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robosky02:
I had a an argument with a friend over who to marry.

He actually meet a lady and they have been in love for a while and finally he went know her place.
According to him he expected her to still be in a parents house. but she was living alone, with the little job she has she has rented a place for her self.

And my friend feels it is not proper for an unmarried single lady to live alone and so what to call it quit.

so house, please advise my friend or what do you think

is there anything wrong with a lady living alone? Should that hinder her marriage. besides he live alone as a bachelor.

Hndrrxxx:
bro who offend you na 😂😂👌🏼

Jman06:
She's delusional. Only the never --do --well kind of guys would rush her because of money! No real man worth his balls would marry a woman with the intention of surviving on her.

SIRTee15:
Guy be real, that's 99% of Nigerian men. Na survival mode all of una dey.
Are u not the ones always shouting what can a women bring to the table.
She be asset to her husband and she knows that very well, and she's also pretty. Case closed.

Jaycee07:
Sir,

The Europeans who emigrated to where we now called the United States villified the black race. And they did that for many centuries. Not sure if you’ve been to any slave route enclaves like Alabama/ Mississippi/Louisiana before, you’d realized how much effort the Caucasians had put in to demonize black people. Black men were tortured , hanged, black women raped and brutalized.
The stories are all there to read.
Can you point out the contradictions you noticed in my write up?Please do so respectfully without insults.

Jaycee07:
Dating and marriage is entirely preferential. And what determines the preferences vary from places to places. Here in the United States, majority of marriage choices are race based. The vast majority of native born African American would rather prefer to stay single than marry white male. And the same applies to white male.

African born women in the diaspora tend to worship white male. Even the highly educated and successful black African born women in the diaspora are not attracted to white male due to sometimes preconceived notion about the black race ( Lies that have been fed to the white race for centuries)
Now let me shift my attention specifically to Nigerian born women who emigrated to the western nations. There’s a strong cultural and ideological difference between White men and Nigerian women. In Nigeria, women are literally worshipped and deeply cared for by their male counterparts and these women travelled out of Nigeria with that mentality believing that it is the norm everywhere else only to be met with a rude awakening that life is completely different here in the west.
Bills are shared, chores are shared and everyone contributes to the success of the union both financially and emotionally. Now it becomes a psychological burden on them to adjust to the new normal and in an attempt to showcase the entitlement mentality, they are booted of if the relationship.
While grappling with these new realities, they begin the search and conquer process and before you realize it, the same cycle repeat itself again and again.
In Western Europe, it’s no different.
Nigerian men are now wiser. They now realize that they are actually the prize and not the women as they were made to believe.

Lilosama:
A Nigerian nurse based in Uk comes out to say she can marry anytime she wants that she has things to over the man and Nigerian men will surely rush her…… watch the video to know all she said and do you believe her?



Source :
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3ibhYt13cFo?si=oJ7k5kw40zso_Jb6

richiemcgold:
I think she has made herself clear enough.

She specifically said "any man at anytime".

.. any man in this instance does not necessarily have to be a well-to-do man. He may probably be a stupid man, jobless man, a drunk, a druggie, an agbero or a useless man.

VanuatuWycombe:
May be it’s because of that perception they have always had about black race and Africans— poor, dirty, not civilized, nothing brought to table, stack cultural differences etc.

TheBreastSucker:
I am an expert in boobiez matter but I have never seen a woman with three

pansophist:
This is not true.

The black women who usually prefer white men are mostly freshers, especially those who associate white men with a higher socio-economic upgrade.

But usually, after they have experienced white men and all their issues, they revert to black men. most black women aren't into white men. The stats speak for themselves.

gracias124:
why did u ask?

gracias124:
5k daily

gracias124:
why

dollytino4real:
See kiss and tell guy, u don't know the level of hunger in her home, hungry fit make u do the unthinkable, God help us to see our destiny help who will not take advantage of us

gracias124:
Is it only Nigerian girls or all girls are like that all over the world?
The way Nigerian girls love money morethan everything kept me wondering. I am a guy who struggle and work under the sun everyday but it always amazes me how all the girls I deal with likes money morethan me.
It was lots of times that different girls told me they can do anything for money. What makes me create this thread today was my encounter with a 18 year old girl, she asked me for 5k and I said I will give 10k with a condition that we will meet for sex, I downloaded one wierd xvideo and sent it to her saying that I need that same thing from her, she didnt fret and even told me that she once done that.
Fear women. Oo