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Romance › Re: Which Girls Do Men Prefer: Fat Girls Or Slim Girls? by GeneralPula: 10:33pm On May 15, 2020
Swtbabyvee:
There is one thing I know for a fact ,, men who like slim ladies r never good in bed , like never , no offense, there ar some men who can do both. But the ones who insist on slim girls can rarely give good strokes , or their dick is small , it’s always between this two. A slim girl fucking a man used to fat women , can hardly handle it.
Good in bed has nothing to do with either your fucking with fat or slim. As long as you’re fucking who your heart desires, then you’re gonna have a good sex.

I like slim girls and I’m good in bed. undecided
Romance › Re: Always Have Backup IF You Are Dating A Nigerian Girl by GeneralPula: 10:25pm On May 15, 2020
Preshieben:
Nigerian girls
why generalizing?
They’re generalizing because majority carries the vote!
Sports › Re: Eto'o Dismisses Diouf And Drogba Claims To Be Greatest Ever African Player by GeneralPula: 6:32pm On May 15, 2020
Drogba is better than Him tho!
Health › Re: Coronavirus: Babafemi Adebayo Dies In Brazil As Wife Cries, Begs Him To Wake Up by GeneralPula: 6:26pm On May 15, 2020
A sad one! cool
Phones › Re: Oppo Reno3 Pro Unboxing, First Impressions And Long Term Review + Price (photos) by GeneralPula: 5:33pm On May 15, 2020
safas20:
walahi useless oppo
Naso..
Phones › Re: Oppo Reno3 Pro Unboxing, First Impressions And Long Term Review + Price (photos) by GeneralPula: 4:27pm On May 15, 2020
All these useless phone don useless android OS. undecided
Food › Re: See what a Nairalander has been doing during this Covid-19 Period by GeneralPula: 3:43pm On May 15, 2020
PrecioussB:
Lalalasticala would move posts concerning snakes to FP but after being tagged so many times on this post has done nothing. This goes to show how biased this mods are
You’re a scammer!

Bleep ya!
Foreign Affairs › Re: China Replies Trump Over Threat To Cut Off Ties by GeneralPula: 3:26pm On May 15, 2020
It will deeply tell on the China's economy should Us cut the ties with them..

Most of the multinational companies that are producing stuffs in china are not own by the Chinese. For example, Apple products. You'll see design in Cali, made in china..( The company making them in china isn't own by the Chinese.) So on like that!

Google search Foxconn... They made Play stations and Xbox, blackberry, Nokia and so on!
Family › Re: My Journey To Motherhood by GeneralPula: 12:43pm On May 15, 2020
Omojudy:
I think it's time I dropped my childbearing story.

Thirteen years ago, aged 22, I married right out of university without the wisdom to realise the importance of finding my feet first. My husband was 11 years older than me. He wasn't rich but I thought we loved each other. Youth service year I conceived but lost it right out of service.

Hubby was helped to get a good job, stable government job by my family. When I lost my first pregnancy, we were staying a few months with his parents due to our financial situation, my father in law said to me after that loss while my husband travelled "did your ladies in the water say to you that the day you give birth you would die?"

With the new job right after the loss, we moved back home and continued our lives. Three more miscarriages came along with many drama ranging from deliverances to traditional midwives to in law's commanding the home.

Finally one day almost 5 years later, hubby travels and his father calls my aunty to tell her that "they don't want to marry their daughter again". I was at work when aunty broke the news to me. I travelled that night to the inlaws with my aunty and grand mother to beg, we were not given audience. They didn't even open their gate despite we could see my husband's car in the compound.

At 9pm my companions begged me to go home with them, I refused and chose to spend the night in a shed close by. The was no electricity in the neighbourhood, everywhere was dark. At midnight Power was restored, and from the shed I was hiding, I saw my father in law walking round the compound spraying incense, (he attended celestial church) I call out to him "daddy, daddy" obviously he hears me but does like I am a ghost.

At that point, I knew I was wasting my time, I started trekking. I trekked to the motor park which was very far, vigilantes stopped me numerous time and my tearful face made them not question me too much......a lot of drama in between, I traveled back and resume dwork while praying and fasting for his return. Mehn I lost weight without even trying. I met many scam pastors which are another story.........

