Guys first and foremost I want to really appreciate you guys for following my previous thread

https://www.nairaland.com/3708499/urgently-need-advice

Lols... do you know that ever since I broke up with my ex, she has been the one going around to spread the news that we have broken up.. From the look of things, her idea is to make me look like the bad guy all because I have refused telling my set of friends her deeds.. These are friends that I know on getting to hear her deeds would use it against her in future..

Lols, guys guess what!!! she is back with her ex.. men I am just laughing in Spanish.. the reason she gave was that she prayed to God to break off every relationship that wasn't ordained for her and then my break up to her was a confirmation... I am like... Ooooh,but you claim you don't have anything going on with your ex.. how come you went back to him just few days after our break up.?. lols.. who believes that? please who's reasoning in the same line of direction with me? hahahahahahahahahahaha.

once again thanks very much guys for your advice and inputs.. I just thought it wise to let you guys know the latest..

Joephat:
Has anybody been able to register?

the site ain't opening

Padiimii:
Thank you so much guys.
Without you it wouldn't have been easy pulling off the break up.

.

Its now officially over between us and I have more peace of mind after ending it (because it's now clear that it wasn't my fault the relationship didn't work after all)

Nairaland and Nairalanders Una do well o.

Very good.. welcome to our league.. these whores ain't worth it

Ahaahahahaha, op run for your life ooo just like the way I did..
I am a free MAN now

sexybbstar:
I've been waiting for a post like this. I'm a close friends with my ex by its really affecting my current relationship. At first I thought my current lover was over reacting but now that I think about it, I would have done more than that if I were the one.

Thank God you thought it through.. not like mine that didn't see anything wrong in it..

I believe you know what to do now as regards this..

my dear op, God indeed will strengthen you and your dad as well. never give up, I perfectly understand how dad feels. be strong for him and surely he will see you through

Jhamzy:

HTO Sir...

have you heard anything from them?

My dear op be careful not to make wrong investments.. she might get into school and see someone who is of her age bracket and flirt with.. Be wise, the moment she is been admitted into school, marry her straight up..

I am saying from the little experience I have.. they say a word is enough for the wise

BEG96:
Well I did it and got this in reply:

My dear, it's obvious he can't change. I would advise that if you can't live with such personality of his, the earlier you draw the curtains the better.. it's better you leave a free woman than getting worked up and having insecurity issues..

when did you get the mail? what did you apply for?

Princeboca12:


bro i followed that ur thread abt ur gf.. Mehn u really liked that ur girl thank God ur are done with her

thanks bro, I really appreciate the fact that you spared me your time by following those threads.. when I broke up with her, she made a statement that made me laugh which was 'but you Bleep up'...

I am happy I can breathe again

BEG96:
This guy asked me out last year and I agreed. We have been dating for the past 1 year(or so I thought). Fast forward to 2017: I caught him sending love messages to several girls in our class on WhatsApp, he said it wont happen again but just on Friday last week, I just found out that he has not stopped this behaviour. He was sick and I offered to come visit him but he said I should not bother but then he asked sb else to come visit him. His words to her were " I wish you were here with me" We talked about it and he said that what I always view on his phone is not real in reality and that I mean a lot to him. I don't know what to do.... Your nice comments will be appreciated.... im thinking of calling it quits....

My dear op, you had better go on with Your decision..let me share a little experience with you..

My ex would always send romantic messages to her male buddies and claims that they aren't what she meant in reality..on several occasions I have caught her lying and she has betrayed my trust for her..

imagine one of the messages I saw on her whatsapp.

'babe how far, when you go reach my side, I wan fork you na' and she replied 'I never know'

when I accosted her she told me that she actually wasn't going to go to his place and that she didn't mean what she typed.. there are so many others that I have even forgotten sef..

The best I could do at that point in time was to call it quit and now I am a free man.. do yourself the favour and run for your life..

thanks

I cut all ties with my ex's.. I always burn the bridges..

lanzar:


I am trying to be careful o...thanks!

