Politics › Re: Election: Nigerians Get USA's Permission To Hold Protest Opposite White House by GistFullGround: 11:24am On Mar 31, 2023 |
inoki247: Lol the organizer names don show which side his coming from.... Anybody can come from anywhere as long as he/she is a Nigerian! |
Family › Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by GistFullGround: 11:32am On Mar 30, 2023 |
ozalogbo: I am the first child of my mother, and I have two younger male siblings. I am doing well financially. My wife is the last of four children in her family. My dad died when I was still in the university, and this affected my mum.
However, as she aged, her health waned. She was a retired teacher. My brothers are not in the country. Both of them are in Europe. I wanted to have my mother stay with me in her later years because of her health and loneliness but my wife did not want it.
Whenever she was ill and I brought her home to be with us, my wife was usually hostile, especially if my mum had stayed beyond a week. She did not hid her disapproval, and this caused problems in the marriage. People advised that I should send my mum away and pay someone to live with her and take care of her. They said that marriage was between a man and his wife, not between a man, his wife, and his mother. I did and peace returned. Eventually my mum passed on after a few years.
Along the line, my father in law also died. And down the line, my mother in law's health began to deteriorate. We live in the same town. Among my wife's siblings she is the only one doing quite well. Now there are suggestions that the mother should come and live with us so that my wife can give her proper care. I believe that her living with us and seeing her grandchildren will help her. And indeed i have no problem accepting her, but when i remember the treatment my wife gave to my mum, there is a strong revulsion, in fact, anger in me. I shared with a friend, and he advised i forgive my wife, but the revulsion is so strong that i would feel cheated if i agreed.
What do you guys think. She reminded me then that marriage was between a man and his wife only. Shouldn't this also apply to my wife now? Do not succumb to any blackmail because "They said that marriage was between a man and his wife, not between a man, his wife, and his mother". Your mother in-law CANNOT live with you. Your wife should arrange for someone to care for her just like you did yours.
Women are generally selfish; what is good for the goose should also be applied to the gander! |
Sports › Guinea Bissau Vs Nigeria Afcon Qualifier 2024 Live by GistFullGround(op): 5:52pm On Mar 27, 2023*. Modified: 6:11pm On Mar 27, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: Peter Obi Meets With Labour Party's Governorship Aspirants In Imo State (Photos) by GistFullGround: 7:38pm On Mar 23, 2023 |
The "structure" is building gradually & very soon, it will cover the whole country!
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Romance › Re: How Do I Locate This Lady? by GistFullGround(op): 9:33pm On Mar 18, 2023 |
LofP: Find the blogger who posted her video initially on Nairaland and ask for her contact info. The blogger does not know her. He only searches online to copy people's videos then upload it like its his own! |
Politics › Re: Governor Soludo Casts His Vote, Commends INEC For Early Commencement Of Election by GistFullGround: 1:06pm On Mar 18, 2023 |
Professor without sense; why must you display your choice in public?
Law breaker!
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Family › Re: My Husband Has Gone To See His Side Chick's Mother by GistFullGround: 7:54pm On Mar 15, 2023 |
Pray for your husband, the "side chick" & Pray for the blessings of God so he will take care of you because God is not against a man marrying a second wife. Don't fight against God! |
Politics › Re: My Mom Is Igbo - Desmond Elliott Speaks Igbo As He Begs For Votes In Church by GistFullGround: 1:43pm On Mar 14, 2023 |
Desmond Elliott, the fake bridge builder!
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Politics › Re: How Tinubu Divided PDP, Misled Peter Obi Into Presidential Race – Omokri by GistFullGround: 1:41pm On Mar 14, 2023 |
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Food › Re: See The #4'550 Meal I Bought At Chicken Republic This Morning. by GistFullGround: 1:28pm On Mar 14, 2023 |
ahnie: Just got these meals,2 small plate of rice,energy drink,a small bowl of whipped Salad and two small plastic cans of fanta at chicken republic at nnebisi road this morning @ 4'550 naira.
To me it's not with the money,the lady said they hacked their prices up since last week.
But I cud remember a thread here where a guy bought from chicken republic too with two heavy chicken served to him.
