Unnecessary show of shame. Should business people make losses to satisfy the people?

They should go face the government.

@blindangel,
Just checking on you and also writing to let you know that you will have to deal with her for a large number of years since there's a child between you both. You both need to learn to co-parent. It is obvious you ar not matured for marriage and putting the blame of you marrying her on you. Trying to say you love dark chubby woman and married the opposite is in you.

Wish you the best in coparenting.

PJtech:


You don't cook this yourself. Did you?

I did except for the amala which my wife made. Most times she makes the solid.

Can they tell the country the basis of crude oil trade with Dangote? I have no crime with the prices but I have big issues with the shadyness of the process.

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descarado:

That's all
Then add stew.
Jute leave here I come then. Thanks

That's all. But if you don't get the minced ones, you can buy the whole leaf one and blend when you finish cooking it.

I don't thaw it, I just put it in a bowl of hot water to defrost it. I sometimes add grinded pumpkin seed to it for nutrition.

Daphilly:
Truth be told sir or ma, I do not see where you asked for NAF Clinic account details. Also, I have to checked the account number today when he kept mentioning personal account to confirm if the NAF cashier gave us her personal account details.

I am very okay with what you said sir. I will make enquiry about the general hospital at ikorodu and post everything including the hospital account details for everyone in this thread to see. I have nothing to hide.

Thank you sir or ma. May you bless you

If possible, I will suggest you continue with NAF so that you don't start all over. Go back to NAF, get the information, and post it on here. That way you are not delaying the process since it has already started.

descarado:

Bros, how do you make this ewedu? I mean what do you add.
I know the ewedu leave and have been eating it as a kid but I do love to try this honestly. We call it kerenkeren.

I buy Molokhai/Jute leaves from the Halal store near me. I buy the minced ones and all we have to boil the leaves and add salt to it.

Last night's dinner:

Plantain Amala with Ewedu and the left over cat fish stew from the previous night.

Inquireeee:


You are actually dumb and unintelligent and can't read and understand the whole stories and inconsistencies. Good luck in being a Dumbo and a collaborator in the scheme. Everyone is not broke or dumb like You. @OpYou can decelve the illiterates on the forum. Treatment was to be continuous and on going and the volunteer had agreed to cover everything including surgery if need be.. You yourself sent the first bill for the first day and the hospital account details so why lying that You dont know the payment details and hospital account. just because You want money sent to your personal account
5k can not treat glaucoma. It was the bill they gave You for registration maybe because of the Nairalander and You were the one who sent the bill to him as shown in the text message

Nairalander gave the facility an open bill and payment was on an ongoing basis
[b]You said First day was 5k .He paid
You intentionally[b] did not bring up drugs because You knew [/b] the Nairalander would pay to a pharmacy direct[/b]

You wanted money in your pocket. Not direct payment to hospitals and pharmacies

Second time You went, You hid from Nairalanders that You had the hospital account details as they accept transfers
If You want to keep hustling people, stop lying along with your collaborators

You can decelve the illiterates and dumb

I have read petty post but never seen one this petty. Your pain is that he did not ask the Nairalander to pay for the medication. Why does he bother you and the Nairalander that he was able to get some medications through some other people? Why try play God because you are trying to help? When did it become a crime that help is coming from multiple sources?

Foodqueen:


Inquireee, didn't u see this the very day you decided to help him. This guy has been sincere all through.

It's enough that the country is somehow, u might have made a promise you later regret making but pls stop making him feel like a scammer, cos he isn't.

Someone isn't working, he needs to go somewhere, you aren't given him money and you expect him not to beg. If he hasn't begged for money and he couldn't go, u would av come here to say he's a liar and we all would av agreed.

This case is different from jewess own. He even posted a pic of him doing the test. What else do u want?

Now I get the whole story better. He was the one who promised to pay. If he is having challenges paying, he shouldn't make the OP look like a bad person na. He could even come here and explain perhaps, some people can reach out to help complete the fees.

Inquireeee:


OP and his collaborators. Money for treatment was never the issue.[/b]Money to be sent to personal account was the issue

The Nairalander said the Op personally sent him the hospital account details and initial hospital charge himself through text message, He [b]even sent Me the screenshot of the chat between himself and Op. Why is Op acting as if he doesn't even know the hospital account Nairalander did not argue price, Nairalander had already told the Airforce Hospital Staff on phone to go ahead and treat to all length before he paid the initial first bill given at the end of the day.

Make una carry on, Evidence is looking at You

Oga, you are still not clear on this though. How does mentioning the name of the Bank imply he has the account details? He could have asked the bank the hospital uses. Your evidence/argument for me does not cut it.

Read another post that suggested you are either the helper/mouth piece of the helper. Can you please state in clear terms the issue for us to understand. An easy way will be in this format:

OP said he needs medical help with his eyes. An helper (say Mr. Nairaland going forward) decided to help him with the treatment. Mr. Nairaland called the NAF eye clinic and promised to pay the cost for OP's treatment etc. As of now, this is the understanding I am having. Tell us in clear terms what the OP did and why Mr. Narialand is soliciting your help in exposing OP as you have still not done that so far.

vanitybutiwanti:
not Tinubu’s administration, it has been happening from time immemorial, happened when GEJ was there, happened when buhari was there, happening now, When Ameachi was minister same thing was done.

