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iamphotoshoot:
Do you have folks that club? And hope you aren't the judgemental type, because left to me, clubbing is one major way of breaking loose the chain of introversion. Go to clubs regularly.(with people).

Yeah, and reduce the amount of time you spend online. Or on social media, make it a must you at least visit a friend in a week. And make sure it is a sincere friend.

Errr

I don't judge and I have friends that go clubbing. I've never set my foot in the club cos I don't like it. Never did, I find it a waste of time but maybe in the future I will try it.

Clubbing is fun, unfortunately I won't know from experience.

NwamaziNwaAro:
Yes now...you might have an exterior docile facade....

You get exposed from the many avenues you mentioned...parties, work and movies.

So if you celibate then you truly are introverted, if you are not; then you are selectively introverted or an inverted extrovert.

Or

You could have a problem sticking to your resolve from a burning desire to please people even to your detriment.

I tend to please people at the expense of my comfort, it's true. But I'm stopping now, I'm being taken for granted on that.

jbrodaly:
If you have not always been this introverted, you may have to find out why now? The reason for the question is that some experience just make you "draw" back like a snail withdraws into its shell. But you know, sometimes there could be no reason for worries,It could be a stage in life.
It could also happen that you are becoming wiser. But try mixing up with people even if it means just meeting up at cafe or something. Such friendship doesn't have to go beyond such a place.
I hope I made sense to you.

I never had any experience, let's say but my dad. I had a very bad vibe with him. I just wanted to know if maybe it's too much. I hate public places, and won't want to go except I am with someone I know very well. I'm confused what I really am, I don't want people hanging round me and don't want to hang round them either. I am not scared of being alone, I wonder if I'm alright mentally or its Part of me.

Please o, I really need advise from y'all. I've always be misquoted and misunderstood cos of this. What should I do to lose up.?

Funnicator:
Your spiritual husband.

You're dead, what's dead can't be reincarnated.

Funnicator:
Always alone; na so "cucumber is bae" dey start.

Iranu.

Who's this one

NwamaziNwaAro:
To answer you correctly...

You have to answer mine,

Are you celibate?

This question eh

iamphotoshoot:
I can comfortably say that 80 to 90 percent of nairalanders are just like you. So don't expect anyone to give you a real answer.

Yes, you are introverted. I am as well. Is it bad? Not really.
Except when you are probably doing it too much, and apparently, you are. Its best you loosen up a bit.

Worst part is I don't know how to loose myself. right now as I'm typing, I'm excluded in the parlour while my aunties are in the dinning room all chatting. Being alone is like a drug to me.

jbrodaly:
Have you had some terrible experience in the last year or so?

No, why this chilling question.?

UrennaNkoli:
You're just like me. I dont keep too many friends either. If you make no meaning to me then just **** off.

I'm very quiet to some extent, people take advantage of it a lot. I don't know how to make them understand this is how I am.

CoolFreeday:
Babe, Guy never sex you until you're exhausted and can't continue or to a point where you'll be feeling pain esp in your tummy or to a point where you'll be gasping for air?

Your question eh

I don't know the right section to post this but I really need to know cos I'm tired already so forgive me.

I'm in my early twenties, I'm the kind of girl that just love being alone with herself. I don't go clubbing, don't go to parties( except I don't have a choice and I'm being forced by my mother, marriage tinx)

I have few friends, just 4 I share deep emotional matters with. I'm always alone when at home, in fact I get excited about it.

I have never visited anyone this year, except on 2 occasions. Only 2 have visited me also, I close from work straight home and sleep, read novels or watch movie.

I like social stuff but too much of it kills me, makes me shy and tired. Now I'm at my aunt's house, I've been inside my room since Saturday, I only come out to do house chores. This is my personality but I feel people don't understand.

My aunt just had a talk with me right now that I keep myself from people, and it's getting me mad cos I didn't think it that way.

Nairalanders, please am I too introverted or what? Is there something I'm missing? Please.

How can sex kill someone

All this relationship relationship relationship Don tireeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee me.

I haven't been in a situation like that and don't want to. I don't know how I'm gonna react.

Old people everywhere

The kind of mad love I have for BlackBerry eh, I can't just explain. To think I hated this device and sworn I won't use it, I was drunk to say that.