Good to hear..Engage yourself in fruitful activities and worry less about this because if you ask me, she ain't ready for anything serious.. besides her excuse in a way is lame.. There is nothing wrong if she goes out with you even if it's just once since she is considering costs and all..

my dear op just be careful and be on the alert..

cashkid:


Thanks bro, I just confirmed from an officer now....God bless bro.....no be my fault....na Nigeria factor...you know now

I understand you brother, no hard feelings.. I would have done the same thing if I were in your shoes too as well.

cashkid:
ok

if you are eligible, qualified and not doing anything at the moment, do yourself the favour by applying.. thanks..

IdeyFindWife:
Pace yourself. Be your own man for a while, know what you really want and really can live with.

Choose wisely this time. Follow your Heart but take your brain with you!

All da best bro!

Thanks brotherly, I won't leave my brain while I embark on another journey because that was what saved me.. once again, thanks .

Guys, my mind is really cleared of all the tussles now..Finally I have broken up with her, at last I am a free man. This life is too short for me to suffer any impending heart break..

I officially welcome myself into the league of single men..

for all those that have been commenting on my threads, I really appreciate you all for your advice and thoughtful inputs.. for those as well who gave funny and hilarious comments, I really appreciate you guys as well.

thanks guys, love you all..

applied already..

cashkid:
Cheap scam!!!

Make sure you get your facts right before jumping into conclusion...

kindredspirit:


We advised you to let go of her then when you created a thread about her lying to you and cheating with her ex. You agreed to do so but I knew you wouldn't going by the way you were emphasising how "she cried, she's still crying" etc.

Almost two months down the line, you're still dithering and are now seeking advise on WHEN to break up with her. You and I know you won't break up with her, Gpopsicle. If you could, you wouldn't need advise.

well, thanks for your input I really appreciate.. The point is after the last thread I opened concerning the issue, my mind wasn't into it again.. To me she no longer existed.

all I want to know is if it's appropriate breaking up over the phone or face to face?

invinzible1:


Anytime bro.. She might have even dumped you first.. Base on some of the things you said... Just do it right now.. Call her and tell her no hard feelings bro

thanks, I do appreciate it

I felt going by my previous posts on this section there was no need for me to spell out the reasons but it's obvious that it's pertinent for me to do so..

she has betrayed my trust not once,not twice but on three good occasions..This alone has given me enough reasons to always doubt her.. She also lies alot.. sincerely I don't take her words for truth anymore.. This has made me to question her movements and actions and this ain't healthy for any relationship which is progressive in nature.

I have tried my best to see if I can live with this life style of hers but it's so obvious I can't.. I can't trust her anymore.. Even after the last issue we had, she has lied to me unknowing to her that I know the truth but I didn't make a fuss out of that..I had wanted to take it to the next level but with these and all, I think I have to halt.. presently I placed the relationship on hold.
the straw that broke the camels back was when she said she ain't sure securing a future with me.

so as it is now, I want to put an end to it now and stop the deceit..i don't want to waste time and resources.. though I have been given her attitude this days..

my question is when do you think it's appropriate for me to call it quit based on what I earlier posted? thanks

Good evening guys, I trust you all are having a sunny and cool evening.. Guys I simply need your advice pertaining an issue..

I want to call it quit my lady but I don't actually know the appropriate time for me to carry out such decision.. the reason being that, at the moment she ain't around and I don't consider it OK telling her via the phone..

she would be coming back for a friend's wedding which I would also be attending.. will it be appropriate for me to break the news to her while she is around for the wedding? or should I wait till the wedding is over? mind you she would be leaving immediately for school and we might not have the time to discuss.. Also I don't want to keep on prolonging the matter, I just want to tell her my mind and be free.


forgive my grammatical errors, thanks..

Bumbae1:
Ok , happiness first

yes sure, thanks for understanding..

op how potent is the drug. at least show us some proof that this thing work effectively well..how can it be delivered to one who needs it?

Bumbae1:

Lol on the verge
What happened

alot my dear.. I think I am making the right decision and taking the right steps..

this is highly informative.. thanks sir. I am on the verge of breaking up with my girl. at the moment our relationship is on hold..

my dear op, congrats on your new job.. I pray that mine won't be long from now..

which post did you apply for?