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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: What's The Longest Time You Have Ever Been Jobless? by GboyegaD(m): 10:02pm On Aug 04
VTJN:
na my area be all those places smiley

Na connection o bro. This country just tire me I swear. I can't imagine coming out top of the class still jobless

I'm fvcking tired

Hope you don't wear this today to your job interviews. That said, why not seek greener pastures in the West?
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: What's The Longest Time You Have Ever Been Jobless? by GboyegaD(m): 9:33pm On Aug 04
tunnex190:
Since 2019 and life isn't easy especially when you are married with kids

God will make a way. Experienced being underemployed for about 6 months and I knew how frustrating it was.
Politics / Re: Fulani Herdsmen Destroyed My Friend's 40 Acres Of Farmland - Apoti Eri by GboyegaD(m): 4:52pm On Aug 02
Monogamy:
40 acres?

Make una dey lie small small now.. Na 5,000 cows graze the farm?

Annoying part, this fake news would make FP

Let's be sometimes be logical

Hian

You should apply logic first. What right has a marauder into someone else's property irrespective of the size?
Romance / Re: How Do I Tell My Fiancée This. Please Help by GboyegaD(m): 2:46pm On Aug 02
KlasysTech:
So school certificate now one of the requirement for marriage.

Why are Nigerians do like if you are not a graduate, you can't make heaven.

Sometimes I just feel like someone will not make heaven if you are not graduate as a Nigerian.

Stop fooling yourself, who cares if someone is a graduate or not nowadays, when a lots school certificate are running a successful business and company.

The difference between Nigerian University graduate & school cert is not much, the former have a thick papper written degree on it, while the latter doesn't.

With this era of technology, where everyone has access to global educational resources.

Most of those Yahoo that scam white did not finish secondary school, but since they can read & write, then the most educated one who not be the one that attend versity with certificate, but the one that knows how to use the internet & it's reach resources very well.

Everyone has their standard and life isn't all about money. Let people make their choices and you can also make yours.
Romance / Re: How Do I Tell My Fiancée This. Please Help by GboyegaD(m): 2:43pm On Aug 02
Greglak:


I did not lie.. I was just not straight. I told her i went to school but i didn't tell her anything about finishing or not.

Take it up from here and tell her. You owe each other openness and if you have repented from whatever led to your expulsion, you should be happy with her decision. Loving someone implies you want them happy, therefore, allow her make whatever choice she feels will make her happy.
Politics / Re: Police Beat Damisa Yusuf, AIT Reporter Covering Students' Protest In Bauchi by GboyegaD(m): 3:28pm On Jul 30
This overzealous police officer useless however, wetin we expect for naija? Ordinary police man sef wan suppress people human right.
Family / Re: Should I Proceed With The Court Marriage? by GboyegaD(m): 8:27am On Jul 30
My concern is the ultimatum from the father. He the man of your home and decide what you want with your wife and not what your father-in-law wants.

Based on your concerns, you may want to seek counseling with your wife and be truthful to discuss the future of you both together.
Education / Re: Sex For Grades . Share Your Experience!!! by GboyegaD(m): 2:50pm On Jul 29
KingDash:
I can't say no to fucck bruh, you a hater.

Then why shame them? If you are like them, there's no reason to make them feel bad.
Family / Re: My Husband Want Us To Have 22 Children. by GboyegaD(m): 9:31pm On Jul 28
How did she get to ten sef? She either walks out the marriage alive than dying an unjust death.
Education / Re: Sex For Grades . Share Your Experience!!! by GboyegaD(m): 5:55pm On Jul 28
KingDash:
bros I don carry one bottle of smirnoff ice nack one babe back then, one sef na early hours for morning that kind 5am I nack am, she say she come charge phone... naija girls no level bros.

