHT ANY FORCE ATTEMPING TO STOP YOU. BUT BE CAUTIOUS WHEN HANDLING PARENTS AND FAMILY ABOUT THE MATTER.

234GT: The woman is also dead. She had three grown up guys for my father's elder brother. Can you imagine that the child from the first marriage, a lady, slapped the first child last month, in my father's elder brother's house. The family had to evict her from the house, like a big brother africa thing. This is the first time my father is agreeing to being wrong!

234GT: My father's elder brother married a divorcee with a child. He told my father that the lady already had a child but they should keep it away from the family because the family would never be in support of the wedding. The family got to know of the child on the day of the traditional wedding. My grandfather almost cancelled the event but for pleas from people. The child caused a lot of problems in the marriage. The problems have the man a stroke and the man died two years ago. Now, my father keeps regretting because he really loves his dead elder brother. The best thing is for you to sever all contacts with her via phone call or facebook and the likes.

davidylan: The OP is deluded. After reading the entire 4 pages i just wonder why NOT ONCE did the OP talk about the status of the child in question? Does he think this child will just disappear? Are you READY to bear the responsibility for another man's mistake? Will you treat that child like your own? Do you understand the unique problems that such entails?
lol i was once like you, ready to abandon my family... until i asked myself a key question - is losing my family worth giving another man's child a life his/her parents failed to provide? NO.

there is a lot you dont seem to have considered at all...

1. I agree with one poster who says that what you really love about this woman is the mental picture of her you had in primary school. Do you know her well enough NOW?
2. The answer to question 1 is no, most of the responses you have given about her has been very vague. Clear indication you dont know this woman.
3. One poster asked you if you were ready to be a step-father... have you considered the repercussions of not treating this child AS YOUR OWN and that this woman's first priority will always be her son and not you? If its not then that is even more cause for alarm!
4. Are you aware that as long as that child is alive, her ex-husband will be tied to your wife for life?
5. Part of the joys of marriage is the little things that a man and his wife get to share together. You will NEVER get to share the joys of being a first time parent together (she's "been there done that".
6. What of your family? Are you prepared for being with a woman rejected by your own flesh and blood?
7. Most importantly, as a christian, marrying a divorcee with the ex-spouse still alive is a sin.

My dear, find your own woman. One you wont be sharing with any other ex.