12 Jan here.

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ajufinz: '

Thank God for the one you have and stop making this costly assumption that you'll grow old together...
The Thread was particular abf the lady being older.

kandiikane: I am perfect. So why should I not have the perfect guy?

So, are you trying to say God made a mistake with all of us?

Since I have established that point, let me finish reading the rest.

i think he's tryn 2 say that u should look beyond inperfection & make d best of wat u have.

michelin89: I'm sorry but don't agree it's a woman thing. Men blow things out of proportion. I remember how Godmother created a thread about an ex who was feeling too much of himself because she used to call him.

I think in that case, it's better to cut both the ex and his new girl off.

But in the case where you are good friends and the relationship is supported by a good level of maturity, I think other solutions could be evaluated.

best solution is to stay clear!

Maybe u need to check ur self out.

As is - Its just a word of advice.

Mrs.Chima:
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Black men wants to grow older with their partners?

hw does age affect growing old with ur partner.

angiemartinez: age shdnt b an isue in any relatnshp, 2 me wat counts is ur level of maturity. A 30 yrs old guy can behave like 23 yrs n u wil b bafled. So pick maturity over age

Mrs.Chima:
I am not into dating/marrying my father or grandfather. I like the idea of growing older and together with my husband.

That's black man's mentality

Mrs.Chima:
I am not into dating/marrying my father or grandfather. I like the idea of growing older and together with my husband.

That's black man's mentality

I dont think it's a bad thing to ask. Maybe depending on ur level of relationship

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joeydozzy: this just made my day

sexkillz: as long as it doesn't go beyond compliments. . .

Leave her, she's not d1 4 u

Clowns

Truth is, whatever you experience now is what you get in your marriage, fact. If you think you can cope, fine. But if you think you deserve better then you have to move on.

Marriage based on wealth will surely crash with time

Maybe he is not ready (Responsibility)

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Atreides:

I would have to agree with the OP here. Going into a relationship when i know i'm not ready for marriage doesn't make sense to me. This doesn't mean that i must marry the first person i get into a relationship with because as has been said,not every relationship ends in marriage. So yeah,i can date people but the point is,before i start dating anybody i must be in a position to be thinking about marriage and the person should be a likely candidate. Dating is supposed to be a way for two people to determine their long-term compatibility(at least that's how i see it),so if i know i'm not ready for marriage then why should i date? When i get to that point,then i can start. if it works out with the first guy,fine. If not,fine. I don't think dating and breaking up with numerous people anyhow is right. It teaches you to view relationships as transitory. That's not preparing you for marriage,it's preparing you for divorce,IMO.

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What is so so so so special about marriage, is it an achievement? Please help shed some light. Thanks

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