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bigpriik:
I am a final year student in one of Lagos prominent higher institutions,I get along so well with my coursemates because I am the jovial type and this behaviour has opened so much financial opportunities for me in campus because my coursemates never hide updates from me.
There is this girl who is also a coursemate of mine, we get along so well, and trust me I have never asked her or any of my female coursemates out before, we are just friends and coursemates thats all however for about a week I have not seeing this girl in class and out of nowhere I saw her on my way out of the school gate, immediately I saw her I was like wooww were have you being all this while I tried playfully tried blocking her way omo this girl just screamed at the top of her voice that I should leave her alone that she is not in the mood in public eyes I mean in the school gate .
I was so humiliated and shocked because she made it seems like I was making sexual advance on her and we never knew, I left the scene immediately out of shame and headed home immediately, now I want to teach this girl a lesson because it's okay to be in a bad mood as humans but transferring the aggression to an innocent person is totally out of it.

You’re very egoistic and full of yourself.
You’re irrelevant to her.
An unimportant person. A passerby. What you think about yourself is your problem and your way of thinking—yours alone, not hers.

You have nothing to get revenge on her for. You’re nobody to her, and she’s nobody to you. The only thing you can do is get yourself into trouble—her boyfriend or brother could beat you up, or you could end up getting arrested.

Leave the girl alone and mind your own business. Don’t harass or bother her. What you thought or didn’t think is your own issue.

Pukkalolo:
Rich successful men complain about women all the time... especially in divorce court.


They quietly watch their ex-wives walk away with half (or more) of everything they've built: houses, investments, businesses, even future earnings through alimony.

Many rich men call it the biggest financial mistake of their lives.

The problem is... Those men usually didn't have her spending meaningfully on them during the relationship.

Her spending on you isn't about "taking from women."

It's the only real proof she genuinely likes you.

Genuinely like me?
I don’t know. I’ve already got my hands full as it is.k

Have you ever heard a rich successful man complain about women?


Poor wretched people would even take money from women.🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

spiceadole:
"Taken" does not mean "Married".
Your girlfriend is still single.

Let me help you and clarify.

spiceadole:
"Taken" does not mean "Married".
Your girlfriend is still single.

She is married.And taken.
Read the post again.

spiceadole:
Very true.

I remember on my introduction day, an aunt asked me "where does your husband live?"
I replied "I am not yet married oh. I'm still single". Everybody including him laughed.

I get really surprised when I see /hear unmarried people say they are not single simply because they are in a relationship.

Marriage is not a guarantee of absolutely anything.
And freedom is a very relative thing.
My girlfriend is taken not because she’s married to another man, but because she’s in a relationship with me.
"I have a husband. I also have a lover. I take care of my husband, and I “handle” my lover."-A taken woman