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She's probably like the average Nigerian gf, she had nothing tangible to bring to the table, as she saw herself as the table. Now, someone with an even more sculpted table and fresh-one at that; has relegated her to the bench role.

If money was what she could offer the guy, he'd still leave if he found a richer lady.
NB: Never expect loyalty from any other person than yourself.

Kipaji:
What an insight! I made the same observation. These same girls talking about material things were not saying that when they were 17 year old virgins. In most cases, they can't receive and appreciate a man's love anymore. Only money do it for them. And since they make the majority of society, it gives the impression that money is the key to women while, in reality, masculinity and authenticity is the key.

Brother, nothing is key to women! They cheats when it suits them, leave when it suits them and stay only if it still suits them. There's no formula that works 100% of the time to keep women or men in relationships.

Try see women as an employee, they pretend to love the job and are very punctual because it's an integral part of their life and without it, sustainability is zero. Try giving them a more lucrative job[in the case of women/men in relationship; a better alternative], and most will leave.

Have it at the back of your mind that your woman is with you because she weighed her options, and according to her, you were the best amongst her options.

We can only hope they don't bring home bastar.ds for us to raise as ours, is the best a man can hope for during this our social media era.

Johnchrix:
invest more in your
male buddies . Most will always have your back during hard times.

If I were you, I wouldn't be too sure. Never trust the loyalty of a man without money, same as a broke lady too! I treat both male and female strangers accordingly, no special preference whatsoever.

Let me drop one last tip: As a man, if you're really stranded, and really need help, a female stranger is more likely to help you than your average male!
I've been stranded without funds like thrice in my lifetime, and all those three times, I was helped by a lady after severely turned down by different men.
Women are not that cruel as you may think, you just need to understand them.

PstDapo:
Only foolish men pay for the pùssy someone is getting for free

Never forget this

It's not even about others, it should be about you! Why should you pay a lady for sex? I don't know why I don't like hearing this statement "what others are getting for free", what concern of yours is what others are doing or not doing?

What's important is you don't do it[i.e pay for sex]! So let's assume everyone now pay for sex and no one is actually getting it for free, would you start paying too since no one is getting it for free?

Hope the brother and the said girlfriend or ex look alike? If yes, then the guy should get the brother a wig and date him instead, since he's already living in his house.
A wise man once said: "If the preferable is not available; you make the available preferable".

Accommodates a girlfriend brother for 6months+, even when the relative in the same city failed to do so. Wow. The guy deserves an award for the bf of the year.

Don't turn on AC while driving through a flooded area. You risk having the AC fan sprinkling water all over your engine and electrical equipment.

Bradford111:
we haven’t seen for 5 months despite staying the same state due to issues always coming up


Last week I sent her tp to come but due to network issues she wasn’t credited and the day was running out so I told her to go to a POs so I will send again so she can come she told me she doesn’t have that strength


After sending the money I discovered her bestie blocked me on WhatsApp I tried calling my girl she was responding I thought they were playing with Me

After some time I got my self and apologized for how I reacted now she is giving me attitude not picking my calls replying my texts on WhatsApp


Please I’m stuck what should I do?

One thing you should know is, you can't be with someone that doesn't want to be with you!

Leave her be, it's difficult but it's the best decision.
She's not your girl, maybe not anymore. The red flags were too much but you were blindly in love to even notice.

Some people will never understand her problem, because to them, "abroad" is everything. A man that used to have 8cars, if he's left with two; there's a big problem already. Meanwhile a man with bicycle sees owning a bike as an achievement.

Before judging people, try to see from their perspective first!

Efisimilala:
My mother useless bottom

In Reminisce's voice: "Useless bottom; shaking by force".

I can relate, it can be so annoying when you have a stupid folk untop women matter. Some guys just take on responsibilities a father wouldn't even take on some of these ladies' life.

A lady is not from a rich home, she's not working but look expensive. Where do you think the maintenance money is coming from? If you decide to date her, you have to continue from where the last man stopped, i.e. invest in her for the next man so he can take over from where you stopped.

But if you get coconut head and decided to be fool.ish and personalize her, she won't leave you but share you with other investors. You'd only be the major shareholder.

