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If you're demanding money and personal upkeep and protection from your man its totally okay and accepted.

But you can't be claiming equal status with him at the same time.

Not possible. Believe the internet at your own risk.

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Fake life everywhere.

Windflower:
Have you been raped before? If your answer is NO, then swerve. Do you know the psychological trauma that comes with it and here you are spewing trash.
For someone who raped a virgin and he did it raw. The fear she might have contacted STDs, if you know nothing about this then don't comment

People including women suffer worse torments in life that are 100 times worse than rape and yet never commit suicide.

It is this kind of mindset you have that makes rape look so much worse than every other suffering on earth and therefore victims commit suicide.

verycheese:
You think you have a point, but that's hardly the case. Women don't take their lives in the event of rape cos of society or people. Society or people is the last thing on the victim's mind. Rape is torturous, it is condemnation. It is a great trauma, you don't have to go through it to understand the deep rooted conflict ND anguish it causes. Empathy is how you can hear the rhythm of a victims heart.

People including women suffer worse torments in life that are 100 times worse than rape and yet never commit suicide.

IIt is this kind of mindset you have that makes rape look so much worse than every other suffering on earth and therefore victims commit suicide.

pocohantas:
C'mon keep kwayet.
Minister of Openminded People.

You see how childish you are. Among the nasty ladies on this forum I used to think you have some level integrity.

Windflower:
Have you been raped before? If your answer is NO, then swerve. Do you know the psychological trauma that comes with it and here you are spewing trash.
For someone who raped a virgin and he did it raw. The fear she might have contacted STDs, if you know nothing about this then don't comment

So those that are raped are right to take their lives or inflict self harm.

You see your life??

You're a perfect example of the society that I'm complaining about.

pocohantas:
It is not compulsory you comment.

Just go straight to the point, you and your ilk think rape isn't the worst thing that can happen to a woman.

Quit the pseudo-concern, I can see through it.

Funny!! I don't need your approval lady. My comment is directed to those that can reason and not close minded blinded fellas that litter this forum.

This is simply what I was trying to demonstrate in another thread that was addressing rape here:

https://www.nairaland.com/4668071/burial-khensani-maseko-south-african#70148722

This woman suffered more than a rape victim but she chose to rise above her misfortune and stay alive.

Yet women suffer rape and decide to take their lives all because the media and the society have made rape to look like the worst thing that can happen to a woman.

We should encourage victims of misfortune to rise above their difficulties and thrive.

I'm sure the very unlearned fellas will still misinterprete my comment again.

pinkhill:
No need for further argument


Please, take your time and read what you wrote. I only differed and why the down talking because i did not use abusive words on you.

Raise your words not your voice
Rain waters the flower not thunder

I didn't talk down on you neither did I abuse you in any single way. Please read again.

LaudableXX:
Cut the crap. If you have ever seen or treated rape victims up close, you would not be reciting such rubbish. Rape is a violation - an act of violence, that rips a woman's dignity, damages her psyche and reduces her self-worth, into shreds. For many victims, it is a life-shattering experience. A traumatic event that affects them to the core. People react differently, to terrifying encounters.

If a person has a physical wound, he can take a tablet and get healed, but a person with an emotional wound, cannot get relief or recover so easily, by merely taking a pill. It takes time, counselling, mental therapy and a lot of help, for them to feel normal again. Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) is real, and not to be toyed with. It can lead people to develop suicidal tendencies. A sickness of the body is easy to treat, but an injury to the mind is the most difficult to handle. Without an appropriate support system, victims of rape can develop depression and suicidal tendencies, which could lead them to take their own lives. Be wise.

And stop peddling junk tales. How many "Unfortunate Ladies and women that got raped in the olden and earlier years of this same earth, still lived their lives to the fullest without trauma or therapy..." do you even know? List them.

Folks like you need to go back to school. Read my comment again and this time with meaning... if ever you can.

pinkhill:
I beg to differ

Do you know what rape is? forcefully being slept with without your consent and getting bruised. Not all women will be strong enough to handle it and do you know how it feels when a man rapes you then laugh with satisfaction and mock you? No you dont. You dont know what victims go through or how depressed or how isolated they are.

I feel you should change your perception as a woman is stigmatized if she speaks out

You simply lack understanding of what I'm trying to communicate. A rape victim should be encouraged and made to feel that rape is not the end of her life.

The way people like you will cry foul in front of a rape victim instead of encouraging her will simply make her to dive deeper into the ocean of depression and eventually take her life.

You unconsciously create the wrong atmosphere for a victim to survive.

Processor01:
Have you ever been raped?
If not, then I respectfully ask that you SHUT UP!!!

So many are out there still struggling with the damages that Rape inflicted on their lives. Look for them and offer your advice, for whatever its worth.

There is a time for everything. #Ecc3
This is a time to mourn.

