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Threebear:
So because of a cheap accommodation in an over crowded room your bro thinks he deserved to be paid in kind because he gave her accomdation for three days.
You ought to be ashamed even telling this story, clearly the human race is now devoid of shame. Jesus died for you on the cross and didn't ask you for a penny, some good men help women in need with millions of Naira even fellow men and don't ask for anything but the blessings of the most high. And your brother accomodated a stranded lady, made her sleep in his cheap mattress and because of that she has to pay him with the temple of her Holy Spirit.
I hope that your brother is not your role model, try to read the word of the lord and get closer to him. As for your brother, I won't forget him in my prayers.

ur post made me laugh
but on a more serious note please tell the silly fellow, its so sad and draining to read posts like that from people and the worst part is that these people think such things are normal and even right.

teelaw4life:
That's if he has not even done it before sef. Shey it's because there are cameras in the house that we were able to spot this. Like they always say: one's character is like smoke, it is impossible to hide. Hopefully this will be his last.

yeah hopefully he gets help.

teelaw4life:
I'm surprised that people will even stand in support for Kemem after yesternight, it shows how pervasive, unconscious rape culture is among us. At the same time the number of people who recognised it for what it is and stood up against the act is encouraging for the country. I already said it, when the issue of intoxicating a girl and taking advantage of her statement by Kemem came out, that what he did was enough to tarnish his image even beyond BBN. Sexual harassment, assault and rape are serious criminal issues and in a more advanced country, the truth is Kemem would be on his way to a police station right now. If you like a woman so much and she says no, give her space it's as simple as that. And if konji hold you so much that you can't keep your discipline, then by all means, find a private place and self-service it off. A grown man like kemem should never have been brought down by something like this. Bill Clinton vs Monica Lewinsky (we saw how years after, it affected his wife's presidential bid). The pages of History is littered with men whose downfall was their inability to be sexually disciplined.

#SayNoToSexual #Harassment

#WankKonjiOff

most of them support kemen because they don't like tboss.

the next place kemen should go to if not prison is to a therapist, before later we go hear
kemen gist again say he rape woman

since he is moving from stage to stage. from talking about how to rape a woman, to molesting one, only one stage left.

Slymonster:
I need to know...her father did not see her and miyonse... am getting lost here oo....

When your fine,it has a slight advantage... kemen was just a damn foolish idiot

true though that she didn't wonder about whether her father saw her and miyonse but I think she feels its different since she liked miyonse and wanted him.

ttt seems like he is unable to accept when he is wrong. the fact that tboss didnt feel comfortable enough to tell the housemates what happened especially since she had seen their reaction to kemen's side of the story is not an excuse for you to treat her as you did.

bbn is ruined for me, the only housemate I can support now is debby and tboss (unless the Bleep up later) and they may not win.

its now bisola's brain wants to work.

bassey still trying to defend himself that kemen told them what happened and bisola corrects him that the reason why kemen told them was because they pressed him to tell them and they didn't press tboss.
bisola says that the reason tboss didn't talk to them was because she saw the judgement in their faces and she heard bisola hiss.
bisola says that tboss is feeling bad that she felt that how can she sleep so deeply to the point that she won't feel what kemen did. and tboss is now wondering about whether her father has seen it and what his reaction will be.

bassey says the housemates should go and apologise but ttt and bisola say that since tboss has said that she doesn't want to speak to anyone, her decision should be respected.

even if they apologise or not tboss should be weary of them. feel for u tboss

its now bisola's brain wants to work. bassey still trying to defend himself that kemen told them what happened and bisola corrects him that the reason why kemen told them was because they pressed him to tell them and they didn't press tboss.
bisola says that the reason tboss didn't talk to them was because she saw the judgement in their faces and she heard bisola hiss.
bisola says that tboss is feeling bad that she felt that how can she sleep so deeply to the point that she won't feel what kemen did. and tboss is now wondering about whether her father has seen it and what his reaction will be.

bassey says the housemates should go and apologise but ttt and bisola say that since tboss has said that she doesn't want to speak to anyone, her decision should be respected.

even if they apologise or not tboss should be weary of them. damn.

Threebear:
You know I dislike Efe almost as much as the next person, but in this case he did the right thing. When you don't have all the details, better to stay silent than act like a fool (bisola)

alright point taken.

ifyalways:
He didn't have the facts. He did no wrong by keeping quiet, same thing the rest of the hm's should have done until they know what really went down from biggie.

His silence was golden and the best thing.

bestspoke:
perhaps sitting on the fence is the right thing to do as an HM...
None of them has seen the clip, nobody knew what really went down under that blanket.
We only speculating untill otherwise.

I don't know whether he did the best thing or the worst thing. am just saying that after calling ttt out that he is fake for sitting on the fence and never taking sides, and saying that everything is black or white so ttt should always take sides does the exact same thing he called ttt fake for
barely 24hrs later, that's all.

