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ifemola:
thanks he said he ll take up the kids responsibility in terms of money,I left the house right now cause of an issue and he hasn't called for like a week to even ask of the kids.

He's probably expecting you to come back home cuz that's what most women do. Next thing now there would be a family meeting where your fellow women would try to shame/beg you into going back and 'praying'. No need going back after you've moved out, especially to a man that doesn't even seem to care. If your family wants to mediate, ask them to focus on getting him to agree on a definite plan for the kids welfare, as for you, you are still young, and you've got two kids, all you need now is a source of income not a cheating husband.

ifemola:
please don't just view...help a sister in need of advice...its really frustrating

Does he atleast care about his kids, is he the type that would still pay their fees after you leave? You should be happy you are sleeping in different rooms, let him have fun, while you try to look for a job. The bible already gave adultery as the only grounds for divorce, I don't know how women can still be interested in pleasing a man who's cheating on them. Stop wasting your time trying to be a better wife, he's the one that needs to be a better husband.

makelove2m:
Number one offence is to check ur hubby phone, that will make you loose confidence in him and thereafter generate to hatre, so, show more love as ever before, dress to impress him, give him more good food, i tell you, you will win him back, today girls loves married men, so ur husband is not alone...............

Typical male comment. She should start to worship him because he cheated, mtcheew.

Rhemy2013:
To all team May.no roll call nothing nothing,we have no cappoo dere is God ooh @Naomi14,@Nwrosa,@realtalk19,@Berra, @queensnow and d rest I can't remember pls let's appoint a cappo as I am always busy.am a student (project $ sch wahala)pls and pls we need roll call ooh I feel like crying seff ...love u all team MAY.

Lol, why are you crying na, hormones. You sound like a captain already, just do roll call already and complete it. Didn't even know team May didn't have a captain, I'd soon welcome Naomi14 to April

mimibe:
Currently in the hospital now, pitocin has been administered (I'm been induced) one week pass my due date, contractions comes n disappear, baby is doing good at moment, heart rate is perfect, 4cm gone but cervix is high. I know it will end in praise.

You are almost there, you'd be holding your beautiful baby in a couple of hours. God's grace

Naomi14:
Good morning mamas, I don't know which date to go with again. LMP says 3rd May, 1st Scan said 7th May and 2nd scan said 28th April. Which one I go kon follow but I would Love April baby sha

Lol, they say the early scan date is the most reliable, but if you still insist on porting, I'd be here to welcome you anytime

prettmum:
Helloooooo Team APRIL, I WELCOME all new members
I hope we are enjoying this sweet phase of pregnancy, the kicking, the energy,and the choppies.

LaDivva how are you n lo?
Giddyperson my sweet cappo I hail ooo
Mydream25, how is your wonderful family?
Fomalee, I can see you are bubbling
Unic,Sweetestmum, Tutucious I hope una dey well.
Abiagirl777 a Nam ekele gi
hmnmm can't remember nothing again

Hey teamie, one more month to third trimester. Can't wait to see this baby

Titony1:
Hello all mothers n soon to be mums in d house. Am 21 weeks gone, team April EDD pls want to know how many months pregnancy is it advisable to travel long distance with on an air plane? Thanks.

Welcome Teamie, you would find yourself in our next roll call, I can see the mamas have answered your question, bottom line ask your doctor to be double sure.

folamee:
team April
I did another scan today,am team XX and my edd is 11/4/2017 according to first scan
cc @giddyperson

Good to know, hope you are doing fine

mrsraiy:
ok so I'm 23weeks 3days pregnant According to LMP. Edd according to first scan is April 14. will not be checking the sex of lo cause I believe in surprises. team April capo please include me in the roll call oo. happy bumping to all pregnant mama's in the house.

I really do like this thread. @jazzyjazz your bump is huge mehnn!! I can imagine how uncomfortable it is. How do you manage to sleep at night? The Lord is your strength. since you're in Abuja please invite us to come and chop party jollof during naming ooo cos that's what im really craving.

