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I think interracial marriages are WONDERFUL!!!!!

Blacks and whites dont live on different planets - this is one world! As long as love is present, everything else does not matter! And mixed children are truly blessed to have two different cultures so close. I wish I was mixed, But what can I say, Cant change your genes

So the question to wether wrong/right, then my answer is ; It is BEYOND CORRECT!

My exboyfriend stopped paying attention to my conversation and I could hardly get eye contact cus his eyes would be all over me, Then I knew it was time to put out, hehe, When we lied in bed then the body signals no need to be there, cus were are equally good in taking the initiative,

I would LOOOOOOVE if my man was affectionate with me in public, !


You should be happy and proud that he's your man

Hehe, good luck with this

odiaero:
am not telling ya am taking a train to germany, am taking a train to the nearest airport, and plz there is no MAGA here, if u fake ursel finish, u will just find out that u spent all your money buying tickets in cyber cafe, so u are the looser

Okay, and what is it exactly I am trying to scam here? Good advise? haha, Yes, that will put me to jail for sure, I think that you are the 419 here!

maedan:
@ German1234,

It's a pity that only the jokers have taken interest in your topic. I think it's cool you want to understand your partner better, it shows you care and are sincere. Just be yourself, don't force it. There's no textbook way to get to a "Naija" man's heart. Some care about home cooking, some don't. Some care about you being submissive, but most just want you to be a strong woman. One major thing though is RESPECT. That's one fast way to keep a (good) Naija man.

Thank you for your reply! Yes it is most certainly a pity,  But what can you expect from an internet forum? 

When you say "respect", what do you mean. There are many ways of giving respect I think,  One is giving him the respect to be a man that wants to do what he wants to do. Another way is to respect his ways as a Nigerian - which I think is the best kind of respect you can give,

c-zer:
Why are you dey lie that is not your pix you are black i know you dont deceive people kpako

This is funny, why should I lie??

I am not black, Dont know where this is coming from, "kpako"

skfa1:
Is that your pix?

Yes it is my picture, why do you ask?


Well, to be submissive is not a good thing, Or is it?

Ohhh, thank you!!

But what do you mean by this:

Thats your interpretation.
You messed with the language like die.
But for a beginner, you're okay.

Was it in what he wrote?

I just have a few questions,

How can I get a naijaboy to love me more? Is it important to show:
- good housekeeper?
- good in bed?
- economically stability?

Or something more, ?

also, what does this mean:

"Nkem, odi'ka ichoziri i isukarim na igbo. Nsowo adia kedi ife i'na eme ugboa. Muwa emechana efe nneme ugboa ozo ano echegi ugboa."


Greetings from a nigerian-loving german

"Nkem, odi'ka ichoziri i isukarim na igbo. Nsowo adia kedi ife i'na eme ugboa. Muwa emechana efe nneme ugboa ozo ano echegi ugboa."


Please help me, I am sooo lost,

Thanks

Hey guys!

A little help needed, i need this phrase in igbo:

"Good evening to you! How has your day been? I will talk to you soon"




Thx in advance peeps :0)

Love has ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to do with color,


Black man/woman, White man/woman, red, yellow whatever,

The earth is one big planet for lettin' the love grow

This is actually a very important issue in theese days,

Recent studies of 5000 women all over the world show that only about 20% of them are even BORN with a hymen. This means that 4 out of 5 girls are born without it, The rest of them, that are born with them, can rupture trough riding a horse, biking or even jumping on a trambolina.

We need to tell the world that blood on the wedding night is almost impossible for a woman to live up to.

Many people take advantage of theese strict demands from the husband and the family and create secret clinics for plastic surgery for making a fake hymen out of a layer of skin from you own body that will - when penetrated - bleed! BUT this is very expensive and painfull for the girl and suuush a bad thing for her to go trough, even though she has been a virgin all her life!

Just something to think about!

Thanks for all your help guys!!!!

I know what to do now!


Im gonna dumb him and start looking for someone who is good to me!

This has been a REVELATION!

ayettymama:
ooooooo

@german1234

your white??

ooo sorry i didnt no

well the advice has to be different

im glad u figured it out- cos white girls never do (i hope that doesnt sound rascist)

yes love- hes definitely using you

and the fact he knows u love him hes using u more

Uhmmm, this comment is veeery interesting!

tkb417:
Not sure Copenhagen is better than Jo'bourg
maybe wrong but i think SA has done well for themselves

I never said it was better, Im just curious because theres a lot of focus on this country due to the football and al that,

BUT - copenhagen is the best ) If u come, I'll give the Grand Tour ) Hehe

How is it lo live in SA?


Is it like a little europe in the bottom of africa?

