osemoses1234:
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Ask4Info:
Whenever i see on social media the way guys rain insults on ladies especially those who bluntly say they can't settle with a broke guy, or those who insist on marrying a well to do guy, or even see unmarried ladies in their 30s and 40s, i can't just help but marvel at the caliber of insults reigned on the female gender.

Now, before you misunderstand me, i am not advocating for young or mature ladies to be gold diggers or too selective, but really, why should a lady who earns LEGALLY building a career or skill over the years suddenly settle for someone who is not only currently broke but without no determination to improve his current status.
Your English is so bad dude. Wait again...what's that u claim of doing? Sourcing of best brain for multinational companies? U must be kidding me.

My career path has taken me far and wide and as someone who has been privileged to source for brains and manpower for small, medium and multinational companies i will layout some extremely bitter but true facts of statistics gotten over the years from direct surveys:


* Most Human Resource Executives WANT more females to feel the vacant jobs they have than their male counterparts due to the following reasons:

i) Female are more dedicated and tend to stay longer than their male counterparts in an organization.

ii) Females on the average are more trustworthy than males.

iii) Females tend to build on a specific career path over very long time than a men who are usually motivated by money and tend to change careers over the years.

iv) Females are usually more satisfied with a salary range over time than males who usually determined for increase in salaries within short period of time.

Now the above was basically to point out a few points why we have more working class ladies than men (on satistics of employed individuals across certain counteries. Nigeria included).


If we now go to the Blue collar job, the above will almost likely be the same. Most people tend to prefer to patronize females than males because of issues such: Delay in delivery, Lies, Bullying, Poor Customer Service amongst many others.

If we now go to the social lifestyle; We now have more irresponsible young men now than in other generation ever. We now have the laziest of men living today than ever.

Never has there been a time when 8 out of 10 guys wake up each day and all their activities of the day, week and month circles around Gambling, Drinking, Chasing Women and Having sex randomly and moving aimlessly around with any purpose.

We now have more guys thinking it is 100% Okay to sit at home all day long while their girfriend(s ) and wife(ves) go out there under the rain and sun to make a living for the home.

Never have there been a time when a guy feels comfortable getting up from bed around 12noon, stroll down to the betting shop down the road, order for a few shot of paraga or bottle of beer, stroll down to go gist away with his fellow jobless friends, and then go back home around 11pm. He expects to get home to meet pounded yam and egusi stock with bush meat wating on the table to welcome him.

So many men now have stooped so low to stealing from their girlfriend or wife only to spend same money on another woman and his jobless friends.


Before you abuse Linda Ikeji, Genevieve or Rota Dominic of being single at their age; please ask yourself a very honest question, are you responsible enough for such women.

Yes! You might not be as rich ad your wife (i.e. Folorunsho Alakija and her husband) but what are you bringing to the table in terms of advice, emotional, mental and physical support, financial management, domestic assistance and many more.

It is not okay to just have a B.Sc and feels the world owes you a job. First degree is now going extint. Further your education, learn a skill, be responsible, watch less TV and READ MORE BOOK.


It is so pathetic are most men are just mere sper*m donors and nothing more. They will be the worst mistake to make a role model.

Women are not saints we know. But most men have decided to be followers instead of leaders due to their laziness and wrong orientation.