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DrTee1:


Dear Nogo,

Good evening. Let me try to attend to your posers line by line:

1. The husband and wife virtually never get home at the same time. The average man works HARDER than his Mrs/spouse to feed his wife, his children, his extended family, his wife's extended family plus run the home to meet the woman's social and societal expectations. Recall that women generally marry UP the social ladder.

2. The 'men can go straight to bed' is all but overaching fallacy. Very few men can go straight to bed, or simply come home to bath and watch TV. There are very many house chores that married men can/often help their wives with. I sweep, clean, bathed the neonate, iron clothes, wash the vehicles, fixed or arrange all gadgets and installations, maintain same etc.

3. When I was 3, my mum never had to sleep in my room, really. My brother was freshly born at that time. By the time he was three, neither me nor him slept in our parents' rooms, of course, except we were ill or something. When mothers however, as this entire conversation is about anyway, shift marital and family attention to the children as priority, all these become a difficult thing and she'll find excuses to overpamper the children with time and attention. My parents simply dismissed us to our bedroom after night prayer back in our day. Nobody cried for attention and everyone slept, whether there was NEPA and fan or no NEPA and the kerosene lantern was at its lowest ebb. So what's new?

4. Get up early and cook:. Okay. Is Oga lying in bed when she gets up early? Oga is also often awake to assist with bathing the kids, dressing them and all - or out of home early to hustle traffic/work. Lagos is bustling by 4.30am every day and there are more men on the streets by those early hours of the day than women, innit? You wouldn't hear/read men complain about waking early anyway or helping with kids. Only husbands like Ned Nwoko, far older than their wives and with a relatively large harem may not help with child(ren) welfare at that age 1-5.

5. Let's talk about the school runs. Who is the school bus driver or keke driver? A man: someone's father from another family and another woman's husband. That's if the biological father isn't dropping the children with his vehicle. My point: it is an exclusive women preserve. What is in washing dishes? Any gender can quite rightly do that, but where the man pays for everything at home, or the lion share in most Nigerian homes, you do not expect him to contribute to house chores as much as his wife. He works hard and often funds the home heavily in lieu of this 50% domestic chores expectations. In the West where both spouses share finances equally, chores are similarly shared equally without fuss. Washing machine are in most homes, so let's not go into clothes washing chore as some female bugging.

I think I may have addressed every item you raised. Let me now shock you: I know married women with no kids at all, with their own cars and careers who still do not 'serve' regular sex in marriage. They watch TV, internet and want to sleep after 'a hard career-day'. What excuse would you quite formulate for that?

Remember that the entire article is about NO MARRIED MAN, not one, saying that his wife's libido is more than his. Not one. Not even a 60 year old man where all the kids are out of home, at least the age 1-5 child excuse wouldn't be there... Na scam.

I may be wrong, but I think there is almost NOTHING women do that men cannot and have not accomplished in history without much fuss, except what they are biologically incapable of doing e.g carrying pregnancy naturally. Women should reflect on these things. It is the reason why there would always be side chics till the end of the world in most places. Women often change priorities in marriage and leave the man short-changed.

P.S: About breastfeeding babies at night being work: Hello? Do our sisters make a complaint about everything? Should men complain about sex being hard work? Yes, the intercourse we are talking about: do you know it is very hard work for the person thrusting - usually the man?

I mean let me break that down: work is force multiplied by distance. Force is mass multiplied by acceleration due to gravity.

So the person on top during the said sex works hard and that can quite be calculated is weight multiplied by distance (or length of his phallus) multiplied by acceleration due to gravity multiplied by each stroke required to reach ejaculation multiplied by number of ejaculations. This can be converted to values in Newton, Calories, Joules or kilojoules - to determine the amount of work done or energy dissipated. Yet, you'll possibly never hear or read men complain.

