₦airaland Forum

Sonnobax15:

Cheating is stressful, exhausting and a total waste of money, especially on the part of a man.

And to couple it up by having an affair with a married woman, worsens it all.

Now, he's gone and gone forever while the werey of a woman will have to beg the so-called husband who will in turn forgive his wife and they'll definitely move on with their lives

Jaycee07:
I won’t dignify your insults.
I can’t imagine myself arguing with someone who can’t read in between lines.
I have provided a concrete assessment and proofs that you sought, and I’m sure you haven’t made any attempt to put in some work and do a thorough research on them . I’m gonna leave you to wallow in your ignorance.
People like you would rather prefer to resort to abuse instead of rational thinking.
Have a blessed Sunday my little man.

MercyFirst:
Who asked you what you would do?

Jaycee07:
Please read my write up and this time, read it carefully with an open mind.
Are you trying by any means to deny the fact that the black race has always received the shorter end of the stick?
And let me go by your analogy of wealth inequality and gap, don’t you realize that the race base system created by European Americans( Caucasian) has cheated the black race out of the equation?
How easy is it for a black man to be given a mortgage loan ?
No
Matter how hard you try to deny these facts, they are there

If you have a chance please read the following books and tell me the origin of those despicable lies and actions toward the black people:
1. The 1619 project by Nikole Hannah
2. The color of law by Richard Rosthein
3.The new Jim Crow.

The system was designed to punish black people not because they did anything deserving of it. Their only crime is just being black.

GloriousGbola:
Praise be to Allah, a fellow person of culture!

robosky02:
I had a an argument with a friend over who to marry.

He actually meet a lady and they have been in love for a while and finally he went know her place.
According to him he expected her to still be in a parents house. but she was living alone, with the little job she has she has rented a place for her self.

And my friend feels it is not proper for an unmarried single lady to live alone and so what to call it quit.

so house, please advise my friend or what do you think

is there anything wrong with a lady living alone? Should that hinder her marriage. besides he live alone as a bachelor.

Hndrrxxx:
bro who offend you na 😂😂👌🏼

Jman06:
She's delusional. Only the never --do --well kind of guys would rush her because of money! No real man worth his balls would marry a woman with the intention of surviving on her.

SIRTee15:
Guy be real, that's 99% of Nigerian men. Na survival mode all of una dey.
Are u not the ones always shouting what can a women bring to the table.
She be asset to her husband and she knows that very well, and she's also pretty. Case closed.

Jaycee07:
Sir,

The Europeans who emigrated to where we now called the United States villified the black race. And they did that for many centuries. Not sure if you’ve been to any slave route enclaves like Alabama/ Mississippi/Louisiana before, you’d realized how much effort the Caucasians had put in to demonize black people. Black men were tortured , hanged, black women raped and brutalized.
The stories are all there to read.
Can you point out the contradictions you noticed in my write up?Please do so respectfully without insults.

Jaycee07:
Dating and marriage is entirely preferential. And what determines the preferences vary from places to places. Here in the United States, majority of marriage choices are race based. The vast majority of native born African American would rather prefer to stay single than marry white male. And the same applies to white male.

African born women in the diaspora tend to worship white male. Even the highly educated and successful black African born women in the diaspora are not attracted to white male due to sometimes preconceived notion about the black race ( Lies that have been fed to the white race for centuries)
Now let me shift my attention specifically to Nigerian born women who emigrated to the western nations. There’s a strong cultural and ideological difference between White men and Nigerian women. In Nigeria, women are literally worshipped and deeply cared for by their male counterparts and these women travelled out of Nigeria with that mentality believing that it is the norm everywhere else only to be met with a rude awakening that life is completely different here in the west.
Bills are shared, chores are shared and everyone contributes to the success of the union both financially and emotionally. Now it becomes a psychological burden on them to adjust to the new normal and in an attempt to showcase the entitlement mentality, they are booted of if the relationship.
While grappling with these new realities, they begin the search and conquer process and before you realize it, the same cycle repeat itself again and again.
In Western Europe, it’s no different.
Nigerian men are now wiser. They now realize that they are actually the prize and not the women as they were made to believe.

Lilosama:
A Nigerian nurse based in Uk comes out to say she can marry anytime she wants that she has things to over the man and Nigerian men will surely rush her…… watch the video to know all she said and do you believe her?



Source :
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3ibhYt13cFo?si=oJ7k5kw40zso_Jb6