Why dem nor served me big chicken like that guys own 
P.s,the essence of this thread is not to show off,this is food thread. Learn to cook at home and stop whining online! |
Family › Re: What Are Those Things You Can Never Forgive A Husband For by GistFullGround: 1:24pm On Mar 14, 2023 |
IyaebeTheGreat: Mine goes thus: I can never forgive a husband for having illegitimate kid/kids outside our matrimonial home, taking a second wife and going physical on me(even if I hit him which I won’t ever do, he should choose the option of silent treatment and not hit me back) . These three things are what I can’t ever forgive a husband for and I would hold him in my heart for the rest of my life. Share yours Nonsense, who you be?
1. Where does it say a man can not marry a second wife? The Bible permits a man marrying more than one woman.
2. "Going physical on me, even if I hit him". I see that the vogue in Nigeria now is hitting the man first just because "I don't want to hit a woman". Once your brain allows you to hit a man, it is the reciprocal thing that you must collect yours to reformat your senses"
3. Have you heard "Respect begets Respect"? Have you thought of being humble towards your husband & his family members?
You like to copy-copy Hollywood lifestyle; kwantinu! |
Romance › How Do I Locate This Lady? by GistFullGround(op): 8:09pm On Mar 10, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: LP Kicks As Tinubu Disowns Alleged NADEDO ‘Impostor’ by GistFullGround: 12:22pm On Mar 10, 2023 |
No Tinubu, No Sowore & Nigerians have been scammed believing both Sowore & Tinubu fought against the military junta. Lol! |
Politics › Re: Labour Party National Chairman Dissolves Rivers LP Excos For Anti-Party by GistFullGround: 12:32am On Mar 08, 2023 |
The real "structure" is forming...
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Politics › Re: List of The 24 Labour Party Governorship Candidates (Photo) by GistFullGround: 12:27am On Mar 08, 2023 |
No candidate in Edo State?
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Politics › Re: Lagos Government Releases Impounded Vehicles To Their Owners by GistFullGround: 12:19am On Mar 08, 2023 |
Election thinz |
Politics › Re: Assembly Poll: Save Me From Impeachment, Obaseki Begs Voters by GistFullGround: 12:52pm On Mar 06, 2023 |
Edo people are ALWAYS independent; when we say something bad, it means IT'S BAD, we rejected Oshiomole when he wan dey do gragra, we put Obaseki there. Now, Obaseki's time is up for stopping Obi from campaigning at Ogbemudia Stadium, his thuggery by disrupting the Elections at Idia College, his stubborn head and many more. It's PAYBACK time!
APC & PDP can never smell Government House again!
#EdoRejectPDP/APCVoteLP
Long live Edo State! Long live Peter Obi!! Long live Baba Ahmed-Datti!!! |
Nairaland General › Re: How Do I Get Rid Of A Clingy Friend In A Polite Way? by GistFullGround: 12:28pm On Mar 06, 2023 |
[b]"Much ado about nothing"
Why does it bother you, you little man of no swag! Instead of allowing the flow of affection, you'd rather cause sadness towards her.
Did she tell you you are going to be her man forever? Even if you are not dating, why are you so mad? If she clings to you, all you have to do is to reciprocate and cling to her as a friend.
I remembered when a girl (just a friend) would cling unto me way back in ICE (Institute of Continuing Education) Benin in 1987; I still miss her till this day. Some of my friends would always say to me, "this girl like you die...". Oh, I forgot to add; "she was very very very beautiful" with a chocolate complexion, soft-spoken, always smiling and a well behaved.
We parted our different ways only to see her one day, walking along, I was so shocked and surprised to see her when she came for her Masters Degree in the University of Ibadan. We went down memory lane about our days in school. It's not every time, you have to think of getting to a lady's panties.
Now, I am in the US, I don't know where she is now but I pray to see her someday!
You have to be matured and diplomatic, don't be a SMALL MAN!
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Politics › Re: Soludo Begs Residents To Vote APGA In State Assembly Poll by GistFullGround: 9:52pm On Mar 03, 2023 |
Another "medicine after death" campaign! Anambrians should vote this idiot out, the state assembly should find a way to kick the traitor out...
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Politics › Re: I Would Have Picked Obi Again As Running Mate – Atiku by GistFullGround: 9:48pm On Mar 03, 2023 |
Who are you? Medicine after death! |
Education › Re: Obidients Get Ready To Retire Sanwo-olu by GistFullGround: 2:50am On Mar 02, 2023 |
Godwin Obaseki MUST be sent parking; enough is enough!
We need a fresh start. We need LP...
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Politics › Re: I Won’t Step Down, INEC Chairman, Mahmood Yakubu Replies Opposition Parties by GistFullGround: 7:40pm On Feb 28, 2023 |
No dignity!
