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Devdevdev:
I have done some travelling in recent months and most especially I've interacted with black women from my extended family and from my remote work who live in different foreign countries, and we all feel the same on the issue

Why is it hard for a black woman to find partners from other races? Why is it that when a white guy wants to date outside of his race, he would rather date an Asian lady or an Indian lady or a Latina.

We black women are equally as beautiful too. We even have better bodies than these other women yet these men would rather date women with flat buttocks and small breasts

Some of my friends are very intelligent and very educated. They speak well and are well mannered. I really struggle to see why they don't can't asked out by foreign men

In all those countries there are many other Black people as well, and many people from Latin America, and especially from Asia. Why is it important that he be “white”?

I can give you a precise and accurate answer to your question, but before that I want to read your answer to my question.


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Let me point this out to you right away, before you answer or try to answer.

In the title of the topic you mentioned men of other races, only to refer a few sentences later specifically to “white” men.

From the start, you’re not being honest but rather strategic. You see, before any real discussion even begins, you’re not being open and direct—yet you expect an answer.

Jistibiri:
Dear men it’s not a crime to randomly give money to the woman you claim to love

Why?


Let’s talk. I’ll write from my own personal perspective—completely openly.

Let’s say I meet you, and I want to see you. For me personally, it doesn’t matter whether we go for a walk and sit on a bench, go somewhere for a drink or coffee, or go out for lunch.

It’s all the same to me. I came to see you. To talk to you. To spend time in your company. To laugh. To have serious conversations. For you to tell me what you want, and for me to tell you what I want. I came so we could be together.

Whether you had coffee or juice, whether we went to lunch or just had some ice cream—I’ll pay for it, and that’s fine. From time to time you’ll get small gifts or flowers, whatever.

If or when we make love and sleep together, that should be your desire too, right? I suppose.

And now I’d ask you to answer me clearly: why should I give you—not a gift—but specifically money?

And at the same time, tell me what the difference is in that kind of relationship between you and me, and between me and a prostitute?

Having many wives means having many children as well. Children are a responsibility. It is very easy to get a woman pregnant. When that child is born, it needs to have decent conditions for life and growth in order to develop into a normal person. That child needs to be clothed, cared for, raised, and educated. All of that requires a lot of money and a lot of attention. The exception is a purely animalistic attitude and instinct, where children are irrelevant and their lives are considered worthless. That’s how we come to a bitter truth: people are not the same and do not have the same value. I won’t go further into what follows from that. Nothing is accidental.

koladata:
You forgot to mention musicians and online sex workers making millions in dollars

Nigeria has the highest number of churches with the highest number of poor people .

There are many reasons why Nigeria is a poor country. One of the more important ones is Islam and its teachings. It is not the only reason, but it is a significant one.

It all depends on how honorable your intentions are—and only you truly know that. And it is both normal and not. It all depends on how honest and serious you are with her and about her.
Age doesn’t matter. What matters are your intentions and your responsibility toward her.

Lovelink1991:
With today kind of men it is difficult to get a good man. A lot of them just want to take advantage of her by sleeping with her with the promise that I wants to marry you. There are no good men

Don’t. Forget those stories. That’s a template learned from the internet. Don’t get involved with bums and failures. Choose a partner based on your real value. It’s very simple.
Think about what you give and offer, and what you are asking for.Think about who you are, what you are, and what kind of person you are, and who he is, what he is, and what kind of person he is.
So that tomorrow there’s no argument over three pieces of chicken from that lousy KFC.

