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Nelchuksmandela:
Good day Niralanders,

I need your sincere advice on my present situation.
Please ignore any grammatical error or punctuation. I’m the first son of my family, my father is an average Nigerian trader, he single handedly sponsored my schooling from nursery to higher institution.

After my service year, one of his friends scammed him of 300k in the name of they will get me a job in NUPENG before he paid that money I told him my pastor’s revelation about the NUPENG job, which my pastor said She does not like the job and shared ill references associated to the job with me and I told my dad when I got home, he countered and rebuked the revelation, he doesn’t take any of our advice, he finally fell for the scam.

To cut the long story short, I’m now working class that earn 75k monthly, however I’m still squatting with a friend and I’m still struggling to survive.

Recently I received a call from my dad, he told me he needs 500k for trading, that he wants me to take loan on his behalf he will be paying the debt once it’s due, since he is yet to complete the outstanding loan he took from the same bank, which is remaining 3 months to complete. I later discovered he had another debt he’s still servicing (Paying ) of a different bank that is remaining 6 months to complete.
After pondering over it i asked him; what if he defaults what will happen ? he shunned me and said why will I be negative and I politely told him my mind that I cannot help the current issue. Since then he started reporting me to my mum relatives to talk to in order to accept and collect the loan of 500k on his behalf.

Please your advise on this will be helpful.
Thank you.

one rule of life, never ever collect a loan on behalf of anyone. Nigerians haven’t learnt debt responsibilities, they never pay back loans. You will end up paying that loan yourself as your father is a financial illiterate

TechQe:
Will they ever progress? I didn't spill the full details oh.

There guys took over 10 assassinations on my life. When I avoided them, it turned spiritual different spiritual hit-men will appear from no where gun shots everywhere. I practically died but resurrected with the help of God

Why?, I was the overall best in all forms of sciences and was already making waves at 23 when they haven't even figured themselves out. Practically was hidden by churches deep away from the society for years. I'm just returning self. In the end, who was made for the top was made for the top. When the news of my new establishments starts to make raves from next year, na suicide be the next for them

I pray God protects and keep you

TechQe:
Till today even in their late 30s, they go about fighting anyone they assume as more successful. Once i hear alumni or the school name, I flee

you can imagine. That’s why I am not in my secondary school or university group chat, cause I don’t want devil to use anyone. Just avoid them like a plague, don’t even say hi to anyone. If at a young age they were evil, removing your script to find faults, they can kill now. It’s the evil they did that’s hindering their progress.

MrBrownJay1:
that girl was a hoe and sold herself to yahoo boys for money/comfort... is that the kind of woman you want as the future mother of your children and/or future wife? she has no moral and was willing to be shared for money.

direct the same energy to men that sleep around

TechQe:
Werey

This makes a good front page material. Allow me gist you mine. When i was in Junior Secondary, something was common back in the days. Teachers used to engage some of the brightest students to mark scripts with them. I wasn't aware about this until i began to notice anomalies in my scoring.

Normally, i made friends with one or two persons who would come back and tell me we started marking, you scored this and that. But when the scores finally came out, i was always scoring 10 - 15 marks lesser than the scores the script markers informed me about.

It wasn't until after a long while we figured out that some of the other brighter students who assumed I was competition for them were " filtering out " my papers and finding faults here and there, deliberately bringing my papers out for deduction of points. This went on for along time and I eventually gave up on passing by school standards. I stopped paying the attention i was to academics and started to read outside the syllabus and beyond the scope of what we were thought


After schooling some years back, when i started my first company, some others from the same school with the same mindset came and made series of attempts to have me killed. I was almost dead but survived after some attacks

Today nko ?


Pulling people down doesn't translate to personal success, people should channel the energy they invest in pulling people down to lifting themselves up


Today, i don't work in a big company, i've setup series of projects and on my way to owning my conglomerate.

aaaah people are evil… please avoid them o

Ogilinsaka:
Na why short men no good. Nedu, short man devil

hope you know that she cheated and their first child is not Nedu child?

Tripletwins222:
Jesus!
That doctor is very wicked. I don't know why most of them use TTC couples as their ATM. Sometimes, they may not even give you a good brand of the drugs but still end up charging you exorbitantly. This reminds me of one doctor that gave me 3 cards of common doxycycline and collected #4,500. I went to a nearby pharmacy and priced same brand and it was #120 per card. They may even remove the #20 on top if I decided to buy.
Please, look for another hospital. It is obvious the doctor wants to milk you dry.

