Ilamina:
Italians are so sexy

FRANCISTOWN:

My daughter can never have a survival problem. That's been well taken care of

obinna58:

Are you stuck in romance section? what other topic topics were you expecting

FRANCISTOWN:


I see.

FRANCISTOWN:
https://www.nairaland.com/8123552/lady-dumps-man-white-man


I came across this thread and I saw the way many people were emotional on that thread.

You see, keep your emotions. It is useless in real life.
In my own opinion and in the grand calculus of the universe. The lady in question has not done anything wrong.

It is not a crime in this life to be selfish. It is never a crime to always look out for your own self. It is never a crime to want to survive.
We must all survive and people take different measures to persist their survival.

The problem most of you have is this thing called the "Entitlement Mentality". And not only women have this, but even men too.

So, you think because you've invested lots of money, time and strength into a relationship, then you've automatically turned the lady into a robot that must only answer to you? You gotta be kidding.

Unless there is a written contract. If you liked, train a lady from birth until she gets a PHD. There is no constitutional law that says she must marry you. Whatever you guys are doing is solely based on romantic feelings. And romantic feeling is the most useless feeling in the world.

Why do you leave a place of work and apply to other firms? Isn't it the same about survival and greener pasture?
If you're in at a firm where your salary is 200k monthly and another opportunity opens up in a different firm where the salary is 1M. Even you as a man, won't you monkey branch? So why should you blame a woman for wanting a better life for herself?

In life, we have different things we are looking for, and you can't blame me for not looking for what you are not looking for.

Stupid sons of idiots , earthly bastards of men are the ones looking for love. Women are looking a provisions. Now it would be so unfair, barbaric, exasperatingly stupid to insult women for not wanting what we men are looking for.

But men love to deceive themselves. They want to believe in that their tiny brains that they are one very special demigod, one awesome creature , so awesome that a woman would want to be with. Oh lala! Better wake from the la-la land.

That's why I don't follow the redpill. The redpill is a waste of time. They make men believe that they are the price(lol). Which price? Who is hosting the competition?

The benefit you have to offer a woman is the only thing you have as a priced possession. As a man you are very invisible to a woman that can't benefit nothing from you.

Think about this. Let's say you have a girlfriend and your asset is worth about 10M with 200k monthly income, and there is this other dude who wants your girl but he is worth 1M in asset with 100k monthly income, and there is this other dude who wants your girl and he is worth about 300Mils with 2M monthly income.

Let's say, you three are legit hustlers with decent personalities.

It would be so stupid for any lady in this life to choose you or the other guy who earns less.
Now! It would be so, so foolish and wicked to blame the girl for dumping your ass . I mean, you would also resign at a place where the salary is low and take a job at where there is a better income.
If at the end of the day she picked you out of such luxurious options, she'd end up regretting it.
This is what brings resentment in marriages most time. And no one talks about it.
The woman will one day regret not choosing the rich guy and it will cause her to regret and rebel.


Stop playing stupid. There is no crime in looking out for one'self. Any lady who dumps a guy for a more richer guy wouldn't be doin' anything bad. Everyone is trying to survive.

You'll be the wicked one and an enemy of progress.

Once you see a rich boy with your GF, respect yourself and give them chance to avoid stories that touch. Life no be Nollywood.

One thing I'll never understand in this my life is how some men think they need a romantic relationship in this 21st century. Not to even talk of broke men.

• If you're a man and you need a woman who is not a relative to love you. You are very stupid and you are a waste of sperm.

• If you're a man and you need a wife to keep your home in order. You are very stupid. What happens to getting a maid.

• If you're a man and you need a woman to build with. You are useless and you are stupid.

• If you're a man and you need a woman for emotional stability. You are useless and worthless.

• If you're a man and you think you need a woman to have a good home. Haa! Your father has failed.

• If you're a man and you need financial assistance from a woman who is not a relative. Well! You are not a man, you are maybe a maggot or a bedbug.

• If you're a man and you need love. You are sick in the head and unfortunate. What will a man do with love?