No vex, you get level so? Why shame them when you frolicking with them?
Celebrities / Re: Francis Duru Celebrates His 52nd Birthday (Photos) by GboyegaD(m): 8:10pm On Jul 27
Wow.... I have always loved the bros, never knew he was that grown.
Wishing him greater years ahead in good health, prosperity, abundance, and God's favors.

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Crime / Re: Hassan Salihu Abubakar: Househelp, 3 Others Arrested Over The Murder Of Banker by GboyegaD(m): 2:02pm On Jul 27
Karlovych:
embarassed embarassed A lot of Nigerian children especially the teenagers are becoming highly irresponsible and useless, proper parenting has gone AWOL in most places, RIP to the young man.

And the society itself is in quick decadence evident in the posts we read here encouraging all forms of immoral acts.

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Crime / Re: Hassan Salihu Abubakar: Househelp, 3 Others Arrested Over The Murder Of Banker by GboyegaD(m): 1:58pm On Jul 27
The heart of man is truly and desperately wicked.

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Politics / Re: Imam Oladejo, Igboho’s Cleric Explains Why He Has Not Disappeared From Custody by GboyegaD(m): 3:51pm On Jul 26
Isn't it better to keep quiet sometimes?

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Politics / Re: Freed 28 Students Of Baptist High School Kaduna Reunite With Parents (Video) by GboyegaD(m): 1:30pm On Jul 26
To God be the glory.
Family / Re: Minimum Amount Needed By A Family Of Six For Monthly Sustenance. by GboyegaD(m): 11:29pm On Jul 25
frozen70:


He was thinking this same way, when he was a Batchelor until he got married and change the narrative
Same thing with few people

Well, that is a possibility. Most times, we all do things out of our selfishness anyways.
Family / Re: Minimum Amount Needed By A Family Of Six For Monthly Sustenance. by GboyegaD(m): 9:59pm On Jul 25
frozen70:


Assuming your salary is 50k with three children and your wife has no contribution financially,
What kind of apartments will you be going for,
Three bedrooms ?
Two bedrooms?
Mini flat of room and parlour?
Just a room in face me?

Pls pick your choice let me know if it's choosen as wickedness or inconsiderate

Why will I with such an earning have such size of family? Children are a result of actions of two grown up and we shouldn't keep encouraging what isn't right. If one doesn't have the wherewithal, one shouldn't do it.

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Family / Re: Minimum Amount Needed By A Family Of Six For Monthly Sustenance. by GboyegaD(m): 7:33pm On Jul 25
abouzaid:
what we are suffering in this country today was the same fate suffered by our fathers, the problem of this country is structural, in the words of Awolowo " There is no true Nigerian just as we have a French or italian... Nigeria is a mere geographical expression created by the British for their own diabolical (evil) intentions.", therefore, i dare to say that Nigeria have never worked, Nigeria is not working and Nigeria would never work.

We know the issues and we can choose to build an ideology/identity and change our name. Nobody will do for us that which we can do by ourselves.
Family / Re: Minimum Amount Needed By A Family Of Six For Monthly Sustenance. by GboyegaD(m): 7:32pm On Jul 25
ThaThinka:


So, sir, everyone with a family of that size make up to N200,000 monthly?

Did you read the topic or you just trying to attack my post?

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Fashion / Re: The Price Of A Haircut In Your Area by GboyegaD(m): 5:44pm On Jul 25
mu2sa2:
Japa obsessionist shebi una dey hear.
May God continue to bless our dear native land of Nigeria.

Hmmm...don't people make that amount? They earn dollars and so there's no need comparing the amount paid.
Family / Re: Minimum Amount Needed By A Family Of Six For Monthly Sustenance. by GboyegaD(m): 5:38pm On Jul 25
abouzaid:
na condition make crayfish bend, Nigerians are only responding to envirommental stimulus, good governance, effective and affordable healthcare, social and physical security and universal old age care would push the fertility rates down.

Whose fault is it that we do not vote rightly? Whose fault is it that we, even the learned, fester on ethnic and religious bigotry? All those things are attainable when we do right.