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For egg boosting: Ovaboost, Vitamin E, Royal Jelly, Ubiquinol, Omega 3 fish oil supplements.

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You can track your ovulation with OPK and BBT or go for folliculometry. Follicular tracking is usually done 3 - 5 times in a cycle. The price range for each session is #3,000-#5,000.

I pray your TTC journey ends shortly in praise in Jesus name. Amen.

I thought TTC women are not recommended to take doxycycline?

LIVINGICON:
This post ain't complete without the solution.
So tired of seeing drum bellies everywhere.

the solution is in the write up..

ojxclusive:
Hi Guys,

Please I need your advice on this, which do you prefer and reasons if possible. A job in a multinational that pays 300k and trainings in Europe and the other opportunity is a Masters degree program in France.

Please which of the two would you stick with?

multinational job then after 2years of working, take a study leave and do your masters

Always ensure you have the controlling shares

Opistorincos:
My neighbor is a liar. She's always complaining of generator fume entering her room. I've checked several times and reverse has been the case.

Oga wether she lies or not, change your gen location, don’t kill her

McStoic:
Too much begging. Today give me charger, tomorrow help me plug my phone in your house. Next tomorrow, borrow me your cufflinks, polish, etc.

Me: Please return the charger, polish, cufflinks etc when you are through

My neighbour: Okay.

After a week, he is yet to return any of them. Though thank God that was way back. I have gone beyond those kind of annoying neighbours now.

But the experience I will always treasure was paying for the school fees of a particular widow's 2 children for some terms. Till today they are still very grateful and this after about more than 11 years.

I am sure this is recurrent, so why continue?

OmniKiki:
Good evening everyone, happy Eid.

I got responses from these two companies but I don’t know if they’re legit or not.
Does anyone know either of the companies?

Both are legit and you should go...

I just read about the DM holdings and for the first one, the started with your name and you can see the signature beneath. Go but make sure to tell someone where you are going.

family6644:
Exactly the problem I am having, she doesn't seem to see anything sensible in my late wife values and teachings and this is making me to dislike her and she doesn't seem to know despite trying so hard to explain to her.

Shey you know this is a format? Women know that the easiest way to get to a man with kids heart is to treat the kids well... secondly, she must have encouraged her kids to make your kids call her mummy, which is messing with your senses... Thirdly, she is a time bomb waiting to explode and you really don’t want to scatter your family... lastly it is too early to move on, you have no respect for the dead, how can you just replace her in 3 months? My dad has beeen dead for 20years and mum never for once thought of replacing him, and you couldn’t even wait for 6months. Maybe you both deserve each other, I just feel for your kids

The heart of man is evil

Shoodboi:
It's not your friend, it's you.

I've lived in both cities and I'll advise you to stay in Zaria. Food, housing and transportation are cheaper in Zaria than in Lagos. And let's not talk about the stress of living and working in Lagos. The 50,000 won't make much difference. Lagos troubles will zap it off.

house rent, food inflation etc in Lagos would make him wish for Zaria back

kingjessy:
this is so sad . This show the girl love the guy so much

so damn much. Like she didn’t steal for herself but for the guy ... the guy is just an opportunist

Girls are stealing to buy material things, she stole and gave you for business, meaning she’d do anything for you... leave her at your own peril, ungrateful fowl

Banter1:
Thank God we are not a developed country. Laughs

still valid in Nigeria. She is married

Dee60:
Where did you read that court wedding has been done?

Lady, speak to your parents or your pastor (if you are a Christian) and get counsel.

If you were my daughter I wont let you run into what looks like a snare.

It only becomes too late after you have taken your vows. before then, use your senses.

go back and read the story.

Banter1:
As long as the pastor hasn't join them together, tell her to remove her shoes and pick race far away from him.

lmao, for someone that's married in court. Infact let me school you. Court marriage is the only marriage recognized by developed countries. She better start prepping for divorce or annulment

SegFault:
Well, she still has to seal it in the church. So...

lolxx, you are funny. Once court is done, you are legally married. She can only request for a divorce or annulment

Mindlog:
A court wedding means she is legally married before the law but she still feels not because they are yet to do the traditional and Church, which is erroneous.

doesn't matter, she is still married.

9jaboombox:
MBA owned by Maxwell.W.Odum and Vodina West is a pure scam! They planned this all along. He told us that they were certified by SEC which eventually turned out to be false. He told us that MBA was insured, which also turned out to be false. He told us over and over that he has reserved money to pay back investors should anything go wrong, this also turned out to be false. He told us that no ROI will be lost, as we all know this turned out to be false now he said he was going to refund capitals and as we all see what is currently happening, is also is nothing but lies. This man is just filled with so much lies!

