₦airaland Forum

Fani Kayode is not my relative but at least the guy is trying, he is so much concerned to the day to day of the ministry, he make himself available to know what is going on there and he is not somebody that rely on the lie they feed him. kudos brother and keep up the good work, a prophet never respected in his own country.

me too i usually scared when boarding a plane, i take it when necessary, though my business demand that i travel twice in a month but now i am getting used to it, i usually ask for wine so that i get drunk in case of ,

what is all this about? How could she have even come up with the idea of cheating on her husband, is that a solution to her problems, the devil you know is better than the angel you dont know. My candid advice is that she should stick to her husband, marriage is for better for worse, most marriage doesnt stable until the fifth year, you cant be jumping from one man to another because of flimsy escuse, do you know what that man will also come up with after he has go to bed with you? There is no problem without a solution in this world. Pray to God and  also open your eyes and see what you are also doing wrong, it takes two to tango.

i smell a rat with papabrown post and fact also, people should beware before commiting any money to this man. enough for the wise.

I also have the same problem with NDLEA last week on my way out of Lagos. After i had finished with the customs, two people called me and was asking me so many questions, they were not even talking about drug but concerning my passport and i told them that that is not their job and i let him know that i wont give them my passport to check because they are not immigration, after some few minutes and he saw that i was not bulging he let me go.

my weekend, hmmmmmm, spent it with my family.

I am also a Nigeria and married to an {ewe} Ghanaian. love is what that matters, if you both love eachother, you can weather the storm and move mountain. I love my wife so much and she also do the same. We have been together for 5 years and it is like yesterday.

there is nothing wrong in kissing in public, though my wife does not like it because she is a shy type of person, i normally give it to her at the time she least expect.

Nairaland is the best thing to have happened to us, i could not believe the quality advice that was being given here everyday, my day is never complete without coming here to learn one or two things concerning relationship and more grease to all of you that contributed. Wifey is always happy nowadays, she is a happy go type of person before and i am also enjoying my marriage.

I have her blessing to quickly go on a business trip again by next week but it is just for a few days and i am happy that she is able to reason with me now because all what i am doing is for the betterment of all of us and for our future.


3 gbosa to the nairalanders, all of you are winner.

are you talking of wholesale or retail?

what brand and model are you interested.

@ pojutime, i can get it for you from here at a very cheap price and the quality will also be high

PEACE AT LAST. To everybody that contributed i am so grateful. I called my wife yesterday and we talked at length, i let her speak her mind and i did not try to interrupt her, the bottom line was that she was lonely and i had promised her that i will try and readjust so that i wont be travelling often again. This morning i was so happy seeing that smile on her face once again. It is not easy for her because we have always been together all the time until i started leaving her behind. To some of you that suggested we start going together, it is not possible because she is working presently and i had promised that we will start going for counselling because i could see that her past keep on hunting her, what her former boyfriend did to her is still in her memory and despite the fact that we have been together for a long time, she still think i can also do the same. We will be going to Africa together early July for one month holiday and i am sure she will be very happy because she has not seen her parent for more than 2 years, to me that one also is stressing her. I just want to be making her happy, i love her so much and i am happy that we are back on track again.

To all of you that take my problem as your problem, i am very grateful and may God never forsake anyone of you. After a tiredness journey, i am just arriving, my daughter was so happy seeing me, she clock two years last April ending, i could not celebrate it with her due to my journey. I think my wife was also happy seeing me, she welcomed me initially but we have not been able to talk because i met some people at our house. I am just eyeing her and i could not take my eyes of her, she has added a little pound of flesh. Just to let my nairalander people know that i am back, i will give a full report later in the day.

I am so grateful for all the contribution. I am leaving tonight and i am hoping we will be able to resolve all our differences, i had tried sending goods to the people i know before but it does not work out, most of them after selling the goods will not remit the money to me, it is not once or twice and that is the more reason i wanted to be coming myself, but we will sit down and engage ourselves in a frank and serious discussion, i wanted to have a happy family and also continue this business of mine but not at the espenses of my family. I really loved her so much and really feel for her and i know she do the same to me. I will keep my fellow nairalander update on my discussion with her.

@v24m, thanks so much and i will rightly show your message to her as you had suggested. We had really come a long way and this is the test of our time. This is going to the sixth year that we have been together and it has always been so much fun and joy been together. I think where the problem came from is from my mobile phone carrier and even text message is also affected. I had always keep in touch with her all the time if i travelled but she does not know the challenges i am facing here in Nigeria.  I will try to close our second house if that is what she want so that i can be with her most of the time and we will discuss my frequent travelling together, i am sure we will arrive at a solution, the important thing in a relationship is communication and once we are still talking i know we will resolve it by the grace of God. I do not blame her for her action at all, it shows that she is missing me and she really love me.

