greatnaija01:
NO NIGERIAN UNIVERSITY WILL EVER GIVE YOU TRUE COMPUTER SCIENCE KNOWLEDGE THAT IS APPLICABLE IN THIS CENTURY


So it is a blessing in disguise. HE SHOULD GO AND DO ABOUT 6 CERTIFICATIONS in the area of ICT that he is fit for, and IF HE IS DILIGENT, HE WILL BECOME VERY LUCRATIVE IN IT.

University is simply APC and POLYTECHNICS are like PDP.

God is trying to tell him that there is NOTHING FOR HIM IN UNIVERSITY with regards to computer science UNLESS HE HAS MONEY TO AFFORD A PRIVATE UNIVERSITY then he is safe.

He should NEVER have written jamb.... CERTIFICATE is NOT SABIFICATE.... people will only pay the person who has SABIFICATE.

God bless you for your advise .....thanks

A friend text me this, and I think sharing it here on Nairaland will be good, as it will be exposed to wider opinions, idea, advise and perspective.

Experienced elders in the house, please give an advice on this issue.

In his words "
Computer science has been a course I've been so passionate and engulfed with, I don't think I could ever do anything aside of computer related career.

I've been applying to different universities and computer science as a course of aspiration for the past three years, I've never scored below 200 in my utme exams and my O level result is too neat with no deficiency, the first two universities I applied never gave me admission even though I think Nigeria's academic atmosphere is having a high degree of intense decadence ranging from poor academic practical equipment with outdated curriculum. I've seen people with lower cut off Marks being admitted, I know it's almost 65% connection this days unlike the 70s, 80s, 90s, its no longer on merit all the time.

I've started coding at the age of sixteen, I can write codes proficiently in HTML, CSS, JavaScript, jQuery, php and mysql, java, little of C++ and little of Python. No one thought me all this, i watch tutorials and practice my ass out! This is my career, and its my dream. I'll be glad even if I graduated with a computer science degree and still become unemployed, I will feel I've arrived and satisfied at the same time.

There is this joy derived in doing what you're passionate about.

I recently got admitted in on of the country's university, unfortunately, my course was changed from computer science to mathematics, not even computer science education or any other computer related course (Don't know if it can be reversed though). I feel I have to try or apply again, even if I bag bachelors degree in computer science at the age of 30, I'm still fine with that provided my dreams comes true.

I've vowed never to give up on my dreams, I'm not under any societal pressure nor family pressure, my parents are very understandable set of people, they support me.

The world is an IT driven world, computer experts or people with IT knowledge are in huge demand everyday. This also elevated my quest for and passion for computer.

We are all responsible for the decision we take in life, I don't want to regret later in life, I will not be influenced by Any one to Change my dream, this is what I want and ever wanted and will always want. I also want to have a certified IT certificate after my degree so as to boost my chances in the labour market.

Now here comes the question.

Should I forget about computer science degree and go for a certified IT course in any of the IT training school in the country or still pursue admission and later get a certified IT course after my degree? Or just have the degree? Cuz I know that computer science is not all about having the degree, it also about building yourself and self development. I know that there are graduated of computer science that can't even write code.

Please I'm confused in this stage of my life, advice me on what to do.
I don't want to regret or take a wrong decision that I'll later say " Had I know "

Help a brother, and God bless you as you respond.

ganie:
OP...the true test of love is time. I hope you both pass because I failed it.

Oh.....I'm so sorry about that, very unfortunate, GOd will give you another one!!!

Thanks a lot

Ironman15:
Op first nd foremost i will say a big CONGRATULATION.....you are so fortunate..u found a wiffy material


buh i understand your points,i think you are overwhelmed by her too much of love...its nothing to worry about
you just make sure you don't hurt her feelings nd show her a thousands of reason for her to love u


meanwhile few years time i will be glad to see your invitation card......lol


congrats once again

Oh my goodness, I can't help but shout!!!!! Thank you so much for your kind gesture! I wish everyone could have a good girl like mine! Lol.......sincerely speaking I appreciate your comment...... Thanks a lot

amaniro:
OP it's a no for me. Such people become very possessive afterwards.... "After what I have done for you" becomes the topic of the day.


Sorry, I know you're in love ; love is wicked.


Dump her.....


@Genesizero

Oh my gosh....easy man! Don't you think that's too harsh of you I think God will locate you with one of these kind of lady, then, you'll have a clear understanding of my plight....


Thanks for comments.... I appreciate it

Ray97:
welcome. I have a friend like dah. She is too kind, nice and welcoming. She even invited me to her house and introduced me to her mum just like dah.. It felt so unreal i had dis feeling dat she is hiding somtin dat she is a scam because to me gals like dah dnt exist i mean such people are only in our fantacies. This is som1 dah gives her phone to me without me asking. I mean she is damn open. My friends vowed not to forgive if i let her go..that i was scared of the unknown..

If I may say, I think you should cherish her too, except you don't have feelings for her. When we come across such people, I think there is every need we handle them with all sincerity and honesty, they are very few.

Thanks for your advise!

