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Health / Re: Please A Nairalander Needs Help With This Stubborn Rash. by Godfiidence: 10:58pm On Sep 24, 2020
Simple. Start by bathing more with hot water that has a drop or two of dettol antiseptic in it, don't scrub that head with a bath sponge, or rub hard with a towel and even scratch with a hair brush or dirty hands as it will only worsen the irritation. An alternative to the hot water and dettol bath is; get a bowl of warm water, add two drops of dettol then get a very clean hand towel which you will dip in the dettol mixed warm water, let it soak some of the water, squeeze it a bit then dab the affected part gently. Always wash your hands and ensure you don't place them on your head whenever they are dirty.

Samsimple:
I lost my dad last month, according to tradition we were told to cut our hair excluding the last born. It's been a week since then, but this rash on my head won't leave. I have been using damatol since I cut my hair, please can anyone recommend something better for me.

This is my first time of barbing bololo in years. Please nairalanders help me
Education / Re: UNIBEN Made Me Doubt My Intelligence by Godfiidence: 8:18pm On Sep 01, 2020
They obviously didn't make you feel great because that task is for you only but they should have at least helped you improve on your spelling, helped you know the difference between here and hear. I just did what they could not in the 4, 5, maybe 6 years you spent there.

Ribspot:
Greatest uniben students, uniben never really made me feel great, right from the day I wrote my post utme which I prepared so hard for, down to my final year, because all my result were never reflection of the efforts which I put in.

Did anyone else feel this way, i would love to here from you.
Politics / Re: Buhari Hosts Pastor Adeboye In Aso Rock (Pictures) by Godfiidence: 9:50pm On Aug 31, 2020
Didn't nobody teach you making assumptions,jumping to conclusions is foolhardy?

SweetJoystick:
Because of CAMA abi? He no visit since when them dey slaughter citizen's for southern Kaduna, since his business is about to be threatened he feels It's necessary to protect him own interest.....yeye

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Romance / Re: Photos From The Beautiful Nairalander's Wedding by Godfiidence: 3:29am On Aug 27, 2020
OdefaGirl:
The solemnization in Holy Matrimony/ Sword Crossing of the young beautiful officer and her husband, Sub Lieutenant Obiageri Juliet Odumuko and Engr. Nnamdi Victor Ekebuike took place on 22nd August, 2020 at Ovim in Isuikwuato LGA.

The glamorous ceremony attracted so many dignitaries including Senior Officers both serving and retired from the three Arms of the Armed Forces.

The couple who had their traditional marriage in April, 2019, scheduled their wedding on 13th April 2020 but had to postpone it due to the lockdown caused by the Corona virus pandemic, held their wedding this past weekend and here are some pictures taken....

Happy married life Officer Oby and Engr. Vic as you walk down this journey together.

It's sweet when you walk that road with your long time friend and heartthrob.

Beautiful. Congratulations! May your union stand the test of times, kickstart a lifetime of continuous success for you both and of course produce good, strong and healthy children. be blessed.

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Family / Re: Age 25 With 1 Million Naira & Living With My Parents: Buy Land Or Pack Out? by Godfiidence: 10:17pm On Aug 20, 2020
Don't be in a rush to pack out, are they chasing you?. Buy the land as it is an investment or start a profitable business, be profit oriented and take advantage of the fact you are not burdened with the responsibility of paying rent for the next year or two.
Romance / Re: Nigerians Are Hypocrites When It Comes To Sex. My Experience At Shoprite by Godfiidence: 11:16pm On Jul 28, 2020
Being pretentious sadly is a constant in at least 95% of Nigerians. True or false?

Carchoice:
I was at shoprite yesterday evening, I bought other stuffs and 10 packs of durex condom. At the point of payment, all the stuffs I shopped were on the counter and all eyes were on it. I could hear murmurs and giggles. Even a lady I perceived to be a baby mama sef join dey laugh. angry

As a careless Nigerian that I am, I went back to the condom shelve and added 5 more packs. E shock them.

Why the hypocrisy? For the background they are sharing HIV and donating pregnancy here and there.

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Family / Re: "Mummy Calm Down" - Boy Negotiates His Way Out Of Beating By His Mother by Godfiidence: 9:12pm On Jul 28, 2020
His Mother should/must be proud of him, he's one hell of a smart kid! He sensed the moment his mother's stance softened and capitalized on it.
Reminds me of someone.