One day, I suddenly realized I may have the password to hubby's Facebook, I tried it and it worked. What I saw pained me but it gave me strength knowing the break up wasn't because of anything he was accusing me of (like saying a pastor revealed to him that I was sent into his life by Kingdom of darkness to destroy him. To this I asked if Kingdom of darkness gave jobs, he said he has repaid me ie Kingdom of darkness back in connecting me to the job I had then which didn't last. Oh he wanted me to be paying my salary to him by the way).

So I got some courage to begin living again at this point and apply for a divorce. To this he also said "that good wives wait for their husbands no matter how long they go, but me I ran to apply because I want to remarry."

We got to court and he was accompanied by his father and them claiming that hubby didn't abscond but I did. Guess they were afraid I wanted to request compensation. Walking out of court, his father waves at me and I wonder why.
He was barely divorced then remarried and yes has kids now. Things went sour with my place of work and I relocated to a bigger city and that was my fresh start.

Met my husband two years after the divorce, I hid nothing from him especially my challenges with infertility. We got married same year. And got pregnant and miscarried. Second pregnancy for now hubby, I was put on cerclage, yet the pregnancy still ended and I almost ended with it as my body was going into shock due to its inability to dispel the dead foetus since a cerclage held the products in.

I had an history of pregnancy losses at 14 weeks. After 8 miscarriages and no living child, I visited more hospitals, met insensitive money alone conscious doctors, finally a correct diagnosis was made.

I had no demons worrying me, my womb was just too small to carry to term, it wasn't expanding with the pregnancies. An hysteroscopy was the procedure used to diagnose this.

Getting a diagnosis at last was some sort of relief, but what can we do doctor I asked? Doctor said "have you considered adoption?" I was shattered.

I went home and discussed it with my husband. We agreed to adopt and we applied two years ago. We only just got feed back few weeks ago from them self.

Then one day I was on social media and I saw someone advertise needing a surrogate and like a light bulb the idea stuck, I wrote to the woman and we started chatting. One day her Status said she needed someone to donate blood for a relative of hers and I say where to an online stranger I had never met. That was the first day I met my good friend Mrs R. I also put up an advert for a surrogate as I couldn't afford to the price agencies were charging. After two bad experiences, I finally got one good person that we could afford. And God just sent money mysteriously.

Then when God wants to turn your story around, you know it's just your time. I paid for one cycle at the hospital we used, already looking for money in case the first cycle did not work, guess what?

IT WORKED! MY TWIN DAUGHTERS ARE 3 MONTHS OLD NOW.

This is not your everyday testimony, I no get time to dey give testimony like some people wey go go church dey say "after waiting for 20 years, God blessed us with triplets, tell the journey when telling your testimony sisters, don't let the holy sister at the back waiting for a similar miracle be thinking God doesn't answer her prayers. Be real, stop pretending.

Edited:
Please someone take me to front page for the first time in my life na. ����
Wow. Jahbless you and your twins!

My love for twins mehn! cool
Romance › Re: Is It Okey To Collect Money From An Ex ? by GeneralPula: 11:03am On May 15, 2020
It’s called refunding.. grin
Romance › Re: Women Don't Care About Your Struggle. by GeneralPula: 5:33am On May 15, 2020
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Food › Re: See what a Nairalander has been doing during this Covid-19 Period by GeneralPula: 5:02am On May 15, 2020
Don’t know why I’m feeling like this is some sort of scam! undecided
Nairaland General › Re: Help: I Think I'm Too Soft For A Man That I Am by GeneralPula: 9:47pm On May 14, 2020
Let them Chop your face like 4-5 times, you'll Man up no worry. sad
Pets › Re: My Pet Snake by GeneralPula: 9:39pm On May 14, 2020
daveFBL:
Finally, I was able to capture a snake alive without hurting it. Its still small, not more than 2 weeks old from the look of things.

The specie happens to be House brown snake, they are non-venomous snakes. You can confirm... Its day 2 with it. But just wondering where I can get pink mice or anything to feed her with. She's a female. I checked for that also.

Hope its not a bad idea?
No, it’s not bro.

You can capture it image and tag natgeo wild on Twitter. Tell them about it. Wonders may happen.

Never mind those saying trash.. The snake is harmless.
Politics › Re: Nigerian Governors Demand Inclusion In Recovered Loots’ Sharing by GeneralPula: 7:27pm On May 14, 2020
Governors..

One of the biggest Naijaz problem..

