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Served in ogun state too, correct @octavo, ur head dey der joor

Haaaaaa Geography.... Longitude n latituded plus endless note.... SS3 no note from ss1 mtcheew, teacher used water holes to beat me hen and have me a week to write the note complete. SOSIK.

May the Lord grant d good desires of ur heart as u start a new year. Age with Grace

In my own opinion, its okay. I paid 15 for 2weeks but i didnt even complete the 2weeks before i began to drive well. Driving school build ur confidence,and den it depens in how bold u are too. But trust me its okay..

Hmmmmm....

Dearie,pls do keep the baby,it might not be easy but pls try,considering the fact that u have aborted two times before....... Pls pls just be strong....

This made my day.... Excellent. Muwahhhhhh

Must it be women keeping men? Y not men keeping the ladies? Afterall na d men come marry d lady..... Ladies got to stand n learn to live on their own... Nobody will go to heaven together..... If a man doesnt want to stay let him go.....

OCTAVO:
Good night.

Morning................

@OCTAVO.........

OCTAVO:
Hmmmmmmmm @Godstreasure23

And wat is my own?

@OCTAVO

Iyandasdiary:
Dear ID readers,

I’m going through a hell of time in my home and I think it’s about time to cry to the whole world. I’ve been suffering in silent and I can’t bear it any longer.

I and my husband dated for a long time before we got married. I’m eight years younger than him so we hardly pick up fights during our courtship due to the respect I had for him. He treated me like his younger sister and I also treated him like my elder brother.

We never had sex during our courtship. Not even for once. But, we maximally explored the romantic world. Sex was the only thing we didn’t have. I made him vow not to have it with me before we married. At first, he didn’t concur. He insisted that he can’t date a girl without having sex with her. I wasn’t comfortable with that so I laid him off.

He refused to go and demanded for explanation on the reason why I made that choice. So I told him it was our tradition that anyone who disvirgins us will marry us. If he wanted to do it anyway, he should marry me first. So he left.
After some time, he came back ant told me he has agreed. I told him to promise me never to have sex with another girl outside our relationship.He also made me promise to be romantically active.

He said if I don’t, he’d walk away and never come back to me. I didn’t want him to go because it’s rear to see a guy who would agree to such terms. So I promised.Throughout the time we dated, he never for once made attempt to break his promise.

I also fulfilled my side of the bargain. Whenever he needed to ease off, I was there for him. We had a fantastic dating period and I can hardly forget those moments we had together.

The time came and we got married. We had our honeymoon and I gave him my reserved flower with joy. It was the first time I experienced it in my life. It was more fantastic than painful because he was careful as not to hurt me. I was happy and fulfilled and hoped to get more of it from my husband. But, I really got more than I expected. Alas! It was the first and last time I enjoyed sex in our marriage.

My husband suddenly turned into a beast. He immediately turned our former food meal into sex meal. Sex became the only thing we do frequently in the house. If I don’t feel like it, my husband would force me and if I don’t comply, he would hit me.
My husband leaves his work place to come home to have sex sometimes before closing hour. Each of the time, he comes home to descend on me. Even when I’m sore from the previous one, he won’t mind. I cry and bleed every time we have sex because he does it too often. He’s so much older than me so he had power chances over me if i want to fight back.

I called him one day and pleaded with him concerning the issue. I told him to please be considerate. He bluntly said no. he said as long as I’m his wife, he has the right to sex me anytime he feels like. He said he was making up for all those times that I deprived him from having sex. He said he kept his potency safe all because of me and so he had to make up for those inactive years.

I couldn’t complain further because I also know what he had to forsake because of me. But, instead of his malady to reduce, it kept on increasing. Due to too much harsh sex i believe , I’d lost two pregnancies. The doctor advised him not to have sex with me at the early stage of marriage but, he wouldn’t listen.

I am really frustrated. If I opt for a divorce now,where do i start from.

Dear ID readers, please, come to my rescue.


SOURCE :www.iyandasdiary.com

Cc: OCTAVO

May God bless ur new age n fullfill all ur good heart desires.......happy birthday.....

Patience solves a lot of things

[quote author=mnbebe post=31772060]looks like we're in the same league [/quote

Really?

The fact that as a woman u are been cheated on,trampled on n u still have to be submissive n be patient.....i dont wish i was a man but i wish sometim cldd be done abt it.......

Thanks to everyone..........

10th march

[quote author=Eseries post=31074208]if you feel like crying.....................cry!
is a naturally therapeutic to any condition!
is one advantage the women folks have we men don't.
Dont cry endlessly though. cry, clean your eyes, then smile like nothing happened.
life goes on!
time heals!
[/quote
Thank you...

All i can do is just cry cry and cry......

Men men men........hmmm. To live with a man successfully u ve to have a lot of patience.... Check ur self, if u are okay den whatever he says dont say a word just let him know u hear. U live with an abusive man with patience....my little thought though.....it is well

ok

Hmmmmm true words......

Hmmmmm well.... If i say follow your heart i might be wrong.... And if i say follow what other people say you might lose what seems to give u joy and happiness. At times life is kinda hard wen u are faced with situations like dis. Just as your signature live like its goonaend today.... Talk to your mum abt it first and see what she think... My own thought though.... All d best dear

Since morning wey i dey moody...... U have successfully made my day..... cos i laughed n tears were dropping.

Haaaaa i rem that experience....my mom asked me to check if the beans was done on an electric stove...and me i like beans wey dey neva break wen its soft...so i use that oppourtunity......u wont believe....na so i carry iron spon wan thief the beans.....omo na entrance i meet myself...i just gt up dusted my cloth n walked quietly to tell her say the beans don do......

OCTAVO:
But I don't use an atm honey.

Like seriously? U abi.....Happy New Year

Well for me.....that is the end of a good relationship bte mother in law n wife.....u shd know wat i mean....

Topkush:
Acct: ******6163
Amt: NGN100.00 Dr
Desc: SI TRANSACTION (DIFFERENT CUSTOMERS)-Annual card maintenance - 2014
This was what I got, I was surprised as I only got a new ATM card last week WHICH I couldn't activate.

It has been said before that card maintainace will attract a fee if or not u active the card.... it will still be maintained.

Its been said before that card maintainace now has a fee. Once u ve a card if or not u activate it,it wld be maintained.

The deduction shd be becose u used ur atm card in anoanorther bank more than 3 times. If u use ur atm in another bank 3 times in a month u are safe bt after the third time u will be charged. I guess thats it cos i gt thesame deduction n made a report n thats wat i was told..