Rather than talk nonsense, mention the agency funding candidates.

When the head is rotten....

Thus is what Nigerians wanted when they voted for Tinubu as president.

No big deal. He's always stayed in Abuja and only goes when it is time to share allocations. If the people (both at state and national level) will not vote right, they deserve what they get.

Cos NURTW would increase their fares too

Beremx:
girls don't shout, they moan. Meaning they're enjoying the sex because it hits the right spot.

Does this mean those who were raised in one room with 11 children were not enjoying the sex or were they screaming at the top of their lungs like this too?

I think it is inconsiderate when you moan too loudly particularly, if you live in such apartments where the noise could be heard by others. I even feel such could be pretense to stroke the man's ego in situations like this.

Dinner:

Cat fish water soup.

Clown!!! He will rot in jail while the lover sleeps with multiple men.

Johnboom:
Idomine generation. Your like will be blaming Tinubu where as you are worst. So you can't buy phone of 100k, invest the rest. If you make bee hive using 200k. In 4 months you rake in close to 2 million.

Why do you want to advice him on how to spend his money when you have no idea of who he is or what he does for work? Do you know I'd he has 10 bee hives and in 4 months he's made N20million? Stop reaching hasty conclusions please.

Another subsidy plot at play. Why should FEC determine the price? These people unite when they want to loot the country.

This guy is a big time monopolist. This is a way to chase the smaller competitors from the market because I'm sure the government wouldn't subsidize them.

Dinner:

Wheat amala and okra soup.

Nopifar:
Good evening all, hope your day went well?

I've been following this page for quite some time now, and I must confess, this page is truly a friendly and 'foody' place.

I've always been fascinated by the amount of maturity shown here and the delicacies being displayed as well, to the extent that I subscribed to Gloryhomemaker's YouTube page and have been enjoying every bit of her culinary expertise.

Also, not to forget other "kitchen gurus" here with impeccable cooking skills like...Mariangeles, GboyegaD, Cococandy, Halcyon123, just to name a few.

Oh God Almighty, how I want to practice some of the food you guys have displayed here, but Naija will not allow me.

However, I am writing here for the sole purpose of requesting for help.

Things have become hard for virtually everyone in the country to a large extent, so, I'm seriously having money issues and attending to family needs has become an herculean task.

In simple terms, I'm broke.

Please note, I'm not asking for money or food stuffs, not at all. I'm asking if there is anyone here who is engaged in any online business, who can show me the ropes on how to make a little headway online.

It's tough for me right now, if there's anyone here who is willing to help, please indicate if possible.

Thanks and I'm sincerely sorry for derailing this beautiful thread.

May God help us all.

Hopefully, someone who does online business/has experience can help.

Successtube:


Imagine this was someone during our dating days I would give money when she visits me and is about to leave, but she will refuse to collect it. She will be coming to my house then, she will buy foodstuffs for me with her money and when I want to refund her, she will tell me I should forget that we are one.

While dating, did you discuss your expectations and roles on financing the family? If you never did and after marriage you took it upon yourself, you will need so much of conversation to get to where you both think it should be. If you had always prepared her mind that you could take care of the home without her, if you need her to step in now, you really need go the long walk and talk about it.

If you have not discussed everything with whoever you choose to settle with should you come back to this position, please ensure you do to avoid a mistake being repeated.

psucc:
You're welcome
It's not easy to carry such loads these days
2 at undergraduate
1 School cert holder
1 JSS
1 Primary.

I always congratulate myself for being a man.

Bros, na man you be!

PJtech:


"Stew" you say? Lol

I know what you are

What am I? Would love to know ooo.

PJtech:


That picture you posted has Okra and soup. But you said you're too busy to cook soup

So how that soup take enter there?

And all these food you're posting you sure say na you cook am yourself

That's stew and there was some in the fridge. I usually wouldn't eat soup with stew although I know some people do.

radautoworks:


I figured some of you guys might like this. I don't buy spice blends from the store any more since I found this cheat sheet and honestly, way better than store bought because you can tweak to find your perfect ratios and it's cheaper if you already have all these at home (which I suspect quite a few of you do). Also, always buy your spices at the Asian market if you can. Much cheaper and way fresher/potent.

Chicken laps for days!

Thanks. I bought the cajun seasoning because I have heard too much of it from Food Show Network thus, I figured I should try it.

PJtech:


I no understand "too busy to cook soup" no be soup i dey see inside plate so?

Abi my eyes dey pain🤔

Okra is a quick fix na. Just blend, pour inside pot, add salt, black pepper and allow it cook. Soup requires time to boil different meat and season them, adding the palm oil and waiting for it to cook, making the oatmeal paste, adding it to the soup and waiting for it to cook, washing the vegetables etc. It requires some planning.

Dinner:

Jollof rice, baked blackened (tried store cajun mix) chicken, and coleslaw.

Brunch from yesterday:

Oatmeal banana Waffles with sunny side up eggs.

Dinner from last night. Was too lazy to cook soup so okra became the quickest option.

Pounded yam and okra.