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resosdigital:
What are the skills you wish to offer on upwork?

Transcribing, proofreading and any related skill I didn't have any knowledge of graphic design and I only have my Android phone

Hello everybody, please anyone who knows about upwork freelancing site and how it works.

Hi, everyone I am a 200 level female student and my dad has decided not to sponsor my education any longer and this is because Mom and Dad are having issues in their marriage and I love when things are done right sometimes I support him and sometimes I support mummy it depends on the issue on ground but my younger brother on the other hand supports Daddy no matter what whether he's right or wrong even though I still try my best to be diplomatic but he wants me to support him fully and believes so much that he can't be wrong. I have never said he's wrong though but he doesn't see it that way.

Last Sunday, he announced not to sponsor my education just because we came back from church and there was no water to cook he asked me why and I told him because my younger brother did not fetch water he blamed me for that instead of blaming my brother and the next thing was I am not obedient e. t. c and now I have to look for a way to go to school. I know you will ask of my mom she's not capable financially and she's been begging, I also begged in fact family friends have come to beg but he refused, he paid my last school fees and knows mom is not capable enough to sponsor me and it's a way of getting back at mom, my school fees is #150,000 . I need to resume lectures fast so I am just thinking if how I can raise money so as to resume school and catch up with lectures.

Now work has started in school and I need to sort myself out, I am not trying to throw a pity party but I need people that are freelancing to help me out, how to get my upwork account approved, how to get jobs if I can be able to get this done by the end of January I will be able to raise myself.
Please I don't have a laptop all I have is my Android phone and I don't know yet but I think what I can offer to do right now on upwork is transcribing, proofreading e.t.c because I don't have a knowledge of graphics design, I know this may not make much but I don't mind the $5 jobs maybe three to four times a week will sort me out for school. Please I am not begging for money but someone to put me through since that's the only thing I can think of right now. I have browsed, checked Google, YouTube but I have never made a penny, I have a clickbank account, Fiverr but still not made a dime please people that have experience should help me out.

Please note: I spent seven years at home before gaining admission not because I didn't make good grades infact outstanding grades but somehow denied admission then I finally got admission to the university I can't afford to drop out please I beg you.
Coming Monday is my birthday and this is how he wants to celebrate it with me.

Sorry about the long post

Hello everybody, please anyone who knows about upwork freelancing site and how it works.


Hi, everyone I am a 200 level student and my dad has decided not to sponsor my education any longer and this is because Mom and Dad are having issues in their marriage and I love when things are done right sometimes I support him and sometimes I support mummy it depends on the issue on ground but my younger brother on the other hand supports Daddy no matter what whether he's right or wrong even though I still try my best to be diplomatic but he wants me to support him fully and believes so much that he can't be wrong. I have never said he's wrong though but he doesn't see it that way.

Last Sunday, he announced not to sponsor my education just because we came back from church and there was no water to cook he asked me why and I told him because my younger brother did not fetch water he blamed me for that instead of blaming my brother and the next thing was I am not obedient e. t. c and now I have to look for a way to go to school. I know you will ask of my mom she's not capable financially and she's been begging, I also begged in fact family friends have come to beg but he refused, he paid my last school fees and knows mom is not capable enough to sponsor me and it's a way of getting back at mom, my school fees is #150,000 . I need to resume lectures fast so I am just thinking if how I can raise money so as to resume school and catch up with lectures.

Now work has started in school and I need to sort myself out, I am not trying to throw a pity party but I need people that are freelancing to help me out, how to get my upwork account approved, how to get jobs if I can be able to get this done by the end of January I will be able to raise myself.
Please I don't have a laptop all I have is my Android phone and I don't know yet but I think what I can offer to do right now on upwork is transcribing, proofreading e.t.c because I don't have a knowledge of graphics design, I know this may not make much but I don't mind the $5 jobs maybe three to four times a week will sort me out for school. Please I am not begging for money but someone to put me through since that's the only thing I can think of right now. I have browsed, checked Google, YouTube but I have never made a penny, I have a clickbank account, Fiverr but still not made a dime please people that have experience should help me out.
Please note: I spent seven years at home before gaining admission not because I didn't make good grades infact outstanding grades but somehow denied admission then I finally got admission to the university I can't afford to drop out please I beg you.
Coming Monday is my birthday and this is how he wants to celebrate it with me.

