₦airaland Forum

graciousolo:
I'm messed up. I'm neck deep. I feel lost. I feel defeated. I feel controlled. I know I'm better than this, but it's become harder and harder to overcome.

I've been in this mess since I was about 13/14yrs and I'm 23yrs now. I can't talk to anybody about this.

In the last 3yrs before this year I indulged in it on an average of 2-3times annually, but this year has proven different as I've done it over 12times.

I've tried so many things, I've prayed, fasted, counselled others on this topic, search the internet, talk to people, but all these efforts have proven abortive. I don't want to end this year like this, I don't want my wife to experience this part of me. My kids... ooh.

An older friend of mine introduced me to masturbation when I barely had semens(this is just few months after I've been introduced to porn by some other friends at about 13yrs), after this induction I masturbated so much that I literally forced the first set of semens out of me. Since then it seems I have been under a dome of sexual perversion and masturbation.

The truth is I really hate this, I feel degraded after every act of masturbation, but I have no defence whatsoever, I just slide in at most thought. I've wanted to change for a very long time but now I want it like my life depends on it.

I have searched the internet for psychologist and counsellors in Nigeria but my search has been futile.

My plea: Do you know any counsellor or psychologist in Lagos or Ilorin? If yes, please help a brother, drop a link or address.

NB: With all due respect and, no intention to offend, please I don't want religious sentiments on this thread. Maybe some other time. Thank you.

So many people are stuck in this mess and really want out.

Parents and parents to be, most of us get this addictive behavioural traits when we are young, curious, ignorant, stupid and vulnerable, please be watchful of your little ones.

Once again, please drop verifiable address of counsellors, psychologists or therapist in Lagos, Ilorin (and other places for others that needs help). Thank you.

Cc lalasticlala please I need this to hit the front page to increase the chances of getting help, for me and others. Thanks.

I know a counsellor but he is also a Christian so I guess he would definitely use the bible in counselling you. Would you still want to have him?

Nigerian Police and Soldier

SMH @ this shameless liar. So Pa. Falae is lying abi?

I saw Buruji Kashamu's name too

Our senators are thieves walahi!

These our Agencies keep bringing us shame. Same way those useless thieves at NAPTIP was claiming glory on the arrest of human traffickers when they were actively trying to foil the (victim) Ann's return. I just get weak when things like this happen. It just shows we are just wasting money funding these agencies. Just negodu the IG of police. I saw him on TV that day jumping around like testicles. Shameless man

Gov. Fayose of Ekiti state is very compliant on our social media. The may him and his team respond to any "rubbish" about him is faster than what I observe with other politicians.

My point is, those of us who use twitter should tag and mention him and encourage others to do so, hopefully he would respond.

Was it in this service that Bishop abi Rev. Fr from Kaduna state blasted the terrorist and praised GEJ?

Banshee

Person of Interest

Arrow

moski5:
I've seen heroes 1 3 4 n I think 5

so this one is really boring

Heroes is very boring to me too

edwife:
This is where people are getting it wrong.Kanu was in his thirties when he married amarachi,so was omotola's husband.

Sanusi is 54 marrying an 18 yearls old girl.Amarachi and omotola did not have to share their husbands with old women and their husbands had only them to concentrate and please in bed.

No mind them! Imagine me dating my ancestor and people be comparing chasis engine like Kanu/Amarachi Omotola/Pilot with this one. I wonder how that man can satisfy his "lolo" in 20years time when he has them 4 to service.

bushdoc9919:
Source?

Straight from his anus!

hollaytan:
you all should keep quiet. how old was amarchi when kanu married her

How old was Kanu then?

This girl is marrying her father's agemate, and it doesn't seem right. The age difference is tOooooooooooooooo much

Ehen! Now that's what we are talking about!

Give us the pictures! That's why most if not all of them went to that country. Little wonder they "missed" out on the very important meeting.

byrron:
Eachtime this man steps out of Nigeria, he ends up with blunders that are so unthinkable, sadly he gets applauded by does that have come to accept blunders as Nobel.

That is what amazes me too

Have they released pictures yet? That's why they all travelled to NY to take pictures. Every other thing is a waste of time and "unofficial".

Lord have Mercy!

It is insulting and derogatory to refer to anybody as "mad man" or "slowpoke".

pluggedinn:
HON. KINGSLEY ETERHISAN Councilor Representing ward 16 (Otebor qrts Orhuwhorun) Udu Local Government, Delta State, presenting money sum to new born baby of family of mr Ogbe Peter Fulfilling his campaign promises to his constituency.

How una see am?

It is common in Nigeria to give cash and material gifts to parents of newborns. How is this a campaign promise?

How did this even get to the frontpage? SMH

xoxom:
Would have loved to contribute to this discuss until I saw tribal bigots.

Me too. I think "she" is just itching for a tribal bashing. "She" has emphasised it obviously. I wonder why Bigfrancis is feeding "her"

What people gain from displaying such hate for an ethnic group beats me.

armyofone:
Lol, advert on channel people don't watch, what kinda mischief is that they should bombard the whole channels in nig...that's creating awareness.

That's the national station, others are privately owned and would cost too much advertising with them. Even the government understands cutting cost. Lol

Hahahahaha. I read upto the place where the legendary President of West Germany was mentioned and just burst into laughter.

You expect the terrorist to face that woman again after the embarrassment of the last meeting? Mbanu!

Hahahahhahahaha now this is funny.

lepasharon:
I don't think this Jennylov will pay nadaaaaa

She will pay. She is a daughter of Zion. A child of God.

Keep calm and watch how she'll shut everybody up.

I hear from the grapevine she is even considering putting up an apology thread and paying a small interest on the money.

Keep calm y'all it's just 4days to go!

TonyeBarcanista:
The energy that they expend in chasing shadows on social media should have been used to serve the country and give Nigerians democratic dividends.

And you need to see the venom they spew against the ruling party then and how they insult GEJ and his co-workers now. Nobody bothers to report them o.

This thing is paining me very much. Very unlike me.

chukwudi44:
Yeah, I hope we don't return back to the era of political assassinations

It's not my prayer but it's already evident we will experience worse as a nation. Wth this breed of wicked souls in and out of the internet.

armyofone:
Thank you so much Gboliwe. There should be an advertisement on TV for such health insurance. Many people are not aware.

I think they advertise on NTA but most of us will not be caught watching the station. Lol

chukwudi44:
WTF only God knows the pressure Seun passes through daily in the hands of these fascists!!! Stiffling of opposition voice!!! We survived Abacha, we would surely triumph over the dullard

Now I have to agree with you. Seun must be seeing hell in their bid to stiffle opposition and freedom of speech.
See small Tonyebarcanista that has not even made a name yet, see the extent they are going just to shut him up.
Pathetic lot!

This has gone beyond ridiculous. See the extent these jobless useless fools can go and after they will form "gainfully employed".

Well, I see this as a challenge. You are hitting the useless noisemakers where it touches them the most. They are out for your blood and they'll stop at nothing to get it. At this point, I don't envy you.

These guys are the terrorist's we talk about. They are here on nairaland, among us. Shameless lot!

Firefire:
No sinner shall go unpunished.

It's a natural law my brother. Every single one of them, including me will be judged and if found guilty of shedding innocent blood will never know peace.

reuben79:
yes.cos gej is natually and metally weak

This your ingrish is a wa!

We the citizens already know that Borno Elders and a good chunk of the northern elites and elders including the terrorist at Aso rock are the reason why Bokoharam still thrives in Africa and Nigeria in particular.