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peterpaulis:
.. Guy my advice be say just try follow up With the girl, no create new conversation with her and don't ask too much questions or over do anything...peace

No new coNversation So we should chat about what

mizzkeji44:
Dont you have a gf before?

What if this is destined to be my future queen?? Should i ignore her cuz i'v gat a gf?

You can check my previous thread for more gf info

Mrval20:
Since you said you'd like to "take a shot", that means you're trying to "play your way in".
Just play like a big boy though and never appear thirsty to her at all.
Don't make her feel too important, don't pester her with calls and avoid excessive compliments. Make her understand you got a life....And then slowlyyy move from there. Don't ride on the speed lane.
#myopinion.

Awesome!

So i shouldn't call her back till when?

kudoxs:
Op, it's lust , don't even tell me this is love, just call her again some other day and tell her you've bin tryin not to call her again but the voice you hrd dt day kips resounding in ur head, den ask if you guys can b friends, den ask if she's on whatsapp( u kno she is on dia b4)... Den wen u gt to whatsapp, ul say 'wow! She got it all, pretty face wit a sweet voice'.......... My one cent!

Yeah, was thinking about that but she would still know i am up to something...i wanna catch her unaware...or should i chat her up on whatsapp now?

Tymax:
good question

OP, hope u r not planning hit and run operation.

I am not the kindda guy that "hit and run" i am the kindda guy that "hit and keep hitting" but physically and emotionally

chibwike:
Are u trying to play ur way in?

No i am not...just wanna get to know that beauty queen i saw

So i was going through my long lost diary(just found it in my old bag) during my search through it i got a number with no name....i decided to dial the number then it was a chick that picked up.

Mehn, that voice sounds so thrilling and arrrggghh...our conversation was:

Her: Hello good morning

Me: Hey, good morning over there, how are you doing

Her: i am fine, how about you?

Me: i am feeling awesome hearing this voice

Her: (chuckled)

Me: i am so sorry for bothering you, i was going through my long lost dairy bla bla bla....was just thinking maybe i might know the person on the other line

Her: Ok, i am dami by name

Me: i am Gflat(i told her my real name o) where is dami from?

Her: why are you asking

Me: come on...i just wanna know whose number this is...please....Don't worry, i aren't boko haram

Her: i am from *****

Me: really I schooled there

Her: ok, but i doubt it if we met @ that school...

Me: are you sure about that

Her: affirmative

Me: alright...(Short of words) uhmmmmmn...just wanna know...uhmmmn...hope i aren't bothering you or something

Her: nope...so how can i help you

Me: maybe i'll call you some other time...wanna try and check out my achieve maybe i'v come in contact of the name

Her: alright then..takie (dropped the call)


After the call, i stored her number to check her out on whatsApp...OMG she is so pretty and i think i'll have to "take a shot"

Now the situation is, what can i do not to look like someone who was actually trying to "play his way in" ??

Please advice

I am sorry, i don't fall inlove...i only lust after ladies

So you should create a thread with "how do you know when you are in lust" then my reply will be

* i look at her picture everyday and keep imagining some serious stuffs i could do to her

* i try calling her over to my place and tell her lies i.e i wanna spend the rest of my days with you
And
* i try kissing and smooching

Then finally hit the jackpot

Vikkyk10:
hm,mke i ask u 1 question 1st.If 2 sy na u b ur gf and dis little misunderstanding apend,and d nxt tin u c ur bf doin is dt he wanna replace u wt anoda gal.Hw wl u feel

If i am my gf, i wouldn't go that long without communicating with someone i love cuz it sends a big signal to him

DahtzFestjayz:
Some say I look slim like 9ice get mind like Olamide, generous as Davido, and like girls like Wizkid Whats Yours

Only you be like 4 celebs...bro this your lie is not from around here

Vikkyk10:
hm'u rili wana knw?

Yes i really wanna know

Missmossy:
You are so damn confused,make whatever choice you want to.

Hello miss smart @ss

Of cuz i am confused...if i aren't, i wouldn't create this thread in the first place will i??
I guess you shouldn't have posted any comment if you knew your post wouldn't count

Vikkyk10:
xo y do u wanna switch ova 2 d oda gal.I know ur type.

So what type am i

naijaboiy:
You made sense jare

Thanks baba...abeg how can i be like you when i grow up

VickyyB:
Just asking. This topic doesn't fit here.

So its now a "non-romantic" thing for me teaching guys how to step up their game?

Harbosede02:
Op u make me wanna say i hate guys!

Hey! What did i do?

misszainab:
I hate such stories. Guy so u mean, because of this little misunderstanding u're thinking of starting another thing with a girl? U're so wise.

