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Yes.That is normal behavior.

sow4me:
My junior brother is a living example of what the OP is talking about.

He got married while still a virgin and he's doing fine right now.

While i got a lady pregnant and have a child but still struggling tho doing okay, but not as my brother.

So a woman's star brings goodluck to a man or badluck. Depending on the kind of glory she carries.

I have come to understand that God places values on women to aid their husbands destiny, but we all know most women out now are so empty a man much investigate so well before putting a woman in his house.

If u wanna argue with me about my beliefs,😋 don't bother wasting your time cuz I don't reply.

Tank u

Very primitive. Astonishing.
Poor women.

zeefa:
I can't stop thinking about this fact, cos and I need people to relax and contribute to this story to confirm if truly making a right choice of a woman could bring wealth & glory upon a man for success.

Mama made me understand that as soon as a real woman of your star comes in a marrige with you, that doors would open, no matter the situation. And its the other way round if you got married to someone whose star isn't in line with ours.

Mama said he married baba at the age of 18 after her elementary school and then hhe was a sales boy at one of the cement store in our village. Baba proposed to her and they both agreed to get married despite the fact that baba was just on less than 50kobo per month.
They got married according to mama without anything and as soon as mama packed to his one room face me and face you apartment, just a month after the wedding, someone offer to help baba with a small money to help him with his own store.

Baba started with 5bags of cement just infront of the rented apartment and that was how things started booming for the family. And in less than 10yrs, Baba built his own house & he got a license to collect cement directly from the factory in Sagamu.

However, things took another dimension when his uncle introduced him to a young lady who just finished in DTC divisional teachers collage as a secretary. Well, baba accepted her and decided to marry her as a 2nd wife.
There was a serious critics from his friends and Mama. But they all blamed Mama for being selfish over the husband's wealth.

Baba married the young lady and decided to fixed her up for a teaching job close to where stayed.
She got pregnant and the birth of the child brought calamity into their house. The same day the child was born, Baba truck carrying goods from ibadan to okeogun had an accident and fell into the oke ogun river. The driver of the truck died and kept so many people injured.

Baba lost all he had after his new marriage and left with just the house he built before his new marriage and his business capital went down.


Now on our topic, could that be as a result of the new wife to the family or he was destined for such in life.

Truly, I believe a real woman directs his husband and gives him advise on ways to make sure things work better in life.

But I must confess that its still better to be careful as mama said not to make a mistake or get married to someone that would make one's life miserable.

It’s interesting how primitive your way of thinking is, and how you connect events like that.
On top of all that, you’re also a Muslim.

There are no such things as “stars,” and accidents simply happen.
Your mother was obviously a high-quality person, unlike your father. When she lost the ability to influence him, everything fell apart. Your father’s success was actually your mother’s success, while his downfall was his own doing.

I could easily break this down for you in detail, but you don’t mean enough to me to put in the effort.
Answer to your dilemma:
Yes, a high-quality woman can make your life better, but if you are not a high-quality man, you will eventually ruin everything anyway.

https://youtube.com/shorts/rv7JGsp4zDg?si=fTARfg1KH_fH--oI
Get a real job.
What do you want to be? A Facebook page administrator?
You think you can build a family and a future on that?😆😆😆😆😆

QuinQQ:
How is this video related to the topic?

Marriage is most often a gamble with your life that you often lose and end up ruined.

Kaczynski:
How would you know when you barely touch grass. come to reykjavik, all the black women here are either dating or married to white men. you hardly see any black single woman in europe except she's cuckoo cuckoo.

The reality is this: 3–4% of Black women can marry white men. That’s it. There are plenty of Black men, Asians, Brazilians…

Why focus only on “white people”? There are plenty of Asians. There are Black people. There are countless South Americans.

Love800:
Hardly you see an african woman with toned body.
Well i guess due to our geography(continent) we are wired to love dense figures.

I appreciate.

You are not programmed; it’s just what’s being offered to you and you accept it. Being overweight was considered fashionable and attractive 500 years ago in European courts, and that applied exclusively to men. Being an overweight woman wasn’t acceptable even then. Only in rural areas, where hard physical labor was common, was an overweight woman considered acceptable—and that disappeared about 100 years ago. It’s not just about appearance, but also about the person’s character. Overall, obesity provokes disgust.

