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samuelson06:
Thanks for your words. I've talked to her that I hate what she did and she was like, "someone must say I'm sorry and she's sorry." It's just tiring for me. However, I made it very clear to her that the day I'd experience such attitude and disobedience would mark the end of our relationship - in or before marriage.

samuelson06:
Thanks so much. It's not easy for someone to take out so much time to write like this to advise. Thanks again. I'm suspecting she's trying to be manipulative. She did it the first time and I held her to sleep. Another time, I noticed she was murmuring and she does that often. This time she waited for me to be done with my work and the moment I wanted to sleep she started her wahala. I just got mad because I felt like sleeping.

I understand she loves me but this attitude of hers would end up pushing me away from her. Maybe petting is good but it's not something I like. It's not something I want to run in my family. I want to raise children who are emotionally strong and not a type that even at adulthood would be crying uncontrollably as if he or she is a baby and looking up to someone for petting.

That's nonsense to me. Those kind of people are easily used because they don't have their mind or believe in themselves. This has been my fears with petting her. And in her tears, she told me I never used to ignore or touch her when she behaved that way and I knew within me she was driving to something and I won't do it.

Lovalovaphunmz:
Chai, u are such a darling��. I love you for ur wife

Freestainworld:
nothing last forever, soldier go, soldier come, that is life, what matters is the impact you created while discharging your duties.

festacman:
Abba Kyari didn't paint himself as an intelligent police officer. He covered himself in ignominy rather than in glory. He disappointed those who trusted him, broke the hearts of those who admired him and brought joy to those who hated him.

Obviously, he got too comfortable with his official powers. He got carried away with his much-feared and admired crime-fighting exploits. He conscience got numbed by unaccounted impunity committed in the line of duty.

From phone calls, text messages, Whatsapp chats to Facebook posts, Abba Kyari left easily traceable digital footprints all over the place. Agreed that he never expected Hushipuppi to retain their chats as trophy but to delete after reading but generally using his official lines for such illegal 'runs' was too dumb. He didn't display native intelligence, 'street-wisdom' or acquired intelligence. I am sure FBI agents were chuckling and shaking their heads about Nigeria Police while working on this case. I bet even the illiterate bandits in Zamfara forests would do better.

Hammyaladin:
Nice. If things were done this way, our country wouldn't have been bleeped.


Kyari is a greedy, corrupt cop "If proven Guilty"


For God sake, look @ the cars his little bro was oppressing citizens with.


Bleep. I hope more currupt police officers get exposed.

Say no to crime.

"Be determined and contented"

Vickyvice:
na sack e suppose be if not for his professional competence, but Abba kyari is an excellent investigator, I feel for him. F.B.I are very thorough people, everything they discovered is fact. our police/Abba kyari know this too. U may be surprised that the fbi kept some other evidence, in d event they lay hold on kyari, u will be shocked when the rest evidence is released.

Worldtopnewsng2:
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Focusmind:
When you have mastered a trade, skill or a specialist in certain field

when I started my corporate work at 25, I told myself that I would have my own hustle by 40. The stress that investment banking work brought on me was too much. Waking up by 4:30am and coming back by 10pm. The rat race was simply too much and was taking so much on my mental and emotional well being, even though the pay package and other emoluments were good.It provided me with all the necessities of life and I was financially doing relatively ok.

I registered my own consulting company by the side and was waiting when the side hustle could pay at least 50% of my total salary. That never came to pass as the Solo Consulting space itself is even competitive. Most jobs came through referral. I never got any consulting job based on submission of application. By 2016, I couldn't take it again and resigned to face my solo consulting. This is the fifth year and, I am yet to gross the annual salary I enjoyed when I was still working.

Any regret? No. I have my peace, wake up at my own time, visit my parents and enjoy good moments with loved ones during the weekends without considering the impending coming Monday. I am on my bed typing this, reviewing a document sent to me by a client. My mental and physical health is top-notch and I have developed myself beyond my imagination. Money wise, I am still far from getting what my corporate employment paid but I am far happier now than when I was working in the bank.

Bedtec:
if I try any of this move nah hospital e go end... fufu done block every blockable

MALIGNANTGuest:
Just Read Through.
Absolutely Right.
NUMBER 11 is the height of it
cc Righteousness89.
He really needs Microcellular Brain Maturation.
The MOMENT you engage Nigerian pastors in this discussion, rather than putting up verifiable facts, they start threatening you with Fire & Brimstone.
In Fact, most of them now have the KEY to HELL.

Golden147:
Good afternoon everyone..
Please I'm kindly in need of advice... ignore my typing ERROR..
There's this girl I love and I want to settle down with her. She's still in school while I'm still in school too. She's 22 while I'm 24 nd also in final YR and we both love each other..my mum has supported me to marry her.
I proposed to her and she said yes...I plan going her house next month next to start official martial rites but I'm afraid.
Here is my reasons

She's the only girl and the last daughter in a family of 5boys. Ever since we started dating, she's in 100l then, all her school burdens are on me..I take care of her and mine own...with this people around who knows about our RELATIONSHIP ask me to marry her to avoid story that touches the heart..which he has accepted , her mum nd dad have accepted it too.
My major concern about this girl is that those his brothers are not willing to do anything, istead the came asking me for small small money when I'm back, knowing fully I'm just dating thier sis....most times the my girl always feel ashamed of her brothers nd keep cursing them. The can't even call her on phone unless she calls them...nd the will keep asking why she didn't call them all this while knowing fully thier sister is in school nd not working.

I have thought about this over and over again, how do I marry from a family that can't even assist in anything...I know marriage is not always Rosy, what if something happens tomorrow nd I needed thier financial support..the can't render to me.
I discussed with my mum nd she told me I'm marrying thier sister who is well trained nd not the brother..that I can decide not to give them money again... But I'm very sad over this.
It's only the father and mum that acknowledge I hay been trying to see their sister through school expenses, including food and wears.
I discussed with my woman, she started crying, saying she knows her brothers are such a disgrace, telling me how she may commite sucide if I didn't marry her... She cried that she can't visits her house again... that her only hope will be to start prostitution which she can't see herself do that nd that's why she is going to commite sucide if I eventually leave her, all her social media handle is full with my picture, including her profile pictures.

Please what advice do you have for me.... should I let go of this girl, I don't mind letting go all I have already spent...I just want to make sure I won't regret the marriage tomorrow...I have already discussed with my mom nd we plan on going her house officially by August ending..but I'm still very worried.

Matured advice please

Skmoda:
Hmmm....lemme read over it again...coming

Jerryherd:
See how an Ibo man reasons

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