StagethemTVee:
When a boy of this age goes from English to native language while trying to get his way out of the trouble he got himself into, and then negotiating terms and conditions with his mum, you know a legend is born. A true legend.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uM7VuqCeGvQ

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Romance / Re: The Too Much I Know About Her Previous Sex Life Is Hunting My Feelings For Her by Godfiidence: 11:12pm On Jul 26, 2020
If your heart and head is stuck on her then my brother do your thing.. Person wey dey fear to fall, no fit run(No b curse o, na so ancient elders take talk am).
Romance / Re: The Too Much I Know About Her Previous Sex Life Is Hunting My Feelings For Her by Godfiidence: 11:10pm On Jul 26, 2020
SIR0:
There's a girl in my neighborhood who I can refer to as my home sister. We're so close. We share feelings, advice & keep nothing from one another, our love life inclusive.

She has had quite a number of relationships and got disappointed in all. I've had one relationship too.

There was a time I told her about my feelings towards her & she said she would have loved to accept my proposal but she couldn't handle double-dating. Well, I felt okay having let her know my feelings. I understood her decision & I don't think I was ready to be kept as a spare tyre, too. We moved on with our friendship.

We talked both clean and dirty stuff. She would even tell me anytime she felt Hot & needed to see her boyfriend for sex. In short, we are now having mixed feelings for one another. It could no longer be hidden on her face, too.

As a lady, she's expecting me to make the first advance. Making the move is not my problem but the thoughts of some dirty talks we've had together. The most worrying part was a time she got drunk with her friend at a birthday party & she mistakenly called one of her Ex-bfs (who she loved most) over & he took advantage of the moment to have his way with her again. Though she claimed she was not sure if something really happened between them but she noticed she had no pant on when she woke up in the morning, blablabla. To me, the guy is not that reliable as he is into drinking & smoking. She appears too innocent to be dating such a guy & I gave my advice. She might not really disclose all that transpired at the birthday party. I kept thinking the guy could have recorded the act, knowing well that she's stark drunk. What if our relationship leads to marriage & the guy begins threatening her with sex-tape or he leaks any sex tape involving her, how would I go about it? Aside her other sex life, this is most worrisome of all.

My thinking/guess may be wrong, yet I do not want to be caught unaware, to avoid stories that touch later. This is a dilemma for me. I truly love her but my happiness matters a lot.

Don't hesitate to advise a brother.
Kindly overlook any grammatical blunders.

Thanks

If your heart and head is stuck on her then my brother do your thing.. Person wey dey fear to fall, no fit run(No b curse o, na so ancient elders take talk am).

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Travel / Re: 3rd Mainland Bridge Closure, Please Share Your Experience And Alternative Routes by Godfiidence: 11:04pm On Jul 24, 2020
GboyegaD:
Why would they want to repair 3rd Mainland Bridge and Marine Bridge simultaneously? Our planners need think properly.

Might just be their aim is to stamp into the brains of ignorant or itinerant lagosians that the waterways offer an alternative means of transportation thus increasing their customer base and might even succeed in decongesting major roads.
Kill eight birds with one stone?! Might turn out to be a master stroke.
Family / Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by Godfiidence: 11:57am On Jul 21, 2020
Poseidon000:
Sup guys. I've something that have always earned the acme of my discountenance. And that's how men crudely jump into marriage in other to conform to societal dictate or for some selfish satisfaction.
This have gotten me pensive and I'll make no ado in getting to the nucleus of the issue.

Yesterday, I was headed toward gwarimpa, and on my way I noticed a disheveled young guy around Efab estate trekking by the express.
As a rule, I always give such guys 'lift,' because i was once with a female colleague in a lonely path that seldom have cars coming our way, suddenly one private car stopped and when I tried entering after my female colleague boarded, the SIMPson bounced me out and zoomed off with an empty back seat.

That incident birthed in me a sense of solidarity and understanding of what men go through just for being men, but yesterday, I was so incensed by a botch job my mechanic did that I drove past. After about 4 hours when I had everything sorted and was heading back, I saw the same guy heading toward my direction again(it's a dual carriage way) and he was sweating profusely, so I beckoned on him to enter. We got talking and I inquired why he's trekking such a long distance. He said: he went to look for a job that wasn't successful and he's going back to Arab road.
But this is just a miniscule of the guy's travail. He grew up in abject poverty.In fact, they gave birth to him and his sister in an uncompleted building. His dad died in that building, his sister got pregnant for some riffraff and they started what we call "abuja marriage", his mom subsequently fell sick and died in the same uncompleted building. Then the owner of the building decided to complete it, and drove him away.

Now, this guy was able to get another uncompleted building to stay, and as I'm typing this, he's with wife and kids. This is a person that don't have food at home and can not afford N150 to and fro.

I gave him 10k but I was so mad with him; I mean, I was disconcertingly appalled that this guy will think of marriage in his privation. Why not be a little bit comfortable before considering marriage, instead to face life with the dignity of a breadline.