Women make it look like the men enjoy the sex more. Another one: when the cotton bud goes into the ear, where is the enjoyment? The bud or the ear canal? Scientifically, the vagina has relatively more nerve endings to transmit pain or pleasure than the penis. That tells you who possibly enjoys more. The force of the person doing the thrusting, which I have demonstrated earlier, is largely borne by surface on which the person receiving the thrusting is lying on, which is then transmitted to the floor. Meanwhile, don't women generally prefer more muscular and taller men for that purpose?

New fathers hardly get good sleep. I remember going to work every day with bloodshot eyes when my baby arrived years ago because the little one woke us up every other hour for attention and breast milk. It didn't matter who did the breastfeeding. Sleep was distorted for both of us - and the woman is usually on maternity leave in the first three months anyway. As of then, paternity leave didn't exist in Nigeria. I do not think it has been implemented yet - not as of 6 weeks ago at least.

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YouAreNotAlonE:


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Connect with people in your niche, post about and engage post related to your niche.

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advanceDNA:


No Nigerian man want 50/50...that I can assure u...men are too proud for that as long as they can afford it...
Nigerian men just like women to step in without being told And not having the mentality that your money is yours alone, but his money is for both of you...

The average Nigerian woman just wants to take, take, take immediately the relationship starts....are u Nigerian government...

Don’t say ‘No Nigerian man’ . Some of them do

YouAreNotAlonE:


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See the way you live your life depends on you, I feel when you are just accumulating wealth. You shouldn't start spending anyhow, that's what makes some people broke
I have the money to rent a more decent apartment, but I still chose to leave in that face me I slap you. I have the money to get a decent second hand car, but I still fly keke, bike and bus. So it ultimately depends on you.

When you are accumulating wealth, save first to invest in more wealth, in order to attain financial freedom.

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Nigerian men will want 50/50 but they will not agree to wash clothes (yours or the kids), cook for the whole family and clean the house. Yet they want 50/50��

50/50 where the woman will be doing all the house chores and taking care of him & their kids yet paying for 50

Abeg, go for what works for you ooo. There is no exact method for this

DrTee1:


In court, you'll be a badass lawyer! You are hinging on technicalities: the 1% and making a huge case out of it.

As much as a man wants to sleep at home, he actually doesn't. I wrote all that in my last paragraph. The woman usually makes up for the less work in maintaining the family by providing the funds in catering for the children and kitchen. Men happily switch those roles in developed countries, and high brow Lagos anyway. There are few men who do nothing at home, if any. Usually, with grown kids and nannies, there's little work on the home front for the woman's exclusive attention in today's world especially with washing machines in every home and the average Lagos family buying food on the streets rather than cooking in their small houses.

There's nothing special about working class couples splitting the bills. More often than not, it is split according to earnings - and most women marry upwards, to men who earn more than them anyway.

My dear, even if the husband and the wife comes home the same time, I agree with the other commenter that ‘a man can eat and go straight to bed’ but a woman can’t

Should I list it for you,

- she has to check on the kids, bath them, ensure the whole family eats and put them to bed

- if the kids are like 1-5 years , she doesn’t sleep straight, the kids will keep crying and sometimes she ends up sleeping in their room just to ensure they get to sleep (which some kids don’t and the mum ‘most times’ gets to stay up with them’

- she has to get up early and cook food for the family (pack lunch boxes for the kids), bathe them, prepare them for school (on top the kids crying and making it hard for her. Some husbands sleep through it all)

- she will then take them to school before going to work (because the average Nigeria family don’t all have cars - so school run Na keke or if the school is close, trekking)

- come back, prepare dinner, wash food flasks and uniform. Do assignments etc


And the cycle begins all over again the next day…

So most times, marriage favors the man more because after work they go home and sit in front of tv, say goodnight to the kids, expect sex and then sleep

But a woman….. let’s not even argue that abeg

Marriage Na work work work for women even if you get rich husband, you will still be up at night breast feeding your newborn 5 times in the night while the hubby sleeps away

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Obere4u:
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