I think I should be carefull now on on what I post because it may sound wrong,

"I actually tried to deny him my puzz with the outcome of him behaving like a typical nigerian man - like a 5-year old, stuppern, my-way-or-the-highway BOY! Which led me to think what I wrote in the poster"

This was my original statement, and what I mean by "typical" is that I have known about 10 (just friends) and they all behave in the same pattern - It is so obvious and I really dont believe that I am generelizing.

I have a bit ambivialent relationship to a naija boy - They are the ones I am most atracted to (Both appearance and personality), but also the ones I have been least compatible with trough my life,

So if I could only meet a nice one it would be peeeerfect! I really love the culture, the food, the music, the people, the EVERYTHING!

daduke2k:
I ve said it b4 and i wil say it again. Sit him down and talk 2 im , deny him d intimacy and d meal ticket then watch his reaction 2 dat. Breakin up a relationship is easier dat makin it work. Ciao.

Sometimes the easy solution is not the correct one, But in this case it might be

I actually tried to deny him my puzz with the outcome of him behaving like a typical nigerian man - like a 5-year old, stuppern, my-way-or-the-highway BOY! Which led me to think what I wrote in the poster,

The reason to why he has not got a job is because he doesnt have recidency in this country and you have to have that to get a job. BUT even if he had residency, I think that he would only work 2 times a week or even less. It seems like the biggest interest in his life is to hang out with his friends and TO TALK ON THE PHONE to call his family and friends in nigeria, I guess he misses them, but it can sometimes be too much.

He also asked if we could get married, but there is my limit. That is one thing I will NEVER do berfore I know its the right thing,

190:
poster

how can i reach you on FB,
i would really like to discuss this issue with you
seriously,

190
Please not here and it concerns your relationship!

Erm, is this a message for me or yourself?

ayettymama:
she prob just needs confirmation every woman comes to a crossroad in a relationship

and will always need an idea from a different perspective

aint nothing wrong with it!!

That so true, I guess I just need a kick in the behind afterall, Anywell, I have a lot to think about now,

But Should I completely ignore my feelings? What about them? I really disslike this situation,

When Im with him I feel that Im floating on a pink sky filled with joy and happiness.

And when he's not around I feel like I should be thinking more of myself,

Hate this - but this is really what love does to you, Ay!

I used to be the kind of girl she is. And one thing I can tell you:

- I kept doing it cuz I felt I hadnt found the right one

- I did it several times and didnt feel bad


So I was a cold hearted bit*ch - Just like she is, Truth is better than lies in the end. I am happy to have learned from my own mistakes!

Hey guys!

I need some serious advise! I am currently with a guy but I dont know if he is just using me for sex and money. I have money since I have a good job, and he doesnt have a job. When we go out, I always pay. I really dont mind, but if you were a man, would you allow your woman to pay for EVERYTHING? And when we talk on the phone, he is always saying that he misses my puz, When we are together he is always thinking of himself, How can I really know. I have such stroooong fealings, but Im afraid to be hurt (again),


German1234

Odunnu:
So u'v let d igbo guy u were learnin d language 4?
Sorry gal.

Hehe, no this one I was learning for is neeeew. The new guy and I are not in a relationship, yet

But after knowing two igbo guys theres something they have very much in common. And thats their way of compromising, It doesnt excist. It is HIS way or the highway, I am hoping that I can transform this new igbo to maybe understand the western way of compromising, if he'll allow me to

My 1st relationship:

He was perfect for me; loving, understanding, trustworthy, relieable, loved me SO much, caring and funny - BUT had absolutely no sexual interest in me. So I ended it

My 2nd relationship:
He was soooo handsom, attractive, sexually hungry for me BUT selfish in every other single way you could imagine (This was an Igbo guy),

If only I could find a mix of thoose two people, my life would be peeeerfect )))

Thanks for all your help peops!

I had to go, yes, because it was friday,


The answer he gave to me for my message is in another tread,

Thanks for all your help ) I managed to give him the explanation that I heard HIM say it once, And that I catch on easily, Dont know if he bought it, I think its so interesting to learn new languages. And I have searched a little bit online about the igbo language and something is very strange to me, and that is that there are sooo many different ways of saying the same thing - it is even spelled differently. Is there, like in german, one official way of spelling or do you just spell it the way it is pronounced?

German1234

iyk1:
hmmm well, thats true,
by the way i hope you come to nigeria some day would really love to meet you

Hehe, I would looooove to go, Especially after all my naija friends here in DK tell me about it! But as always the problem is time and money!

How old are you?

iyk1:
i am a full blooded Nigerian and i live in nigeria,

Nice! Its always good to be fullblooded Thick blood is the best


Or something, hehe,

tkb417:
so have u sent what dudeke2 gave to u

what happened?

Yes I send some of it!

Just the start, But not the whole thing because we are not that close yet, It would be a little too much to send for now, BUT now he thinks im in a room with another igbo guy, So this turned out not so great I think,