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You’re making a lot of assumptions here. A woman replying quickly to your messages, liking your posts, and checking up on you doesn’t automatically mean she’s romantically interested in you.

She told you she couldn’t date a guy like you, and instead of accepting her answer, you accused her of playing mind games. Then you claimed you never liked her anyway. Really? If you never liked her, why were you pursuing her in the first place?

As for her looking sad the next morning, you have no idea why she was sad. Maybe your reaction hurt her, maybe she was disappointed in how you handled things, or maybe it had absolutely nothing to do with you.

And here’s the biggest flaw in your argument: a woman can reject you without hating you, and she can feel hurt by your behavior without wanting a relationship with you. Those two things are not mutually exclusive.

You’re interpreting her every move through the lens of your own ego and then generalizing about all women based on one personal experience.

Maybe she was sending mixed signals, maybe she wasn’t. But one thing is clear: you seem more concerned with proving that she wanted you than with accepting that she didn’t want a relationship with you.

That’s not understanding women. That’s refusing to accept rejection.

They’ll all be going back to Nigeria.

Ilamina:
I am doing something about my situation
Trying to learn how to cook, hasn't been easy, but I am trying

You need to learn to respect the people you’re talking to, whether in real life or on the internet.

That’s one of the things that separates you from an animal and makes you a human being, among other things.

You’re going to be blocked now.

Ilamina:
I am doing something about my situation
Trying to learn how to cook, hasn't been easy, but I am trying

What about your claims that you’re a virgin and that you can’t have children?

Which of those two statements is a lie?

Okay, so what exactly are you trying to prove with this topic?

Besides, the claim that women like bad guys isn’t true.

Women love men. Real men.

Now, start a discussion on this: What exactly makes a man a real man?

Ilamina:
is it my fault

Let's see. You don't know how to cook. You have no education. You can't have children. What else can't you do, won't you do, or don't you know how to do?😕

https://www.nairaland.com/8769529/virgin
I just saw that.

Well, at least you have one good quality.

Now tell me, how do you know you can’t have children if you’re a virgin?

You obviously like to lie. And if you like lying, why should we believe anything you say, including the claim that you’re a virgin?

I guess you’re just desperate for attention.

Should I block you?

Ilamina:
I.am not allowed to have boyfriends

But so nice too have a crush on a guy, you can't date

What's so nice about that for you? Why can't you be in a relationship?

https://www.facebook.com/share/r/151m1b3iU51/
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She would be much better off working on her weight and unattractive facial features rather than her huge ass.

The whole story is more than pathetic.

Six years, when it comes to women, is still perfectly respectable and acceptable.

Let me condense this enormous text, full of generalizations and therefore half-truths, into a single sentence. That way, it will be understandable to most readers and save them some time.

Don’t try to buy someone’s love with the amount of goodness you give them.

🏳️🙂

BigBashiru:
Wife is for birthing kids and raising a family.

Girlfriend is for sexual adventures and she could eventually become a second wife

One question.

While you’re dating around, who is your first wife going to date?

Nefort:
Women work and make money and men are still expected to foot all the bills. When women work it means they are also displacing some men out of work. And then they broke shame the men they displace from work as incapable of taking care of them. If women don't work then it would have been a different matter and perfectly justified for men to foot all the bills.

It's a faulty arrangement to expect men to take care of women while women compete with men for jobs and money and her money still doesn't help a man in return.

Since women are working then they should also accept broke men just as working men accept broke women. The money will circulate better in the society and reduce poverty.

If a woman works and a man works, then it is fair and normal for them to contribute together to their shared life and expenses. However, you really shouldn’t expect a working woman to carry an unemployed man on her back.

There is a proverb that goes:

“Not even a dog wants bare bones.”

I really don’t see why any normal woman would sleep with some kind of bum and risk getting pregnant by an incapable man.

Even less do I see why she would marry him.

stuffs2002:
Fixed

Okay. You're going on block.

BigBashiru:
You don't understand. It's that comparison that leads to marital instability. When she was 18 guys used to do all sorts of things to get her attention, pay her flight etc. now she is 30 and married to you you aren't doing it for her. You expect her to pull her financial weight at 30 but she refuses claiming she's,ur wife. This is just one,example.

Second example is those that hv done abortions ns now unable to give birth then look for a way to blame the guy.

Well, that means she hasn’t grown up and matured. In other words, she’s stupid.

Then you simply dump her.

And as for the abortions, that’s easy to prove, as is infertility. You can’t be blamed for that.

BigBashiru:
And then she is also going to demand that you shouldn't hv a girlfriend since she can't compete. She will usually say she's the jealous type but that ain't true. It's cos she can't compete.

What do you mean, a side chick?
What do you need a side chick for??
What do you need a wife for if you need a side chick?

BigBashiru:
Marriage IS a rehabilitation center. Your wife has already been .mentally damaged by exes. You will always be compared to her exes.

She’s not damaged; she’s just not stupid or naive.

Of course she’s going to compare you to her exes. That’s why you should try to be better than them, so you can justify her choice.

And you?

If you’re incapable, is that her fault?

stuffs2002:
Fixed

so stupid

Stephenmouka4:
okay
Successful men weds successful women
Broke men weds broke women
Thats fair 👍

Keep in mind that many rich and successful men will always prefer a poor girl if she is beautiful rather than a rich woman if she is ugly.

Only poor people think money is the most important thing in the world.

oluegboigiherbs:
This one dey look for gullible girls to knack a pick me Man...We Have Good times and Bad times..Life is full of ups and downs if you can't have a woman that understand that it's better to have none..there's so many bed to bed midfielders girls that you will catch with your comments though

I’m just telling the truth.

The much bigger question is whether a successful businesswoman would want anything to do with him at all — with someone who is below her in the social hierarchy. As for marriage, that’s out of the question.

Lojical1:
Yen yen yen. I sure say you to just dey type before you think.

You’re not describing the “laws of nature.” You’re describing your personal preference and giving it a scientific costume.

A man being broke today doesn’t make him biologically inferior, just as being rich doesn’t guarantee good genes, good character or successful children.

Wanting a successful man is fine. Pretending your dating preference is evolutionary law is just ignorance with confidence.

I’m sorry, but reality is harsh and it hurts.