Welcome aboard. Our first team surprise. I'd include your name in the next roll call, happy bumping

Sansa143:
Good afternoon all,am new in dis group and these is my story!
Am single and pregnant,abt 23wks gone and yet to start antenatal!Wanted aborting but cldnt find the courage to go tru with it!I was tested positive for malaria and was asked to treat it or I could loose the baby!I refused to thinking these was a way out of the mess am in!But it didn't work that way,right now I have accepted my fate and have decided to keep it!But how I will go about it is what I don't know,am not working!And I want to start school next year!Dont know how my parents will feel about these as am yet to tell them!Am not counting on them to support me,so I plan on relocating to another state and see how I could see myself through!I have no support as of now,but I believe God will see me through!And I believe there is a reason for the baby surviving my negligence!
That's my story,and am team April!

Shallom!

Welcome to team April, inform us as soon as you register in a hospital and get your TT injections. I believe you should tell your parents as soon as possible. If they are too angry you can move in with a friend or relative and give them time to calm down. The earlier you inform them, the more time you give them to calm down before the baby comes. Take good care of yourself from now, hugs.

Skymiyke:
Morning all,pls can someone ansa dis for me,please?

It's not too late for her to go start antenatal and see a doctor to treat the malaria. Why hasn't she started? But better late than never right. If the scan showed a healthy baby, then the baby is probably healthy. There's no way anyone here can tell you for sure if the baby is healthy, if she's worried, let her do another scan and start now to take good care of herself. Btw I think shes #teamApril, ask her to come and join us.

LaDivva:
It went well my dear, God is always in control.
Gender XY, EDD 15th April.
CC Giddyperson

All these boys in April, good to know

dharyor1234:
That food thing is a serious something for me ooo, i eat like there's no tomorrow. Although i dont eat junks sha and not more than three times, but those meal will always look like a big mountain especially in the morning.

for the swollen feet palava, we are in the same team cappo, but i refused to be bothered oo, i cannot come and kill myself oo on top that. Though i still wear over size flat show cos of the nature of my work, used to wear 40 but now wear size 42, dont use me laff oo


did i say lastly then? sorry finally finally, my tummy don show gan oo, i cant hide it again.

please allow me joor, i just remembered i used to feel pain below my left breast and also at the back (same side) i hope its normal??

Did i take much of ya time, its not my fault, dont worry i will send cake to the group tomorrow, make una make sure to share am equally ooo. if i dont, just remind

Lol I used to wear 43 with my normal feet, so now I have no size in the market. I don't know about the breast?back pain o, ask doctor. I only have one sandals that still fits. Good to have a fellow foodie, me i eat junk and everything. I'm expecting the cake

Kloness:
Thanks for the welcome. XX 17/4, counting up. 2nd trimester is cool save for awkwardness of sleeping positions tongue. Eating quite a bit though and getting used to her kicks...lol. Gods strength to everyone..

Good to know, first fellow xx in team April

ROLL CALL TEAM APRIL 2017

1. Dharyor1234--------------------------------- Team ?? EDD 14 April
2. Mydreams25--------------------------------- Team XY, EDD 12 April
3. Giddyperson---------------------------------- Team XX, EDD 10 April
4. Prettmum------------------------------------ Team XY, EDD 16 April
5. Ahnie---------------------------------------- Team ?? EDD 30 April
6. Gr8fulheart-----------------------------------
7.Unic1------------------------------------------
8.Ladivva----------------------------------------Team XY EDD 15 April
9.Folamee----------------------------------------Team XX EDD 11 April
10. Sweetestmum--------------------------------
11. Olukunle--------------------------------------
12. Abiagirl777------------------------------------ Team unknown EDD 28 April
13. Tutucious-------------------------------------Team XY EDD
14. Ijeoma2728------------------------------------
15. Kloness----------------------------------------Team XX EDD 17 April

Welcome our newest teamie Kloness, please update us with your info. Folamee, thanks for breaking the silence, welcome back and come around more often. Ladivva, how did your scan go, Moskidarl, how are you doing? If you've mentioned your EDD and i missed it, please mention me again, sorry blame it on pregnancy.

