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And she had to come report to us here. The kids could be really annoying though.

Ka sha ma dupe..

Everything must surely revolve around women, "girl child education"[as if they've ever been denied education for being a female].

We even have "ministry of women affairs". Men better wake up before they turn this already shi.t hole to another West!

They don't have to be in power to wield power. Women, I hail thee!!!

Zabiboy:
I THINK you misunderstood his points...
All he is saying is that Men so much believe in the "Go to school> get a job> get married" system....which is true...
Some are even advised to avoid women till they are ready to settle down and then settle down with the same women they were told to avoid

Yes bro, you just summarised my thoughts.

CaveAdullam:
Disagree!


What next? Enjoy the fruits of your labour and use whatever you've gained to uplift men and others. Beautify the society in the best possible ways according to your ability and in your frame without going pass the limits of your boundary.

With a fait accompli ambition and mission, you can have fun with whatever show you love---women, travelling etc.

How you jumped to conclusions about my personality based on that little post of mine is still baffling to me.

I'm not in anger phase, because I don't even know what that is. I still have contact of my rich exes and we still meet once in a while. And I'm well aware of the disadvantages of not getting married.

I'm this type of person that gets fed up of people easily, so why on earth should I get married and be stuck with one person for the rest of my life?
The more money a man has, the more reason he believes he needs more women, while the more money a woman has, the less reason for her to associate with men.

I think like the average woman, I enter relationships based on what I stand to gain from it and not for 'love' or anything. My Facebook has less than 150 friends on it, my WhatsApp has less than 70contacts. If you are not beneficial to me, I have no reason to keep you around[both male and female].


You see redpilled men say, once your wife shit tests you or cheats on you, send her packing. Some of them think marriage is like relationship where you can just send your partner packing, kids are involved now with families of both parties too.

Let's assume you successfully send her packing, what next again? Remarry? And your new wife does the same[which will definitely happen], will you send her packing too to get married to another since women is an integral part of the average man.

I'm not trying to force my opinion on anyone, but knowing this is fire, and it will burn you no matter how you try to manoeuvre your way around it.
Not touching the fire at all to avoid being burnt, or wearing gloves to avoid the effect of the pain that comes with touching it. Which of these two sounds like what a wise man should do?

NB: My own version of MGHOW is not getting married officially and not monk mode or whatever.

luminouz:
Nice points.
But then unless baby mama is your type, choosing a vetted female to carry on your genes through your kids,may be the lesser of two evils

We all know the bolded doesn't mean you're now immune to their wicked nature.
Even Ned Nwoko had to use some traditional method to hook Regina despite her being a virgin[according to godfather Ned] and Ned stupendously rich.

He obviously knew these women can't be trusted no matter how vetted. Her being a virgin was not enough, he being rich was also not enough that he had to go traditional just to have a non-cheating wife under his roof.

This life is hard enough, being a Nigerian currently living in Nigeria is even harder. Why should I add salt to an open wound already.
I have GFS, I just can't sign a life contract with any of them.

Just a quick one, after leaving women to focus on your goals. After achieving those goals, what next?
Majority still want to go pick a woman after they've attained their goals.

Winner: Women!

Why do most men think they need women to feel complete? Even after knowing how rebellious, devilish they can be.
This is very synonymous to keeping a lion as pet, it's just a matter time before you get devoured by your "lovely little pet".

I think men being redpilled is just like fighting against their nature; majority will lose.
I'm sorry, I can't and don't want to be like the average man. MGTOW!!!

Na the innocent man I pity

Nigeria! My dear country, where the impossibilities are possible.

I've not even made a CV since I graduated not to talk of meeting an imaginary HR.
I forged my own path in this country Zoo.

Imagine the various demeaning names this lad called his/her elder sis hubby cos baba has failed financially. The op is tired of him, so is the op aunt too majorly because he's broke..

Advice to the few wise men left in Nigeria: People[especially women] only love a man for what he can do! With few exemptions which can be found among family members only!

Their love for men is synonymous to the type of love one has for his job, once the job is no longer beneficial or you found a higher paying job, you leave. The same way women leave men once you can't meet up with their financial burden any longer or they found a better option you can be substituted with.

The average women are all the same afterall, just look how unattractive Rihanna looks in this photo compared to when dressed up.

SweetVibe:
Niggar....I havent done anything financial much for her.
I only give her much of my time and affection.

You must be really naive not to know your time is worth more than 22k watch given. I hope you don't come back to complain how you were used and dumped after your service is no longer needed by her.

A young man still struggling giving a lady this much attention. I hope it's not too late to reprioritize your goals.

Bunch of shameless men ..

Serene123:
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There is no discovery. She isn't deleting any chat. Can't you guys just understand the plain language when I said I had her WhatsApp for months.

Is like u reading my WhatsApp the moment it drops. There are other WhatsApp there to read that I can't be talking about.

Truth is, I didn't get any evidence on her phone. The calls too werent convincing.
Truth is, she don't wanna be with guy. Could be an older man. She just needed the money

So you actually think an older man gives your woman money without having sex with her
If she does it while you're dating and even engaged, she'd repeat it once she needs money you can't provide when you are married..