This is also happening in adekunle ajasin University

gloniks:
@Op hmm if only you know the hell fire of a marriage you are about to stick your head into.................. you will run and Never look back


Your family and mother telling you to still hold on maybe because you are off the age of marriage and they are somehow desperate


But my advice is that you break up with him right now, even if he's rich trust me you won't enjoy his wealth in sound health


Just like what's happening between my mom and dad even though dad has never beaten mom , he's not the jealous type and he is very responsible but there's a whole lot of emotional and verbal abuse and me their daughter is soooooo affected emotionally and they don't even know and my personality tops it up because I am an indoor person who doesn't make friends easily so I suck a lot of things in......so my dear I understand how you feel but Please no sentiment your man is on the way and not this one


He's telling you already right before marriage not to work and you will be at his Mercy for your livelihood you don't have to offend him before he picks quarrel because he is insecure and the he will withdraw your monthly allowance, there won't be food e.t.c O feel so sorry like I should cry for you because you don't know how frustrating it can be because recently things excalated between mom and dad and dad said mummy should cater for her self she was broke and didn't have any work then and she would go hungry ........... she's catering well for herself now she was just broke then that's why I advocate for women building their lives and being financially independent

notemy dad is a lovely man that cater for us just doesn't see Mom as part of his wife anymore and all these signs you mentioned are there but my dad has never beaten mom before love him for that)


but please leave immediately, when you start feeling the heat of that marriage which you have started feeling now your family won't be there so take the bull by the horn


#sorry for my long epistle just want to drive down my point

and please you should know what's best for you, people around you talked to you before starting the relationship, they talked to you before continuing the relationship.... for all I can see here they are just tossing you around.... you knew it was a wrong venture right from the beginning but they keep pushing you into it...... please stand your ground o...... fine your family's advice is good but please be able to discern they are humans too and can be wrong you should be able to know when to listen to their advice or not

please you are responsible for your life ( this one said, that one said) please stop all these "they said" things an do what you are supposed to

@Op hmm if only you know the hell fire of a marriage you are about to stick your head into.................. you will run and Never look back


Your family and mother telling you to still hold on maybe because you are off the age of marriage and they are somehow desperate


But my advice is that you break up with him right now, even if he's rich trust me you won't enjoy his wealth in sound health


Just like what's happening between my mom and dad even though dad has never beaten mom , he's not the jealous type and he is very responsible but there's a whole lot of emotional and verbal abuse and me their daughter is soooooo affected emotionally and they don't even know and my personality tops it up because I am an indoor person who doesn't make friends easily so I suck a lot of things in......so my dear I understand how you feel but Please no sentiment your man is on the way and not this one


He's telling you already right before marriage not to work and you will be at his Mercy for your livelihood you don't have to offend him before he picks quarrel because he is insecure and the he will withdraw your monthly allowance, there won't be food e.t.c O feel so sorry like I should cry for you because you don't know how frustrating it can be because recently things excalated between mom and dad and dad said mummy should cater for her self she was broke and didn't have any work then and she would go hungry ........... she's catering well for herself now she was just broke then that's why I advocate for women building their lives and being financially independent

notemy dad is a lovely man that cater for us just doesn't see Mom as part of his wife anymore and all these signs you mentioned are there but my dad has never beaten mom before love him for that)


but please leave immediately, when you start feeling the heat of that marriage which you have started feeling now your family won't be there so take the bull by the horn


#sorry for my long epistle just want to drive down my point

YelloweWest:
Beg u say u be who na? Clearly their daughter is independent and can feed herself and so if her family!

