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Mznaett:
Hi it's been a while

yep. how are u doing?

SUGARBEE:
Lol actually am 23.. Would be 24 Jan 20th...

oh! much younger. Your natal day is now at the back of my mind. would put across best wishes if God keeps us alive. I know he will .Are u done with sch?

SUGARBEE:
26 Jan 20th

which should take 26 or 20.

SUGARBEE:
Am 25

grt age. I will be 31 by oct, 20th to be precise. what abt u ma

StephanieEzeh:
Except you are not mature emotionally as a lady or you are just too incapable of stepping up your game, the following characters should be a total turn-off for any right thinking lady with class!

1. "Mature" guys that sag: You can see the mature in quotation marks because I doubt if they are really mature! Some guys who are above 30 still sag their trousers! Don't you look at yourself in the mirror and see how you look like a condemned prisoner on Death Row to be hanged? Dress decently guys and stop all these silly attributes of a naïve teen that you are always trying to put up! That's irresponsibility to the core!!! No responsible woman will date you abeg

2. Calling a girl countless times: Its time to behave yourselves guys. When you call a girl up to 3 times and she's not picking, chill and see if she calls you back. If she doesn't, it means she isn't into you at all. If she calls back, fine. You should know this by now; calling her all the way when she's not picking exposes you as a desperate love-starved guy that can used and dumped! Personally, this turns me off.

3. Wanting to have sex immediately you meet a girl: Except she is a woman of easy virtue, demanding for sex or trying to entice her to sleep with you would definitely turn a right-thinking woman off immediately! What if she's your sister? Would you want another guy to get down with her just like that? It is the unusual, abnormal and unnecessary thirst for sex that makes many guys to act like programmed machines when you see a woman, you begin to analyze her female anatomy with your ravened eyes like hungry lions because small shawarma and probably, 2 bottles of SNAP that you bought.

4. Begging a girl to love you: Any guy that begs me to love him has already been seen as an incurable mugu by me. It is a huge turn-off!!! Whether you do it through phone call, sms or face to face, its still the same thing. Do you know how you appear when you do this? Like a dumb ass! Yea, a dumb bloke Some would even go as far as kneeling down for you.

5. Bad English: When some guys open their mouths to speak, you would be surprised! They can't even differentiate past tense from present tense or past-participle from past tense! A guy once met me at a mall and asked: "Did you attend Uniport? Your face looks similar" . I held myself back from bursting out laughing!!! Instantly, right there, standing with him, I was turned off and I left him staring into the air like an abandoned child.

6. Begging a girl for cash and other goodies:

Whenever guys rant about digging in girls, I just laugh. I have experienced it several times and first-hand, where guys beg as if there's no tomorrow for stuffs like cash, recharge cards, etc. This is shameful. Its disgraceful If I want to get a present for a guy or give him cash, which is not advisable if he's not a worthy person, I'll do that from my heart but not you scheming and begging. Why don't you get up your lazy butt and look for something useful to do with your life? You think Nigerian ladies are like those white women you scam daily? We are far wiser...but some ladies still fall for such romantic scam all in the name of love from Mr Smooth-talker!

7. Irresponsible life-style: Some guys don't even consider their age. They still feel they are 10 years old. They do nothing other than smoking skunk, weed, cigarette, popping Tramadol and all silly types of drugs you can ever imagine. That's a huge turn-off if you don't know. Only the awful smell that emanate from your body after smoking and excessive drinking can even make a woman leave you immediately!

Spot on. Guilty of calling a girl more than two times and she sometimes fails to return the call. Pls does that mean she might not be interested. Just met her lately. We sometimes have a lively conversation on phone. her attitude is undulating, just confused

Thank you

GETTING MARRIED AT A MUCH YOUNGER AGE PAYS. THIS IS A CASE IN POINT. GREAT COUPLE

SUGARBEE:
Very true sir...

yes ma. bUT WHY THE SIR. AM NOT OLD. AM 30. u

SUGARBEE:


Lol.. I detest online dating too but sometimes it really does help..

The main problem why you guys get disappointed is cuz you don't want to really know the person you're chatting with very well, all you guys have in mind is _sex and nothing but _sex...

You picture the person on the other end as perfect not vividly painting how he/she would look like without editing or makeup...

I once told an online admirer of mine that if we were gonna date online, he should upload a pic of him holding a current dated newspaper...

Lol... He couldn't for reasons best known to him and that was when I knew he was a scam. .

I'll therefore advice everyone entering an online relationship to obtain reasonable evidence from the person on the other end that he/she is real, before you put your self in something bigger than you can handle

Spot on! For me there is no justification for that. I got my family pic on my profile pic. I also like girls that are real in their disposition and mien

lets concentrate on how to improve our economy with the available resources we have on ground

Is a good one. Is long overdue though

repogirl:
Okay nah...since everybody dey book space, make me sef book for no reason

Must u follow the bandwagon? Just asking not trying to be insolent here

Shebarh:
She is right tho..

What makes u think she is right. U cant modify the sacredness of keeping once-self before marriage. I know the society has really changed but that does not change the fact that pre-marital sex is immoral and should be totally discouraged. I am not a saint though

why is she modifying the truth. Pr-marital sex should be totally discouraged whether we are living in a sex driven would or not. Lets keep campaigning against pre-marital sex

PROVACATEUR:
ok

ok.

Ok. Is up to them to decide. For me I have for a long time moved on

PROVACATEUR:
OK

he knows ur type?

A right step in the right direction! Buhari the right man for the job any day. GodblessNig247

u guys should leave her alone. She is enjoying herself. Haters go hug transformer.

This is stupidity and foolishness personified. Is quite unfortunate.

misspicy:
Foolish boys everywhere....
They should ask the men who abandoned babymamas in those days,they all regret it when d baby is all grown up...mu.mu boys everywhere

Thank God am not mumu o

OP stop misbehaving. Go get a mature girl that can reason in the same pedestal with u. Dont make that poor girl lose focus. She is a tyro in all ramification.

DocAdray:
Don't take advantage of her please, she is still a teenager. Be more of a friend to her, for now. When she is more matured and ready for a serious relationship and decide to go for you after you've made your intentions known to her, good!

U are highly sensible in ur thought. Spot on!

The heart of a man is desperately wicked. Who can know it? RIP to the dead

Mznaett:
Am not o..

ok. hope u dont mind if WE GET along as platonic, boon companion, bosom friends, second self and decent friends here. i have no friend here. aRE U DONE WITH SCH? Thanks

Mznaett:
Hmmm,,Ifa hear!

I lack words to say believe me
#shy

I get . I think so. are u from the east?

Mznaett:
She needs it lol

u sound decent and polite. Are u?
Dont mind me oh. That is what I observed

Mznaett:
My dear,just move on with your life...it's not that easy! That I know already.

But just forgive and forget him

As for the lady allow her to find out things by herself o
so they won't tag you names lol

wise saying

Good to hear. but not seen any improvement here in owerri where I reside

[quote author=SUGARBEE post=37143985]Very possible.. I had exactly the same grades when I wrote mine.. .

Am really proud of u. Keep it up.

SUGARBEE:
It's quite late don't you think?

sorry about that I didnt check my time piece. Hope u had a stupendous night rest

SUGARBEE:
Not really

good evening to you suderbbbbbbbbee