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Genea:
even Santa knows I don't want much...


Tall
Colour doesn't matter as far as he isn't charcoal black
Some one I am comfy with and can relate with on various subjects without me trying to rack my brain
Financially stable
Good looking
Can pamper me all day and tolerate my excesses
Must be good in the other room too.

Quoting this today because I got my man and he had all these qualities...

twinskenny:
any idea?

kindly help


nigeria food easily accessible food

So I was once diagnosed with this
What you do is below
1. Reduce processed foods
2. You can still eat carbs, however protein and vegetables have to be more. You eat them first before your rice, Spaghetti etc. Cause proteins will limit the rise of your sugar level. Don't eat your meat last is what I am saying, you eat it first.
3. I take zero drinks, but some say its still harmful, I don't care
4. Some fruits are high in sugar, so check glycemic index, any with below 55 is fine, but don't take more than a portion
5. Eat a lot of soups with a lot of vegetables but reduce palm oil and vegetable oil as they can be inflammatory, you can eat once a while
6. Greek yogurt, check that sugar is no more than 6g per 100g
7. Fish, chicken, meat, etc are ypur best friends
Etc.
8. Lose a bit of weight if you are overweight.
These are all I did to get back to normal, but my coconut head has gone back to my bad habits.

I am trying to change sah 😅

Namaster:
You send your wife abroad and stay in Nigeria, TROUBLE.

You travel abroad and leave your wife in Nigeria, BIG TROUBLE.

You travel WITH your wife abroad, BIGGER TROUBLE.

Abroad is NOT the problem. It's the WOMEN.

The ONLY woman you should take abroad is the white woman you brought to Nigeria to INTRODUCE to your people.

Men treat your wives well

Namaster:
I have commented EXHAUSTIVELY on the perils of marrying or dating a single mother.

Check my profile for them.

But the summary is that single mothers are BAD NEWS.

They are FIT to fuuuccck because their bastards are walking testaments to their LOOSENESS. They CANNOT form when you have evidence they had been viciously RAWDOGGED in the past.

They are UNFIT for dating or marriage because, again, their bastards are walking testaments to their LOOSENESS.

Single-motherhood also points to a LOW IQ and STUPIDITY.

Because said woman not only CHOSE an irresponsible man who was willing to ABANDON his child. But ALSO chose to fuccck him WITHOUT condoms or other forms of birth control.

That stupidity would be a TAINT in the gene pool if both of you have children. Dumber kids will result.

There is a reason a LOT of the children of single mothers end up as Yahoo Boys and Hookup girls (future single mothers).

It's NOT just about the upbringing, or lack thereof, but also the STUPIDITY and IRRESPONSIBILITY inherent in their genes asserting themselves.

Also WHEN the father eventually shows up, the child you raised with your money, time and energy will DISCARD you without a second thought.

Chances are equally high the mother will do the same.

Fuccck her, if you must.
But NEVER marry a single mother!

You are stŭpid and don't know it.

faceland:
Soon after Christmas, I am doing all my dollar purchase for next year.

You better buy now, cause the rate is down due to the recent USD2billion loan and diasporans planning on coming to naija for Christmas

Domaining101:
Who knows, this one might be the next to die in helicopter crash like that Wigwe and his wife and son 😂 After all the enjoyment, traveling all over the world, flying jets and helicopter up and down, eating chicken and turkey, drinking juice, shebi e don end? I Heard it was even cardboard they use in bringing their smelling dead bodies back from Ablord 😂 When the fools where alive, you'll never see them doing anything for poor people, there own na to dey send their children go abroad go school, MIT, Cambridge, Oxford, as if na their kind dey go all those kind schools with their empty brain, while our own for here wey sabi book pass them 1000 times dey on strike, let them go and die abeg. How i wish they did open coffin the way they did for tb Joshua, i would have loved to see how their burnt and disfigured bodies would look like, make i laugh small and see weda all the enjoyment and millions go still dey show for their dead body😂 rubbish

How i wish God can take elumelu and that his three daughters next, i go too happy like mad

You and the people that liked and shared this are m@d

⚠️ Alert ⚠️

Beware everyone, I got this email below and I don't know what to make of it.

I have message Ecobank but like most Nigerian banks, they haven't done anything.

With the rise in prices of goods and services, crime rate would also increase.

Has any one received this ? And how did you rectify it?

I would really love your assistance, Thanks.

BenuePolitician:
Igbo and money phewww see them! They obviously don't give a damn about his (IBU) amputated leg, all they are concerned is money money money

consequences of a polygamous home

IconicR:
May we never experience Obi again
Having a loser like him is a great threat to national peace.
Losing an election means war to him and his supporters.
May Obi never happen to any country iseeeee
Soludo is the only man fit to contest a presidential election from Anambra
Please don't quote me, I'm emotional about my dislike for Obi 😭

You lack reasoning capabilities

The way they rush to destroy peoples properties eeehn, thunder will fire them. This is bad aswear. Having an investment in Nigeria is very high risk

IconicR:
Seriously I've seen more marriages of uneducated couples lasting very long than the educated ones, what could be the reason for this?