What does a lady that collect money in exchange for sex called? Ashe**!
A word is enough for the wise, no be my mouth them go hear say Pope no be virgin .

ubunja:
judging by what most guys here are saying, they'll reject. Because they have nothing to do with an ex and accepting anything from an ex makes you desperate. There are billions of other women out there!! Smh.

For a group that's pushing being [b]logical over being emotiona[/b]l it makes you wonder are guys here really redpilled or not??

Lol, they keep screaming ex this; ex that. Maybe if it's an ex wife, maybe they could have had a point. No one mentioned getting married with an ex, but if getting back with her once in a while is going to be beneficial to me to an extent. Why the f**k should I ghost her cos she carried the tag "ex"?

I've had many exes, can't even remember some of their names not to talk of still reaching out to them. But I ghosted majority of them because I believe they're way below my league. But the ones making things happen for themselves, no way I'm cutting off completely. It's called being logical!

Imagine yourself having someone as rich as one of Otedola's daughters as an ex but you broke up and because she's an "ex", you don't want to have anything to do with her again Does that sound logical or emotional?

Once someone is not beneficial to me, I have no reason relating with you, I still have a long way to go, and cutting out rich/beneficial exes won't get me to my destination faster but not cutting them off might not get me there faster either but it could reduce the distance.


Like I said earlier, focus on yourself and leave women alone, but if one of those women is going to help you achieve some of your goals, biko run after her because she has turned your goal. It's all about you!

This is an ex of mine, started dating 2012 when she was preparing for her waec. We broke up and made up times without number before we separated fully in 2016 or 2017 thereabout. Now she's graduated from Covenant Uni, currently working on the island.

Been calling her to meet for quite some time, she always came up with the excuses of being busy. So I told her around October I'd never request she meet me again, and I stopped chatting or calling her.

God's been good, man has been making some dough and busy with life in general, so she's been viewing my statuses and never commented and I view hers too once in a while.

So this year I posted Reno's quote on twitter about not spending dime on any lady because they'd still be the one to broke shame you. So she quoted me[as seen in the first pic below] and wanted to meet up.

We planned on meeting yesterday which is Sunday, she didn't call to talk about it, and I didn't bother to call her too to ask if she was still going to come.

Already forgot about her, was at a bar last night when I saw her call, the place was too loud that I couldn't hear what she was saying. So she texted me on WhatsApp [as seen in the second pic below].

Well, today's Monday, she's supposed to be at work, she called them she wouldn't be able to come that she'd work from home instead, she's currently working from hotel and will be leaving tomorrow [that's the third pic taken few mins ago].

If you still have a long way to go, women should be the least of any sensible man's ambition.

She'd probably have people that wanted to meet her, same way I was begging to meet her then, but she turned them/me down and she was meeting others that didn't even bother meeting her.

She said she was really eager to meet me cos I was always bragging on my statuses, I asked how. She couldn't explain. Probably she felt I could do without her, and a man who could do without a woman is the man they want. How ironic!

Moral of the story: Leave women alone and get busy with your life... Been learning a foreign language, programming and been making some money too. Still no girlfriend, but I have those who thinks we're dating.

Mostly those old generation beers[Star, Gulder, Hero, Legend, 33, Harp]..
Can't even imagine taking them. Orijin Bitters is a wonderful brand.

DamnnNiggarr:
Oyekanmi, I tried to transfer a little token of 10k to you but on a second thought, I declined because I might be transferring to the wrong person, so take heart.
I'll do it another time

Was surprised when you called my name, had to re-check the pic and discovered the account number even showed in it..

Was only catching cruise bro.. Thanks for the gesture..

You see say no be everything be juju. Some people are just gullible beyond what I can't explain.

I want to believe you're exaggerating your ordeal with CSS. But if you were to be serious about it, I think you're in the wrong profession.

CSS is difficult only when you compare it with HTML, other technologies you're gonna learn after CSS are way harder and complex. If you can't cope with CSS now, I don't know how you plan to cope with JavaScript, React, NodeJS.

If you're hell bent on learning this, I'd advise you to start learning CSS from beginning again like a beginner and start practising with it, you learn more by doing and not by reading in the programming world..

Try to build different shapes[pentagon, hexagon, rectangle, circle etc using CSS], practises like this make you more comfortable while using it. Spend more time working on things you feel you can't do as this increases your confidence and learning curve.

Wish you all the best man..

pansophist:
How she relates with people she gains nothing from (eg waiters),

This is where I judge people's true behavior. Watch how they treat people below them, then you already have an idea of how good or bad a person she is or they are.

Girls go help girls, even guys s.imps go help girls, na only God fit help man.. The hatred some guys have towards homosexua.ls should be directed to all these Simplet.ons[They're worse off].

Yung6ix too like attention seeking like a woman. Seeing adult behaving like a kid is disheartening.

Most Brazilian players are just naturally good looking, no homo. I can't remember if any of our local league clubs unveiling our local players ever made it to front page.
But because he's a foreigner now, it's here on the front page.

Typical Nigerians bias to locally made goods players.

Kyase:
Woodward is always known with the act of signing players on deadline day.
So just chill

Says Woodward's Special Assistant.