Ray97:
welcome. I have a friend like dah. She is too kind, nice and welcoming. She even invited me to her house and introduced me to her mum just like dah.. It felt so unreal i had dis feeling dat she is hiding somtin dat she is a scam because to me gals like dah dnt exist i mean such people are only in our fantacies. This is som1 dah gives her phone to me without me asking. I mean she is damn open. My friends vowed not to forgive if i let her go..that i was scared of the unknown..

If I may say, I think you should cherish her too, except you don't have feelings for her. When we come across such people, I think there is every need we handle them with all sincerity and honesty, they are very few.

Thanks for your advise!

Ray97:
Baba pray it could be good it could be bad. Morever looking at it she dosent have anything to lose but u do. She can use her money to get who she can supress and love her but she didnt chose you..

just pray for guidance.. I admire you actually u arent blinded by her money.

Thanks a lot for your comment...... I don't think she can suppress a man, although human are unpredictable... But I think she loves me. And as for her money, she's the one Even forcing it on me!

I appreciate it......

Oyindidi:
Sorry, I thought you're a grown up.

Of course I'm grown up nigga! A man talking about marriage is ain't longer a kid........ Thank you so much.

One love!!!

Homeboiy:
Op am not here for your big grammars


Can u help me out this lady's phone number?



Your too young to be dating someone like her


Elders like me only knows the secret

Hahahhaha......you're very funny bro, thank you so much..... I'm just being a bit paranoid and logical in my endeavors........ Heart break everywhere this days..... One need to be careful this days.

God bless you for me! Thanks

ChopBellefull:


So u no knw say e get as girl go love u, u sef go dey fear.. I understand him as a guy

Thank you so much brother, it seems you're a bit experienced.........

ChopBellefull:

Oyin please be reading first na, y abusing d OP he dey talk him plight...

Take ur time and read a post. Abeg.

@OP derz possibility you are her first guy dats y shes channeled so much love on u ds way. It will continue ds way if you are nt clouded by her money. Don't be her toy. Atimes reject monetary gifts from her. Dnt be controlled by her too. Sometimes hurt her intentionally.

Wen she sees d manliness in you it ll gv her more attraction to you.
Dats my own advice

Oh my God, you're a bomb! I'm happy for your intelligent advise, I'll test her or hurt her intentionally just like you have said in order to see how she will react, and for the gift I sometime get tired of them, when I reject it she'll start crying and look so sympathetic. I'll work on that also!

YES "I'm her first guy"


I appreciate your comment.... Thanks a lot

Oyindidi:
I think you are sick

Oh jeez, easy man! In what way do I sound sick in my post I posted it for people to advice me, pretenders are every where. I think I did nothing wrong by sharing my plight for advice

Thanks anyway for your comment

Hello naiarlanders, I honestly suddenly became a bit suspicious over the love and care oozing from my girlfriend.

I have seen people posting there problems here on this forum and they get there advises from experienced and educated people with honest advice. It's my first post actually.

WARNING: This might be a lengthy one!

This girl has been my crush and dream even right from our teenage years, I was so tensed and engulfed with the quest to approach her even though she was all over me with her affectionate actions towards me, "Green light" I was a bit reluctant and hesitant at first maybe due to my nervousness or juvenile sentiment, it seems she knew it and then decided to take the lead role, oh yes! She approached me and I was scared, I was being paranoid just like any other teenager, I finally gave in to her proposals. That night she proposed love to me was the most happiest day of her life and I mean it, the unarguable evidence that can attest to this claims was written all over her. She kissed me! Oops.....

This lady romanced me to an extent that i could never imagine which then elevated me to cloud nine, Godamn it, she was a bomb and I never knew it until that prestigious day.

She was the perfect definition of beauty, very intelligent, this lady is extravagantly endowed with all feminine potential you can ever think of from a woman. She was tall, fair, I mean extremely fair, she was slim and curvy even though I never for once initialized an interest on physical looks, her's drives me crazy and her voice sends down a consolation stimulus down my spine when ever she speaks to me on phone or physically.


After so many romantic moment we had, she's just too good to my liking, she's a good cook, she's soft hearted, she's remorseful, supportive both financially and morally, I never said this huh? " Her dad is fucking super rich", Bleep me!

She will take me to hospital when I fall sick, she will settle the bills herself, she buy me clothes, she will take me out for dates, she will sing to my ears when I eventually seems moody, damn her voice is angelic and she knew it, she will credit my account even though I never asked for it cuz at first I made her realized that I'm ain't in a relationship with her for money or materialism, I have never for once demanded for sex from this girl, Gosh, she's a "Virgin" and with this I vowed never to deflower her even if she freely and willingly give it to me, she was sincere to me and for this I never cheated on this girl, I showed her love and care, I create time for her, could you imagine this girl has been acquainted with my siblings, especially my mom. Unknowingly to me where she got the numbers from cuz I can't remember given it to her myself. She tells me her every secret even if I never asked for them, and the last was the recent one she did, "Paying my house rent" even though I rejected, she insisted. She's in her third year in the university, I'm also a student as well though in my finials, she told me I'm the only one and I never for once doubted her, sometimes I become too weak to ascertain the reasons for all this.