I really don't want to argue please. I know efe was confused and didn't know what to do.

bigerboy200:
i don't even think it was Tboss who complained. that would be childishness on her part, considering that she can approach kemen and talk to him about it like she did some weeks back. I think the public outcry on the incident made big brother take action. however, she had the power to manage the situation by claiming she was aware of him touching touching..The camel back was broken when she claim not to have consented.

all in all tboss suffered unnecessary for no other reason than the fact that the housemates don't like her. sad. hope she doesn't cry too much.

ifyalways:
My love for Efe keeps growing.

He never joined the gang to laugh or diss Tboss. I guess he listened to Ebuka's speech tonight wella. This is a competition, no stupid alliance.

Once my Fav hm is evicted, I'm becoming team Efe.

but he sat on the fence, he didn't take sides something he called ttt fake for doing he did it himself this night.
he didn't show tboss support neither did he speak for or against her when the housemates were gathered and insulting her.

the housemates are still blaming tboss that she should have spoken up and that they believed kemen because he told them his side of the story which kemen didn't do.
they are insisting they should be allowed to see the tape. even though bisola has told them that biggie refused to show the tape to the hms even though tboss wants biggie to show the tape.

Marvis and the rest of the house mates keep hissing and dissing tboss saying she is acting by crying and shouting.
Marvis said that when kemen tried it with Uriel she was shouting and telling biggie that its a joke then why didn't tboss do the same, or at least tell some one in the house if she felt it was serious.. Bally agrees with her.


look at the useless person that calls herself a human being now telling her fellow useless housemates that they should free tboss that big brother has show her the tape and that what kemen did was bleeped up.
and she has finally admitted that even if tboss didn't complain kemen would have still been disqualified. so she couldn't use her common sense to figure out that biggie won't disqualify a hm for silly reasons.

tboss I feel for u girl. u don't need all these silly housemates except debby.

Tboss don't cry. U can see that ur only real friend is debby. None of the other housemates even care even though they can hear her crying. Don't allow ttt come close to u anymore.

Bisola attacking tboss and has been summoned to the diary room. Biggie pls disqualify her. If its bisola in tboss shoes now she won't take any nonsense from anyone.

ifyalways:
I don't think Kemen was disqualified solely cos of last night, it was more of the last straw.

Kemen on national TV bring watched by young boys said the following on different days :

Gifty is the kind of woman you get drunk them rape and claim it was done under the influence of alcohol.

Guys add knorr cube to coca cola to make girls sleep then Raape her.

Who does that? What kind of person is he? If I were biggie he would have left the day he talked about knorr and coke.

am telling u last nite was just the height. if it was the first time biggie might have called him to apologise but how many times will u tell someone to apologise.

bisola just really pissed me off this night. imagine the wickedness and bitterness to say your fellow housemate is cursed.

the girl can't just use her common sense. so if she feels kemen didn't do anything because she didn't see, does that mean biggie didn't see it. does she think she is wiser than big brother?.
she can't just use her senses to know that if tboss tried to frame kemen she would have been the one sent home instead. just opening her mouth and allowing foolishness to fall out.

bassey disappointed me by laughing along when bisola said tboss is cursed though.

this bbn is quite boring. I hope bisola goes home next. she really showed her foolishness this night.

how can u say that you don't know what happened and biggie should show u a video, but in the same breath say that kemen shouldn't have gone and that tboss is cursed. na wa.

hmmm bisola sha, so biggie called tboss to d diary room and you hissed and said which tboss,
just because according to you, tboss should have left or refused to sleep on the same bed with kemen. something u didn't see u said that kemen didn't do anything. but u didn't see it and u want big brother to show u a video.

kemen who touched tboss when she was sleeping is not at fault but tboss is at fault.

bisola now saying tboss is a cursed girl that was sent to bbn. bassey, ttt, marvis and bally all laughed. marvis eating as usual.

Will miss u uriel

LordAdam16:
Seriously @ the bolded!!!

So the guy doesn't see plenty to choose from out there?

We're at a very awful point when it is acceptable to entertain offers outside because the flame isn't as bright as it was on day 1?

If ladies are so sure they're always going to get guys 10x better than guys they are in a relationship with, what's the point in entering relationships? Statistically, each of us has more than 1 person who is right for us.

So what, guys have to accept that they're just holding the gate until someone else (*10x better*) pops along? No wonder we hear sh*t like, the problem ain't you, I just don't feel it anymore. Then months later, they're back with the usual it was a mistake, I didn't know what got into me.

@Giel, I'm about going ballistic here.

A girl who has to turn guys down isn't doing her guy a favor. She's doing herself a favor 95% of the time. The other 5% has to be sacrifice for what they have together. If she decides what they have together isn't worth preserving, then yeah just call it off. Don't make it sound like a lady in a relationship is managing the guy.

And maybe this just beefs up the reason why guys shouldn't do next level sh*t with or for a lady who they haven't wedded. It's a bloody waste. Imagine the insolence. Even if she has to turn down Buhari's son, that's not on me. She has good reason to, if she doesn't, she can go warm his bed.