With your actions, you only confirm your bad thinking and your miserable character.

kenuoyibo:
Fa fa fa , foul! Its a big fat lie! There is no lady that didnt see a serious guy in their 20s. A friend of mine when we were in the bank, he toasted one ajebutter girl from covenant university. She started asking for data rvery now and then. Few years later he got married. Most of u especially in Nigeria . U will spend ur 20s broke shaming men, and jumping from bed to bed with bad boys and parties. The moment u clock 30. U will soft pedal and start looking for mircacle husband from church to church. I know one stupid yellow fine igbo girl that didnt want me . She came from east to visit Lagos and was rolling with people shorter and uglier than me. I asked her why she didnt inform me she was in Lagos . She blocked me and deleted by number . 5 years down the line ( 2026 ) she travels to Lagos to pray for husband (ZION MINISTRIES ) . Now she is calling me "baby" after having a 2 year old girl. Her trap is waiting for her . Me too i will cut my own share of the cake, in the fullness of time. Let him fall into my trap

What trap of yours? What a pathetic man you are. You have a bad character. You’re still not married? That’s because you’re a quality man. Women run away from quality men, right?
Not for a single second did it occur to you to do something with yourself. How could it, with a character like yours?😏😏😏😏

WiseBizInvestor:
but why did you say he doesn't know what he's saying? 🤔Would you like to make him and other readers know what he doesn't know or haven't realised?

I replied to you, but it seems someone deleted my response. Obviously, they don’t like the truth.

I’m sick of listening to her whining. They’re all basically the same.
From the first angle: when a woman says she needs a man, she doesn’t mean she needs a bum, a lazy slob, someone who will abuse her, some backward Muslim, some animal. Someone she’ll fight over a piece of stinking KFC chicken with. She means a quality man.
From the second angle, for quality men she’s an old woman with all the attributes of an old woman. Those are facts nothing can change.
Her fate is sealed.

Too much ego crap and self-praise.

What primitive beasts.🤮
I would buy her five roasted chickens every day and a scale for weighing.
You’ll weigh yourself once a month. When you gain two kilograms, I’ll break up with you and leave you. Now go ahead.🙂

(KFC is junk food.)

Osiris12:
I wish enter that Germany soon go work. Anyone with ideas

I'm not sure you know what you're talking about.

Samantha125:
I blame our mothers, the only thing that they've ever told us from a young age was that a girl must always keep neat, but they never went into detail about it.

They never attempted to sit us down and educate us on genital hygiene... Because even if as a woman, you bathe three times a day, but don't properly clean yourself down there, it'll still be not clean.

I first learnt about genital hygiene from my Life Orientation subject in high school and then from this local youth educational show which was called Sisterhood back when I was still a teenager... My mother never bothered to have the talk with me. As long as I was bathing twice a day, she was happy, but at least my sisters tried their best to educate me.

So sad.

WiseBizInvestor:
What is that?

Human doll for entertainment.

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DWV7zbKE0eF/?igsh=dGhoN3h4cXNlcGtr

Here it is.

floss:
It’s gradually, the entire world will get to this level… men have always been the prize 🏆… if only all men will stay away from women for a month minimum, you’ll see the confessions of women everywhere

Do you know why they say a man is a reward?
And what kind of man is a reward?
Which traits of a man make him a reward?

My opinion? It all depends on what a woman wants and how much she is worth.
Either adapt to the new society and environment or disappear.
Beauty standards are incomparably stricter.
Everything is on a much higher level. What choice does a Black woman have in Europe? 90% of them have no chance at all to achieve a serious relationship with a quality white man.
What remains for them are Black men who cannot even help themselves, let alone form a family and be even remotely decent husbands. Black men are known for the fact that their ultimate success in life is to get some stupid white woke loser pregnant and run away because they are not capable of anything more. They simply do not have the capacity. And of course what remains for them are migrants, Muslims, who will beat and abuse them. That is all.
That is the reality and that is the truth. The 10% who have the possibility to enter a marriage with some quality white man — that is like me now going to the store and finding a suitcase with a million dollars on the street. Considering the terrible situation in Europe and the overall rise of anger among ordinary people because of migration, the situation will only get worse. That’s it.
White people make up 7% of the world’s population. If anyone is endangered, they are endangered. That makes things even more difficult. When dating, that should also be kept in mind.

QuinQQ:
The answer is rather obvious: ALL women are fake. So question of real woman doesn't arise

right🫤