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berndodlion:
A friend was in a relationship with this girl, she just called him one day and told him to see her.
She suddenly presented a card to him, telling him that she is getting married next week. She was inviting him for the wedding and that was it.

he never d really showed dah he cared abt her, a girl can keep on pretending to be happy with a guy and search for other options if she realises dah she deserves better and d guy isn't giving her all d attention and care she craves for, wah she did, I can also do, mine would be my wedding pix, d emotion on his face wud b priceless, cos I know he wud b stunned....

eiBADAn:
Honestly, there is no lie in all I said. I'm not trying to brag, but my dad is a billionaire and she knows this. I'm currently planning to leave the country to further my studies for the benefits of the family company. I had to apply for a visa for her which was refused. A blessing in disguise I must say. Now she wants me to try again. I have dropped her sisters CV with my dad tho he doesn't know them. She wants me to buy her brother a phone. Also my expensive wristwatch she wants me to dash her brother. Some times when we argue, she would be like, don't forget we are not married o. That got me thinking a lot. I talk to her mom so I don't know how to dump her without much hassles. I have a very soft heart which she's capitalizing on. I love and I'm sad as I'm typing this. I don't know what to do.

I was reading this comment and couldn't stop lafin, anyways enjoy....

Rip to the dead

MVLOX:
Well I hope and prays she responds in a very positive mannner...anyway thanks... It gud to knw dat a babe shares my views and opinion...dats kinda becoming so rare dis days

same here, u made my day... Now I can smile d more... Remember its only u dah can make ursef d happiest

Youngpo413:
lol @ "when next are you coming" the question is not bad, it shows he cares about something......

oh please! Why shud I be happy abt seeing someone dah isn't caring abt my welfare?? If he doesn't care abt my welfare, I don't care abt seeing him.. Is it not wen someone feels good u see someone?

MVLOX:
lol wen will dey understand....... honestly my chat with my fiance is beginning to really boring for example yesterday i was trying complete to complete a presentation work wen my phone beeped judging by the turn and time i knew for sure it was her. so i paused wat i was doing to attend to me love....fine she is really caring and as usual she asked abt my date and as usual i made sure i gave her a comprehensive update..... but afta all my epistles d the reply was "dats ok" mehn i just read the reply and knew wat i had to do next which is concentrate on my presentation.....afta some minutes she asked if i was already slping......it ok cha its just that we are both busy currently, i hope to take her out very soon and discuss some very important issues with her.

well I guess u just got to let her know but I do hope she isn't one of those dah wud na say, dats how they are and can't change today... It is well

MVLOX:
Very true.... But don't get me wrong ooo all am saying that wen a guy asks a gal hw was ur day he expects her to be spontaneous and like compile all dat happened in her day and tell him.... She asks abt my day and I give her a text book like response yet I den ask and urs and u tell me fine? Mehn dat really throws me off balance and gets me mad.... D reason I say a lot abt my day is dat I expect her to pick some point and use dem in maintaining the chat just like I expect her to say a lot abt her day even if there was really nothing inspiring to say, just say it and u will be surprised at how a guy like me transforms those tins u tot were nothing into maintain wholesome points for chatting....

we r just alike, I guess dey don't understand why we do dah, we I do it, it feels like I'm bombarding d person with my day, but no, its not, I say it so dah we can pick segments, talk abt it and laf abt it, at d end it feels like the troubles for the day are worth it and u just can't wait for tomao, knowing dah no matter how bad it is, dere is someone dah wud make u feel its worth it.. I guess they will never understand...

acxlers2014:
My experience buttresses the point that human nature is such that they look out for self first. I met, dated, proposed and did introduction with a lady in her thirties with the anticipation to marry her three months after that. Well I was charged up and ready to go and I was excited about the whole thing. She came over to my station in one of these northern states and she left after few weeks. I had thought everything was fine when I saw her off to the airport. Well a week after her attitude became funny, she started by asking for a postponement on the wedding, then she became very aggressive and later on she barred my numbers and started acting funny. Before I knew what was happening she started insulting me and saying different things about my capabilities as a man. Well by the grace of God I am a doctor in A government hospital and I own a flourishing practice in my domicile. Sadly no matter how much I tried she never seemed to be ready to come back. Well at a point in the deterioration of our relationship she returned my rings engagement and wedding bands and all the gifts I had given her
She was interviewed by her pastor, my pastor, my folks and she reiterated that she was not coming back. I did not relent even after all these but I had even a stronger resolve to carry on with the whole process. I thought it was a moment of temporary set back that maybe she may come through. How wrong was I. Several texts afterwards. She came out with a bold statement " MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE AS I HAVE MOVED ON WITH MINE". IT hurt but is didn't matter to me. Then the deal breaker.......... she sends me conversations between her and a guy who was chiking her via whatsapp and was professing his love to her and she was tripping. With the caption " I WOULD RATHER MOVE ON WITH THIS GUY, HE IS A BETTER MAN TO YOU". She calls up my folks and tell them that I should stay off her back as well as my siblings. That was the CLOSURE I needed and I must say it was a tough call.

As for her family, they supported their own.
Lessons learnt.
The truth is when it is gone don't fight it, just move
on.

Never put your eggs in one basket, the concept of a side chick for every guy is valid, it is for your sanity, little wonder our fathers always seemed to have one

Old women, middle aged women, girls and baby girls are all the same their psyche is way different maybe it has something to do with hormones.

Never stick to an opinionated women, you can't be so silly to think feminism can work in our society

Beautiful women always feel they have an option.