Until we start facing our Governors, instead of just the president, Naija will never get better!
Politics › Re: Shina Peller Celebrates 44th Birthday With Lovely Pictures by GeneralPula: 6:10pm On May 14, 2020
Money man
Romance › Re: What I notice about Nairaland threads by GeneralPula: 6:03pm On May 14, 2020
undecided
Romance › Re: Okada Man Received Hot Slap From A Lady With Big Breast For Running After Her.pi by GeneralPula: 5:59pm On May 14, 2020
Audio slap
Politics › Re: Buhari Meets Service Chiefs At Presidential Villa by GeneralPula: 3:39pm On May 14, 2020
cool
Romance › Re: I'm Allergic To Condoms.. by GeneralPula: 11:25pm On May 13, 2020
Quality20:
Don't go n get penis cancer from using oyimbo n Chinese made CDs.
Trash
Romance › Re: My Deeper Life Girlfriend Is An Ashawo by GeneralPula: 11:04pm On May 13, 2020
KristaPretty:
So you saw her on the bed with the pastor holding hands and you conclude they had sexhuh What if they were prayinghuh

Some people mentality sha!
Damn.. Praying on the bed? Okay.

Even Jesus is feeling disgusted right now..
Romance › Re: My Deeper Life Girlfriend Is An Ashawo by GeneralPula: 11:02pm On May 13, 2020
Scaredd:
I'm dating a deeper life girl, and we haven't had sex since I started dating her last year September.

It's a long distance relationship though, when I visit her and make any move for sex, she ends up saying she's doesn't want to have sex. But she can kiss for Africa which I don't fancy that much.

In one occasion, I took her to a guest room in a hotel, we kissed, she was turned on and started begging me to hold her nipples. I was like "finally!".

I told her let's get a room, but to my greatest surprise, she said No. That she doesn't want to have sex now, that it's been long she had sex and if she goes to the room with me she won't be able to resist me.

Anyway, I let her be. Sex should be mutual afterall. I love her and she's not the "give �" type. Moreover, sex is not why I travel all the way to see her.

I just hope am not being played like the op.
You and the OP are being paused. grin
Romance › Re: The Revenge cheating Mentality Of Ladies. by GeneralPula: 10:29pm On May 13, 2020
Holes are different from Rods.. cool
Politics › Re: COVID-19: Lagos Lockdown Online Vote by GeneralPula: 10:01pm On May 13, 2020
sad
Politics › Re: COVID-19: Lagos Lockdown Online Vote by GeneralPula: 10:00pm On May 13, 2020
fatymore:
No lock down again biko....


I need to get married please
Lockdown or no lockdown, if marriage don set for you, nothing can stop it.
Romance › Re: Why Do I Get Erections Almost Every Morning by GeneralPula: 7:59pm On May 13, 2020

Romance › Re: Why Do I Get Erections Almost Every Morning by GeneralPula: 7:57pm On May 13, 2020
Lol
Politics › Re: Dapo Fafowora: "COS Ibrahim Gambari Is Even More Dangerous Than Kyari" by GeneralPula: 7:53pm On May 13, 2020
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ContractKiller:
Buhari's New Chief Of Staff Is Gambari Is More Subtle And Even More Dangerous Than Late Abba Kyari

By Ambassador Dapo Fafowora

What I have written in this long piece is just some of my personal experience and encounter with him. Everything I have written here is in my memoirs 'Lest I Forget 'which he has seen and read.

I know him quite well. I was the one who in 1981 brought him to the UN at his request as a member of the Nigerian delegation. He was then a senior lecturer at the ABU. In fact, the late Prof Audu, who was then Foreign Minister actually advised me against inviting him to the UN. But he had strong academic credentials which impressed me.


He had obtained his first degree in political science from the LSE, and a doctorate from Colombia University in New York. We were looking for strong delegates to the UN General Assembly and I considered him the kind of delegate we were looking for. So I invited him as one of our delegates to the UN General Assembly. He was at the UN in New York with me. I gave him and his wife my city apartment which I was not using free for 3 months plus a car. I liked him and I was not seeking any favours from him.

After 3 months he returned home and sent me a note thanking me for giving him the first opportunity to visit the UN as a delegate and giving him his first experience at multilateral diplomacy.

However, he sent President Shagari a secret and private note that while he was at the UN he observed that I had not been attending the meeting of Islamic states at the UN.