You sound like those illiterates that are happy when the educated ones are unemployed. Did you perform a survey to ascertain this as a fact? Or is this based on your feelings... Also change your circle.

advanceDNA:
U are the one makimg it a gender war. makimg it look like the man must have been treating her badly so this is an escape...

. was she a slave in her marriage that she could not escape since?? So all the while mother inlaw duties in the uk was the only means of escape available?? She may even have gone for other omugwo in nigeria but ddnt escape?? Who knows...

One thing is clear...the difference here is the UK factor which makes lot of people, men and women alike change their behavior or make new shift in their life..........she saw a new environment and life and all she had became no longer important ......

U women are always quick to say men must have done something bad to u to make u do bad..
....this isnt even a bad thing....its a new environment....she loves it...she wants to stay... there is no need reading too much meaning to it...

lol, the man is contemplating on marrying within 9 months of stay, does that not tell you a lot about it.... lmao, he deserves all he gets... if he has been good, marriage won't be the first thing on his mind

Romanoff:
Is this the case with this woman? An old woman of that age who didn't leave since, na now wey she done old and no man go send her.

Make una dey look beyond una myopic gender wars.

Marriage is not as hard as a lot of you make it to be. As long as this world exist, you will reap what you've sown.

If you treat a man who treated you badly, you will reap what you've sown, if you treat your wife badly, you go also collect.

If you're triggered by this, you should check yourself.

It's never too late to leave. Treat your wives better... See she has chosen to be lonely than stay with a narcissistic or abusive person

cenaman:
Pls if you have the means and resources to jakpa, jakpa.

mmmmmm

If you want to dictate for her, then marry her na. Mtvheeeew

jaksmillioniar:
Omotayor Huee, mhisbliss shinarlaura ogorwyne, pweetiedee Blackhawk Adaumunocha nikkyshyne Pweetyjuddy Ladyjumong adajoe MISSCONGENIALITY MizAlero Lewaluv makydebbie cubby, Amysharp PamelB EmmyJEWEL emilysmith Slimzjane pweetymhi Tolubae Tamarapetty Louisefaye HelenBee bimberry SydneyBrown gloryl Genea tossie itsmeurLady cerowo joyberry shurleyb Nomfanelo, decomaniaboss Silentscreamer Aitee ahhdah Laveda, tosyne2much hibiscus stephleena

Wetin happen?

Gerrard59:
Made in Nigeria goods can be cheaper in the long run when the production scale has increased. It can be tough for new businesses, but producing in Nigeria for a global market is cheaper as the currency is devalued against the dollar, labour is cheap, and raw materials are abundant.

If you were not properly taught Economics in secondary school, that is your school's fault, not mine.

you that was taught have forgotten that the high cost of production is eroding profits

tensazangetsu20:
You can never ever lose betting against Nigeria. It has never happened.

aswear, and this post was made 2years ago... Nigerians have suffered

Gerrard59:
You never lose betting against Nigeria.

That said, the devaluation is not really a problem as it makes Made in Nigeria goods/products to be cheaper in the global market. Nigeria does not need a strong naira. We are not Switzerland or Singapore.

stop saying nonsense. Made in Nigeria goods cheaper? When interest rates are high and cost of transport is high... Smh

naice:
I find myself facing a difficult situation in my marriage and would greatly appreciate your insights and advice. The issue at hand revolves around my wife's unwillingness to listen to me. I'm at a loss as to why she behaves this way, and it's starting to take a toll on our relationship.

To provide some context, my wife has a strong-headed personality, which often leads to conflicts between us. No matter how gently I communicate my concerns or requests, she seems to disregard them and even does the opposite. This behavior frustrates me and leaves me questioning our compatibility.

One possible explanation I've considered is her background as an orphan. She lost her parents at a young age and had to take on the responsibility of caring for herself and her siblings. While I understand the challenges she faced, it seems like her self-reliance has translated into a resistance to accepting input or guidance from others, including me.

At this point, I have contemplated divorce, but there's a significant factor holding me back: our children. I love them deeply and cannot bear the thought of being separated from them. As much as her strong-headedness affects me, I firmly believe that domestic violence is never an option.

I'm reaching out to this community for reasonable opinions and advice on how to navigate this situation. Have any of you experienced a similar dynamic in your relationships? How did you cope with a spouse who doesn't listen? Are there effective strategies to foster better communication and understanding in such circumstances?

Thank you in advance for your support and guidance. Your insights will be invaluable in helping me make an informed decision about the future of my marriage."

MEN Saaaaah, any some thing na divorce.. shift abeg

Lol, the suffering just started...

visitkcj:
My pry sch: TOMOBID school, Agidingbi, Ikeja.
Secondary: FGC IKIRUN
University: LASU

What year did you graduate?

Lol, I am seeing University of the West of Scotland in the picture

UDOKABESTLUV:
I need This Baby, How can I locate the baby?

HELP UDOKA BEST LOVE To Make Sure, This New Born Baby Is Fine And Healthy Now.

Nawa For Some Women ooooo

You No Get Money And Those Ladies Dey Knack Anyhow, Now To Train Baby, Dey Run.