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Family / Re: Minimum Amount Needed By A Family Of Six For Monthly Sustenance. by GboyegaD(m): 5:06pm On Jul 25
abouzaid:
don't expect the birthrate to go below 3-4 kids, Nigeria is a high birthrate, high deathrate society so people have many children to increase their odds of having children that reach adulthood.

If this is true, it means we prefer quantity to quality.
Family / Re: Minimum Amount Needed By A Family Of Six For Monthly Sustenance. by GboyegaD(m): 5:05pm On Jul 25
frozen70:



It's a room and parlour with kitchen and toilet included on the apartment

It doesn't have effects on the kids because they will sleep in the parlour


Ok ooo. I understand it because I had friends who grew up in such conditions however, whoever choose that in this age and time is wicked and inconsiderate.

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Fashion / Re: The Price Of A Haircut In Your Area by GboyegaD(m): 1:07pm On Jul 25
Still amused because as at 2008 I was paying N1000 for hair cut and people are paying lesser in 2021. Is the price going down?

To those who can cut themselves, it is good but not everyone knows how to. Tried it myself twice because I was occupied and couldn't make it to the salon however, it was a disaster.
Family / Re: Is It Right To Hide Or Belittle Yourself To Find "Wife Material? by GboyegaD(m): 12:28pm On Jul 25
No, it is not. It is called deceit for a reason. You should be able to decipher what you want and learn to guage the extent you divulge information rather than tell lies.

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Family / Re: Minimum Amount Needed By A Family Of Six For Monthly Sustenance. by GboyegaD(m): 12:25pm On Jul 25
frozen70:


That amount was just for feeding

As for school fees they can look other schools that pays lesser

As for apartments, they can afford three bedroom that's why they are in three bed rooms if not they would have been in semi flat

Please, what is a semi flat? I'm hoping it isn't a mini flat as that wouldn't be fair on the kids.
Family / Re: Minimum Amount Needed By A Family Of Six For Monthly Sustenance. by GboyegaD(m): 12:23pm On Jul 25
N200k minimum breakdown as follows:

N40k monthly for rent (3BR in remote part of Lagos),
N40k monthly towards school fees,
N16k monthly (N200/child/20 school days for breaktime snacks),
N90k monthly (N3000*30days) for feeding,
N14k monthly for miscellaneous.

Note this isn't including transportation because I don't have an idea how best to quantify that.

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Politics / Re: SERAP Sues Buhari Over Gag Order On Reporting Of Terrorist Attacks by GboyegaD(m): 11:40am On Jul 25
Nigerian government keeps acting the way they do because we encourage them.

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Family / Re: Photos From My Traditional Wedding Ceremony by GboyegaD(m): 11:35pm On Jul 24
Congratulations. May God bless your home in Jesus Name.
Family / Re: How Would You Feel About A Neighbor Giving Your Child "Skushis" To Induce Sleep? by GboyegaD(m): 8:09pm On Jul 24
Thanks for doing the needful and moving your family to a saner environment. Do not forget to keep ensuring yourself and your wife are in sync on the kind of upbringing you both want for your kids and please always watch out for their best interest. May God continually increase you on all sides.

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Crime / Re: Suspected Kidnappers, Robbers Arrest In Kogi (Photos) by GboyegaD(m): 7:57pm On Jul 24
Great. Neighborhood policing/security might really help reduce crimes if we don't start getting excessive.

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Family / Re: Help! An Unwanted Pregnancy Is Ruining My Life. by GboyegaD(m): 7:52pm On Jul 24
The deed is done, why are you not involving your parents in all these? Your best bet is to involve them, go with them to see the girl's parents and if you are not ready for marriage, you should say it and they sure will back you up. Most importantly, think of how to at least help in the upkeep of the child in the best way you can (it should be tangible bikonu ooo).

On the general, to all those who keep cheering everyone in relationships to sample, while this might not be an outcome of your advise, this is the kind of result it yields.

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