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Politics › Re: Show That You Love Nigeria, Call Tinubu Now, Adewole Adebayo Tells Atiku, Obi by GistFullGround: 7:32pm On Feb 28, 2023 |
Stupid blackmailer!
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Politics › Asari Dokubo, How Market? by GistFullGround(op): 11:38am On Feb 28, 2023 |
A fellow, who made money from militancy, government patronage, very loquacious, over-weight drunkard, noise maker of the Niger Delta.
Since APC lost your state of origin, I am hereby asking you, how market?
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Politics › Re: PDP Rejects Results Released By INEC by GistFullGround: 8:38pm On Feb 27, 2023 |
foleskay:
 Jagaban will be declared and it will b the case of 'To your tent oh Israel.
How on earth does PDP think they gonna will this election when they re divided in four major groups. Kwanwanso canceling out pdp in d north and Obi doing the same in d south.
God go punish those G5. Na dem be the greatest spoiler for pdp. They all lost their states. PDP should expel them for life and start fresh rebuilding.
Imagine how the votes spread in Tinubu favor. He's destined to win. Don't begin to beg for money online o, after 4yrs of your suffering! |
Politics › Re: Governor Obaseki Visits Families Of People Killed During 2023 Elections by GistFullGround: 7:59pm On Feb 27, 2023 |
Corrupt Governor...
Obaseki is finished; LP is taking over Edo State come the next elections!
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Politics › Re: Rivers: Tinubu Leads Obi With 42,623 Votes In 11 Lgas Announced So Far by GistFullGround: 4:51pm On Feb 27, 2023 |
Wike is a fool!
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Politics › Re: Live Election Results. Don't Rely On FAKE NEWS! by GistFullGround(op): 4:34pm On Feb 27, 2023 |
Kwem: the same site APC tinibu is sponsoring to manipulate the electoral data??
Rie nshi.... Proof |
Politics › Re: Live Election Results. Don't Rely On FAKE NEWS! by GistFullGround(op): 2:30pm On Feb 27, 2023 |
Had Atiku not been so greedy & just stayed in Dubai, maybe all the PDP states would have gone to Peter Obi by now! |
Politics › Live Election Results. Don't Rely On FAKE NEWS! by GistFullGround(op): 2:24pm On Feb 27, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: Tinubu To Lagosians: Be Calm, Maintain The Peace by GistFullGround: 2:07pm On Feb 27, 2023 |
Antoeni: Peter Obi Effect!
New sets of leaders are emerging:
✓ Labour Party has won 2 Senate seats (Anambra)
✓ Labour Party has won 1 Senate seat (Enugu)
✓ Labour Party has won 7 House of Reps Seats (Enugu)
✓ Labour Party has won 1 House of Reps seat (Kaduna)
✓ Labour Party has won 1 House of Reps seat (Lagos)
✓ Labour Party has won 1 House of Reps seat (Abia)
✓ Labour Party has won 1 Senate seat (Abuja)
More upsets coming...
Mr. Peter Obi , kudos to you! OP, do the correction. & Create a page for only LP members. Delete any urchin; let's be focused! LP won Edo South Senate Seat LP won in Edo Federal House of Representatives South |
Politics › Re: Peter Obi Wins In Lagos, Beats Bola Tinubu by GistFullGround: 11:59am On Feb 27, 2023 |
Yamiriflathead:
 Although disappointing Tinubu tried to hold Lagos with the figures he pulled so far. Lagos is the Capital of Southern Nigeria, so what were you expecting? This was a fight between ibos+SS+woke yorubas against Tinubu supporters in Lagos who are mainly yorubas and maybe Hausas in Lagos.
I hope Tinubu and yorubas have learnt a bitter lesson from Lagos Elections not to befriend and feed a cub because it is hopeless and dying. It will grow up and eat u up someday.
The take home from this defeat is..
Yorubas need to stop drafting non yorubas into the civil service and stop giving them prominent appointments. There are always technocrats who can always fit into any political office from the SW
Yorubas need to stop selling their lands to non yorubas in Lagos
Yorubas need to stop giving out local government of origins to non yorubas in Lagos
Yorubas need to stop allowing non-yorubas to contest for Elections in Lagos and
Yorubas need limit the numbers of voters registration of non yorubas going on in Lagos. They can't come and dictate to you on how to govern urselves after creating an enabling environment for them to thrive.
Congratulations to the incoming President of Nigeria BAT the ASIWAJU of Lagos nothwitstanding This guy is the epitome of Bigotry! |