Hope everyone is in perfect health? Hope everyone now has a hospital. Went for my first antenatal class last weekend, it was so boring, yawns yawns yawns!!! But let me blame it on the topic for that day, I'd try again next month. How were y'alls classes.

I'm due for my 2nd TT injection this Saturday.
I'm constantly hungry and eating like there's a whale in my tummy. I'm not even really craving anything, just wanting to eat everything I see.
My feet have swollen to embarrassing proportions, they are even bigger than my tummy sef, cuz that has become everybody's clue to knowing I'm pregnant. Who else is in my shoes? I can no longer wear shoes btw.

Finally, we should all be in our weeks 22-24 now, over half way gone. Who has started shopping? Thank God for bringing us this far and also thanking him for the smooth weeks ahead.

Dazzle86:
good morning my seniors. please i am a jjc, and 4 weeks gone. please is there any other way at this stage of confirming there is a growing. cos i seem to be loosing the only symptom i have.

cc ALL SABI MAMAS, PLEASE DONT IGNORE.

Trust me, you don't want any other symptoms, they are all annoying. Some mamas are lucky enough to have little or no symptoms. Just chill for like a month more then you go for a scan, cuz nothing good ever comes out of those extra early scans. Anytime you find yourself worrying for no good reason, about if the baby is ok, just place your hand on your tummy and speak positive words, usually helps me feel better.

Btw, welcome aboard, what team are you. You are early, seems you would be team captain

hi Abiagirl777, i see you peeping

dharyor1234:
cappo, which one is carry high and low? come and help look at it

Lol seems you are rooting for a boy so it's a boy yay . Hope you're doing good.

prettmum:
congrats to all the wonderful mothers in and outside this thread and we shall not labour in vain

Team APRIL. how we dey
cappo dear @Giddyperson my
update sex xy and Edds are 16/19(scan) lmp 23
@LaDivva dear, how your side lo is kicking so hard now, was changing position like kilode could not stop laughing at the scan today. God is truly merciful.

THANKS TO GOD MY SCAN WENT WELL.

Thanks for the update, I'm glad everything went well.

Kloness:
]@ spiceeamiee.Your post drew me out of my shell. I am quite social media shy.
Well, deep breath, let's do this.
Hello everyone, I am in Team April. I catch up quite a bit on this threadand its really enjoyable to share in your joys and though its also sad sometimes as well. Gods comfort @ Khalessi. God is our strength in all.

Now, About 'to whom and when does one share the info about being preggers' ?. It caused me quite some dilemma as well. Only a very few of my friends told me when they got pregnant, but from most of those I felt were close buddies, I heard when the LO landed. I kind of understood. Now its my turn being naturally reserved,. I struggled also to share, lol even with the few who did. I and my hubby agreed to tell no one at all because telling the people who were ''closest'' meant telling quite a number of people and excluding some others. Like someone said, you might be someone's close friend but that same person doesn't make your top 5.

I have a friend who kept pressuring me early in marriage as to whether 'it haf enter'. Honestly found it annoying and when it finally did, she was really the last to know. Had to tell when I started showing.

Now I am over talking..or typing..lol. Point is do try your best to cover your friend with grace, sounds like she is the emotional type and you are more logical. She will come around. Its nice to have someone around to share your journey with too.
Finally as per who to or not to tell...i think the choice is ultimately the couple's.

Enjoy the baby trip.

See new teamie in the building, welcome aboard? How's the bumping going

mydreams25:
Giddyperson, thanks and lol at your old wives tale game I haven't been craving any thing special whether sweet or sour I have just been eating as the spirit leads jare, I was very busy last week to go for the gender scan will update as soon as I know, Edd is April 11, hope you are feeling the honeymoon stage we are in now?

Lol maybe you are having a boy and a girl too. Yeah I rocked second trimester, I hope it lasts atleast for the rest of the year, but my tummy is beginning to heavy me

ahnie:
We are 16weeks and some days...no kicks,no turning nuttin nuttin yet.went for scan...baby z fine.he/only turns in the nyt and damn its very painful(ayam just imagining it turning only in the nyt.

Edd **team may...but I prefer April...may too far joor!

