Thanks Doc, really helped me, I'm grateful, thanks.

Hi pple happy birthday to y'l born in the month of August, i dont see just another year added i see increase in everything i do, i'm 11th of August, luv you all, HAPPY BIRTHDAY

Hhhmmm, i'm really touched, i think i can understand wat u're going thru, and i think i also can trace were d problem is from, u see, dt's y it's good to marry ur friend, i mean sum1 u know, it's obviouse u dint even know who ur wife was b4 getting married to her, apart from d fact dt ur friend suggested her to u, u should have welcomed her as a friend, i mean no matter d distant let her be ur friend first for some years b4 u propose to her. Anyway u are already married so this is not neccessary, but i'll like to advise dt u still take out time to really patiently know her, find out about her past, maybe sumtin in her past still hunts and worries her, take her out maybe for a dinner, and have a long talk with her, if she wont listen to u, find out who she respects most(male or female) ask d person to help u talk to her, at least lets start with dt. i wish u well

Even in ur question, u sound confused, u dont need anyone to tell u if anyone is ur match, if u know u love her and she loves u too, then pray about it and propose to her, the interesting part is that u've been friends dt means u both know and understand each other very well, that settles it.

This isn't omitting, neither is it lying, she is actually endangering her future, have u ever wondered y there is something called divorce? this is one of the reasons, if eventually they get married, and this man gets to find out dt she actually kept something like this from him, he might still love her but will never trust her again, and this will be the beginning of the down fall of her marriage with him, so I'll like to advise dt she talk to him about it now dt they are not yet married, and if he breaks up with her, then he never loved her in d first place, but if he remains with her, then she has made hay while d sun shine.

it's possible u've had a terrible experience with a lady or two, but ur mindset about women terrifies me, how can u call women slaves, dint u come out from a womb? dt woman dt carried u in her womb for 9 month, gave birth to u, breast feed u, ensured dt u grew up to dis stage, no matter wat must have happened between u and her, can u look at her straight into her eyes and tell her she is a slave?