Sadly, this is the same mistake lot of guy's have been making thinking they'll fall into some stupendous money as soon as they marry, and this is mostly perpetuated by religious charlatans who say; a man's destiny is predicated on his future wife, that as soon as he gets married, the special blessing tied to marriage will start opening way for him.

That's a mendacious twaddle that will leave you in a precarious situation. Please guys, have 'comfort' afoot before you dabble into marriage.

What's your take on this?


Keep up the good work.. Solidarity forever but please if you are not financially stable as a man, please apply sense, control your libido, shut your ears to what people say and refrain from getting married or impregnating the girl next door.

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Politics / Re: Auction Of 'Stolen' Nigerian Artifacts Goes Ahead In Paris by Godfiidence: 11:25am On Jul 21, 2020
Openbusiness4:


SOURCE: AL JAZEERA AND NEWS AGENCIES
https://www.aljazeera.com/amp/news/2020/06/auction-stolen-nigerian-treasures-paris-200629184454077.html

Nigeria should be more demanding, insistent, go all out to retrieve such artifacts and guard them jealously. I can't and don't want my children growing up without a full grasp/knowledge of their culture and heritage as Nigerians.
Family / Re: Man Flogs His Daughter For Joining Whatsapp Group She Was Warned Against by Godfiidence: 10:49pm On Jul 19, 2020
Well I pray it all works for good for that family.
Quite frankly you have a cool profile and i just followed you, do you mind following back?
Plus are you on twitter, instagram? I observed you enjoy good books, I'd like to be friends if you are cool with it.

Hathor5:


His best? Really? Do Nigerians actually know any other ways to raise a child?

The Circle was cool. This is where I first heard of Godfidence.
Family / Re: Man Flogs His Daughter For Joining Whatsapp Group She Was Warned Against by Godfiidence: 9:51pm On Jul 19, 2020
Look at it from a Father's perspective; Do you know the threat being a part of that whatsapp group could pose to the future and eventual adulthood of that girlchild?
Is it not better knowing you did your best than nothing at all if eventually the child ends up wrong?

all we saw is just a bit part of the whole picture. There definitely was a build up that led to him resorting to such measures. Let's not be quick to judge(it's a sunday people!)

No, never watched the circle(just googled it and it looks cool though)

Hathor5:


You can discipline children without abusing and humiliating them.

Have you picked your moniker after watching The Circle?
Family / Re: Man Flogs His Daughter For Joining Whatsapp Group She Was Warned Against by Godfiidence: 9:48pm On Jul 19, 2020
Look at it from a Father's perspective; Do you know the threat being a part of that whatsapp group could pose to the future and eventual adulthood of that girlchild?
Is it not better knowing you did your best than nothing at all if eventually the child ends up wrong?

all we saw is just a bit part of the whole picture. There definitely was a build up that led to him resorting to such measures. Let's not be quick to judge(it's a sunday people!)

YelloweWest:


Like seriously! Why can't he sit her down and talk to her? Why resort to such violence? At the end if tge day its her life! Joining a WhatsApp group won't kill her!
Family / Re: Man Flogs His Daughter For Joining Whatsapp Group She Was Warned Against by Godfiidence: 9:44pm On Jul 19, 2020
Look at it from a Father's perspective; Do you know the threat being a part of that whatsapp group could pose to the future and eventual adulthood of that girlchild?
Is it not better knowing you did your best than nothing at all if eventually the child ends up wrong?

YelloweWest:

This is not disciple pls. This is abuse! She joined a WhatsApp group!! Shes 18!!! Did she post a nude pic??

What the hell? Nigerian homes are too violent. This is tge reason our streets are merciless!

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Family / Re: Man Flogs His Daughter For Joining Whatsapp Group She Was Warned Against by Godfiidence: 9:32pm On Jul 19, 2020
massive Kudos to the Man for enforcing discipline in his home as without discipline we are no better than animals in the wild! Being richer than your father does not limit him from appropriately disciplining you when you err unless he is hungry and not aware of himself and role as a parent.
Think about it.
Hathor5:


Stockholm syndrome.
Family / Re: Man Flogs His Daughter For Joining Whatsapp Group She Was Warned Against by Godfiidence: 9:26pm On Jul 19, 2020
massive Kudos to the Man for enforcing discipline in his home as without discipline we are no better than animals in the wild!

YelloweWest:

I swear if I'm that girl I'll disown him as a father. What nonsense! For joining a damn WhatsApp group

Kids in primary 3 are on WhatsApp and create class room groups! This is tge age tgey are born into. You cant stop them or else they'll be a social misfit. U can only guide them.