BlackBerry runs smoothly, it's a phone for those that knows good value . I so love the way I can type smoothly without stress. I slide anywhere I want, check messages, mails, etc all at once.

I'm speechless, good quality picture. I'm currently using z30, I'm hoping to try BlackBerry Passport soon. I'm not leaving my BlackBerry for any nonsense whatsapp.

I'm a die hard fan and nothing nothing can convince me to let go. I love love love love BlackBerry.

Emm eh, the thing is *cough and sneeze * the thing is *wiping my nose*.
Sex is, Sex is * cough and cough coughhhhhhh*

mackmanuel:
I easily notice people that uses drugs to gain weight; their cheek swells up

Never noticed

My problem is not about adding weight but HOW TO KEEP THE WIGHT.

I currently weighs 56, (thank God I can at least keep that). It's like a war, I weigh 58 this week then go back to 56 under a day. It takes my body a day to lose weight.

I eat, eat eat, lots of proteins and eggs, eba, rice, beans in fact everything. The moment I start adding weight, stress takes it away. (the stress of just going to work and sitting for hours) is enough to knock my hard earned weight.

I have taken lots of drugs, I think I'm addicted sef. I stopped all that last month and just accept my life

At least I don't have to buy new clothes as my old clothes fits perfectly

I'm eating vegetables, sleeping, working out and let nature do its own. Maybe when I get married and start doing the (do.do.do )

eponoloyin:
Ginaz can you suck my ballz?
I will take you 7th heaven in the other room too if you want

tufiaka

Akanbibabatunde:
you see the poverty mentality m talking bout?? Everything is yahoo yahoo to Nigerian girls ... And you compared me with Trump, thanks

Hey you trash, move aside jare. Your type disgust me, boisterous and arrogant a$$sholes.

IAmOged:
take down your dp pics right now

ugly cleavage, stop flashing your falling boobi


must u portray urself as a sexual object....its evident u will cheat in your marriage if things are not going well.....mtchwww

Thanks, hope you saw your black future too.

Sempumping:
"rich dude like myself " ? For real dude

You are so broke ....it's confirmed

you know empty barrel makes the most noise

No mind the dude, with him yahoo yahoo money

goingape1:
are the wives taking there time to understand their husband?

is it only women that need emotional care?


naija women are the most stingy and greedy set of creature.


by the way! women are the one who always jump into conclusions not men.

Change this your mind set, it's shameful.

Lack of emotional care, some husbands don't take time to understand their wives. They jump into conclusions.

Akanbibabatunde:
if your so called boyfriend can purchase any of it, you won't be here ranting... Actually, am very rich

You're are not only rich but very foolish. Rich fool, ever heard? Cheap nigga with a dollar bill fronting like empty vessel. Men like him makes money illegally and then voice it for the whole wide world to hear.

Nigga shut up, Trump has more sense than you. You're just a nigga with small change and empty brain that thinks he makes sense.

Akanbibabatunde:
lol... If you say so, then them celebs that flaunts it must be empty then ...ummh But you know, sometimes I wish I had nothing so I can meet a girl like you that likes garri ..... But life sef

Allow me soak garri , it's better than your aba clothes you parade yourself in. From your up to down its not up to 30k so don't over hype yourself. (nigga everything na package we understand)

You don't even look a bit responsible or attractive in your attire. It's only girls with no value to their life will find you rich or attractive.

ElsonMorali:
Guys try to impress girls they like by spending way more than they can afford giving the impression that it's no big deal.

Then later on, they find out that if they have to keep up appearances, they'd be broke.

Then they come here and complain about how much of a money lover and an inconsiderate nag their girlfriends are.

Plain honesty makes life easier for everybody.

True, they over hype themselves to be rich, why won't girls depend heavily on them?

Akanbibabatunde:
yea, prolly you haven't met a guy that loves you to the core... Or maybe your boyfriends are still upcoming that's why... When you meet a rich dude like myself and he truly loves you or cherish those two agbalumo on your chest just like am staring at them now. ... He will drown you with money you will forget your last name... Anyway I like you too...

You're still upcoming nigga, how much you have sef to spend? Guys that boast are always the most empty handed.

dingbang:
pls b my girlfriend

Lol, I'm shy

Sempumping:
Sharp guy
But wat if we both turn u down

Please don't derail my thread