Awww, oya bye bye, go and stay in May so that your baby can bake very well lol.

mydreams25:
Am fine o, no kicks yet? My own baby has been kicking me every now and then and I wonder maybe he or she doesn't sleep at all. Thanks for checking

Happy Sunday Mama, we are almost EDD mates (April 10th) maybe that's why our babies are at the same kicking phase . Mine starts kicking endlessly whenever I lay on my back, as if to say (mummy reposition, this position is not good for a pregnant woman lol).

It must not necessarily be a serious health problem, could be stress or anything. Wait for next month.

Hi team April, you people update me EDD and Baby Gender Biko kwanu . If you've not checked yet, then lets use the old wives prediction from google just for fun.

Sweet and Sour
Craving ice cream every single day? Some people believe this means it's a girl. If you have to have salty or sour stuff, then it's a boy.

I crave both sweet and salty on different days, does that mean I'm secretly carrying twins, girl and boy

Spot On
If you're breaking out like crazy, blame it on your girl babe. The belief goes that girls steal their mother's beauty, hence, those annoying zits.
Not even a single pimple since the journey began, so its a girl

Nice Ring to It
Pop off your wedding ring—if you still can!—and tie it to a string. Hang it over your belly. If it swings in a circle, a little guy's in your future. If it goes back and forth, you've got a girl.
uhmm can't exactly do this at work

Queasy Does It
Sick as a dog during the first trimester—or still? Signs indicate you're having a girl. Little or no morning sickness points to a boy.
I felt sicker than a dog lol, so girl again

How Low Can You Go?
Rumor has it that if you are carrying your baby high, it's a girl. Carrying low? Stock up on blue.
Similar tales say if you carry in front, you've got yourself a little boy, and if you expand horizontally, it's a girl.
Is my tummy even big enough to determine how i'm carrying. Its always looked kinda low tho so that's a boy

A Little Extra Padding

Has your spouse been indulging in your pregnancy cravings, too? If your hubby packs on a little sympathy weight, the tales say you're in for a sugary-sweet little girl.
yayyy girl again

1. Mydreams25
2. Unic1
3. LaDivva
4. Folamee
5. Prettmum
6. Sweetestmum
7. Ahnie
8. Olukunle
9. Abiagirl777
10. Dharyor1234
11. Tutucious
12. Ijeoma2728
13. Gr8fulheart
Any other interested Mamas.

Who else feels that their tummy is gonna burst, like the baby is growing and the tummy is not enlarging fast enough to accommodate it . My tummy feels so tight all the time and heavy, and the baby keeps kicking too like she wants space. I'm 21 weeks 4 days today
#peepersshouldreplykwanu #teamAprilformiraclebabies #eastercuties.

Hi LaDivva, I see you

Itissettled3:
See as they just dey yab team February. Choi.


Make i volunteer to gather team February for now.

So if you are a team love month member kindly mention me make we do roll call.

Cc. Firstymum, kittana and our lovely team love members

See as God has finally sent a Shepherd to team Feb so that they can stop lamenting lol. Happy porting and happy captaining mama

hi #teamApril? How are we doing? Has anyone else checked for their baby's gender.

Hi Rofemiguwa, glad you finally found the new diary, wedding is over o but I can email your cake . Please help me edit your mention, I changed monikers cuz my sisters were reading the other diary, don't want them to find this one.

ijeoma2728:
Belleful mama's how una dey?
So I went to d hospital today.
Pcv 39.
Started pregy with 69kg. Checked my weight today and it was 64kg. Pls what could be the cause??

Lost close to 10kg in the first trimester too but I've added them back cuz now I'm always hungry and eat everything I see. Im so scared that horrible ms feeling would come back in third trimester, so im enjoying the pregnancy as much as I can for now. I think it all depends on how your appetite is at this stage. As long as you are healthy tho, don't see the need packing up weight that you'll be trying to lose in a few months.

ijeoma2728:
@Giddyperson, thanks ooo.
It's no3 o ooo, don't know the sex yet.

Wow number 3, how's bumping while mothering number 1 &2? Can't be an easy something.