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The essence of this topic is hatred toward a girl who is trying on her own to escape poverty and a backward environment by investing in her education, so she wouldn’t become a target for various incompetent men and so she could avoid some loser ruining her life with his miserable offspring. That’s the whole philosophy.
I wish that girl all the best—may she stay brave and persistent.

And one more important thing:
A woman can’t be “broke.” Only a man can be broke.
A woman’s value doesn’t lie in wealth.

silibaba:
The whole thing you learn for school, show me the one you dey apply for real life.

Learning a skill would have scale her through.

Let’s say you hadn’t gone to school — you wouldn’t know how to read or write, and you wouldn’t be able to use the internet and talk nonsense here.
Is that enough, or do you need more?🙂

Sirchiboy:
Where in lag do u base so I can take u to her house

You can’t. The only thing you can do is send me a link to her profile, and I’ll contact her myself.

Sirchiboy:
Because she is a girl.
U want to help her.
Because I no get boobi and punana.
U no wan help me

You see how you’re confirming my words that you’re a pathetic person. You don’t want to send me a link to her profile so I can help a girl who is struggling on her own and wants to get an education and secure a better future for herself.
You’re a bad person. Someone like that will never succeed in life. People can see that very easily.

Sirchiboy:
Because she is a girl.
U want to help her.
Because I no get boobi and punana.
U no wan help me

Of course I won’t. Why would I help you?
Because you’re jealous, envious, selfish, and mean?
That’s why I should help you?
Give me a link to her profile.

Sirchiboy:
Help her.
Stop this.

And one more time.
Send me a link to her Instagram or Facebook profile.

Sirchiboy:
Help her.
Stop this.

I want to. Why not? Send me a link to her Instagram or Facebook profile.

https://www.facebook.com/share/r/1FpVhj7mwQ/
😃😊

There’s nothing wrong with her wanting a better future for herself. I wish her luck and the strength to endure. A girl doesn’t want a toxic, miserable man for a husband or a bleak fate.

Yes.That is normal behavior.

sow4me:
My junior brother is a living example of what the OP is talking about.

He got married while still a virgin and he's doing fine right now.

While i got a lady pregnant and have a child but still struggling tho doing okay, but not as my brother.

So a woman's star brings goodluck to a man or badluck. Depending on the kind of glory she carries.

I have come to understand that God places values on women to aid their husbands destiny, but we all know most women out now are so empty a man much investigate so well before putting a woman in his house.

If u wanna argue with me about my beliefs,😋 don't bother wasting your time cuz I don't reply.

Tank u

Very primitive. Astonishing.
Poor women.

zeefa:
I can't stop thinking about this fact, cos and I need people to relax and contribute to this story to confirm if truly making a right choice of a woman could bring wealth & glory upon a man for success.

Mama made me understand that as soon as a real woman of your star comes in a marrige with you, that doors would open, no matter the situation. And its the other way round if you got married to someone whose star isn't in line with ours.

Mama said he married baba at the age of 18 after her elementary school and then hhe was a sales boy at one of the cement store in our village. Baba proposed to her and they both agreed to get married despite the fact that baba was just on less than 50kobo per month.
They got married according to mama without anything and as soon as mama packed to his one room face me and face you apartment, just a month after the wedding, someone offer to help baba with a small money to help him with his own store.

Baba started with 5bags of cement just infront of the rented apartment and that was how things started booming for the family. And in less than 10yrs, Baba built his own house & he got a license to collect cement directly from the factory in Sagamu.

However, things took another dimension when his uncle introduced him to a young lady who just finished in DTC divisional teachers collage as a secretary. Well, baba accepted her and decided to marry her as a 2nd wife.
There was a serious critics from his friends and Mama. But they all blamed Mama for being selfish over the husband's wealth.

Baba married the young lady and decided to fixed her up for a teaching job close to where stayed.
She got pregnant and the birth of the child brought calamity into their house. The same day the child was born, Baba truck carrying goods from ibadan to okeogun had an accident and fell into the oke ogun river. The driver of the truck died and kept so many people injured.

Baba lost all he had after his new marriage and left with just the house he built before his new marriage and his business capital went down.


Now on our topic, could that be as a result of the new wife to the family or he was destined for such in life.

Truly, I believe a real woman directs his husband and gives him advise on ways to make sure things work better in life.

But I must confess that its still better to be careful as mama said not to make a mistake or get married to someone that would make one's life miserable.

It’s interesting how primitive your way of thinking is, and how you connect events like that.
On top of all that, you’re also a Muslim.

There are no such things as “stars,” and accidents simply happen.
Your mother was obviously a high-quality person, unlike your father. When she lost the ability to influence him, everything fell apart. Your father’s success was actually your mother’s success, while his downfall was his own doing.

I could easily break this down for you in detail, but you don’t mean enough to me to put in the effort.
Answer to your dilemma:
Yes, a high-quality woman can make your life better, but if you are not a high-quality man, you will eventually ruin everything anyway.

https://youtube.com/shorts/rv7JGsp4zDg?si=fTARfg1KH_fH--oI
Get a real job.
What do you want to be? A Facebook page administrator?
You think you can build a family and a future on that?😆😆😆😆😆

QuinQQ:
How is this video related to the topic?

Marriage is most often a gamble with your life that you often lose and end up ruined.

Kaczynski:
How would you know when you barely touch grass. come to reykjavik, all the black women here are either dating or married to white men. you hardly see any black single woman in europe except she's cuckoo cuckoo.

The reality is this: 3–4% of Black women can marry white men. That’s it. There are plenty of Black men, Asians, Brazilians…

Why focus only on “white people”? There are plenty of Asians. There are Black people. There are countless South Americans.

Love800:
Hardly you see an african woman with toned body.
Well i guess due to our geography(continent) we are wired to love dense figures.

I appreciate.

You are not programmed; it’s just what’s being offered to you and you accept it. Being overweight was considered fashionable and attractive 500 years ago in European courts, and that applied exclusively to men. Being an overweight woman wasn’t acceptable even then. Only in rural areas, where hard physical labor was common, was an overweight woman considered acceptable—and that disappeared about 100 years ago. It’s not just about appearance, but also about the person’s character. Overall, obesity provokes disgust.

Love800:
Yea you are partially right.

When in their prime, the whites body is in good condition and allure compare to black.

You want to contrast how whites take care of their bodies and dietary supplements with blacks that eat without food menu!

Talking about sexiness, curves, i prefer the whites kind. Tiny body, tiny curve. Less folding of flesh.

Search sweden and see tantalising waistlines. Not these huge pound of flesh with craters we usually admire here.

A large number of men tell them that. They see that some other men reject them. And they keep trying to favor their obesity and present it as beauty. An obese woman can only be popular in some primitive tribe that is 500 years behind civilization.

right!

otemeh01:
This is slightly different. This is because one race sees himself as more superior to the other one. So their is this general feeling of a down grade.
A good way to understand this is when we have two people getting married from different religions. If one religion is more dormant in that particular place and sees the other religion as inferior, inter marriage between those two religions is often met with resistance by people of the dominant superior mindset. Even the person marrying the person coming from the less dominant religion may feel it's just a compromise to satisfy his emotional need.

And you think we are all the same and equal?
How did you come up with that idea

Maj196:
It's just racism. Most people from other race just doesn't want anything to do with black people either man or woman. Because they know their kids being black would have it hard navigating the world especially in the middle of the race

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zvuTO0b_pQY?si=0x3WLJnSJcBZ2f2D
Are there any bigger racists than Black people? 😏