Why do you need this baby

jesmond3945:
you mean unfortunately . Target jobs with visa sponsorship

my dear I am weak.

charles009:
Hello Folks,

I need una inputs, I tried scanning through nairaland threads and I am getting more of technicalities and rules lol. I need real experiences. As everybody around me dey japa so I decided to give it a thought. I work with a fintech company and net a little over =N=600k monthly. I am considering relocating to either UK,Germany,New Zealand, Australia or Canada. I am married with four kids. They said study route is the best .

A few of my colleagues that travelled just dey dull my ginger. My Oga who nets over 750k, we spoke today and he is considering a security man job, and claims net pay is over 2M monthly. Biko I cannot come and kill myself.

My friend, we spoke this evening and he responded oboy make I no lie you, na shit i dey pack for here, the good news is they say it will always get better with time. What if person no come eventually become citizen, is it a must you go become citizen.

I don talk to over 10 persons today and they all saying everything is though. Me I don't like stress, where me and wify go dey overwork just dey pay bills. Ofcourse I no get strength for menial jobs, make one oyibo use me take dey shine lol....

I no get any exceptional skill, I be sales man ooo.

Would you advise I still gamble and go with family abi make I hold my job oooo.

Please, I would welcome suggestions and advise.


Thanks Guys

Don’t leave till you get a good job over there. I wish I never left my good job without a plan. I don’t tire to dey get regret mail. You are in tech, do remote jobs na

tctrills:
How do you know I am not happily married for more than 10 years now? The woman only divorced because the man refused to do her bidding. She had so many other options.
1. She could have forgiven and started saving up for the house.
2. She could have demanded her part of the money and made the man pay it back.
3. She could have enjoyed the car with him and be happy with his decision.
She chose divorce this tells us the kind of person she is. Money is not more important than relationships. We let money go to keep relationships. I hope you meet someone who takes his relationship with you over money.

So it’s money you are seeing there? Read and comprehend, He broke the trust she had in him, mismanaged the funds they both contributed to and finally bought a liability. So yes, these are grounds for divorce. That you live in a lawless country does not make what he did right.

VictorUSA:
Reason she divorce her husband is to be free to do anything with her pussy.

is that what your dull brain got from the write up?

Hinokami:
I worked for a multi national organisation last year for a few months before internal strife and change of management made me lose my job as collateral damage. I was jobless for months and those were trying times for my mental health.

I got a job two months ago. It had less stress and the expenses are less. I can save more but there is no job security, no offer letter and no career growth.

Now the new owners of my previous organisation want me back but with slightly lesser pay than what I received back when I was in their employ, a contract letter and promise of job security. There is also no chance of career progression within the organisation but I will improve my skills to potentially get a better job from there.

I'm conflicted.. I don't want to leave my comfort zone in the current job to move to another city for a job that relieved me in the past. There is a chance they can do it again if they feel like based on the nationality of the owners but I also feel like I have an opportunity to develop myself and move to better places from there because of the reputation of the company name on my CV.

Please who has had such experience like this and advice going forward.

Thank you.


PS. I negotiated with the new owners on improving the pay package and they made no concrete promises.. I'm waiting for the offer letter to see if it'd at least match my former pay.

Never go back to your previous job, if you were that important, they won’t have sacked you. They just want to finish you

ewa20buredi100:
Hi everyone,
I have been a Chemistry and Mathematics teacher for years now.

Then I met a friend who is a retired Government officer. He took interest in my kind of person and promised to link me up to opportunities that are better than teaching.

He called me yesterday and I went to see him. He presented two job opportunities before me;
1. A shopping mall manager (at Ring road in Benin city)
OR
2. As an assistant manager with a Private firm that supplies passport booklets to Immigration officers. I will be working directly from NIS Headquarter.

He gave me a week to make up my mind and choose an option

Please my questions are;
1. Will it be wise to dump years of teaching for these new opportunities?

2. Are the opportunities viable and worth the transition?
Which of the two options should I go for if I were to choose?
And what benefits does one stand to gain?

Thank you

Please pick option 2. You have better career prospect and NIS relationship is cool. Forget that your teaching job that hasn’t elevated you abeg

VOsimhen144:
You're married with kids and you claim you still love your husband But yet you're crushing, liking and developing feelings for another man. Nawa oo!

This is the main reason why most guys don't take Nigerian women serious.

I do come across some foolish articles on nairaland like "How to make a woman love and respect you" "How to make a woman stay with you till eternity" "How to make a woman do this... How to make a woman do that... Blah blah blah" the funny thing is, SIMPs will even be saying "nice one op".

Lol, seriously I go just dey laugh and dey look them like mgbeke.

Oga, if you like give Nigerian women the whole world, If you like chase everybody away to planet Mars and give her the whole earth. She would still cheat on you to go collect better preek in planet Mars.

Dear Men, don't ever take Nigerian women serious Please. Avoid Nigeria women like a plague.

Meanwhile.. Adeleke ifeanyi be like Madam carry your mouth go one side... abeg.

But you are the same people that claim it’s okay for a man to cheat. Don’t you think that what is good for the gander is good for the geese?

Don’t be an island. You need friends for journal and peer reviews