He will definitely regret this
Family / Re: Man Flogs His Daughter For Joining Whatsapp Group She Was Warned Against by Godfiidence: 9:25pm On Jul 19, 2020
massive Kudos to the Man for enforcing discipline in his home as without discipline we are no better than animals in the wild!
Joshmanuel10:
Funny this a temporary solution
Sitting down to talk to her wasn't an option I think
Well we are all animals and animal are flogged
Rubbish culture
Family / Re: Man Flogs His Daughter For Joining Whatsapp Group She Was Warned Against by Godfiidence: 9:08pm On Jul 19, 2020
plus the one wey record video, plus oda pikin for the house, all go chop Dadi belt hot hot because from my perspective, vision(as today na sunday) the child that recorded the video will be obstinate/ not own up/ take responsibility quick enough.

Spare the rod or not pikin wey go spoil go spoil is what some say still massive Kudos to the Man for enforcing discipline in his home as without discipline we are no better than animals in the wild!

Thank you.

Family / Re: Man Flogs His Daughter For Joining Whatsapp Group She Was Warned Against by Godfiidence: 9:05pm On Jul 19, 2020
plus the one wey record video, plus oda pikin for the house, all go chop Dadi belt hot hot because from my perspective, vision(as today na sunday) the child that recorded the video will be obstinate/ not own up/ take responsibility quick enough.

Spare the rod or not pikin wey go spoil go spoil is what some say still massive Kudos to the Man for enforcing discipline in his home as without discipline we are no better than animals in the wild!

Thank you.
muchroom:
A father decides not to spare the rod and spoil the child by flogging his daughter after she joined a whatsapp group she had been warned not to join. The girl is seen begging and pleading she will never do such again.

The video must have been recorded by a family member present and if it is another child, the belt will surely be returning to slay him or her.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p-ualtQ6B2c
Religion / Re: 3 Men Carrying Sacrifice In Ikorodu, Forced To Eat It (Photos) by Godfiidence: 11:26pm On Jul 12, 2020
Mad o! Mad Meal!
dtnadeyemi1993:
Three guys was nabbed yesterday afternoon at Orita in Igbo Agbowa Owode Ibeshe In Ikorodu by the people of the community while trying to put sacrifice on the T-Junction, they were beaten to stupor and asked to eat up their sacrifice.
Nairaland / General / Re: Best Gift For A Millionaire Mentor (Please Help Me) by Godfiidence: 10:01pm On Jul 10, 2020
southniyikaye:
Please guys, well, I am just coming out of recession infact I recently graduated from the beggers association of nairaland(B.A.N) being their president.

So please I have 10k and I want to surprise a millionaire mentor.

Though we aren't together anymore, infact it is almost 3years I left him in good accord but today, my mind just remembered him. He helped me alot in the past, he even Financed my academics in the uni and we are not even related. Lived like a king in his house for years, he made me his sole manager. He was so nice to me but I just have to leave when the ovation was high.

So what can I buy with 10k that will surprise him and likely make a Lil diff?

And let me use this medium to thank Mr bello extensively. This man called me on his own accord, he adviced me and spoke positive words into my life and he said,

"that business you talked about, how much will you need to startup? I said 25k will be enough and he said what if I see 30k? I was so happy and he said he will get back to me on the following day which is a Sunday.

You can imagine my surprise when I received an alert of 100k from him. I first thought it was a mistake and told him and he said, do whatever you can to help yourself.
I am forever grateful sir from the bottom of my heart.

Pls lalasticl.ala help me move to front page for a wider coverage.
It is actually good to appreciate people who has made impact in our life. Though they may lack nothing but aside our prayers for them, let us appreciate them with little things we can afford.

So I want something I can order online and they deliver to his home address in mushin Lagos thank you.


On his behalf, you can donate/give the money to a widow/family, less privileged, orphanage or handicap home that obviously really needs it and will really deeply appreciate the gesture then gather them in a group and have them sing a birthday song, pray and say thank you to him. Make a video and present it to him alongside a well worded birthday card.


p.s. On the inside of the card using your own words, write how much you appreciate him + prayer + goodwill message.

Shiikenaa! Thank Me Later.

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Nairaland / General / Re: Best Gift For A Millionaire Mentor (Please Help Me) by Godfiidence: 9:58pm On Jul 10, 2020
On his behalf, you can donate/give the money to a widow/family, less privileged, orphanage or handicap home that obviously really needs it and will really deeply appreciate the gesture then gather them in a group and have them sing a birthday song, pray and say thank you to him. Make a video and present it to him alongside a well worded birthday card.


p.s. On the inside of the card using your own words, write how much you appreciate him + prayer + goodwill message.

Shiikenaa! Thank Me Later.

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