Its not "little misunderstanding" when she doesn't pick calls for days

Vikkyk10:
abi,it's obvious u ar only after their ass.Mtcheeew

Swirry...i am not a player

andromida:
So you are staying in the relationship to keep her heart intact? whats in it for you?

I hope she goes back to becoming the girl i use to love

andromida:
There is nothing wrong in leaving a relationship you can no longer deal with. If you are no longer willing to work on what you have its time to leave.

I worked on what i have now...she's just making it hard on me. I don't wanna break her heart either

andromida:
Why you complaining about Evina?

You already know she is spunky since its she, go back home and make up.

I aren't talking about her joor

I say "enough of woman wrapperism" instead of running around these ladies and making fun of yourself NL, why don't you become a badazz and make them want you

Check out other guys getting the ladies attention(s) its not like they are better off, but they know their way around the game.

Now these are the 10 steps you should take to make yourself a "badazz" on NL

1.Upload pictures: Make sure they highlight
your best attributes and Change them up
occasionally to attract attention to your profile.
Keep them current so ladies can recognise you
at a glance
Please don't, i repeat DON'T start the "rate me" thread ever

2.Write about yourself: have a diary on NL. This Show that you are
confident, easygoing, fun, funny, flirtatious,
and sincere.

3.Search through profilesnot just female profiles) this makes you get to know some peeps and their "attitudes"...you can even get some more "styles" on how the game is being played from other peeps

4.Make contact: Be efficient and confident when doing this...don't make it seem like you wanna "woo" them(we'v gat too much of these on NL already)
just saying "HI" will be ok, don't bother if you don't get a mention back from her. But it makes her notice you.
If she replies, Say something about her in particular, but don't go overboard on compliments because chances are she's so used to hearing them and that will tag you as a woman wrapper

5.Wait for a reply: For every message you
send to a woman, she probably gets 25-100
others, so don't expect quick replies if you get
them at all. Remember that lashing out at them
for not replying does nothing but frustrate
them, and it sends the "woman wrapper alert" so saying nothing while she digs through
her inbox to find your message increases your
chances.

6.Communicate outside NL:
Move your communications to either email, whatsApp or BBM asap, or at whatever pace she is comfortable with. Through this, you'v gat 10% chance of "opened arms"

7.Don't ever be a jerk/Troll on NL: you can be the funny guy, "serious dude", or the intelligent guy that keeps making fp, but don't be a jerk/troll like yung**** or boiled**** it reduces your chance of getting a crush

8.Type messages effectively/correctly: Take your time because texting and email don't
require immediate replies. Reread every
sentence to make sure you say what you want
People to read. Check your grammar, spelling, and punctuation because writing like a secondary school dropout makes you look stupid before she even notice you. Don't type like mrc*ork

9.don't stalk: believe me, you don't wanna do this

10.Start talking on the phone Now when you get to this stage with her...you are 60% NL badazz

Welcome to the team bro

andromida:
So a quarrel with your gal means you should try the gal around the corner? Give it time before you call her again or just pay her a visit at home.

The "quarrel" is becoming too much...like can't we just not fight

Vikkyk10:
hm,u ar avn anoda affair hm.Guys.

I wasn't cheating on her...the kiss happened so fast and that was the only thing i did with the other girl

mizzkeji44:
Define accidental kiss@op

A kiss you never planned for...i.e maybe we were just talking and the next minute we found ourself kissing

Evina:
Gflat: Less than a week away and you already kissing gals and to make matters worse, you brought our personal ish to the public

Now I am not taking you back, EVER again

Awwwwr....

MzPreshie:
Are you hoping she quits? Like someone said, if you loved her, you wouldn't be considering another girl.

If i hope she quits, i wouldn't have been trying to call her since last week

MzPreshie:
See advice! So he should friend zone the new girl nah. Later now, you guys will say girls friend zone guys. Daris God ooo.

He's gat a point you know....if i should do away with her(new girl) and my gf quits...will i have to start all over from square one

donsalvy:
He might just be infatuating over the new bae, which ain't a biggie.

No i aren't bro...jst liked her before the "kiss"

ireneony:
what did u tell her that made her angry. the truth is that u don't love, cos if u love her u would not even have the time to consider another girl

I aren't considering another girl...Its just that i don't know what the hell is wrong with her. Its annoying you know...calling someone and she keeps ignoring your calls...

I am just considering Maybe she needs a time out and i don't wanna come here creating a thread on how to mend broken hearts

SRT8:
Admit you wanna fkck her. You stated an accidental kiss. Accidental sex would soon happen.

Gezz! So accidental kiss can't happen without sex being involved again Are you always that "konjious"

donsalvy:
keep the new bae at bay and sort things out with your original gurl. If things don't pan out well with her, you know the rest.

Yeah, i was thinking that...but what if she(the new girl) becomes too emotional and wouldn't let go later??