Lastly never compromise your hustle for a woman.

I laf wen I read dis, if we ladies say all we have gone tru esp in d name of love, u sef go fear, if not for good friends around, only God knows where I wud b today... ladies have gotten their own share of heartbreak d same men have... I keep on wondering if something is wrong somewhere, its not easy, no one ever said it was, so we just keep trying, keep being strong, one day we all gonna recall dis and laf, cos den it won't matter anymore...

MVLOX:
I totally disagree with number 3. most babes dont and cant have a very simple and casual chat. they would rather prefer guy who chats dirty and trashy. most case a good brings up fun interesting topics to chat abt yet he get reply like kk, wow and other annoying responses. some times having typed my Chronicles of how my day went, i expect my babe to do same so dat i will at least get a pic of her day went, but sometimes i get disappointed with very short uninspiring responses and most times i just read d annoying response and just drop my phone until she has sometin to say cuz i get tired of starting the conversation still be d 1 to put fire wood to make it continue to burn, as such in most cases i rather allow the fire die down.

no 3 is on point with me, if he doesn't ask abt my day, how do I know he has me in mind?? just a simple question, how did ur day go? goes a long way to know he cares, not one dah wud just be bothered abt wen next are u coming and isn't bothered abt my welfare... and yes some chats get boring and u begin to wonder if u were in d ryt relationship, u start d chat and it's still u dah have to make d chat lively, I just get tired and just close d chat, Its not interesting and u begin to feel d love is one sided and u need some space...

Gush and to think I'm on the road also, I'm so scared, heard 6 lives were lost, I'm shivering... only God can save... may their soul rest in perfect peace, no one sets out of his/ her home to die... God pls grant us safe journey...

importexpert:
on a monthly basis gtbank deducts about N950 from my account as sms charges. the funny thing is that no alert for such deduction but a credit alert of about N200 will come in as interest capitalized.

ya, I noticed dah took, GTB doesn't send alert for SMS charges and I am guessing its because of their ridiculous charges... thieves in the making

Blakenails:
Mine is #64 I received yesterday evening nd in previous months I don complain tire.

firstbank is always charging me, whether I receive alert or not and GTB, gush my SMS charge ranges from 110-150 only god knows how much dey charge per sms... dese ppl r thieves.... and to think they are stealing Frm students

watered:
Na to just pour hot 'ororo' ontop that agbaya, add spices and stew is served.

My dearest Sinaj will just present the rice only then shall you see Lala, Mynd44, Aminat508 and Genea show up.

Y'all know what I mean

r u for real?? Wateeeeeeered !!!!! Aaaaaaaaaaaah u bk

huntax:
You are welcome...Your acceptance of the compliment suggests you are actually pretty

huntax:
Is that really u in ur dp? You are so fine o

no, I'm not the one dear but tnx anyways..

huntax:
Lol buttie.
I just feel for the bricklayers and traders...mehn,those traders at Ketu.

lolx, those ppl are trying, God pls reduce this sun biko....

Gaddafithe2nd:
You need to, even try to be conversant with international politics also. I have that quality also, I can spot someone that has that kind of quality.

I will heed to ur advice , tnx dear

as in, nowadays I will just walk under the sun for ten minutes and I will start feeling faint and gasping for breath, this weather is not good at all..... I will just be drinking water anyhow like fish

Gaddafithe2nd:
That is cool. Go into politics in future.

lolx, why does everyone keep saying dah, mmmmm maybe its time I start getting conversant with the nation's politics

vizkiz:
Lol, I have never ever stood up whenever I visit a new church and first timers are called out.

Reason: I don't want excess calls and visitation from follow up teams. If I like your church service, I will come back next week, if I don't we will meet at Jesus's feet

in fact I always look forward to it, meeeehn its fun

Gaddafithe2nd:
Nice one. Are political science student?

nope, microbiologist

DeSepiero:
The first woMan tho. I wonder how strong the 'thing' will be.

lolx, as in I just can't imagine

Gaddafithe2nd:
Some students only cares about the certificate. Most Unilag students don't know their right only few people like you knows your right.
If ULSU can battle with them through legal means, school would be stopped in forcing students from signing an undertaken. Students Unionism is legal in all higher institutions.

I do hope dey get lawyers and activists who can help them out

FILEBE:
nice one Girl! We shouldn't let this happen. I just fear some sly lords and ladies who have started filling the damn form!

we will always have them, I just hope they know the implications of wah dey r signing

Gaddafithe2nd:
You are welcome. I hope ULSU won't succumb to their pressure.

I hope not too... modern day slavery, who does dah

tennyson10:
Iffaheqr say Jennifer no sign that form

lolx hahahahaha

tennyson10:
Iffaheqr say Jennifer no sign that form

lolx hahahahaha

Gaddafithe2nd:
I know that, the students ate fighting for their rights. Those old men controlling Nigerian schools are greedy, wicked and liars. I like your response on her Facebook page. Thumbs up.

tnx dear and tnx for understanding... we need ppl like you who are not biased

fyneguy:
Why? u wan join cult ni?

no but I am fighting for my right...

tennyson10:
I have a feeling that you've already signed the form sef

iffahear, dey r high on shisha

Gaddafithe2nd:
I saw the way you blasted Unilag counsellor on her page. Nice one

oh really, gush I didn't mean to, I wasn't just happy with the way they were twisting the story and putting d blame on the student union....

I can't sell my birthright, I'm not Esau..... I am not a slave and dis isn't an era of dictatorship.... no to Unilag management manipulation