Fiscus105:



Ur village.

Again to rest dey ur hand ooo. And if u are rest cos of what guys posted about women, well, God will give you rest.

Fiscus105:



To rest dey ur hand ooooooooooo.

Ilekokonit:
Once husband and wife sleep in different beds or in different rooms, the marriage is almost over and may not last for very long

Husband and wife have no business sleeping in different beds or in different rooms.

The excuse some women give is that they are nursing a baby who must breast feed through the night and thats a fair point but at some point, the baby will stop feeding on breast milk and at that point, the baby can go and sleep in his or her cot and not in the parents marital bed and after some time he or she or they if twins have to go and sleep in their own room and let Mum and Dad have the needed private time so that they can bond if their young marriage is to survive long after their children have left home (which they will someday).

But the mistake a lot of women make is to over prioritize their time with their baby / toddler to the detriment of their marriage. Why go into a marriage when at the first sign of a baby, the wife imports the baby permanently into her marital bed under the guise of breastfeeding and in some cases even when the child is more than 3 years old, he or she is still sleeping beside the mum at night and often times the man has been stylishly shunted to sleeping in another room and even if chairman wan nack during the day, the 3 year old child is furiously banging on the door for the parents to open the door because the child has been made to always feel he or she has to be beside the Mum.

But wives who want their marriage to last will know where to draw the line and give unto Caesar what is Caesar's in a TIMELY manner.

A word is enough for the wise woman who wants her marriage to last way past when the kids will have left home to start their own families.

Wilson500:
According to African culture:
That's disrespectful since her son is married with grown up kids
Her son is now her husband and the head of the family
That's tradition

advanceDNA:
Guy ....forget all this envy.....
U dont know what hes doing for a living...see all this social media lives...all na packaging....
..you dey chop and pay your bills without begging anybody...?? Guy.. you are doing well...

If na certificate or skill u dey use chop....do your part by doubling up i.e., getting more degrees or improvimg your skill and apply for higher roles and connect with senior professionals online and offline for referrals....

Also...no let anyone deceive you...no one makes it by hardluck alone... we all need the right push or pull/ grace/ luck/ favor/ mercy or whatever u call it from an external source.

.therefore....pray and key into the principle of give and recieve....do good like helping orphans, old widows and those in need... the universe knows how to arrange favors when your pocket is a continous channel into the hands of others in need...

chapwiz:
I saw all the job advert online and I applied and all interview were also online.

pocohantas:
Endearing My Client To Me

drjustice17:
Prepare for Fall 2023, check for school that gives funding. Apply, if you are admitted, you will get a visa instantly.

DrStrangelove:
U should look for a school that offers and can bring the fees down to considerable level

There should be other schools u can choose from.

Goodluck

CreativeWeb:


1. You didn't mention your uncle's assets and yearly turn over. Having 50-60 people working for him is generic because they may even be menial workers that receive 10-20k per month.

2. You don't have any savings at all after working for a CBN agency?

itoski:


Sorry for the denial.

I believe he wasn't okay that your uncle can sponsor your program.
Next time talk about his annual revenue from his business and you can even go further to talk about how much he pays labor. 50-60 staff is a lot, so help them help you.

drjustice17:
The VO knows you lie. Pls don't waste your precious time. Just look for schools that will give you funding. With it, you get your visa so easy.

UmmZayd:


That's not the only school in the US if you ask me Sha. Funding is the priority.

DrStrangelove:
Okay. If that's the case, can u give a rundown of the interview stating school, COA, Deficit funding, course and then the visa interview transcript proper just how they do it in the thread in the link I posted. This way, we can see how things went on during the interview and pin point the issuess

That's if Ur willing to.

Thanks

DrStrangelove:
U should look for a school that offers and can bring the fees down to considerable level

There should be other schools u can choose from.

Goodluck

So, I should start the whole process again? ��

Muchmore024:

Was it Lagos or Abuja. Drop transcript so people can assist you on what went wrong

UmmZayd:


If COA is $59k then it's a huge money.
To cut long story short because this is not the Students thread, try apply for funding before going back to the embassy. It will make it more easier.

Best of luck

yourgirlify:
From Lagos to Alberta
And if anyone is traveling soon to any country what airline are you planning to take? Safe and affordable
I always travel with emirates but they’re banned.
And I want to make friends with students going abroad soon too winter intake to share our preparations and advice !
I’m afraid of the cold oh being new to Canada and starting winter !

DrStrangelove:
Okay as a student.

This is for the visit visa intending applicants.

Pls go to the student visa section https://www.nairaland.com/6354180/general-usa-student-visa-enquiries-part/1001

There u will find advice and strategies to use for Ur next visa application

Thanks

DrStrangelove:
Whao sorry to hear about this. I can understand how disheartening this can be.

The good thing is u stand another opportunity to try again in the near future.

Though am not sure if Ur going as a student or as a visitor but from what u wrote, it seems Ur going for studies. Is this undergraduate or post graduate studies? How old are u? What's Ur cost of attendance? What's Ur sponsor's financial position/statement reading? Have u applied to the US before? How did that go?

For Ur next try, u will have to get answers to the questions u think u fell short. Reapplying immediately is a redflag. There must have been some redflag the VO saw that he didn't hesitate to cut u short.

Plan Ur next visa application carefully.

Regards

LagosismyHome:


I stopped doing that years ago..... with family work, life and all there absolutely no time to then be doing free mock inteview and coaching. Life has become so full on

Kindly reach out to others who might have time. I haven't even been to the US student thread in months . All the bestb