President Shagari sent the note to Prof Audu who forwarded it to me in New York. He didn't even ask me for any comments on Gambari's secret memo as Prof Audu fully understood that Nigeria had traditionally not been attending meetings if the Islamic states as we were not then a member of the Group. Gambari asked for a private meeting with President Shagari which Prof Audu advised against. I was shocked that someone I had helped so much turned round to betray me so blatantly. I did not tell him I knew about the secret letter he had sent to the UN. When Shagari was overthrown by Buhari Gambari became Foreign Minister.

When career ambassadors were being suddenly retired I was at first not on the list. But Gambari, now FM and Rafindadi, the head of the NSO who had worked under me in London, and was now head of the NSO worked together to secure my retirement. In fact, when I called him from New York to confirm from him news about my retirement he first denied it.

Thereafter, he no longer took my calls. In fact, I remained at my post in New York for another 3 months during which the MFA tried to reverse the decision to retire me. I had done absolutely nothing wrong in my entire career in the diplomatic service and only got into trouble for helping a young academic who turned against me to fulfil his own personal ambition. Since then, he and I have only met twice in very difficult circumstances. First at a dinner by a mutual friend in New York several years after my retirement.

He could barely look directly at me. He was clearly embarrassed. Then when Buhari won the elections in 2015 I headed a team that was set up to prepare a paper for him on our Foreign Policy. Subsequently, Alhaji Joda asked him to join the team. Last year, he suddenly called me to ask if I would kindly represent him at a public lecture he had agreed to chair.

I told him I could not and that he should look for someone younger. He immediately hung up on me. Now, he may be the kind of person Buhari is looking for to succeed Abba Kyari as COS.

They are very much alike but Gambari is more subtle and even more dangerous and will substitute the national interests for his own personal interests. I have no doubt about that.

What I have written in this long piece is just some of my personal experience and encounter with him. Everything I have written here is in my memoirs 'Lest I Forget 'which he has seen and read.

It is nothing new. But I think it important that the character of our top govt officials should be revealed and not covered up. We have, as a nation, paid dearly for supporting appointments to high office that are often detrimental to our nation.

Enough is enough and this has to stop.


http://saharareporters.com/2020/05/13/buharis-new-chief-staff-gambari-more-subtle-and-even-more-dangerous-late-abba-kyari
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Crime › Re: Leo: Man Kidnapped In Owerri And Killed By Men In Army Uniform (Graphic Photos) by GeneralPula: 7:45pm On May 13, 2020
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ekene101:
there is no app, same way u notice a saucy lady, stubborn child or a petty criminal in ur hood. The kinda aura around them and the kinda appearance they put out makes people who have been around guys of same lifestyle easily identify them.can you explain how this young guy was able to afford such an expensive car and probably many other expensive gadgets at his young age??
Money made from street has a way of making one look different from money made legally. Eg no legally hard working guy drive an expensive car monday to Friday wearing natives (or does the guy's dressing looks like someone working anywhere)during working hours to nowhere in particular looking tushed and fresh up.
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Crime › Re: Leo: Man Kidnapped In Owerri And Killed By Men In Army Uniform (Graphic Photos) by GeneralPula: 7:34pm On May 13, 2020
shakushakuist:
Some people above me are commenting that he 'looks' like a yahoo boy angry
What does a yahoo boy look like? Why is that all that matters when this kid was allegedly kidnapped and killed like an animal by people whose job is to serve and protect us the citizens?
Someone above is even asking what's a young boy doing with ES350 while some are concluding that it's a deal gone wrong.
One thing about some of us Nigerians is that we don't give a fvck how barbaric a story is until it happens to you, your family or friends.

cry
Jah bless you.. We have too many stupid thinkers in this country.. Main reason the country is like this up till this moment!
Crime › Re: Leo: Man Kidnapped In Owerri And Killed By Men In Army Uniform (Graphic Photos) by GeneralPula: 7:29pm On May 13, 2020
TheSourcerer:
you should be arrested since you live with him in the same room and use his phone with him , stupid bunga fish snail brain .
Shiit is tiring.. See them tagging the young dude a yahoo boy because of his freshness and dopeness..
Politics › Re: US Vows To Monitor $32.8m COVID-19 Spending In Nigeria by GeneralPula: 7:14pm On May 13, 2020
I no blame them sha.. No be ther fault.

Nah we give them the pass to open mouth to our matter anyhow.

Us been saying all these on purpose. Their hypocrisy nah number one. Thru their movies, it’s easy to detect their mindset towards reasoning.

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