Love800:
Yea you are partially right.

When in their prime, the whites body is in good condition and allure compare to black.

You want to contrast how whites take care of their bodies and dietary supplements with blacks that eat without food menu!

Talking about sexiness, curves, i prefer the whites kind. Tiny body, tiny curve. Less folding of flesh.

Search sweden and see tantalising waistlines. Not these huge pound of flesh with craters we usually admire here.

A large number of men tell them that. They see that some other men reject them. And they keep trying to favor their obesity and present it as beauty. An obese woman can only be popular in some primitive tribe that is 500 years behind civilization.

right!

otemeh01:
This is slightly different. This is because one race sees himself as more superior to the other one. So their is this general feeling of a down grade.
A good way to understand this is when we have two people getting married from different religions. If one religion is more dormant in that particular place and sees the other religion as inferior, inter marriage between those two religions is often met with resistance by people of the dominant superior mindset. Even the person marrying the person coming from the less dominant religion may feel it's just a compromise to satisfy his emotional need.

And you think we are all the same and equal?
How did you come up with that idea

Maj196:
It's just racism. Most people from other race just doesn't want anything to do with black people either man or woman. Because they know their kids being black would have it hard navigating the world especially in the middle of the race

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zvuTO0b_pQY?si=0x3WLJnSJcBZ2f2D
Are there any bigger racists than Black people? 😏

Devdevdev:
I have done some travelling in recent months and most especially I've interacted with black women from my extended family and from my remote work who live in different foreign countries, and we all feel the same on the issue

Why is it hard for a black woman to find partners from other races? Why is it that when a white guy wants to date outside of his race, he would rather date an Asian lady or an Indian lady or a Latina.

We black women are equally as beautiful too. We even have better bodies than these other women yet these men would rather date women with flat buttocks and small breasts

Some of my friends are very intelligent and very educated. They speak well and are well mannered. I really struggle to see why they don't can't asked out by foreign men

In all those countries there are many other Black people as well, and many people from Latin America, and especially from Asia. Why is it important that he be “white”?

I can give you a precise and accurate answer to your question, but before that I want to read your answer to my question.


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Let me point this out to you right away, before you answer or try to answer.

In the title of the topic you mentioned men of other races, only to refer a few sentences later specifically to “white” men.

From the start, you’re not being honest but rather strategic. You see, before any real discussion even begins, you’re not being open and direct—yet you expect an answer.

Jistibiri:
Dear men it’s not a crime to randomly give money to the woman you claim to love

Why?


Let’s talk. I’ll write from my own personal perspective—completely openly.

Let’s say I meet you, and I want to see you. For me personally, it doesn’t matter whether we go for a walk and sit on a bench, go somewhere for a drink or coffee, or go out for lunch.

It’s all the same to me. I came to see you. To talk to you. To spend time in your company. To laugh. To have serious conversations. For you to tell me what you want, and for me to tell you what I want. I came so we could be together.

Whether you had coffee or juice, whether we went to lunch or just had some ice cream—I’ll pay for it, and that’s fine. From time to time you’ll get small gifts or flowers, whatever.

If or when we make love and sleep together, that should be your desire too, right? I suppose.

And now I’d ask you to answer me clearly: why should I give you—not a gift—but specifically money?

And at the same time, tell me what the difference is in that kind of relationship between you and me, and between me and a prostitute?

Having many wives means having many children as well. Children are a responsibility. It is very easy to get a woman pregnant. When that child is born, it needs to have decent conditions for life and growth in order to develop into a normal person. That child needs to be clothed, cared for, raised, and educated. All of that requires a lot of money and a lot of attention. The exception is a purely animalistic attitude and instinct, where children are irrelevant and their lives are considered worthless. That’s how we come to a bitter truth: people are not the same and do not have the same value. I won’t go further into what follows from that. Nothing is accidental.

koladata:
You forgot to mention musicians and online sex workers making millions in dollars

Nigeria has the highest number of churches with the highest number of poor people .

There are many reasons why Nigeria is a poor country. One of the more important ones is Islam and its teachings. It is not the only reason, but it is a significant one.

It all depends on how honorable your intentions are—and only you truly know that. And it is both normal and not. It all depends on how honest and serious you are with her and about her.
Age doesn’t matter. What matters are your intentions and your responsibility toward her.