You boys need to understand that the world has evolved passed that age where women need men for everything.
This lady can walk away from an abusive man because she can AFFPRD TO!

Chai! one bottle of wine for you...... you just said my mind that I didn't want to say because these egocentric men will be so hurt since they think the world revolves around them

Now note that nobody wants a failed marraige but the earlier the better you these men understand that the world has changed from the era whereby everything revolves around you, gone were those days a husband will just call his wife "aduke go inside" and for what for sex, I am not saying a man should give his wife prior notice before sex but these men would just call their wives even in odd times and the wives would answer......This is the 21st century and one big thing that gave men of those days the liberty is because the man works while the woman stays at home taking care of the kids and the home but now it's different the women now go to schools, majority of the fathers now place value on the girl child and send the females to school so now some females are financially independent not all women rely on men for their survival and livelihood so some females can do what guys are doing, you are working she's working so if she's respecting you it's because your are her husband, head and father of her kids that doesn't mean she should be treated anyhow


A man is still the head and be treated as such and I believe in a woman being submissive but seriously you guys should know that the kind of liberty our/your great grand father enjoyed has passed and you will be deceiving yourselves if you think you can relate to a woman the way they did and if you are still being egocentric and bossy. If you think you can just behave anyhow the way the great grand fathers behaved anyhow to the women hmmm gone were those days


The woman is obviously financially independent and she can take care of herself and her baby at me that's better than an abusive husband that may even promote from a slap to punches which consequences are unimaginable



Anyways take your pride away and continue to beg her and I am sure she will listen

SilvanusII:
I hope someone has dragged you for this blatant display you wrote. Judging from the number of likes u have garnered, I seriously doubt that.
The thing with you abusers is you just need your victims to take your starting slaps lying down. After that, its home free. You progress to beatings and then eventually killing the poor women.
She didn't overreact. She set the precedent against subsequent abuse.
I really don't know who give some of u morons phones

Ko ye mi o........... I don't know who gave these zombies calling themselves men phones na wa o

Emmanuelhector:
slap is normal in marriage

You are a monster

afroxyz:
people.like you are only comparable to demons.

Yea, DEMONS.

the man tried to avoid altercation by going to the living room. she still followed him there to instigate him.

He reacted and you say he has no right? well, ok.


But what gives the woman the right to follow him and further instigate him despite his efforts to avoid any conflict?

is he not a human being? Doesn't he have a tolerance threshold?

Now the man starts apologising after his stupid act. throughout the night and the first thing she does is call her parents.?

well, ok. she may be right.

But what sensible MIL would come to take the daughter out of her husband's house?

She didnt even come to settle the matter but came prepared to take the wife out of her matrmonial home despite the mans pleading?

How can you crucify the man for reacting without blaming the person that caused the action?

Like I said: You are a demon.

afroxyz:
people.like you are only comparable to demons.

Yea, DEMONS.

the man tried to avoid altercation by going to the living room. she still followed him there to instigate him.

He reacted and you say he has no right? well, ok.


But what gives the woman the right to follow him and further instigate him despite his efforts to avoid any conflict?

is he not a human being? Doesn't he have a tolerance threshold?

Now the man starts apologising after his stupid act. throughout the night and the first thing she does is call her parents.?

well, ok. she may be right.

But what sensible MIL would come to take the daughter out of her husband's house?

She didnt even come to settle the matter but came prepared to take the wife out of her matrmonial home despite the mans pleading?

How can you crucify the man for reacting without blaming the person that caused the action?

Like I said: You are a demon.