@luxoire, Thanks so much for this your invaluable point and the advice, i am so grateful. Concerning our sex life, i must say we do not have any problem on that line, we made love even at times everyday, i cant remove my hand from her whenever i am around. I quite agreed with you concerning the loneliness, she always want me around her, i could remember the last time i was with her she begged me to cancel my going about three times which i obliged. I had told her several times how much she meant to me, i think what i need is to still keep on reminding her, we have come a long way and i cant let her go through another stress again. Concerning her love for me, i know she love me 100%, she really loved me and i also do the same, i love her so much and i hope when i go back this weekend we will be able to sort out our differences together. Her suspicious has really affect me so much, it has really disorganized my business and this my travelling, i could not think straight because i always think about her all the time and what she is going through.

Whenever i am around i always do the cooking all the time and she always enjoy my food. I am so sure of her, she does not want to cheat on me and she will never do that, she really loves me so much and she is 100% contented with me and our love life. She is one of the women i can beat my chest and vouch for.

Hello Nairalanders,

I am having problem with my marriage. I have never cheat on my wife before and it pained me that she doesnt trust me at all. I love my wife and i still do very much but her attitude is driving me crazy. I came to Nigeria on the 22 of April 2007 for a business trip and before that we had agreed that we are going to get another house at Guangzhou which is some 2 hours by air to where we reside, all this was with her consent. Right now that i am in Nigeria, she claimed that i always cut her line whenever she called me, she said she only get me whenever i call her to call me back and she came to conclusion that that means i am fooling around here. All my explanation that nothing of such is happening does not convince her and she said she will not call me again until i come. We had one daughter which i truly love and i dont want our quarrel to afftect her and i never pray for a failed marriage in my life but the way my wife is going about this thing is making me lose concentration because of my love for her. She has really tried for me, she is my pillar and my strength. Some people told me that it is my network that is having problem, i am using MTN, the new number that start with 0703 and i can swear that i never for once cut her call and i never go after another woman both here in Nigeria and where we reside. I want fellow nairaland people to advice me what step to take before my marriage crumble.

@iyaegbe, i am into clothing for men and women, if you need a supplier you could contact me and we can work together.

I do not know anything about the US am only talking concerning China, i am presently in Nigeria will send you their contact when i go back by the weekend.

even nobody can sell Nokia N series used one at that price. Next time if the thing you want to buy is too low you should beware.

@pepsis2, one thing you have to know about the business is that you have to get your supply from where it is cheap and a quality goods, with that you will be able to enter the market because nigerian people want good products at a less price. my e mail address is jamesfidodo@yahoo.com

once i get your mail i will give you my telephone number in China in order to make our communication easy.

@pepsi, i am into clothing and shoes, any one you want. I am based in China and presently i am in Nigeria till 6th of May, this is my telephone number here in case you want us to meet and discuss more about the business, i even have some suit now and my number is 07034489520

for electronics, it is better you source it from Guangzhou. If you need some assistance or you think we can work together, then you can contact me, i am based in China, Guangzhou and we can see how best to go about it. what sort of electronics are you interested in?

@Bulga, i am so sorry i could not get across to you before, i was extremely busy because of my journey to nigeria tomorrow, let us see if we can schedule appointment to meet while in nigeria and discuss more about it.

@Bulga, i will give you the price tomorrow.

@Bulga, concerning the generator. Do you want it from Perkins company in China or from any other generator manufacturing company here. The shipping will not be too much since we have to send it through sea and it will only take 28 days by Mearsk shipping line.

I have a presence in Ibadan and Lagos. I deal on any movable things that can be source from Asia.

to me it is as if this Yomi of a guy is not serious after all. How can you step down at the last minute. This is not democracy at all.

more than an idiot, asshole. The people like this will make me kill someone one day.

they will do the clearing for you and all you need to do is to go to their office pay the freight and the clearing and then collect your goods, easy as that.

normally i send my goods through air since i normally deal with computer and telephone and its accesories. sending things through air is not that espensive, some company charge 8 dollars per kilo while some charge less, it depends on how many kilo you have, the bigger your kilo the more you will be able to bargain and there are some company that send goods through Cotonou also, they will also clear it for you, all depends on what you want.