How men are stupi.d enough to commit to such ladies is something I don't want to ever understand.

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That's even better, those getting married immediately their gf got pregnant is mostly a recipe for financial handicap. If you want to have a baby, be financially ready please.

It's annoying seeing a married man asking for urgent 2ks, and married woman disturbing her exes for money too.

Adranidoo:
Women don't love simps they feel insecure in their presence rather they want a dominant masculine man who will lead and dominate them.

Women only love what simps give them e.g excess attention, money, time etc.

Trust me man women don't love men they can manipulate.

The world favors ladies more based on only one reason, Simpsons!
If all men become dominant and dominate them like you said, all their free passes are gone. Women know this too, hence why they love the Simpsons.

Women getting married to "who's ready and not who they love" phrase was coined out from where? The dominant men you claimed they so much adore are the ones being left for the ones you claimed irritates them.

'Women love sim.ps' in my initial write up you quoted was probably misunderstood by you. I meant women know they have a lot to gain by having lot of foolish men around than having men become dominant. So consequently, they have no choice than to love them for all they do.

Adranidoo:
Simps will refuse his parents and niggarz money but will willingly any f.ucking amount to Women just for having a pussy.

Simps will tell you that without u having a woman in your life you're incomplete as a man.

Simps will disgrace and make fun of you when he sights a pussy.

Simps are what made women what they are today.

Simps are miserable
Even women hate simps.

Women do not hate them; women love them rather. It's just that women do not want those they truly love[son, brother] to become such.

My first journey outside Naija, I overpaid for everything. For visa, flights, hotel upon arrival.

Seun Kuti should really pipe low after this incidence. You’re always antagonistic of the govt. yet was stupid to get caught up in such a mess. They just found their perfect scape goat😞

We adopt their religion, their culture and your intelligence is even measured based on your eloquence of the English language.

Nigeria's over reliance on doing things the west way has done more evil than good. We have struggling intended couples having a lavish 'white' wedding after their traditional one, when all they needed was to save for the future of the marriage as a whole.

The independence we thought we got was just formality and we are even worse off compared to when we were under their colony. I stopped interfering in Nigeria politics some 8years ago because I could see the bigger picture of the root of the problem.

Just like the French Revolution, the problem is not in the change of personnel, the problem is in the foundation and no matter who becomes the president, same issues will keep persisting.

Youths are all over Tiktok, Instagram etc, jumping on any useless trending challenges. Chasing the latest gadgets and never really asked themselves how these gadgets, apps are made, but only to consume.

I don't usually open threads like this, because they are mostly eastern Africans related news. But this one coming from our backyard off me no be small🤣🤣

Karlifate:
One of the scariest thing for a woman, is to see her ex doing better than her current dude.

Let's assume you played a bet with a 1million potential win, but you were offered a cash out of 100k because the bet was already losing. You cashed out the 100k happily.

Now my brother, would you want the bet to eventually win and you later regret you missed out winning a million, or be justified for making the right decision of cashing out the 100k?
There lies your answer.👌

One thing I do is try to understand the motive behind peoples' behavior, it will make you understand their next move. 😊

When I found out Portable got more followers than Buju on IG, made me understand majority of Nigerian youths are not that wise, as I initially thought.

If the transportation cost is to be factored, the longer working hours, and the extra work days involved. I do not think 15k extra is worth it.

Some people will lose friends/business partners because of all these stupid tribal comments here and there.

I've unsaved few numbers myself because I was tired of the tribal bullshi.ts they post on WhatsApp story everyday.

This is like a jobless man helping other people to get job .

Confusion pro max ..

Had to watch the video to confirm the authenticity before dropping my comment. All I have to say is, I'd rather be childless than birth such a bast.ard🙏.

One guy said Arsenal topping the league for the past few months is just like Elephant on a tree. How it got there, no one knows. But one thing everyone knows is it's gonna fall.

GRIMMJOE:
Speak for yourself, the reason we discouraged men here to avoid poor girls is because poverty can push a lot of girls into prostitution.

But if you can find a bread seller that isn't impressed by money, oga na wife be that.

Lol. All the best in finding one🤐. As for me, I've moved past a stage where a bread seller/hawker[no offense] and I can even think of dating each other in the first place.