Your the one to shut up your empty brain vault. People like you are the problem these rape victims have.

You make them to feel they deserve to die after a rape encounter and that why they take their lives.

I point them in the right direction, which is that they can still live normal lives even after a rape encounter.

Keep your stupid senseless ideologies to yourself.

Fourwinds:
think wisely next time

If you found no wisdom in what I said, then you failed in school. Go and repeat your classes.

babadee1:
Sounds like you think rape is normal or at least should be normalised. I wonder where you got the data that suggests to you that women who were raped in the olden days lived happily ever after. You think you made sense but you are just another rape apologist.

Your brain needs check up. Go back to school, come back and slowly read my comment again.

Even a secondary school level student can easily decifer what am trying to say than a brain dead mor0n forming learned.

Much as I sympathize with the lady and all female rape victims, I'd like to point out that women in these modern times have been sooooo psychologically manipulated to feel and believe that rape and sexual harassment should make you feel worthless and frustrated and depressed. In fact should signal the end of your life and dignity. This is why many ladies take their lives afterwards.

So much that if a lady comes out from a rape encounter feeling and looking normal she's made to feel that she's a wh0re or she's doing something wrong.

Unfortunate Ladies and women that got raped in the olden and earlier years of this same earth, still lived their lives to the fullest without trauma or therapy.





EDIT: Many unlearned fellas on this forum are simply misunderstanding what I'm trying to communicate. I did not in any way encourage rape.

I simply mean rape victims should be encouraged to live and not unconsciously made to feel that rape means the end.

Sheep in wolves appearel. Very predictable.

It hurts me deeply when people die. I hate tragedy of any every sort. Yet they can hardly stop happening. What a world.

Ok. We don see your designer googles.

wildcatter23:
Hope this one isn't tied to specific sims

I think it is. I bought a new Airtel sim and dialed the *141# and the former "tasteless" data plan options yet showed up.

Sorry bros, You should never buy an LG G4 or G3. Both 're plagued with the infamous boot loop problem.

Just get another phone cos there's currently no solution to the problem.

You can also search LG G4 boot loop on YouTube.

This thing that damaged my first ever tiger generator way back then.

They tell you it can carry iron and everything and they take your money. Above that you still loose the generator you bought with your hard earned money.

ObservantFellow:
That's not true. Not true at all.
Do the calculation yourself

1. Subscribed on the night of 20th of June

2. Here is my Mobile data usage (not Wifi) for all that while.

3. Here is the balance as recorded just now on my account.

I'm yet to calculate it but I assume your claim is preposterous.

Lol! Maybe they don repent. Cos they were certainly doing it before. Most of us fled.

Airtel wey go drain data three times over.

Na wah oh! Just when you think technology is keeping us safe.

Go to a vet I suggest.

On a serious note. Every Nigerian should unite to call for an end of this SARS menace.

Harrassing and killing innocent Nigerians without being called to question.

Very rich and insightful. Thanks

Their phones can be cheap. But compromise on display and quality most times. Poor display on some of their flagship phones I've seen in the past.

I think you should opt for Nokia or Samsung, Sony etc. At the worst do Tecno or Infinix just to be safe.

callmebebe:
.... This smartphone has proven to excel in rigorous reliability test and long-lasting battery life with its 4000mAh battery. You can go three solid days of normal to heavy use without having to worry about charging the phone. On the itel P32, you can conveniently enjoy up to 24hrs of gaming, 30hrs video playback, 35hrs call-time and 200hrs music playback.....

I can bet with money that this is a big fat lie. Show the video test and prove me wrong. China can lie for Africa. What Samsung and IPhone haven't achieved even half of it with billion Dollar research, you want me to believe that the lowest of the chinko phones have accomplished it without trying.

Paper specs lies everytime.

Wilfredpat22:
At least she came out and stated she is not a feminist

Unlike my fellow ladies claiming to be feminists and expecting a man to foot the bills and give you respect

Thank you. Perfectly Summarized.

ladyF:
And when did the feminists mention that they will pay bills when they go out on dates or become the breadwinners in their homes?

If feminists don't want to pay bills on dates why should they claim equality with men.

Real feminists I know are fully prepared to pay bills on dates and even claim superiority to men.

If you want to be a feminist be a feminist. You can't enjoy the privileges and deny the responsibilities.

ladyF:
This one is just lazy lady and looking for where to chop free. I'm sure her husband no go see her one kobo chop because she will always remind him that he's the head of the house hence he should foot all the bills.

A lady accepting she isn't created equal with a man doesn't make her inferior or unable to function without a man.

An yes men are more than willing to financially support and cater for that wife that is so humble that she makes him her head and prince. He equally turns her to his queen and serves her. It's been happening.

But those ones that want to rub shoulders with a man and show him that she's superior, always have it coming for them.