Then you are the devil himself so the mother came and took her daughter so she should have waited for the daughter to go through other forms of molestation because na from clap dance dey take start.....the guy is sorry yes but there's no justification forward his actions that doesn't mean he should be crucified since he's sorry now but still there's no excuse for his actions.......so if it were you after the family came you would not be remorseful. I don't blame you men like you see women as object of the other room rubbish.
Majority of domestic violence started little by little and escalated into horrible things so for family that place value on their daughter I don't blame them.....since most of you abusers like when your victim doesn't have any relative or friends and the one that have you try all possible means to detach them from their families so that you will be able to perpetrate your evil act without anyone coming to their aid

now the wife is to be blamed. Rubbish and how did the wife cause the action the husband caused everything from the beginning


LIKE I SAID EARLIER YOU ARE THE DEVIL HIMSELF

Most of these comments are so heartbreaking, seeing also that some of these guys talking are not yet married, I feel so so sorry. Most people think the woman's action of calling her mom and brother was too far, chai, really so she should wait till from a slap it gets to punches and then one day you will beat her blue black till she dies or becomes deformed and then you see her unpresentable as a wife abi.....so her calling her family was too much but your own slap was not too much..... Thank God you said you have a female child imagine her married and her getting a slap from her husband how will you feel

So she was shouting and yelling so that justifies your actions?

you said that was the first time you came back late so I believe she had never seen you coming back that late and you don't think she must have been sick and worried about you with the security issues especially in this festive season?

You were not drunk so where you were with your friends you didn't bother about her maybe to give her a call, you didn't consider her feelings at all?

If she was the one who came back late I am sure that house would have been hot for her, I am sure you would have been soooooo angry infact even if it was just dinner she didn't prepare it wouldn't have been condoned Come to talk more of coming back late I am not judgemental here but I think a slap was too fast


And all majority of the guys here can say is that she shouldn't have yelled or she should have left you in the room or maybe she should have said "bravo my husband for coming back late" and most guys are saying you should leave her alone fine you have done a mistake continue tendering your apologies she will definitely come back that's after you've signed an undertaking never to do such again

but I shake my head for most guys
#egocentric
#violent

soon all of them will say they don't support domestic
violence

Mtcheew

please
1. hope it doesn't have side effects especially for ladies that will breastfeed later in life
2. Is it effective like how many days or weeks will you start seeing results
and op please did it work for you and are you a female or male sorry I am asking I just want to know what part of the body you used it for and if it worked and when you stopped using it did your body go baby to that normal size?



#pardon my curiosity
#just asking

gloniks:
interested.........................please go further

............... please my email is prosperouslady34@yahoo.com

interested.........................please go further

True but no. 4 though seems puzzling

AdaBekee23:
Then you are one of the unique personalities in the world

Thanks jare☺️

Adasun:
Op missed something,dis personality would revenge any wrong done to them,sometimes without even knowing

yes o you are right, that is another thing about me, I revenge things done to me sometimes, I just see it as wickedness if I can't have my revenge just to make you feel how it is to be pained

I just don't know why but this is also true about me

Everything mentioned here talks about me and honestly I have been wondering if I am the one with issues or people around me, even my dad complains or should I say criticizes me everyday. The thing about me is that I am courageous in a positive way not that I become rude in the process of being courageous but I will say my mind period, I hate nonsense and even if you are higher than me in authority and I know you are doing something bad and you think because you are older than me I won't have the nerve to talk hmmm I will, because seeing an elderly person misbehave nauseates me. I am principled, no nonsense, courageous and I like yes being yes and no being no and I have been thinking if I really have issues but thanks you just clarified something with your post. Another thing is I keep to myself a lot like a loooooot, no friends at all I mean at all and I am so comfortable about it until recently my dad has been making me feel bad like I have character issues (don't want to call it something stupid) and I started wishing I had friends note that I am a female in my 20's and when I meet new people I don't know how to strike a conversation which I usually don't bother after all I am not a guy who will need to ask a lady out some family friends even think I am proud because I don't mix with their children which is not intentional also I am soooooo observant, I observe people very fast and my parents will just shout and say "you have started again" even though later what I took notice of will happen that makes me dislike my nosy neighbor, all I observed about her happened and I just thought I am the only one in my own world. Thanks op for this, this really made my day. Sorry for the long story just want to pour out my mind.