The only things a man should get from a woman is sex and kids.

If you're a lady who is with a broke guy when there are rich guys available unto you. I have just one word for you.
YOU ARE VERY STUPID AND SENSELESS, it's like you want your kids to end up suffering.
THERE IS NO LOYALTY IN SURVIVAL.

No allow anyone reason you foolishness, you must be unapologetic about survival. Use that your fish brain head for once.

It's about time we told ourselves the truth. We can't keep treating life as a joke.

Franklyspeakin:
I have a family friend who died in the name of lets make it work. the family was too distraught. and decided to drop the case against the silly man so he can be out hustling to fend for his family. he has 3 kids. the kids don't even like their dad. na we dey try calm them down. it can be a very messy situation.

AmazonTopaz:


Eyaaa .Is that so?Accept my sympathies over your inability to find a wife.

You are not the only man out there and there are a lot of men out there who do not hold your type of mentality.
I have a lot of things to focus on in life other than marriage

It would happen at the right time.

Balkony11223:
if i report to them maybe they wil even be happy coz then they wil be sending them even more money

stunnert:
You're a foool for having more than one child for a man who hasn't married you.

What if he decides to break off the unhealthy relationship you took have going on . What happens to you then ? After two flat tires

Balkony11223:
he smokes...I dont do nothung wrong to him before he becomes agresive.He doesnt pay no clothes for my kids and shoes and he is reciving money for them from government.I think he doesnt like me and kids.The only family he cares is the one in Nigeria and i am so tired of him.I am tired of being abused beaten and not giving notjing

Franklyspeakin:
is it better he kills her. beatings never end well. it's a slippery slope. her priority at this stage is her kids. it's already a toxic home. Men stop beating your wives. if you are tired divorce. go to prisons and see people languishing there because she died during or after the beating. separate and live in peace. and if your a wife beater, STOP!!!!!

it is better to be alive and be worried of finding another man. Than to be dead and your kids are helpless or being molested as your hubby is in jail. stop acting.

Balkony11223:
no he doesnt pay clothes and shoes.My family does that

Balkony11223:
Hi everyone.I am livinf with Igbo.man whom I have 2 kids with.We live abroad.He has work me not coz noone to take care of our kids.He is extremely agresive.Only pays the bils and food for us and the rest money al goes to his siblings and mother in Nigeria.I feel so helples.He is so commanding stingy wicked to me.He most times treat me as slave in house

Franklyspeakin:
it's obvious you are not even educated. go and get a job and start fending for yourself. seems you can't even look after yourself hence your inability to leave him

Botragelad:

The timeless classic - the "all women are parasites" trope.

Let's start with the obvious: women are not a monolith. They have different preferences. To imply that all women prefer a "parasitic life" is to ignore the diversity of human experience. It's like saying all men are identical robots, which is clearly not the case. Does your mom prefer a parasitic life?

But, for the sake of argument, let's assume that women do prefer a "parasitic life." Wouldn't that mean that they're, you know, actually contributing to society in meaningful ways? Like, say, raising children, managing households, and working outside the home? Oh wait, those things are actually valuable and important.

And then you went with the 1% argument. Ah yes, because clearly, women's contributions are only worth acknowledging if they're above some arbitrary threshold. Tell that to the single mothers working multiple jobs to feed their families or the women who are the sole breadwinners in their households.

How about women who fought for girls' education and became a Nobel laureate? The ones run their own businesses, raise their own children, and contribute to their communities, how about that?

The next time you try to make a point, please leave the sexism and misogyny at the door. Makes you sound ignorant!

EreluRoz:
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EreluRoz:
I wonder why most guys in this forum are always scared of posting their pictures, una no fine.

EmperorCaesar:
Keep deceiving yourself

Its still as it used to be, maybe a few are now more stoic in their approach to women, but a larger percentage of Nigerian men are still thirsty and obsessive psychos around their women and it wont get better anytime soon as Nigerian women knows how best to condition and control these men into what they want them to be

dollyjoy:
okay
Even though I dunno what that is

dollyjoy:
what is this called please