-Lord

I get ur point. Every one wants to feel appreciated/celebrated not tolerated, no one wants to get the impression from their partner that the partner is just managing them for whatsoever reason.

I mean telling some one or making someone feel that ur just managing them especially with the added clause of "afterall I can get or there are people better than you" is damaging to the self esteem, and is capable of making some leave.

You won't even tell or make ur friends feel that ur just managing them. Why do that to ur partner.

And its true, if u have many guys asking u out and u pick one its usually for ur own reasons not out of pity for the guy(although any thing is possible in this world).

I agree with u

Uriel confronting bassey saying she has noticed that bassey always leaves when he people are trying to talk about their feelings. Bassey apologizes and says he only does so when every where gets rowdy, or if they are playing a game where some one tries to change the rules in their favour. He then leaves and uriel leaves with bally.
Efe and marvis talking now.

sirfee:
Be careful with your use of words,don't start what you can't finish(no offence).

Sorry, won't do so again, don't want to start anything.
Its not something so serious for you to take offense to though (to the point of telling me to be careful with my use of words). All tribes do so, but in my opinion, Yoruba's do so most.
( and FYI I don't ever start what I won't finish, so I don't need your little warning. U could have replied without being aggressive).
Peace.

toseen7:
LOL so yoruba people should be speaking hausa every where abi?

Lol, u know what I mean jor. That's how my Yoruba friends behave every space they see, they immediately switch from English.

Misswang001:
.We are now peaceful fans

If I hear, is like u guys are still humble from yesterday

codedguy1:
The point is to efe is someone is being diplomatic about a situation that person is not real.

E get as person wife and an aunty that took care of him when he was little over a silly issue are quarrelling and the guy tries to be diplomatic. To efe that guy is not real because he did not takeva side.

It not a fair way to judge somebody.

Like I said basically what kemen said. One of efe's positives is that he can speak his mind, but he is not accommodating.
U cant take sides in all situations even if u want. In some u need wisdom. But Im like efe though. Tell me if am wrong, acknowledge when am right.
This one efe fans are allowing someone to critizise efe this night. Wetin happen.

codedguy1:
Efe should realise people are not the same.

All that talk about being real is his own way. People can be real in other ways not exactly efes way.

Which is exactly what kemen said about efe that he is not accommodating, some people can be diplomatic and/or people pleasers, does it make them fake??
Everyone just calling everyone out tonight. I love it.

akthedream:
THIS IS PART OF THE REASON I LIKE THIS EFE..
HE WILL ALWAYS TELL YOU HIS MIND...
NA ONLY HIS FANATICAL FANS WANT MAKE ME DISLIKE AM..

TONY FEELING LIKE A FOOL RIGHT NOW

I swear efe can be very likable, if some one watches bbn 4 the first time this night they would love efe, even tboss and Debbie. But efe fans can be so aggressive. Damn.

Efe wanted to reply to what kemen said about him not being accommodating but wasn't allowed so he chooses to speak on ttt
Efe speaking about ttt
Immediately jumps to the negatives
Na wa efe don't vex.
Agree with what he is saying though.
Says that ttt doesn't choose sides that when efe has an issue ttt never chooses sides and always trys to be diplomatic. Efe says he is disappointed in ttt that he prefers when people tell him when he is wrong or tell him when he is right. Because if he is wrong he will go and look for what's wrong about him and change it. But if he is right he will know he is right.
Efe says ttt is older than his eldest sister so he doesn't know why ttt should be trying to please everyone when its not necessary.
And Nepa has done what they do best. Gudnite everyone.
This is what I rememeber, efe also said that he is not trying to please anyone and that although they all came for the money but there is life after the money and everyone should be real and not fake.
Please some one should update

Debby then passes to kemen
Kemen speaking about efe
Positives efe is blessed and has good things going for him.
Negatives, says efe needs to be accommodating that people are not like him and therefore don't think like him, even though efe says his mind, efe needs to give the people he calls friends an opportunity to mess up around him.
Will like to see how ttt uses this to manipulate the housemates.

Debby speaking about Uriel that she likes Uriel and Uriel is so nice and is always there for her even when she feels that she is disturbing her.
Says what she doesn't like about Uriel is that Uriel picks peoples brain and knows how to get u to say what she wants u to say and even more, says that Uriel is smart but she doesn't feel that its a good thing neither does she feel that its a bad thing.
Debby passes to Uriel and bisola gets annoyed since Uriel has spoken before and storms out of the room,
Bisola, we get that u don't like debby but u can show it less

Tboss wanted to speak about bisola but wasn't allowed so she is now speaking about. Debby
She likes her voice and the way she plays the guitar, says her voice makes her cry. Says she has a gentle spirit. Says she loves that she can talk to debby
Marvis take note, this is how to compliment some one.
Negatives about debby, she doesn't hate anything about her, but she doesn't like that debby asks questions when she won't listen to the answers and that she spends most time with her guitar when tboss could be talking with her.
Finally ends with debby is a beautifully person.
Once again marvis take note.
Debby speaking next. Why is her voice so low though.