MBA does not have any issue or issues with CBN or SEC, it was his greedy attitude that lead to this problem.

MBA is NOT ready to refund capital this is why they come up with different excuses, if 360k verified huge savers still receiving capital since 15th till now and still on it, please ask yourself when 400k,500k verified huge saver will get their capital. remember there's still a lot of 360k, 400k, 500k huge saver that are yet to be verified.. now when will payment get to 600k, 700, 1m, 2m to 10m on huge saver... When will smart fund saver start to receive capital from 360k to millions, then offline investors too, from 360k to millions.. how many years will it take before u'll be paid?

He doesn't even have money to pay back if he is compelled to do so. The only money on him now is money from people that invested in October and November 2020 which he Maxwell intentionally deceived them to raise some funds to make make case should anyone want to make case with him.

Now he has invested so much on e-hoodlums and e-thugs who claim they've been paid meanwhile they are not even investors! You can't even say anything about your money in any of the online groups, they'd block you instantly and delete your comment. Maxwell Odum is a criminal and must rot in jail. He will never get away with this!

We don't need to deceive ourselves.. MBA is not ready to refund capital, what me I think is that they want to restructure new MBA, so by 4th Feb they will come up with their plans on how new MBA will be. I tell you investors will not have choice than to migrate and continue with new MBA and receive ROI. Waiting for capital refund, you will wait till eternity. But eventually they'd fold up and disappear completely with our capitals.

learn to do your due diligence

Olorilolo:
Ultrasound scan showed a 6.7cm hemorrhagic cyst in my left ovary, this was last year June. I tried to combat it naturally but nothing seems to work, ACV, blackstrap molasses, local herbs that cost a fortune... Yet every time I'm ovulating, it's feels like my I'm going to pass out from the pain.

I later decided to visit the hospital again last week and it's 8.5cm now. I'm booked for surgery to get it out as leaving it there could risk rupture.

Try myo inositol woks on people with PCOS, also helps with pains

Everest9:
Please, my fellow bloggers and digital marketers, I have a serious question to ask because I am very angry right now.

One of my partners sent a little dollar to my account through wire transfer on the 23rd of this month, on getting to my account I saw that $25 dollar was deducted from the money.

I contacted the sender and he told me that they send the exact amount which they also sent me the receipt, now I had to contact my bank (GTB) and they said that it's offshore charges and that it's a new law from CBN.

Please I am still confused right now, why will CBN issue such a law?

Please share your experience if you have ever experienced something like that before because it also means that Google Adsense payment might be deducted too

You better learn how to use crypto to transfer money

onyi2k:
I got the job via LinkedIn. A recruiter reached out to me and asked me if I would like to work remotely for 2000Eur per month? I said yes but after the interview, The decided to increase my salary and said they want me to come over.

Na so oo

so happy for your. What is your line of work?

onyi2k:
I just got my Visa to go to Germany. I am having cold feet making this journey. I have already told my boss I am leaving my current position.

I am yet to tell HR because of this cold feet. I have been in Qatar for 2years now and I think its best I move since I cannot marry and bring wify here.

The German company is paying for my flight and accommodation for 2 weeks but I am still having cold feet. The process is cumbersome.. I just realised I need health insurance to make this move. Where can i get such in Nigeria.

you better go, devil don dey play guitar for your head ooo. Goooooo

emetisuccess:
I don't really save in my bank now adays, i do make use of piggyvest to save.

like the money doesn’t withdraw into a bank account? Use sense na

Rocktation:
But she clearly told you that she couldn't cook due to unavailability of water. You are the host and very likely the one with the muscles. I don't see how fetching water for your guest to prep your meal is a big deal. Unless, you want her to pay for the roof over her head, by doing all the house chores, I'm certainly not understanding what really prompted this fight.
There's probably more that you are not telling.

Really? He should keep on fetching water for someone that has been with him since January? Babe say the truth and stop encouraging bad behaviour

KangaIye:
That's just it. One thing about character is that, it smokes.

Gbam... I dislike entitled people. It’s not easy accommodating people and here she is giving attitude. She should go and squat with her friends. Good riddance

daveyjay:
I actually cannot rent an apartment for her as she isn't my responsibility and I am a student, every money is valuable to me

Dont even try it.