Please Nairalanders here is where I need your advise. Please comment on this, its important to me as it my life decision, I don't want to make a regrettable mistake

Looking at what is happening this days as its very had to find a loving and genuine girl, I felt that when one comes across any, we should hold them with care and high prestige.

I never for one day made this girl to regret falling in love with me. This I vowed to myself and I'm living for it! Women like this are priceless!

Now, having said all this, I'm beginning to think of making this girl my wife, yes i want to make a family with her! do you think I'm being scammed or blinded by her love? Could this be pretence? Even if I knew it from my heart that she truly and genuinely loves me, can this continue for ever? I don't know what she sees in me but all I know is that she loves me not even because she approached me, but because she has given me every reason to love her, believe her, and confide in her.

SpyAC:
Lets go private guy,

Can I what's App or chat you up on facebook?

who will give me betnaija sure odds?......

Corper davido

Oh my fellow man, Mr. Uber please be careful ooo before you know now, them go accuse you of rape or any form of sexual assault...........



If you know, you know!!!


You'll be blackmailed and then get your name tarnished in the Public....

Fitness all the way!!

Saying fit is the best.... Maintening good health is the best


And not those poo with bag of fat called curves........

Fat and calorie.........


Fat tommy in free mode

If society has the duty to protect women from the extreme minority of men who are offenders (and it does have that duty), shouldn't society also protect men from the extreme minority of false-accusers?



Your contributions will be duely appreciated!

sinaj:
His village people finally got him.
Rip to him

Must everything thing be attributed to village people


Sense fall on you!!!!

With rapid growth and increase in the quest for knowledge especially in the IT sector, ranging from Web programming, android development, animation, graphics and the likes. This brings along a thrown back for one to begin to think on what the future might be when every one suddenly becomes a developer, Who will hire the other and who will work under the other? Do you think there will rooms for vacancy as everyone tends to be conversant with computer code even with the fact that ICT especially in Nigeria is still in its infants, I sense wide range of knowledge and literacy in the computer world in the future as everyone strives to be knowledgeable about computer codes..... ICT Hubs, tech meet-up, free and online tutorials is on the increase day by day.


Will there still be job and vacancies in the ICT sector in the nearest future when ICT knowledge suddenly becomes rampant as everyone seems to code.

TimeMachine:


The reasons are found on the relationship between Biology and Psychology. The act of sex and masturbation, is biologically the same, so I think you are using a moral compass to calibrate the effects of a biological mechanism with psychologically aggravating the guilt curve.

Conjugal sex and masturbation is biologically the same act of catalyzing the release of Sex hormones from the human organism into the blood stream, and the effects can range from ecstacy, sleepiness, relaxation, anti-stress and many other beneficial factor. Whether it is conjugal intercourse or masturbation, the differential factor has more to do with your judgement, which is purely a psychological affair than celebral.

In fact I make bold to say that sex and masturbation, if properly harnessed can actually boost mental performance, as the brain wave is entrained to beta frequency post and pre-ejaculation, which definitely is great for a better state of mind and research purpose.

Thanks a lot man, I really appreciate it!! I'm very glad you could shed more light..... God bless you

TimeMachine:
no

Alright!
Please can you explain why say "No" If you don't mind!

On the vogue and quest for reassurance of self sexual confident, I suddenly became prompted to be very optimistic in knowing if masturbation abstinence and restraints can improve one's mental and cognitive ability, this delusional entity (masturbation) has been an iota of lack of self bravery and confidence towards engaging in legal and legitimate intercourse with one's partner especially with the utmost eagerness to sexually satisfy the both party without being constrained with quick ejaculations or erectile dysfunction, I will be glad to know if exiting masturbation can improve my mental, physical, emotional and psychological ability.

Can quitting masturbation restore and improve my mental performance especially as a student? (very important pls)

Can quitting masturbation cure quick ejaculations and erectile dysfunction?

I'll be glad If you could help by answering smartly and intelligently as this has been a misery to me. God bless you for your help!

I'll advise you get married first, since you and your girlfriend have acquired to this extent, the good pay job and you're all living normally, I think you'll need to get married and then continue your masters career program....... It's not a crime to run masters after getting married.....




I need babies, we need babies, I wanna see your wedding pics, no time to waste......

Linda ikeji preached feminism, until a good dick humbled her!

Where is she today? A mother......

Dick is just a bae!


Don't mind all this women parading there selves with unscrupulous naivety called points, they will keep ranting about feminism until they meet a good dick, then comes humility, then most importantly, admitting to the fact that man is indeed powerful with a weapon of mass destruction! The aforementioned woman above is a living example!

This is just the beginning, they will all submit one after the other...... More to come!

Illuminacio mi nisi Dominus frustra!

Nice one!! ftc

LuciferKristi:
Apply aloe vera gel every night before you sleep then wash off with warm water the next morning.

It should clear in two weeks.

How can apply it? Should I lose the laptop screen or how please explain more if you don't mind

Please computer engineers in the house, can any of you tell me the way or a process to get rid of black pixels on my laptop screen..... There is this black spots that suddenly started developing on the screen of my computer.


Any body with any idea on how to get rid of it should help please!